Pa re nt Me r r i m a c k Va l l e y Smoothies for Breakfast! Four Ways That Parents Can De-Stress O c t o b e r 2014 Happy Halloween! Creative Pumpkin Carving Special Needs: Early Intervention Sensory Processing Disorder www.merrimackvalleyparent.com Free In this Issue Four Ways that Parents can De-stress 5 Creative Pumpkin Carving 6 Pa re nt It’s that time of year, kids off all ages have been waiting for it…CANDY! Halloween night (and in some cases the parties leading up to it) can induce stress in so many of us. We try all year long to set healthy examples for our kids and limit the amount of junk they can consume. However, for some children, just donning that costume also means gorging on candy bar after candy bar. Halloween night doesn’t have to be a source of angst for parents. By setting clear guidelines, you and your youngster can still have fun and enjoy those bars of chocolate! We all know that serving our kids a healthy, hearty meal before we head out can minimize candy-overload while ringing those door bells. However, here are my tips for minimizing candy-coma in the days that follow the 31st: Pumpkin Carving - Page 5 - Focus on Special Needs 8 Understanding Sensory Processing Disorder 10 Early Intervention: Your Child’s First Step Along The Way Columns & Departments 3 Happy and Healthy Halloween 11 Merrimack Valley Dad Also... 13 October Calendar of Events Pa re nt Page 3 By Jane Ciccone www.merrimackvalleyparent.com Smoothies for Breakfast! Merrimack Valley Parent Have a Happy (and Healthy) Halloween Me r r i m ac k Va l le y Features 4 See the new Digital Edition of • • Allow your kids to snack on 3 pieces of candy while roaming around the neighborhood, then they can choose 2 more when you get home (by giving them a clear number, they can decide what candy is worth snacking on and what is worth saving). When you get home, store the candy • • • in the fridge (yes, the fridge!). Studies have shown that keeping the candy cold reduces the amount your kids will eat. In some cases, the kids say the candy doesn’t taste the same and they lose interest. Others report that when the kids wait for it to reach room temperature, they often get involved in other things and forget about it. Allow your child to take 1-2 pieces of candy to school each day. This way, they will eat the sugary stuff during the day when they can burn it off, rather than after dinner when we are all more sedentary. Don’t hide the candy and make it taboo, this will just make them want it more (human nature!). Show them where you are going to put it; either in the fridge or in a cabinet. This way they will have some control over the process. But, be very clear with how many pieces they can have during the day. Talk to the kids about donating the candy to our service men and women overseas. Depending on the age of your children, this is a great conversa- tion to begin. If you’re like me and have a love of all things candy, sometimes it’s hard (real hard) to set a good example on Halloween night. I reluctantly admit, I have been caught dawdling at the back of the group, sneaking a pack or two of licorice so my kids wouldn’t see. However, a couple of years ago, I created a healthy recipe that I snack on while we are trick or treating and it keeps those licorice cravings at bay. It is the perfect combination of salty and sweet and it always hits the spot. I make extra and pack it in my kids lunches and even bring it to the movie theater…don’t even get me started on the movie theater popcorn. Sweet and Salty Snack Mix • 2 cups puffed rice cereal (Kashi or Bar bara’s Puffins are great) • 1 cup tiny pretzel twists • ½ Annie’s cheddar bunnies or Whole Wheat goldfish • 1 ½ TBSP organic butter, melted • ½ cup raw nuts, cashews, almonds, maca damia etc. (optional) • 1 TBSP low sodium soy sauce • 1 tsp chili powder • 1 teaspoon ground cumin • ¼ tsp ground ginger • ¼ tsp sea salt • Olive oil • ¼ cup dark chocolate chips • ½ cup raisins or dried cranberries 1. 2. 3. Preheat oven to 250 degrees. Combine the first 4 ingredients and nuts (optional) in a bowl. Combine butter, soy sauce, ground spices and salt drizzle over cereal/nut mixture, tossing to coat. Spread mixture into a roasting pan coated lightly with olive oil. Bake at 250º for 30 minutes or until crisp, stirring twice. When the mixture is cooled, add the chocolate and raisins, toss well and serve. Jane Ciccone is the owner of Onesto Foods. 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One child asked her questions, another one spoke loudly over the other two, and the third must have been over tired as she whined and kept hitting the other two children in the shopping cart. Mom finally succumbed to the stress and snapped at them to STOP THE NOISE. It did nothing to quell the chaos. I remember the moments of stress while raising my own 3 children. The noise and the chatter would sometimes get to me easily. I had to learn how to calm myself so that I did not take out my stress on the three little kids who just wanted to be heard and who felt like they were fighting for my attention in competition with their siblings. On a recent episode of my television show Creating Cooperative Kids, I interviewed a parent time and stress management coach who offered tips for parents. Virginia Ann Griffiths (weleap.com) said the number one thing that parents can do anywhere to calm down is to breathe intentionally. What she meant by this is to breathe deeply to get oxygen to our brain so we will have the power to remain calm in moments of chaos. Here are more tips for parents for distressing. Intentional Breathing. Close your eyes for just a moment and slowly pull in a series of deep breaths through your nose. Feel the air going into your lungs and imagine that you can see the air filling your lungs. Hold it just of a second and then breathe out through your mouth. Just a couple of deep breaths can help you calm down and think clearly before reacting. Stop by and Check Us Out: w w w w w 9 Bang Cages 2 18-Hole Mini-Golf Courses Climbing Wall SkyWalk Adventure Ropes Course Hodgie’s Ice Cream! Quiet Toys. Keep small quiet toys in your purse to give to the kids when they begin to act up. They are likely to create temporary distractions that will give you a few moments of silence to calm yourself. Although many parents hand their child their cell phone or a tablet, avoid this solution. Small media devices are not healthy alternatives for small children. Engage Them in Your Shopping. If you’re out shopping with your children, create a list of items that you’re looking for and get them to help you locate them. Be sure to set up rules in advance before entering the store (such as remaining in the shopping cart and what you are not willing to buy) and get them involved in the adventure. For younger children, cut out and provide for them, pictures of items to find as a way of helping. Take Care of Yourself. Make it a priority to take time out for you whenever you can. Make use of family members and friends who can take the kids for short periods of time so you can have time to yourself. Other matters that seem to be urgent can take over the little time you have away from the kids, but don’t let it. Schedule in time to take care of yourself physically, spiritually, socially and emotionally. Bill Corbett has a degree in clinical psychology and is the author of the award winning book “Love, Limits, & Lessons: A Parent’s Guide to Raising Cooperative Kids,” in English and in Spanish. He is happily married with three grown children, two grandchildren, three step children, and is a Massachusetts native. You can visit his Web site www.CooperativeKids.com for further information and parenting advice. 880 Boston Road Haverhill, MA 01835 (978) 521-7000 www.cedarland.net To carve or not to carve, that is the ques- tion. Some see it fitting to create a scary face to mirror the mood of the season, while others find the round shape of the pumpkin best suited to a jolly jack o’ lantern. But there’s a new camp of carvers creeping about the pumpkin patch, looking for the optimal orange globe that offers itself as the best canvas for which to craft an elaborate design. Whatever your preference, it’s the time of year grab a gourd and get carving. After you’ve selected your prey, but before you begin slicing your pumpkin with surgeon-like precision, there are many things you will need, no matter how fancy shmancy you decide to get, the right tools will make your task a lot easier. Things you’ll need include a grease pencil for sketching your design or face; wood chisels for gouging into the skin and removing those bits of pulp that are intruding on the final product; melon ballers are ideal for shaping eyes and other rounded objects or scenes; small saws or knives work well when having to cut through thick-skinned pumpkins and carving large areas; and ice cream paddles or large serving spoons work well when removing the inside of the pumpkin – think seeds, which should be put aside for roasting, but that’s a story for later. Now that you’ve got all the right tools in place, you’re ready to get into the meat of the matter – literally and figuratively. Start by cutting a large hole in the base of the pumpkin and embarking on the laborious task of scooping out the inside. As you extract the pulp and seeds, place them off to the side in a bowl in order to separate the seeds for roasting. If you’re going to get creative and carve a scary scene in your gourd it’s best to trace that scene onto a thin piece of paper, tape the paper to the pumpkin and with push pins or knitting needles begin tracing the scene onto the pumpkin by poking holes through the paper with the needle or pin and into the skin. What you’re really doing is tracing the scene onto the pumpkin’s surface almost in a paint-by-numbers manner. After tracing the scene onto the pumpkin, remove the paper but leave it next to you on the table so you can use it as a guide when carving. If you’re a decent drawer, or prefer to create your own scene this is where you would grab a grease pencil and sketch your design onto the pumpkin’s skin. After all the prep work it’s time to grab your knife or saw and start dismantling the gourd piece by piece. Start with the most delicate parts and then move on to carving out the larger portions that don’t demand the most precise of cuts. No matter how big, small or intricate the cut, always remember you’re using a sharp knife, work slowly and carefully. After you’re finished cutting the pumpkin, take some Vaseline and apply a thin layer around the exposed areas of the pumpkin. This will keep the pumpkin from drying out faster. Bringing life to your jack o’ lantern is as easy as placing a lit votive candle or tea light inside the candle to get that festive glowing working its way from the inside out. But there are some items that can easily be found around the house that will give extra life to your gourd. Think of using clear marbles for eyes and poking them into the areas scooped out with the melon baller. When illuminated the marbles give an added dimension and personality to the pumpkin. Gum, like white Chiclets, are great for pushing into the flesh around the mouth and using as teeth, or dip baby carrots in white paint and poke into the flesh of the pumpkin to create fangs. Ear rings, neck ties, boas, or plastic spiders and ants can all be fastened to the pumpkin to give it that extra flash. When you’re done, place the finished product on the porch for all to see. What to do with all those seeds? If you picked a really fresh pumpkin you’re going to get a lot of seeds from it, don’t toss them in the garbage. Those seeds can easily be turned into a snack. Below is what you’ll need and how to roast the seeds. 1 tablespoon of kosher salt, plus a little more for sprinkling ½ teaspoon black pepper ½ teaspoon garlic powder ½ teaspoon onion powder ½ teaspoon of paprika, or same amount of cayenne pepper, depending on how much heat you like Add all the dry ingredients into a bowl and mix well. On a cookie sheet or baking pan separate the seeds and discard the pulp. Sprinkle with the spice mix you just made and mix them all well, then spread them out on the tray in a single layer, trying to keep the seeds from clumping together, this will cause the seeds to steam and won’t produce the crunch you’re looking for. Bake the seeds at 375 degrees for 30 minutes, stirring them half way through cooking to turn them over so the other side of the seeds gets a chance to bake. After cooking transfer to a bowl and lightly season with more salt, eat and enjoy. Eyecare for the Entire Family! DR. LAURA ANNE POTVIN, P.C. 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The chaos that surrounds getting ourselves ready for work and the kids ready for school can cause us to look for ways to save a few minutes here and there to make sure everyone gets to their destination on time and appropriately dressed and fed. While it’s easy and fast to pour some milk over cereal for breakfast, it doesn’t really provide any member of the family with enough nutrients and energy to power through the day. If your mornings look anything even remotely close to mine, it is just not possible to cook a full course meal before getting everyone out the door. Luckily there is solution that doesn’t involve setting an alarm for four a.m. to prepare breakfast. Smoothies are a great way to ensure you and your family get all the necessary servings of fruits and vegetables and other essential nutrients to keep you going strong all day. They can be made in minutes and with all the kid-friendly recipes available, it is easy to find the perfect smoothie for even the pickiest eater because they can be tailored to suit individual needs. Kids perform best in school when they start their day with a good breakfast. With the bright color and delicious taste of a smoothie, they’ll think they are getting a treat instead of a nutritious shake. Plus, most kids will love putting all the ingredients into the blender and pushing the button to whip everything together. Try an Off to School smoothie to start. It’s made with vanilla yogurt, bananas and strawberries and contains a good amount of vitamin C and protein. Help promote strong bones and teeth with the calcium rich Purple Monster Smoothie. Kids will love the name and the amazing taste of grape juice, red grapes, blueberries and vanilla yogurt. 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Once my son was diagnosed, the intervention began. The first step was awareness, and I quickly learned that the sensory system included more than sight, hearing, touch, taste, and smell. Three others – vestibular, proprioceptive, and interoceptive- were areas that I had never heard of but were the most problematic for my son. Finally, the interoceptive system features internal sensors that tell how organs are feeling, such as being hungry or sick. Often my son would forget he was hungry until he was starving, and I was baffled when he was having bowel movement accidents after school. However, I learned that his senses were probably overwhelmed after a long “Methuen is pro-active when it comes to educating their teachers to help their students. We work to help students access the curriculum in the least restrictive environment,” states Upton. Examples of Upton’s efforts to educate the staff include warm up exercises prior to writing, therapy balls, weighted lap pads, power stations, head phones, and seat cushions. the greater Newburyport area For membership benefits, please explore our website at www.greaternewburyportfamilies.org Baby & Kids Fall & Winter Consignment Sale rs 15 Years a n d F a m ili e uestons? q e v Ha Need advi ce? New Location! Saturday, October 4 8 AM -1 PM Boys & Girls Club 18 Maple Street Salisbury, MA e r Newbury ate he rs rt • po Less tha when stu n $18 per day dent 4 or mor is registered for e days pe r week! M ot After-School Program ry ate Greater Newburyport Mothers & Families Club • Gr (According to the Haverhill Public School Calendar) fun and friends for families in If you have any questions, please feel free to contact Kristen Jackman, GNFC President, at president@greaternewburyportfamilies.org After School Care Monday - Friday, 3:00 - 6:00 pm Early Release Days The Greater Newburyport Mothers and Families Club r Newbu lu b The vestibular system consists of balance and spatial awareness. A child that spins and is a dare devil on playground equipment can indicate that the child is hyposensitive and not getting enough input; whereas a child that is hypersensitive does not tolerate movement well and may get carsick, avoid bike riding, swings, and slides. Parents and caregivers should not shy away if they suspect SPD. According to Early Intervention occupational therapist Barbara Brissenden, parents can request an evaluation without obtaining a doctor’s note. She adds that tactile difficulties can be present as early as infancy and may even be related to problems with latching in breastfeeding infants. Fortunately, Brissenden notes rt • po Sensory processing disorder (SPD) also known as sensory integration disorder (SID), is not new to me. My oldest was diagnosed at 27 months. A neurobiological disorder, it was first identified by psychologist and occupational therapist A. Jean Ayres in the 1960s. Ayres concluded that there is a “traffic jam” in the brain because the nervous system has difficulty processing information taken in through the senses. If the brain When there is a glitch in the central processing, behavior can appear unpredictable. Problems related to the disorder include impulsivity, distractibility, difficulty with transitions, and frustration, as well as being inflexible, irrational, and having low self-esteem. Others would comment that my oldest was going through the “terrible twos,” but I sensed there was more to the smashing, crashing, impulsivity, distractibility, trouble transitioning, throwing objects in the air, and appearing as if in a rage. The proprioceptive system is the awareness of joints and muscles, movement, and body position. While a hypersensitive child may have weak strength, poor coordination, and even avoid playground equipment, the hyposensitive child will do the opposite and crash and bash because he/she is not getting enough input. he I am lucky that I only have to travel several miles on Rt. 495, but she is crying again, and a red light off the ramp allows me to examine the shoe situation. She is aggressively trying to rip the shoes and socks off. I twist around, extend my arm in the back, but I can’t get them off before the light changes. I announce that she’ll just have to cry I feel defeated, overwhelmed, and confused about how to solve her tactile defensiveness. I’m late to appointments because dressing is time consuming and nearly catastrophic. And all of those beautiful new dresses and tutus…I’ll never see my daughter wear them because she can barely keep a onesie on. I feel limited. I skip trips to stores and talk my husband out of family outings because I can’t endure another torture-filled ride, even if it’s up to the outlets to check out a great sale. is able to modulate and turn on and off the sensory systems as needed and inhibit behavior responses to stimuli that is not useful, then the individual can act and use the information in a meaningful way. When the child graduates from Early Intervention on his/her third birthday, the staff works with parents to access resources in their community to continue to support the child, including the school system. Although legal education documents such as an Individual Education Plan (IEP) or 504 can include accommodations for SPD, today, good teaching practices help children, regardless, says Methuen public school occupational therapist Erin Upton. Laura Murphy is a former Boston-market news writer and enjoys writing. She holds a M.Ed. in Curriculum and Instruction and is a MA certified teacher grades 1-6. She worked for several years as a fourth grade teacher at St. Augustine School in Andover and currently works as a tutor for Methuen Public Schools. All three of her children have SPD, as well as several of her former students. You can reach her at murphy.laura@comcast.net M ot ride because my daughter was severely distressed about shoes on her feet. Not the fussing type, but the piercing type that makes your eardrums hurt and your blood pressure spike. My two sons are complaining about the noise; one can’t hear his Mr. Popper’s Penguins audiobook, the other is covering his ears with his hands because the screaming is impacting his auditory sensitivity. I’ve pulled over the car not just once, but twice within the last 500 feet because her shirt doesn’t feel right against the car seat. I’ve smoothed out the shirt, but that isn’t enough. Now the shirt comes off because I don’t know what else to do. I’m hoping she will comply with keeping her onesie on, but I can’t be sure. for the next two miles because I can’t stop the car again. She takes me up on that offer, and the life-threatening cries continue. After parents and caregivers have an awareness of the problem, occupational therapists and developmental specialists work together to design a “sensory diet” – activities designed to give the child the right amount of sensory input to feel skillful and organized throughout the day. Sensory diets are customized, as each case is different. Strategies can include playing with shaving cream to help with tactile defensiveness while weighted blankets and vests can help with proprioceptive input. As I turn the corner to my street, I’m taking deep breaths at this point. I never felt so blessed to have an XM free trial in my car at a time like this. I turn Nick Lowe’s “Jungle Fever” up a little louder so I can hear the song through the crying. I know it will be alright. I have resources in place, and a child development team will be arriving on Wednesday. I will get through this challenging time, and I know I’ll be all the better for it. sC I just endured another scream-filled car sensory processing difficulties can be significantly improved with effective strategies customized for each child. e By Laura Murphy day at school, and that it was hard for him to understand what his body was telling him. 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Early intervention focuses on helping children, age birth to three, who are experiencing delays in their development or are at risk for development, learn the basic and brand-new skills that typically develop during the first three years of life, such as: • • • • • physical (reaching, rolling, crawling, and walking); cognitive (thinking, learning, solving problems); communication (talking, listening, understanding); social/emotional (playing, feeling secure and happy); and self-help (eating, dressing) a child is born that EI will be essential in helping the child grow and develop. Children at risk for delays include children who are diagnosed at birth with a specific condition or disability or who experience significant prematurity, very low birth weight, illness or surgery. Some children have a relatively routine entry into the world, but may develop at a slower rate than others, experience set backs or develop in ways that seem different from other children. With EI therapies, a vast majority of these children overcome their delays and are able to enroll in preschool and school systems without further issues. The key component to the success of the EI Program is that highly-skilled specialists provide coordinated services and care to families in the comfort of the child’s home. By understanding the child’s natural environment, the team can develop the most effective strategies for service delivery. Sometimes it is known from the moment Educational A baby’s needs cannot be separated from the needs of his or her family. For that reason, EI services are designed to help the family to feel comfortable and confident as they raise, nurture and educate their child. And, because parents are their child’s best and very first teachers, it is important for them to be involved in all the services their child receives. Parents can take the education they learn through the EI visits and continue working with their child to reinforce lessons and skills introduced during a home visit. Through the coaching of the EI team, parents learn how, through play and by providing stimulating experiences, they can teach their child to explore his/her surrounding environment and become aware of what is around them. “normal” schedule of baby milestones. “He should be saying a few words by now…” Have questions about your child’s development?... you’re not alone. It is not uncommon for parents and family members to become concerned when their baby or growing toddler doesn’t seem to be developing according to the At the time of referral, with the parent’s permission, an EI team will conduct a developmental assessment. The team will look at all areas of development. After establishing eligibility for EI, the team (Continued on Page 11) Therapeutic By Mike Nercessian “The little girl next door is already sitting up on her own…” “She hasn’t rolled over yet…” While it’s true that children develop differently, at their own pace, and that the range of what’s “normal” development is quite broad, it’s hard not to worry and wonder. If you find yourself asking questions like these, you might want to bring your questions to your family pediatrician or contact the Early Intervention Program in your area to refer your child for an EI evaluation. Inclusive Our programs include: 32 Osgood Street, Andover, MA 01810 Developmental Day School Early Intervention Program Pediatric Therapy Program Regional Consultation Program Inclusive Preschool & Playgroups 439 S. Union Street, Lawrence, MA 01843 www.theprofessionalcenter.org Merrimack Valley Parent I remember the bomb threats in col- lege. They came at night via a phone call to the RA working the front desk, usually after 11pm and they were specific to our dorm. Though I don’t recall the frequency, it seemed like they happened twice a week for a month then would take a hiatus for a few weeks only to return in full force. The bomb threats became so commonplace we started “hiding” in our rooms rather than exiting into the night to stand with those who had much better sense then ourselves. The police and fire departments would arrive and secure the building, knocking on our locked doors while we hid silently in our beds wondering to ourselves if we had made the right choice in staying behind. Wondering if this time it wasn’t a prank after all. This was all before the attacks of Sept 11, the tragedy in Newtown, CT and bombs being detonated at the Boston Marathon. In other words, this was before I understood it could happen anytime, anywhere. On September 9, 2014, my son’s fourth day as a high school freshman, an email was sent to a staff member of Newburyport High School indicating people in the building were going to die at 8:30am. The news came to us parents via an email from the high school indicating a threat had been received, that the school was in lock- down and our children were safe. Page 11 70 Merrimack Street Haverhill, MA 01830 Phone: 978-521-6150 www.angelcarekids.com “Bombs and Threats: Just Like Old Times” These “threats” were a nuisance, likely some intoxicated undergrads not recognizing the magnitude of their prank while having a laugh as their neighbors streamed out of the building. Or perhaps the threats were made by someone who meant business, but who thankfully didn’t follow through. Helping children of all abilities achieve their full potential for 41 years We are a pediatric occupational and speech therapy practice, specializing in sensory integration, evaluations, treatments, and child advocacy. We accept most types of insurance. Information released later indicated the threatening email was sent in a manner sometimes used by terrorist organizations to mask their identity and, therefore, would be investigated by federal authorities. As of this writing, no direct connection has been reported. Newburyport: A sleepy city on the coast of Massachusetts known for its quaint downtown, good schools and safe streets. Yes, here. Growing up, we lived in the shadow of the cold war, but the Soviets seemed much more interested in showing us up at the Olympics then causing us real harm. Despite our conflicting ideologies, they weren’t concerned with disrupting our lives. As long as we knew they could lift more weight and stick the landings when they dismounted the balance beam, they were generally satisfied with our coexistence. That was our normal and our laidback reaction to the bomb threats to our dorm didn’t appear out of place. At 11:39am on September 9, 2014, I received an update from the Superintendent’s Office indicating Newburyport High School was searched and deemed safe and a normal class schedule had resumed. Yet, I can’t shake the feeling that 2014’s normal is a lot more tenuous. Breakfast & Lunch Carleen's Thirty years serving the Merrimack valley *Great food & friendly staff *Open 7 days a week Breakfast all day Lunch Monday thru Friday 978-682-3466. carleens.com. 209 South Broadway. Lawrence ,Massachusetts 01843 Early Intervention (Continued from Page 10) will write an Individualized Family Service Plan (IFSP). In this document the team will develop strategies and outcomes in an effort to maximize the child’s potential. Services and the amount of intervention are determined at this time. The family is always an important member of the team! The first three years of life are a period of incredible growth in all areas of a baby’s development. Together with the family, Early Intervention helps children acquire vital skills and achieve developmental milestones - because every child deserves a chance to reach their full potential. To access Early Intervention in Massachusetts… simply call. There are over 50 Early Intervention Programs in the Commonwealth, each has a catchment area that they serve. The Central Directory for Early Intervention is at www.MassFamilyTIES.org. The Professional Center is the provider for families living in Andover, North Andover, Lawrence & Methuen. Call PCCD for more information 978-475-3806. Merrimack Valley Parent Page 13 Merrimack Valley Calendar of Events October Warm Caring Fun Staff! Where Patients are our Dental Family Comprehensive Dentistry for the Whole Family Periodontal and Implant Specialist on Site 24hr emergency call Cosmetic Dentistry, Children’s Dentistry, Oral Surgery, Nightguards and TMJ Therapy UnderArmour sports guards Modern Solar Powered Dental Office Dr. Merabi & Dr. Rosania 7 Brown Square • Newburyport, MA 978-462-4590 portsidefamilydental.com Wednesday, October 1 Crafternoon with Sarah Come to the teen room for a craft with Sarah! http://mhlteenroom.tumblr.com/ Date / Time:: Wednesday Oct 1, 2014 3:00 PM - 4:00 PM Memorial Hall Library, Andover Junior Friends of Memorial Hall Library Weekly meeting of Junior Friends of Memorial Hall Library, ages 8-11. For more information, email Kate Belczyk at kbelczyk@mhl.org. Date / Time:: Wednesday Oct 1, 2014 3:30 PM - 4:15 PM Location: Activity Room Memorial Hall Library, Andover Thursday, October 2 Half Day Movie: Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part 2 October 2 | 1:30 pm – 4:30 pm Spend your half day with Harry at our free afternoon screening of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part 2! Snacks will be provided! Please contact Jessica Hilbun, Teen Services Librarian, at 978-465-4428 ext. 246 or nplteenlibrarian@gmail.com. This free program is sponsored by the Friends of the Newburyport Public Library. Friday, October 3 Teen Doctor Who Party October 3 | 3:00 pm – 4:30 pm Attention Teen and Tween Whovians: Join us as we celebrate all things Doctor Who. There will be crafts, games and snacks. This program is for teens and tweens ages 10-18 only. No children, adults, daleks or cybermen allowed! Please contact Jessica Hilbun, Teen Services Librarian, with questions at 978-465-4428 ext. 246 or nplteenlibrarian@gmail.com. This free program will take place in the Children’s Activity Room, and is sponsored by the Friends of the Newburyport Public Library. Saturday, October 4 Halloween Movie & Craft (K to 4th grade) This is a special Saturday program for families! A short animated Halloween film will be shown. After the movie, we will make a craft entry for the pumpkin decorating contest. Adults are welcome to attend with their children and create a family entry for the pumpkin decorating contest based on a book character. Date / Time:: Saturday Oct 4, 2014 10:30 AM - 11:30 AM Contact:Children’s Department 978-686-4080 ext. 26 Nevins Memorial Library, Methuen Sunday, October 5 TAKE A WALK ON THE WILD SIDE: BEACH CREATURES OF PLUM ISLAND Adults and children can spend quality family time in the great outdoors finding, observing, and admiring local wildlife. Excursions might include a group game to burn off some steam, an on-the-water scavenger hunt, or a guided tour. We’ll observe, investigate, and compare coastal environments and their inhabitants, both on- and offshore. Each adventure will leave your family excited to come back for more! Date: Sunday, October 5, 2 pm to 4:30 pm. Location: Meet at Joppa Flats Education Center, One Plum Island Turnpike, Newburyport. Fee: Adult $11, Child $8. Preregistration required. Monday, October 6 Make iPad Origami with Foldify Learn how to design your own custom origami with the Foldify iPad app. Then print and fold! http://mhlteenroom.tumblr.com/ Date / Time::Monday Oct 6, 2014 3:00 PM - 4:00 PMContact: Clare or Anna 978-623-8401 x 56 ya@mhl.org Memorial Hall Library, Andover Tuesday, October 7 Sewing Club October 7 | 3:45 pm – 4:45 pm Grades 3-6. Come learn how to sew! We will learn to thread a needle, sew a button, and sew basic stitches to make fun projects. This program runs for 6 weeks beginning October 7th. Registration is required. Stop by the Children’s Room or call to register at 978-465-4428 x235. Newburyport Public Library Teen Movie Night Come to the teen room to watch a movie! http://mhlteenroom.tumblr.com/ Date / Time:: Tuesday Oct 7, 2014 6:30 PM - 8:30 PM Contact: Clare or Anna 978-623-8401 x 56 ya@mhl.org Memorial Hall Library, Andover Wednesday, October 8 Junior Friends of Memorial Hall Library Weekly meeting of Junior Friends of Memorial Hall Library, ages 8-11. For more information, email Kate Belczyk at kbelczyk@mhl.org. Date / Time:: Wednesday Oct 8, 2014 3:30 PM - 4:15 PM Location: Activity Room Memorial Hall Library, Andover Tuesday, October 7 Animal Cracker Club This program is geared to children between the ages of 5-6. We will share some stories, rhymes, and a simple craft that center around a popular animal. There will also be an animal cracker snack to share too! Please register online the name of the child who will be attending the program! Date / Time:: Tuesday Oct 14, 2014 3:30 PM - 4:15 PM Contact: Kim Bears 978-623-8400 x39 kbears@mhl.org Memorial Hall Library, Andover Thursday, October 9 IMAGINE, SING, & LEARN 10A: PERSONAL PONDING This parent/child program is designed for the creative, curious, and active preschooler. Each 90-minute session offers a structured series of activities including original songs, movement, dramatic play, hands-on science, and a thematic snack. You’ll receive coloring pages, song lyrics, vocabulary, a fun fact sheet, and a suggested reading list in an electronic goody bag! Date: Thursday, October 9, 10 am to 11:30 am.Location: Meet at Joppa Flats Education Center, One Plum Island Turnpike, Newburyport. Fee: Adult $8, Child $7. Preregistration required. NATURE ART CLASSES AT JOPPA FLATS: IT WAS A DARK AND STORMY NIGHT... Any season is a great time to notice nature’s beauty and to make it come to life with amazing works of art! Join teacher Jan Morris to learn how creativity intersects with science, technique, and construction in a fun and rewarding way. Nature Art is run as a series. Each fall series requires a minimum of four participants. Materials will be provided. Parents are welcome to stay during this program.Date: Thursdays, October 9, 16, 23; 3:45 pm to 5:15 pm. Location: Meet at Joppa Flats Education Center, One Plum Island Turnpike, New- buryport. Fee: $54 for all three classes. Preregistration required. IMAGINE, SING, & LEARN 10B: PERSONAL PONDING This parent/child program is designed for the creative, curious, and active preschooler. Each 90-minute session offers a structured series of activities including original songs, movement, dramatic play, hands-on science, and a thematic snack. You’ll receive coloring pages, song lyrics, vocabulary, a fun fact sheet, and a suggested reading list in an electronic goody bag! Date: Thursday, October 9, 1 pm to 2:30 pm. Location: Meet at Joppa Flats Education Center, One Plum Island Turnpike, Newburyport. Fee: Adult $8, Child $7. Preregistration required. Saturday, October 11 Brain Building in Progress: It’s Science Time! (3 to 5 year olds) Stop by the Nevins library to participate in a variety of reading and play activities that help support your child’s learning and language development. We will present the activities in this program using two different sized groups; everyone as one large group and in small self-paced parent/child pairs. Each child in attendance will get a free book from our community partner, the Greater Lawrence Community Action Council. Date / Time:: Saturday Oct 11, 2014 10:00 AM - 10:45 AM Contact: Children’s Department 978-686-4080 ext. 26 Location: Garden Room Tuesday, October 14 Pajama Party Pajama Party is our evening story time for preschoolers and their favorite adult. Wear your pajamas, bring a stuffed animal, and share stories, songs, and a simple craft. No registration required. Date / Time:: Tuesday Oct 14, 2014 6:30 PM - 7:15 PM Location: Activity Room Memorial Hall Library, Andover Wednesday, October 15 Candy Corn Craft Candy corn craft for teens! Stop by! http://mhlteenroom.tumblr.com/ Date / Time:: Wednesday Oct 15, 2014 3:00 PM - 4:00 PM Contact: Clare or Anna 978-623-8401 x 56 ya@mhl.org Memorial Hall Library, Andover Page 14 Merrimack Valley Parent Thursday, October 16 Peep your Favorite Book Halloween Edition! Make book dioramas out of marshmallow Peeps and other supplies! http://mhlteenroom.tumblr.com/ Date / Time:: Thursday Oct 16, 2014 3:00 PM - 4:00 PM Contact: Clare or Anna 978-623-8401 x 56 ya@mhl.org Memorial Hall Library, Andover Friday, October 17 Find-Out Friday Find-Out Friday combines stories and science for ages 5-8. Each month we will share a story, do some experiments and a simple craft. In October we will be talking about leaves, the changing of the seasons, and apples. Please register, space is limited. Date / Time:: Friday Oct 17, 2014 3:45 PM - 4:30 PM Location: Activity Room Memorial Hall Library, Andover Saturday, October 18 Family Book Bingo Join us as we play 4-5 rounds of bingo and the prizes you could win are books! There will be books for all ages available to win, so bring the whole family for an hour of fun! Please register online the name of each person who will be attending the program. Date / Time:: Saturday Oct 18, 2014 2:30 PM - 3:30 PM Contact: Kim Bears 978-623-8400 x39 kbears@mhl.org Memorial Hall Library, Andover ing with LEGOS, this club is for you! Every month there will be a different challenge to build with a small team. Date / Time: Wednesday Oct 22, 2014 4:00 PM - 5:00 PM Contact: Children’s Department 978-686-4080 Nevins Memorial Library, Methuen Thursday, October 23 Dumbledore’s Army October 23 | 3:30 pm – 4:30 pm Hey Harry Potter fans! Join us for this month’s meeting of Dumbledore’s Army. We will be playing Harry Potter charades. This program is for teens and tweens ages 10 and up. No children, adults, or Death Eaters allowed! Please contact Jessica Hilbun, Teen Services Librarian, at 978-4654428 ext. 246 or nplteenlibrarian@gmail. com. Newburyport Public Library Teen Writing Club Do you have a story to tell or a poem to share? Do you enjoy writing fan-fiction? This is the group for you! We will work together with different writing prompts and exercises and have fun writing whatever it is that we need to write. Open to those in grades 7-12. Date / Time:: Thursday Oct 23, 2014 7:00 PM - 8:00 PM Contact: Sarah 978-686-4080 x 35 nevinsteens@gmail.com Location: Trustee’s Room, Nevins Memorial Library, Methuen Wednesday, October 22 Teen Crafternoon: Notebooks October 22 | 3:00 pm – 4:30 pm Teens and tweens: Stop by the Children’s Activity Room for some noteworthy notebook crafts! We’ll be adding collages to boring spiral notebooks, and making mini books of our own. Please contact Jessica Hilbun, Teen Services Librarian, at 978-4654428 ext. 246 or nplteenlibrarian@gmail. com Newburyport Public Library Friday, October 24 Great Old Book Sale EXTENDED HOURS! The GREAT OLD BOOK SALE continues with extended hours. The sale will be held in the Library Program Room from 9:00 AM to 6:30 PM on Friday, October 24th. Please note: the Library closes at 5:00 for regular business, but the book sale is open until 6:30 PM. This event is sponsored by the Friends of the Newburyport Public Library. Proceeds will benefit the Newburyport Public Library collections and programs. Volunteers welcome! Newburyport Public Library K’NEX Club (4th to 6th grade) If you like to build things and enjoy play- Boggle Fun! Play Boggle in the Teen Room! http://mhlteenroom.tumblr.com/ HALLOWEEN HAPPENINGS OCTOBER 24 & 25 AT MASS AUDUBON’S IPSWICH RIVER WILDLIFE SANCTUARY IN TOPSFIELD Mass Audubon’s Ipswich River Wildlife Sanctuary in Topsfield will hold its annual Halloween Happenings for families on Friday, October 24 and Saturday, October 25. Join us for a safe, non-scary, fun-filled, guided family night walk through the forest to learn about the creatures of the night. Children and adults are encouraged to come in costume, but dress warmly as you will be outdoors for about an hour. Allow about 1-1/2 hours total. Recommended for children ages 4-12 accompanied by an adult. The program begins in the barn with games and activities that will keep you entertained until your group goes out. Please choose an arrival time: 6:00, 6:15, 6:30, 6:45, 7:00, 7:15 and 7:30 p.m. Refreshments will greet participants at the end of the program. RAIN OR SHINE. Advance registration with payment is required. No walk-ins. FEE: $10 per person (adult or child) ($9/Mass Audubon members). To register, call 978-8879264. Date / Time:: Friday Oct 24, 2014 3:00 PM - 3:30 PM Contact: Clare or Anna 978-623-8401 x 56 ya@mhl.org Memorial Hall Library, Andover Saturday, October 25 Dads and Donuts Join us the last Saturday of each month at 10am for a story time targeting Dads and children ages 2-5 (although all are welcome). After we share some stories, songs, rhymes and a craft we will share some coffee, juice, and donuts. Come for some fun and friendship! Date / Time:: Saturday Oct 25, 2014 10:00 AM - 10:45 AM Memorial Hall Library, Andover MYSTERY FESTIVAL FREE-FOR-ALL Get into the Halloween spirit! Witness live creepy crawlies, enjoy (semi) spooky attractions, and take home creative crafts. For ages 7 and up, examine a “crime scene” and perform a series of forensic investigations (e.g., soil sample comparisons, water sampling, chromatography, pH tests, and track identification) to solve the mystery and pinpoint the culprit. For ages 2 to 6, there will be stories and songs, silly and festive crafts, and a kooky treasure hunt. Family presentations will be offered at 11:00 am and 1:00 pm. Fly in on your broom for an hour or stay all day for some fun pre-Halloween family time! Date: Saturday, October 25, 10 am to 3 pm. Location: Meet at Joppa Flats Education Center, One Plum Island Turnpike, Newburyport. Fee: FREE. No preregistration required. Monday, October 27 Halloween String Dolls Make tiny ghosts, zombies, skeletons, and other spooky characters from embroidery floss!http://mhlteenroom.tumblr.com/ Date / Time:: Monday Oct 27, 2014 3:00 PM - 4:00 PM Contact Clare or Anna 978-6238401 x 56 ya@mhl.org Memorial Hall Library, Andover Teen Craft: Halloween We are getting into the Halloween Spirit with this month’s craft! We will be making a fun Halloween decoration. All materials will be provided! Open to those in grades 7 and up Date / Time:: Monday Oct 27, 2014 4:00 PM - 5:00 PM Contact: Sarah 978686-4080 x 35 nevinsteens@gmail.com Location: Garden Room Nevins Memorial Library, Methuen Sometimes, keeping kids healthy takes creativity. Thursday, October 30 All Hallow’s Eve Party for Teens and Tweens October 30 | 3:00 pm – 4:30 pm Teens and tweens: Join us for Halloween candy, contests and crafts! This free program will take place in the Children’s Activity Room. Please contact Jessica Hilbun, Teen Services Librarian, with questions at 978-465-4428 ext. 246 or at nplteenlibrarian@gmail.com. Newburyport Public Library Friday, October 31 Hallowteen Party! Come to our Hallowteen party! Costumes encouraged! http://mhlteenroom.tumblr. com/ Date / Time:: Friday Oct 31, 2014 3:00 PM - 4:00 PM Contact: Clare or Anna 978-623-8401 x 56 ya@mhl.org Memorial Hall Library, Andover Please send any events you would like considered for the Calendar of Events to Editor@merrimackvalleyparent.com The Cedarland Aquatic Center is offering a FREE Parent ‘n Tot or Advanced Tot with Parent Lesson The Cedarland Aquatic Center is offering a FREE Parent ‘n Tot or Advanced Tot with Parent Lesson now through October 30th. Pick from 2 different times: Monday at 10 am or Thursday at 10 am. New swim lesson participants only. These classes provide information and techniques for parents to orient their children to the water and learn how to safely supervise all water activities. This is a great way to introduce your child to the water and to help them feel comfortable in the water. The Parent and Tot class is for children between the ages of 8 months and 2 years old. The Advance Tot with Parent is for children 2 - 3 years old. All children must be accompanied in the water by a parent or an adult. Children not toilet trained must wear a swim diaper. To reserve your spot please contact Stacy Roberts at (978) 521- 7700 or email her at sroberts@cedardale-health.net One thing it doesn’t take is a drive to Boston. When you have a child with an illness, driving to Boston to see a specialist adds extra stress. So, Lawrence General Hospital is bringing the specialists to you. At The Pediatric Specialty Center – Lawrence, you can see top Boston specialists from Floating Hospital for Children at Tufts Medical Center, right here, close to home. NOW OFFERING TOP PEDIATRIC SPECIALTY CARE IN: • Cardiology • Developmental and Behavioral Services • Endocrinology • Gastroenterology • General Surgery • Genetics • Hematology • Nephrology • Neurology • Neurosurgery TO SCHEDULE AN APPOINTMENT, CALL 978-228-5763 OR VISIT TogetherForHealthyKids.com.
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