JEWISH NEWS THE CHICAGO November 7 - 13, 2014/14 Cheshvan 5775 www.chicagojewishnews.com One Dollar A SON’S PILGRIMMAGE Chicago philanthropist Rabbi Morris Esformes traveled to Salonika, Greece to honor his father and his heritage Supreme Court on whether Jerusalem is in Israel Rabbi Hariri looks at leaders and responsibility Special section on summer overnight camps Chicago filmmaker’s look at Holocaust hero 2 Chicago Jewish News - November 7 - 13, 2014 At 97, Holocaust survivor and mandolin player Emily Kessler gets her Lincoln Center debut By Raffi Wineburg JTA For Emily Kessler, a Holocaust survivor, the prospect of performing at Lincoln Center’s Avery Fisher Hall is less worrying than figuring out what to wear for the occasion. “I came to the conclusion,” she said, in an interview at her apartment on Manhattan’s Upper West Side, “that what is the difference between playing in front of three people instead of 300?” At 97, Kessler is short and slightly hunched. Along with old photographs and birthday cards, prescription pill bottles are scattered throughout her apartment. “Age is not easy,” she says. N evertheless, the soon-tobe 98-year-old is still sharp. And although she moves at a crawling pace to retrieve old black-andwhite pictures, when she sits down to play the mandolin, her fingers work just fine. Kessler performed and sang songs in Yiddish and Russian at the 80th Anniversary Benefit Gala for the nonprofit organization Blue Card — t he only organization in the United States solely dedicated to providing assistance to Holocaust survivors like herself. Kessler has been a Blue Card client for almost two decades. They’ve arranged free dental work, orthopedic shoes and even all-expense-paid retreats in the Berkshires. Masha Pearl, Blue Card’s executive director , approached Kessler about playing at the gala several months earlier. Kessler, who likes to be prepared, started practicing right away. “To be prepared,” she says, “is to respect other people, and to respect yourself, your dignity.” She had no chance to prepare in 1941, when Nazi officers came to her home in Khmilnyk, Ukraine and shot her parents and brother in front of her. And nothing could have prepared the young widow (her husband, a Soviet soldier, was killed during the Nazi invasion) to care for her 2year-old son in a Ukrainian labor camp, to treat the open sores on her wrists and arms with nonexistent medical supplies, or to gather the strength for work – construction and toilet cleaning – without food or water. Somehow she did, however. And her survival, which she calls a “miracle” still confounds her today. “How did we manage there without food or water? I don’ t know, for that, I try not to explain, because it’s difficult.” Kessler eventually escaped the camp, bringing her son along, using false papers. She lived on the run for two years before relocating to Kyrgyztan. There, in her late 20s, she tried to reassemble the broken pieces of her life. She graduated from university and worked as an editor in a publishing house. But the damage was done. After the war, the “catastrophe” as she calls it, Kessler was plagued by guilt, sadness. She lived in a constant state of mourning. “I was very sad, not smiling. I thought, ‘I don’t have the right to smile’. It felt like a crime, like I was guilty of smiling.” The mandolin, which she began playing at age 10 in her school band, symbolized a time of happiness, so Kessler avoided it entirely. In Kyrgyztan, where Kessler lived after the war, anti-Semitism was still rampant. So at 60 years old, knowing no one in the U.S. and speaking scant English, Kessler immigrated to the United States (her son, who now lives in Michigan, immigrated several Emily Kessler strums the mandolin in her Upper West Side apartment. years after her). “I was happy to leave,” she said. “I had an opportunity to go, and I took it.” For five years though, she was still “not ready” to play music. But walking in Manhattan one day in 1985, she saw a mandolin in the window of a music store. “After time, you think to yourself, how long should I be in mourning?” she said. She bought the instrument, and has been playing for the last 30 years. “It helped just to go away from the sadness,” she said. “It is not always good to feel this sad. I used to be on the street, and without any thinking, I would feel my heart to be full of tears. No more, now it’s okay.” She still goes on walks around the neighborhood, and is often asked what her secret is for living a long time. She shrugs, “I don’t know. My secret is that there is no secret.” 3 Chicago Jewish News - November 7 - 13, 2014 Is Jerusalem part of Israel? Supreme Court to decide ity plate law,” noting that Americans born in Northern Ireland could not identify as being born in Ireland. “And for that matter, Kagan said, “if you are an American born in Jerusalem today, you can’t get the right to say Palestine.” Anthony Kennedy, often a swing justice on the nine-mem- By Ron Kampeas JTA SEE JERUSALEM ON PAG E 1 9 Menachem Zivotofsky, left, and his father Ari posing in front of the Supreme Court with their attorney, Alyza Lewin, and Lewin's father Nathan. (JTA) rogative. “What is the effect of this statute other than something that goes to recognition?” Justice Elena Kagan asked. “This statute is a statute that was created to give individuals the right to self-identify as they choose that they were born in Israel,” Lewin replied. Kagan said that if that were true, “this is a very selective van- LET’S TALK ABOUT STUDENT LIFE YESHIVA UNIVERSITY FALL 2014 OPEN HOUSE FOR WOMEN STERN COLLEGE & SY SYMS Nov. 16, 2014 .EARLYSTUDENTCLUBSs.#!!TEAMSs-ORETHANLECTURESPERFORMANCESANDEVENTSONCAMPUS EACH YEARs-ULTIPLE SERVICELEARNING MISSIONS ACROSS THE GLOBEs%XCITING AND ENRICHING OPPORTUNITIESs &RIENDSHIPS BUILT ON SHARED VALUES THAT WILL LAST A LIFETIME s ,ETS TALK #ALL OUR /FlCE OF !DMISSIONS AT TOLEARNMOREABOUTYOURLIFEAT9ESHIVA5NIVERSITY ፷ WASHIN GTON – A lawyer for a boy born in Jerusalem whose parents want Israel listed as the birthplace on his U.S. passport tried mightily to make a Supreme Court hearing mainly about their wish, but the justices kept upping the ante. That might mean bad news not just for 12-year-old Menachem Zivotofsky and his folks. It could also present a problem for the prospects of U.S. recognition of Jerusalem as Israel’s capital should the court defer to the Obama administration’s argument that a 2002 law allowing the Israel listing infringes on the president’s prerogative to set foreign policy. Alyza Lewin, the lawyer who represented Zivotofsky in oral arguments at the court, acknowledged that the tenor of questioning indicated support among the justices for the idea that the case hinges on the separation of powers between the executive and legislative branches. But in gamely parrying some tough questions in her first appearance before the nation’ s highest court, Lewin sought to downplay the significance of recognizing Zivotofsky’s birthplace as Israel, saying it was an issue of personal choice and not an attempt to interfere with the president’s right to recognize foreign governments. “We gave the court alternative arguments, that what you put on a passport does not amount to recognition,” Lewin said. This marks the second time that the Supreme Court has heard arguments on the constitutionality of the 2002 law, which allows U.S. citizens born in Jerusalem to have Israel listed as their birthplace on their passports. The measure was enacted by President George W. Bush, but both he and Obama have declined to enforce it. The Zivotofskys filed suit after the State Department refused their request to list Menachem’s birthplace as Israel. In 2009, an appeals court ruled that the passport question was a political issue beyond the scope of the the judiciary to decide. Three years later, the Supreme Court overr uled that finding and ordered the lower court to rehear the case. Last year, the appeals court ruled that the executive branch prevailed on matters of foreign policy , prompting Zivotofsky to appeal again. The justices seemed skeptical of Lewin’s claim that the Zivotofskys’ bid did not challenge the presidential recognition pre- ber court who more often than not sides with the conservative wing, also seemed skeptical of Lewin’s claim. “Do you want us to say in our opinion that this is not a political declaration?” he asked. Lewin answered in the affirma tive. Register online at www.yu.edu/chicago 500 West 185th Street | New York, NY 10033 | 212.960.5277 | yuadmit@yu.edu | www.yu.edu #LetsTalkYU 4 Chicago Jewish News - November 7 - 13, 2014 Contents Vol. 21 No. 5 THE CHICAGO JEWISH NEWS Joseph Aaron Editor/Publisher 6 Golda Shira Community Calendar Senior Editor/ Israel Correspondent Pauline Dubkin Yearwood Managing Editor Joe Kus Staff Photographer 7 Best Independent Living Torah Portion Advertising Account Executives Denise Plessas Kus Production Director 8 Kristin Hanson Chicago Jewish Parent for Active Seniors! 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The result is a documentary, “A Voice Among the Silent: The Legacy of James G. McDonald” that will be shown on Sunday, Nov. 9 at the Illinois Holocaust Museum and Education Center’s Kristallnacht commemoration and also on Nov. 23 at Temple Sholom of Chicago. McDonald’s daughter will be present at the Holocaust Museum screening. Eshel, an Israeli-born Chicago filmmaker whose popular documentaries have included “Maxwell Street: A Living Memory” and “To Be a Woman Soldier,” had never heard of McDonald before she read a column about him in a 2012 edition of Chicago Jewish News, she said in a recent phone interview. She later went to a lecture about him at Temple Sholom of Chicago and found out that little had November 9 Remembrance been known about McDonald until after his death, when his daughters found and published more than 500 pages of his diaries. “I had never heard of his efforts to save Jews during the Holocaust or that he was the first U.S. ambassador to Israel. I come from Israel and I had never heard of his name. He had been left as a footnote,” Eshel says. In 1933, she says, McDonald – born in Ohio, raised in Indiana – was serving as the head of the Foreign Policy Association in New York. “He had heard conflicting reports about Hitler and thought he would go to Germany and find out directly. His mother was German and he spoke the lanSEE HERO ON PAG E 9 Ambassador James McDonald and his daughter Barbara with Golda Meir in 1948. For Jewish Book Month, David Laskin’s The Family Programs across Chicago and the suburbs. Kick-off event this Sunday, November 9, at Spertus Institute features live music, food, and readings from The Family! November 9, 1938 Kristallnacht was the beginning of the HOLOCAUST The evil crime against humanity. Find info, tickets, contests, and Readers’ Guide at spertus.edu/TheFamily Throughout Germany and Austria, the Nazis unleashed an organized program against the people of the Jewish faith. 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Illinois Holocaust Museum and Education Center commemorates 76th anniversary of Kristallnacht with viewing of “A Voice Among the Silent: The Legacy of James G. McDonald” followed by discussion with Dr. Barbara McDonald Stewart and filmmaker Shuli Eshel, 1 p.m., and commemorative candle lighting ceremony followed by debut of Al Gruen’s film, “Kristallnacht Remembered” narrated by Regine Schlesinger. 3 p.m., 9603 Woods Drive, Skokie. Free with museum admission. Reservations required, ilholo caustmuseum.org/events. Spertus Institute for Jewish Learning and Leadership presents One Book One Community kickoff featuring “Old Land, New Land, Holy Land” with music by Stuart Rosenberg. 2 p.m., 610 S. Michigan, Chicago. $25, $18 Spertus members. spertus.edu or (312) 3221773. StandWithUs Chicago hosts Campus Champions Gala honoring Janice and Steve Hefter, with keynote speaker Brooke Goldstein and music by Shakshuka. 5 p.m., Highland Park Country Club, 1201 Park Avenue West, Highland Park. $100 advance, $125 door. Registration, standwithus.com. Ketura Hadassah hosts brunch and trip to Paramount Theatre in Aurora to hear new group, “Under the Streetlight.” Coach departs 10:45 a.m., returns 6 p.m. Proesel Park, 6856 Kildare, Lincolnwood. $100. (847) 673-0773. RSVP, bethsair@comcast.net or (773) 761-6862. Wednesday November 12 Monday November 10 Milt’s BBQ for the Perplexed hosts author Yochi Dreazen speaking about his new book, “The Invisible Front: Love and Loss in an Era of Endless War.” 6 p.m., 3411 N. Broadway, Chicago. Reservations, (773) 6616384. Tuesday Simon Wiesenthal Center Midwest Region presents Academy Award- winning documentary “Genocide” narrated by Orson Welles and Elizabeth Taylor followed by panel discussion. 5 p.m., Chicago School of Professional Psychology, 325 N. Wells, Chicago. Registration required, www. wiesenthal.com/chicagosch ool2014. Thursday November 11 November 13 Lakeshore Mercaz Center for Jewish Older Adults presents “Chanukah and More: A Celebration of Jewish Music-Yiddish, Hebrew and Musical Theater.” 1-2:15 p.m., Anshe Sholom B’nai Israel, 540 W. Melrose, Chicago. (773) 508-1073. CJE SeniorLife presents “Government Benefits and Estate Planning for Adults with Disabilities.” 10-noon, Bernard Horwich Building, 3003 W. Touhy, Chicago. Registration, rosann.corcoran@cje.net or (773) 5081694. Congregation Beth Shalom presents Barry Bradford speaking on “Thirty Seconds Over Tokyo: The True Story of the Doolittle Raid.” 6:15-8 p.m., 3433 Walters Ave., Northbrook. $15 members, $20 non-members. (847) 498-4100 Ext. 46 or dfriedman@bethshalom nb.org. Decalogue Society of Lawyers holds Reception in Honor of the Judiciary. 5-7 p.m., Metro Klub, Crowne Plaza Hotel, 733 W. Madison, Chicago. $75 members, $90 non-members, $18 students in advance, $20 students at door (includes one-year membership). decaloguesociety.org. CJE SeniorLife presents “Life Transitions: Put the Life in Lifestyle” with Rabbi Karyn Kedar and Andrea Kaplan, RN. 7:30 p.m., Congregation B’nai Jehoshua Beth Elohim, 1201 Lake Cook Road, Deerfield. (847) 940-7575. Mussar Institute presents 12th annual Mussar Kallah. 5 p.m.– noon Sunday, Nov. 16, Illinois Beach Resort and Conference Center, Zion. For more information, (305) 610-7260 or jeff@mussarinstitute.org. Lincolnwood Jewish Congregation A.G. Beth Israel continues 2014 Diane and Simon Zunamon Memorial Fine Arts Music Series with the Chicago Harp Quartet, featuring Marguerite Lynn Williams, principal harpist of Lyric Opera of Chicago. 7:30 p.m., 7117 N. Crawford, Lincolnwood. $25. finearts@ljcong.org or (847) 676-0491. Congregation B’nai Tikvah hosts informational meeting about trip to Budapest, Prague and Vienna. 8 p.m., 1558 Wilmot Road, Deerfield. (847) 945-0470. Illinois Holocaust Museum and Education Center presents author Barbara Winton speaking on “If It’s Not Possible…The Life of Sir Nicholas Winton” followed by book signing. 6:30 p.m., 9603 Woods Drive, Skokie. $15, $10 members. Reservations required, iholocaustmuseum.org/events. Congregation Beth Shalom presents Bloomberg News columnist Ezra Klein speaking on “How Washington Really Works.” 8 p.m. 3433 Walters Ave., Northbrook. (847) 498-4100. 7 Chicago Jewish News - November 7 - 13, 2014 Torah Portion Upholding G-d’s bargain Even our leaders are responsible for their actions By Rabbi Carmit Harari Guest Torah Columnist Torah Portion: Vayera Genesis 18:1-22:24 Nestled between the narratives of Sarah’s improbable pregnancy at the age of 90 and Isaac’s near sacrifice on Mount Moriah lies another well-known story: that of So dom and Gomorrah. Following the visit of the three messengers, G-d informs Abraham of his decision to destroy Sodom. Abraham, appalled, begins to bargain with G-d for the lives of those potentially innocent residents of So dom, and G-d agrees that if 10 righteous individuals be found there, he will not destroy the city on their account. Ultimately it is Lot and his family that are saved, while G-d rains sulfurous fire upon the cities. The Torah tells us that in so doing, Gd was mindful of Abraham, sending Lot out of the chaos, and consequently saving his life. It is a powerful story by all accounts, one that is rooted in the theme of justice. Abraham, newly entered into the covenant Rabbi Carmit Harari with G-d, questions G-d’s sense of morality if he is willing to wipe out the innocent residents of the city along with the guilty ones. And, in what almost reads like the classic tale of the underdog, Abraham stands up to G-d, who might even be described as the bully in this scenario. Most of us likely identify with Abraham, or at the very least we admire his actions. After all, it seems only right that those truly righteous individuals be spared. But it is in Abraham’ s very words to G-d, I believe, that another lesson from this story emerges. “… Shall not the judge of all the earth deal justly?” (Gen. 18:25) In September, a shocking video of the Baltimore Ravens’ Ray Rice surfaced. In security footage, he was seen beating his then fiancé – now his wife – unconscious in an elevator and dragging her body of out into the hallway. Though not a football fan myself, like most Americans I became well acquainted with the story. And, like most Americans, I was horrified as I watched the video, played time and time again, on the news and on the internet. But perhaps most troubling in this case wasn’t the video itself. In a statement to the media, Rice’s wife spoke of her dis approval of the consequences her husband suffered as the result of the video’s release. Rice had initially been suspended for two games because of the fight, a penalty some considered too lenient. But after security footage from the elevator was released, Rice was fired from his team and suspended by the NFL. This isn’t the first such scandal to surround the NFL, among other organizations. And yet, no matter how often such situations occur among professional athletes, actors, or musicians, it never ceases to amaze me that someone will respond just as Rice’s wife did. Though she didn’t say it in so many words, Janay Rice’s statement might suggest that her husband’s status should exempt him from the punishment that he re- ceived, or at the very least make it a bit more lenient. A little closer to home, the arrest of Rabbi Barry Freundel in Washington D.C. just last month for the crime of voyeurism caught my attention. I felt the same horrified feeling I’d felt with the video of Rice as I learned that Freundel stood accused of secretly videotaping women preparing to immerse in the mikvah. And shortly there- after, my stomach turned again when news of Rabbi Menachem Tewel’s arrest in Beverly Hills broke; he stands accused of the sexual molestation of minors. Two prominent rabbis, leaders in Israel, had abused their power , and left their communities crying out in outrage. It may seem clumsy to compare religious leaders to football players. And yet all three men are S E E TO R A H ON PAG E 1 2 CANDLELIGHTING TIMES 4 Nov. 7 4:19 Nov. 14 4:11 The 6th Annual INTERNATIONAL HOLIDAY BAZAAR Saturday, November 15 and Sunday, November 16 10:00 am - 5:00 pm Start your holiday shopping at this world market extravaganza featuring local artisans and international fair trade goods. 6 Unique Jewelry and Purses 6 Fair Trade Merchandise 6 Home and Table Top Accessories 6 Books for Adults and Children 6 One-of-a-kind Judaica from Around the World 6 FREE Admission to Holiday Bazaar in Museum Hall. 15% Discount for Museum Members on all Purchases. 9603 Woods Drive, Skokie | 847.967.4800 | ilholocaustmuseum.org 8 Chicago Jewish News - November 7 - 13, 2014 Chicago Jewish Parent Judaism and parenting By Erica Brown JNS.org Admission Events Upper School Open House, Grades 9–12 Saturday, November 22 | 10 am Register at: fwparker.org/openhouse For the 2015–16 School Year Application Deadline: Monday, December 1 Apply online at fwparker.org/apply Financial aid available for qualified applicants Francis W. Parker School | 330 W. Webster Ave., Chicago, IL 60614 | 773.797.5107 | fwparker.org junior kindergarten through grade eight A multi-denominational community school Join us for an informational meeting! Thursday, November 13, 7:30 p.m. To RSVP or for more information, please contact Cortney Stark Cope, Director of Admissions. cstarkcope@chicagojewishdayschool.org 773-271-2700 Educating our children in the richness of their past, the diversity of their present, and the possibilities for their future. 5959 North Sheridan Road Chicago, Illinois 60660 www.chicagojewishdayschool.org We all know the saying “Insanity is contagious; you get it from your kids.” It seemed for a while that research bore this out, at least in part. Psychological studies demonstrated that marital satisfaction decreases dramatically after the birth of the first child and increases only when the last child leaves home. In “Stumbling on Happiness,” Harvard psy chologist Daniel Gilbert marshaled evidence to suggest that societal myths that having children makes people happy are actually incorrect. He calls this a “belieftransmission game” where we falsely believe that certain things contribute or detract from our happiness. One of them is money, which has been shown to bring happiness only when it relieves an individual of poverty but above that is inconsequential to life satisfaction. The other is parenting. “Every human culture tells its members that having children will make them happy,” Gilbert contends. People look forward to it with happy expectation. When people are asked about sources of happiness they invariably point to their kids. But, Gilbert claims, when you chart their actual satisfaction a “very different story emerges.” Women surveyed rated taking care of their kids as a chore less satisfying than eating, exercising, shopping, napping or watching television. But don’t worry kids. Mom enjoyed you just slightly more than doing housework. I remember first reading this research and feeling a punch in my stomach. Jewish life is predicated on continuity and regards the family as the sacred unit by which faith and culture is transmitted. Granted, obligation and responsibility top personal happiness within the framework of faith communities generally and Judaism specifically. It is not that happiness is not important. It’ s that happiness is not the most significant or sole motivator for our beliefs and practices. How does this research jive with the statement from Proverbs above? We believe that children are a cr owning glory. Actually in this verse, children are a transition between their grandparents and their parents. Grandparents regard children with delight, and children regard their parents with pride. This smooth and happy family transition and succession does not always happen. The chapter in which this verse from Proverbs appears, shares something of what happens when families cannot operate with this sense of continuity and pride: “Better a dry crust with peace than a house full of feasting and strife.” In other words, it’ s better to be raised in a home where there is little money but much peace than where there is wealth and strife. Proverbs 17 als o includes the verse, “A joyful heart makes for good health.” That joyful heart includes children, who are the crown of our existence whether you are a parent, an aunt, a friend or a member of society who believes in the next generation. And if that bundle of joy is also a challenge at times, then perhaps children help us affirm our humanity and self-sacrifice. In the words of Hillel, if I am only for myself, who am I? 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He said there had already been a boycott and Jewish stores were closed and storm troopers were attacking people and not letting them into (the remaining) stores.” This information wasn’t yet widely known outside of Ger many and “McDonald was to tally shocked that this was happening right in front of his eyes,” Eshel says. He took Hitler’s words seriously and three weeks later met with President Roosevelt. “We know from (McDonald’s) diaries that Roosevelt heard from McDonald first hand what Hitler’s plan were, and he was very shocked,” Eshel says. But when McDonald sought funds to help resettle Jewish refugees, “(Roosevelt) said he would, but he dragged his feet, and in the end it was forgotten,” she says. McDonald’s name was submitted to become ambassador to Germany, but he was not chosen. “We don’t know if a frank account of his talk with Hitler changed Roosevelt’s mind. Did they think he was too pro-Jew?” Eshel asks. Later McDonald was named League of N ations High Commissioner for Refugees. “He got together with prominent Jews in N ew York City and decided to reach out to European countries and get safe haven for refugees,” Eshel says. He even talked to the future Pope Pius XII about the impending doom he foresaw for Europe’s Jews. He asked Roosevelt to donate $10,000 in hopes that other countries would follow, but it never happened. In a letter to The New York Times Albert Einstein backed the plan and appealed to humanity for help in resettling Jewish refugees. Despite such pleas, Eshel says, McDonald soon found out that “a lot of countries didn’ t want to open their doors to Jewish refugees. He went to South America and other places and found nobody wanted to help resettle Jews. Even the (U.S.) State Department was indifferent to the plight of Jews.” In 1935 McDonald resigned the League of Nations post. He later worked on The N ew York Times and taught at Indiana University, eventually becoming the first U.S. ambassador to Israel. “He laid down the foundation of the relationship between Israel and the United States,” Eshel says. To tell the human story she worked with McDonald’ s two daughters, using the diaries as source material. “He never thought he would publish them,” she says. “He just kept them as a record of what he did, who he spoke to. The diary was a very thick volume and was mainly for scholars who were researching this period. But no one had made a documentary about him and I thought a documentary would reach a much bigger audience all over the world.” The film ended up being somewhat controversial, Eshel says, because “it shows that Roosevelt did very little to help peo- ple who were denied entry to the country.” But more important, she says, is that “Chicago should hear the little-known story of an American diplomat who did everything he could to warn the world about Hitler.” “A Voice Among the Silent: The Legacy of James G. McDonald” will be shown at 1 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 9 at the Illinois Holocaust Museum and Education Center, 9603 Woods Drive, Skokie, followed by a program with McDonald’s daughter, Dr. Barbara McDonald Stewart, and filmmaker Shuli Eshel. Reservations required, reservations@ihmec.org. It will also be shown at 3 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 23 at Temple Sholom of Chicago, 3480 N. Lake Shore Drive, Chicago. More information, (773) 435-1541. Lifetime Income for Retirement. 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Engine of growth for a nation. 10 Chicago Jewish News - November 7 - 13, 2014 A SON’S PILGRIMMAGE Chicago philanthropist Rabbi Morris Esformes traveleled to Salonika, Greece to honor his father and his heritage By Joseph Aaron Editor It was a pilgrimage to honor his heritage, his family, his father. Rabbi Morris Esformes’ grandparents, on both his father’s and mother’s side, came from Salonika, Greece. All during his childhood, Esformes heard constantly about Salonika, heard stories about the way it was, heard about the amazing Sephardic community that lived there, including so much of his family, so many of his ancestors. Salonika was indeed an amazing place. Jews began arriving there in the 1300s and over the following centuries, the community flourished, was home to a vibrant Sephardic culture, learned Sephardic rabbis, great Sephardic yeshivas and synagogues. By the early 20th century, it was home to more than 60,000 Jews, more than 50 shuls, dozens of Torah scholars and students and institutions. Salonika is a port city, and so prominent was its Jewish community , so pious were its Sephardic Jews, that the port was closed every Shabbat. The city was known as “the Jerusalem of the Balkans.” That is the Salonika Esformes, the noted Chicago philanthropist, heard about year after year growing up, story after story. And so when Esformes’ father, Philip, died this past February, he felt the perfect way to honor his father’s life, honor his family’s roots was to travel to Salonika to see for himself the city that was so alive in his mind, did so much to shape his father’s life, and his own. And so, accompanied by several Chicago rabbis, Esformes made the journey to Salonika, called Thessaloniki in today’s Greece, along with his 92-yearold mother Rebecca, his wife Delecia, and some Chicago friends. It was a journey to pay tribute to his father , a man whose parents were shaped by their lives in Salonika and who, in turn, shaped the lives of Morris and his sister Flora Weiss. The minute his mother left the airport terminal and stepped onto the ground of Salonika, she began to weep. “I can hear voices from the past,” she said. It was a visit both joyous and sad. There was joy in her eyes when Rebecca sat and conversed fluently in Ladino with a local Jewish community leader . But there was sadness to see what the flourishing Jewish community had become. Fifty seven thousand Greek Jews from Salonika were murdered in the Nazi death camps, more than 90 percent of the community. There are now but a thousand Jews living in the city, and but one synagogue. A visit to the former Jewish or phanage found a badly decayed old building. And then there are the remains of the last yeshiva in Salonika, now a broken shell of a structure. During the war , it served as headquarters of the Gestapo. Hebrew lettering is still visible engraved into its outer walls. There is, however, a Chabad rabbi working to keep Judaism alive in Salonika. He runs a kosher restaurant that serves dozens daily. The Friday night before Esformes’ arrival, there were a couple hundred Jews who gathered for Shabbat dinner. As a result of the trip, Rabbi Esformes plans to support the Chabad rabbi’s efforts, provide funding for educational and other programs aimed especially at young Jews, in the hope of keeping the spark of Judaism alive in Salonika. But the main purpose of the trip was to honor his father by going back to, by seeing and standing in the place from which both sides of his family came, to walk the ground and reach back and embrace the chain of his ancestors. It was a t rip to a faraway place in memory of Philip Esformes, a very special man, a very wonderful father, a very proud and dedicated Sephardic Jew, a kind and gentle human being. Philip Esformes’ parents left Salonika in 1911 and came to New York where Philip was born 10 years later. From the very beginning, his life was not an easy one. His mother was not healthy and because his father could not take care of him, Philip was placed in an orphanage when he was but two years old. It was a place, says his daughter Flora Weiss, where “they would line the boys up and pick one and beat him to show the others what would happen if they were bad.” He was then put in a succession of foster homes starting at age 3. In some of them he was physically abused. His mother died when he was 13. His father needed him to go to work to help the family survive the Depression years. He enlisted in the army and served for five years during World War II and was called back into service during the Korean War. He had Bell’ s palsy twice, his business went bankrupt. “There was nothing easy about my father’s life,” says his daughter. And yet, says Rabbi Morris Esformes, “he never complained about anything, always had strong faith in G-d. When he went bankrupt, his only concern was for his wife, for his kids and their education and making sure he did all he needed to do to protect his family. He would quote the line from the movie ‘Rocky,’ that in life, it’s not the punch you take, but what counts is that you get up and keep going.” And so he did. And always with a smile on his face. Ask Philip Esformes’ son and daughter about him and the first thing they both tell you is what a “kind and gentle man” he was. He was someone, says Mor ris, who “treated every human being with respect and dignity.” There are many examples of that, but perhaps the most amazing and courageous, one in which he acted far ahead of his time, was during W orld War II when Philip was stationed on an army base in Missouri. It was a place, notes Morris, “where they did not like blacks, did not like Jews, did not like anyone not like them.” Knowing that, feeling that, Philip, a captain, volunteered to train the black troops. “There were 250 men in his squad and he treated each one of them with respect and dignity,” said Morris. For that, he earned the nickname ‘Esformes the n—-lover.’ When Philip heard a sergeant use that term, Esformes, who had been a semi-amateur boxer when he was growing up, promptly knocked the sergeant out with one punch. And then saw to it that he was court-martialed for his disgusting language. ”The black men in his unit were amazed he would go so far to protect their dignity,” said Morris. And they never forgot it. Indeed, after the war, one day more than a dozen of his men showed up at the Esformes home in Highland Park, New Jersey. They had a Kiddush cup with them, which they bought in honor of Capt. Esformes’ son Morris. It had his name engraved on it. “My dad and the soldiers embraced each other. They said no one had ever treated them like he had.” Philip was ahead of his time also in how he treated women. “Back in the days when I was growing up,” said Flora, “women were not given leadership posi- Philip Esformes with his wife Rebecca, son Rabbi Morris Esformes and daughter Flora Weiss. tions. But with my dad, he was completely liberated. If you had the ability, he gave you the responsibility. It was not in fashion to let girls work then, but he encouraged me to work.” His dad, said Morris, “loved people. If you were a goo d person, no matter who you were, he treated you as human beings should be treated. He jus t had a love for the human race. Never had any issues of race, color , creed. He was a goo d guy who just loved people, who could talk to anybody about anything. He treated everyone he met kindly, was a kind, warm soul who loved the world. That is something that has stayed with me all my life.” “I remember when they were living in Florida, he would pick me up after work,” said Flora. “A trip that should have taken 15 minutes, took a half hour because we would go through a toll booth and my father had to talk to all the workers. He talked to everyone, everyone loved him.” He especially felt that way about his fellow Jews, said Morris. “As my mother once put it, my dad saw all Jews as part of the family.” And they not only felt that way and said that, but lived that in their life. “He was always involved in doing chesed, in tzedekah,” said Morris. “Those were manifest in both my parents. They always shared whatever they had. My father would give you the shirt off his back. It was never about him, it was about doing for the rest of the world. There was no ego. He was good, kind, compassionate, an incredible human being who cared about everybody.” And, said Flora, “he was so caring. He had a friend who was suffering from pancreatic cancer. He would literally carry him to his car so he could take him for rides. The man told him he really wanted to go to Las V egas one last time before he died, and so my dad picked him up and carried him to the back seat of the car and they drove to V egas where they spent two days, my dad taking care of him the entire time.” And she remembers her “uncle, an alcoholic, who needed a place to stay and we took him in and he lived with us. Everyone was an aunt and uncle to us. My parents had an open door policy, anyone who needed a meal, a place to stay, was welcome. They didn’t just talk tzedakah, they lived it.” But the main of focus of his life, Morris said, was “that his wife and kids were taken care of, know they were loved. He was quiet, not emotional but we could feel the passion he felt for his family. He reveled in our accomplishments. His whole life was about us. He could wear the same pair of pants forever but would make sure his wife dressed like out of a magazine.” Flora agrees. “He could wear the same shirt day after day. He saw no purpose in buying things for himself, always enjoyed buying for us. We once bought him a fancy watch, and he never wore it. He had simple tastes, was a simple man. All he wanted was that his family be happy.” When Morris and Flora were teenagers, they became observant. Their parents were not. “My dad had no religious background,” said Morris. “But the minute his kids became frum, he made sure the house was kosher and that our observance was respected. He said nothing would separate the family and if this is now part of what the kids are, 11 Chicago Jewish News - November 7 - 13, 2014 this is what the family is. “Everything was about his family, that the family stays together like glue. He had religious children and so everything had to be done to support that.” “We chose a direction and he completely changed his life just so we were comfortable,” said Flora. “He always protected us, showed us how much he loved us. All he wanted was that we be happy. “When my brother was 10, he had a bloo d disorder and the doctors suggested a warmer climate would help him. And so my parents immediately left N ew Jersey for California. My father didn’t have a job lined up, but he went without hesitation because it would be better for Morris.” Flora remembers that “he would give us an allowance of $5 a week, which was a lot of money 50 years ago. It was unheard of. But he said he never wanted his children to be without anything they needed. “All our lives, he would call us at 6:30 in the morning on our birthday, send us these really sentimental cards. He was not a hugger, not a cuddler , but we could feel how much he loved us.” But as much as he loved his children, his first love was his wife, Rebecca, to whom he was married for 70 years. “He thought she was the greatest thing G-d created,” said Morris. “He put her on a pedestal, always treated her with admiration, dignity and respect. He would often come home and proceed to serenade her in song.” “He was the perfect husband,” said Flora. “My mother didn’t have to ask him to do the dishes, he just did them. There was nothing too little or too big for him. If it had to be done, he did it.” Besides his father’s devotion to his family, it was his integrity that made the biggest impression on Morris. “He never lied once in his life. He was brutally honest all the time. There was no shtick with him, only doing things the honorable way, that was the only way he knew. “In California, he was a leather broker, had a small company. A much bigger company called Sands, which provided all the leather goods to Marshall Field’s, bought all their leather from my father. I once asked the owner Bill Sands why he didn’t deal with bigger companies, why he bought from a small leather broker like my father. “He told me, ‘Philip Esformes is the only honest person out here. I never have to think twice about the quality of his merchandise or the fairness of his price. He is the most honorable man I have ever known.” “He always walked the path he talked,” said Flora. “He would not go to sleep if he owed anyone money; he first had to pay them.” Though an outwardly simple man, both his children agree there were so many facets to him. “He was brilliant,” said Flora. “He graduated high school at 15. During World War II, he served in the Aleutian Islands in intelligence. He had a photographic memory and was involved in a very secret operation. We still don’t know what he did. And he had a facility for picking up languages.” As for the voice he used to serenade his wife, it was so beautiful, says Flora, “that he once attended a taping of the ‘Lawrence Welk Show’ and he was in the audience singing along and was invited up on stage to sing. He loved to dance. And he was incredibly strong. He could tear a phone book in half. He was a guy’s guy. He loved baseball, loved to talk about sports, knew every statistic. He was very proIsrael, loved dogs, had his fa- Philip Esformes, right, at age 13, with his brother Morris, left, and his father Isaac. vorite chair, loved his coffee in the morning, loved chocolate and every kind of goo and junk, smoked until he was 92. He used to sit and smoke and exhale the smoke from his mouth in rings. He loved playing with kids, had this great big laugh, loved telling jokes. “He was intense, outgoing, very smart, not a simple guy. He was a soldier , very disciplined, tough, but mush inside. And he loved being a Jew. He was not religious, did not know Hebrew . But he loved to sit in shul and got so much joy from just listening to the davening. When his father died, he strictly observed every law of mourning for the year. “And he was a total Sephardi to the core, was very proud of being a Sephardic Jew, of the beauty of his Sephardic heritage. He and my mom spoke to each other in Ladino, when we lived in New Jersey it was in a totally Sephardic community.” Adds Morris, “he was very perceptive. He saw the world the way it was. He had a life of ups and downs, but he would always pick himself up off the floor and keep on moving. I remember he took me to my first baseball game in N ew York when I was eight years old. Though he was a Yankees fan, I was a big Giants fan and so we went to the Polo Grounds and saw Willie Mays. He loved sports and that’s where I got my love of sports. I remember the Giants lost and I was moping the whole way home. He told me that you don’ t always win but if you do most of the time, you are ahead of the game. I never forgot that. “He was not an emotional man,” said Morris. “I remember him crying only three times. When his father died in his arms, when I married my wife Delecia, his favorite niece, and one of the last times we were together before he died, when he told me how much he loved me.” But Morris remembers one time he saw his father get really angry. “He never got mad, never. But we were at a lecture by a prominent rabbi and in the context of talking about the Talmud, he veered into politics and criticized the American decision to bomb Hiroshima during the war. That my father, who served in the war, could not take. He had friends who had been killed in the war. After the class, he heatedly told the rabbi you didn’t see what I saw and so should not criticize what was done. He was a mild mannered man, but that day he was angry, it really set him off.” It was a very rare occurrence for a man, Flora said, who “was always jovial, upbeat. He was always smiling. He was just a happy man.” He was indeed such a joyous, joyful man, that both his children say they are having a very hard time dealing with the Philip and Rebecca Esformes shortly after their wedding. fact he is gone. “If I was depressed, he always found a way to pick me up,” said Morris. “He was always someone I could call and get wise counsel, who I knew was always looking out for what was best for me. I don’t have that anymore. I sometimes find myself instinctively reaching for the phone to call him and then I realize. When you lose someone who loved you so much, you have a big big void in your life. “Every day is a challenge. I have his picture in my office and I look at it every single day. Not long ago, it was his birthday, the first one since he died. That was a very hard day. I held his picture in my hands and said ‘pop, I miss you’ and I cried. He lived like a Jew is supposed to live his life. “He was a gem of a guy . He was born on a Friday and in the Talmud it says someone born on a Friday runs after mitzvahs. That was my father, someone who always sought to do good deeds. He was a good, kind, compassionate, caring person who was always non-judgmental, who always looked at the positive, who never said anything bad about anyone. He was an incredible human being who cared about everybody. “I miss him terribly. If I turn out to be half the man my father was, I will have accomplished a lot. The world is not the same place without my father.” “The last three years of his life were the bravest,” said Flora. “He had macular degeneration so had trouble seeing, had a stroke so he couldn’t talk, had his knees replaced so he couldn’t walk. But he still always smiled, he was a happy man. “I can’t accept that he died. I used to see him every single day. He was a very comforting person to have around, he was always interested in me, would ask me ‘what’s new Flo?’ ten times a day. He was just a wonderful father. “He was in such pain at the end. On what turned out to be his last day, he asked his caretaker to bring him his breakfast. He wanted a glass of milk. He drank it, took a deep breath, and he was gone. It was like Hashem came in and gave him a kiss and that was it. “The man who did the tahara (ritual cleansing of the body) after my dad died, said that as he was doing it, he saw something he had never seen before. He looked at my father’s face and saw that he was smiling. “He was such a sweet man.” And the reason Morris Esformes went to Salonika. “This is where the roots of our family are. From the time I was 2, 3 years old, the word Salonika was as common to me as my own name. To be where my great grandpar ents, my grandparents, aunts, uncles, were born and raised, grew up, was a dream come true for me.” His wife Delecia, whose name hearkens from Salonika, agreed. “I heard about Salonika my whole life. To breathe the air of Salonika, to walk where my ancestors walked was something very special.” “I waited all my life for this,” said Morris. “My parents spoke Ladino in our house, spoke Greek. I have so many memories of the stories I heard about Salonika from my parents, and now I’ve seen it. Just standing in the city was huge for me.” And throughout his time in the city, he thought about his father. “At night, I stoo d on the balcony of my hotel room crying, and said, “Pa, I’m here.” 12 Chicago Jewish News - November 7 - 13, 2014 Torah CONTINUED F RO M PAG E 7 men of prominence, and each stands accused of a crime. And, as Abraham’s bargaining with G-d in our parsha teaches, no one, not even G-d, is above the law. In his book, “Arguing with G-d: A Jewish Tradition,” Anson Laytner explains: “Since Abraham’s argument with G-d is the first major one of its kind – and certainly the first ‘Jewish’ one – a number of observations are in order. First, what gives Abraham the right to question G-d’s judgment? It is the covenant (brit) that bestows this privilege. The covenant, the contract into which Abraham entered at G-d’s behest, unites Abraham and his seed in a unique relationship with G-d. Abraham’ s line is bound to keep the commandments of the Lord (the first of which is circumcision), but it is also understood that G-d has his obligations to uphold (Gen. 17:1-14). Furthermore, both parties are bound to pursue justice and righteousness, these things being both the G-d-given charge of Abraham and his descendants and ‘the way of the Lord’ by which G-d himself is obligated.” We live in an age that seems to glorify status. Celebrities are treated differently and in some cases are even revered. Rabbis, though they may not have celebrity status, are most certainly prominent within their communities, and in some cases beyond. And while prominence may lead to fame and even to fortune, no amount of money and no title can change the fact that each of these people is just like us: human. We hope for the best from our leaders. We anticipate that those in the spotlight will lead by example, modeling the best behavior that they have to offer. Health & Fitness While prominence may lead to fame and even to fortune, no amount of money and no title can change the fact that each of these people is just like us: human. But no one is perfect, and no person, Ray Rice, Rabbi Freundel, nor Rabbi Tewel, despite their titles or status, can be expected to be as such. The decisions by each of the aforementioned to behave as they did is reprehensible, but, I believe, the consequences they suffered were in no way over-exaggerated. Abraham’s bargain with G-d serves as a reminder that justice is served only when each individual, no matter his or her status, is subject to the consequences of his or her actions. We must remember, no matter how difficult or disappointing it is to watch leaders and heroes fall, that no one, not even G-d, is above the law. Our tradition teaches that one can always return. I pray that the individuals mentioned here engage in true teshuvah, and, like Abraham, are able to once again hold G-d up to his end of the bargain, making our world truly one of justice and fairness. Rabbi Carmit Harari is the rabbi of B’nai Yehuda Beth Sholom (Reform) and of Congregation Am Echad (Conservative) in Homewood. From Ebola to Iraqi refugees, Israeli aid group tackles world’s most difficult crises By Sean Savage JNS.org Known primarily for their military prowess and high-tech ingenuity, Israelis are often overlooked when it comes to their global engagement. But IsraAID, an Israeli non-profit and non-governmental organization founded in 2001, has been on the frontline of every major humanitarian crisis of the 21st century – including today’s most difficult hotspots in Iraq and West Africa. “Our mission is to efficiently support and meet the changing needs of populations as they strive to move from crisis to reconstruction and rehabilitation, and eventually, to sustainable living,” N avonel Glick, IsraAID’s program director, said. Drawing on Israel’s military expertise and robust healthcare system, IsraAID has tackled humanitarian disasters in 22 countries, including the earthquakes in Japan and Haiti, refugee situations in South Sudan and Kenya, and Hurricane Katrina and Superstorm Sandy in the United States. In early October, IsraAID supplied mattresses, blankets, food, and hygiene kits to more than 1,000 people in the Dohuk and Erbil refugee camps in Iraq’s Kurdish region. Providing aid to refugees in the Arab world is no easy task for an Israeli organization, especially in countries as hostile to the Jewish state as Iraq, which has been overrun by jihadists from the Islamic State terror group. “This is an issue that is very sensitive, but not for the reasons that one would expect,” Glick said. “More than our security, our concern is how to make sure to protect the people that we are helping. Having people we want to assist become the target of Islamic State sleeper cells within camps would be horrendous.” The plight of Iraq’s Christians and Yazidis is eerily similar to the story of the country’s former Jewish community. The modern persecution and expulsion of Iraqi religious minorities draws many parallels to the waves of attacks on, and eventual expulsion of, Iraqi Jewry during the mid-20th century. N early 135,000 Jews were forced to leave Iraq from 1948 onwards. “We decided to launch this IsraAID workers (pictured at right) provide training in Sierra Leone amid the Ebola crisis. project because of the incredible needs of the displaced populations fleeing death and abuse at the hands of the Islamic State,” said Glick. “They are coming with absolutely nothing but the clothes on their backs.” According to estimates, more than 1.8 million Iraqis have been displaced by Islamic State. Christians in particular have been singled out by the jihadists, with many being forced to convert, leave, or die. Most of the refugees living in Iraq’s Kurdish region are Christians and Yazidis who fled from Islamic State during the summer. A video recently posted by IsraAID shows the organization’s truck arriving at a refugee camp in Kurdistan, with relief workers being warmly greeted by the refugees as they distribute the humanitarian items. Currently, IsraAID is the only Israeli entity present on the ground in West Africa amid the Ebola crisis. Glick, who currently is in Sierra Leone to help lead the organizations efforts there, described the situation was “very worrying.” The Israeli Foreign Ministry and MASHAV – Israel’s Agency for International Development Cooperation have jointly begun sending aid to the region, including the deployment of mobile field hospitals that feature isolation units and protective gear for medical professionals. Despite increasing international assistance, more than 4,000 people have died so far in the Ebola outbreak. “The Ebola outbreak continues to spread, and while an increasing amount of interna tional support is coming, the healthcare workers that have been on the frontline of the fight for over five months now are absolutely exhausted, burnt out, and traumatized,” Glick said. In Sierra Leone, IsraAID is beginning to provide training to address the psycho-social impact of Ebola. “Most people realize the very direct medical efforts necessary to tackle the disease, but only now are people starting to realize the psychological toll that the outbreak has had on huge sections of the population – from fear of infection, to grief for whole families and communities that have been decimated, all compounded by increasing stigma towards sur vivors and the families of victims,” Glick said. According to Glick, the reaction to IsraAID training has been very positive among the people of Sierra Leone and the country’s government – including support from the First Lady of Sierra Leone, Sia Koroma, who is a t rained psychiatric nurse. Though the crisis in West Africa is serious, Glick said people around t he world need to stop the panic and hysteria surrounding Ebola. He said the sensationalistic global reaction to the outbreak is leading to a growing stigma associated with people from West Africa and hampering efforts to combat the disease. “This disease is indeed dangerous and scary, but it is not easily transmitted, and even in the affected countries, there are still millions of people that are living their lives every day,” he said. Glick said IsraAID is committed to continuing to provide aid to Iraqi refugees as winter approaches, and he believes that the Ebola outbreak in West Africa is also a long-term project that may take sev eral years to contain and heal. “The road to containing and eventually beating this disease is still a ways away , and mitigating its psychological impact will probably take years,” he said. 13 Chicago Jewish News - November 7 - 13, 2014 they gave us peace of mind When you need answers to the most complex health challenges. The experts at NorthShore are collaborating with the world-renowned Mayo Clinic. 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Chicago Jewish News - November 7 - 13, 2014 15 16 Chicago Jewish News - November 7 - 13, 2014 SUMMER OVERNIGHT CAMPS Camp CONTINUED F RO M PAG E 14 theme of the summer is interwoven throughout daily activities that include sports, swimming, boating, drama, arts and crafts, overnights, color war and special trips. Shabbat, one of the most special times at camp, is filled with singing, dancing, great ruach and concludes with a special and meaningful Havdala. Camp Moshava offers a six week camping experience for campers completing third through 11th grades with a four week option for campers completing third and fourth grade. A special two week matchilim beginners program is available for first-time campers completing third grade. Session dates for 2015 are as follows: Sunday, June 21 – Monday, Aug. 3 (6 week program) and Sunday, June 21 – Sunday, July 19 (4 week program). Camp Nageela Midwest (773) 604-4400 www.campnageelahmidwest.org Situated on 500 acres in rural Indiana, Camp Nageela Midwest offers campers completing grades 3-10 a three-week experience of fun and unforgettable memories. Camp Nageela is an ACA accredited, overnight camp with separate boys and girls sessions, giving your child the opportunity to enjoy an all-around camp program while making many new Jewish friends. Campers in Camp Nageela identify with all Jewish affiliations. All meals and snacks are kosher. Our extensive daily schedule is a camper’s dream, including sports, trips, theme parks, hiking, horseback riding, boating, biking and enjoying the benefits of our expansive grounds including the Olympic size pool, lake, indoor and outdoor gym, scenic trails and waterfall, paintball courts, rockwall and ropes course. Our 3:1 camper-to-staff ratio ensures safe, caring, individualized attention and relationships that embrace and encourage. Counselors at Nageela are full of life and haven’t forgotten what it’s like to be a camper. Camp Ramah in Wisconsin (312) 606-9316, ext. 221 www.ramahwisconsin.com Camp Ramah in Wisconsin is the place where fun and friendship build Jewish lives. A full range of fun activities integrates Jewish values and observances into the daily camp experience. Activities include sports, swim- ming, high and low ropes courses, climbing wall, sailing, kayaking, archery, music, dance, nature, photography, radio, arts and drama. Sports courts upgrades enable campers to play softball, basketball, tennis and volleyball both during the day and under the lights at night. The camp is located 15 miles north of Eagle River, Wisconsin, on beautiful Lake Buckatabon. Ramah Wisconsin offers a fourday session for campers entering 3rd grade (July 13-16), two twoweek sessions for campers entering 4th grade (June 16-29 or July 1-13), a four-week session for campers entering 5th grade (June 16-July 13), a four-week session for campers entering 6th grade (July 16-Aug. 10), and an eightweek session for campers entering 7th-11th grades (June 16-Aug. 10). All meals are kosher and Shabbat is observed. Camp Young Judaea Midwest (224) 235-4665 www.cyjmid.org Located in Waupaca, Wisconsin, Camp Young Judaea Midwest has provided a Jewish camp experience for children in grades 2-9 for over 40 years. Our beautiful 80 acre lakefront property provides the opportunity to explore, take on new challenges and make friendships that last a lifetime. We offer a camp experience that grows with our campers; they get to experience our wide range of land and water activities including waterskiing, tubing and sailing, arts and crafts, rock climbing, biking, digital photography, overnight camping and more. Camp Young Judaea Midwest is one of five Young Judaea camps in the United States. CYJ Midwest has a community of campers from across the spectrum of Jewish background and belief. Campers come from over 15 states around the country to join our small community, only 130 campers per session. CYJ is a kosher, Shomer Shabbat facility. Habonim Dror Camp Tavor (312) 239-8425 www.camptavor.org Habonim Dror Camp Tavor, located in southwest Michigan on 69 acres of rolling hills, has created life-changing summers for Jewish children and teens from around the country for 58 years. We are an overnight, co-ed camp that fosters enduring friendships, life skills, and a connection to Israel in an exciting, dynamic, funfilled environment. Camp Tavor takes pride in providing a non-denominational Jewish overnight camp experience focused on leadership, social action, stewarding the environment, and connecting to Israel. We offer programs for boys and girls entering grades 3– 12. Session lengths range from 5days to 7-weeks. With a 4:1 camper-tocounselor ratio, a maximum of 200 campers per session, and activities that bridge the age gap, Camp Tavor’s community is nurturing and inclusive. Activities are individualized and aim to build self-confidence. Habonim Dror Camp Tavor’s emphasis on youth leadership is apparent in every aspect of camp. Programs are designed to encourage campers to take responsibility for the camp community and environment. Camp Tavor prides itself on being a youth-led community and giving children the tools to become leaders in the camp setting and beyond. Camp Tavor serves kosher meals, and much of the food grown is from the camp organic farm. In addition, we are peanut free and nut sensitive. We can also accommodate gluten free, vegetarian, and other special diets. New campers maybe eligible for up to $1,000 off of camp tuition. In addition, Camp Tavor offers needs based scholarships. JCC Camp Chi (847)763-3551 www.campchi.com JCC Camp Chi in Lake Delton, Wisconsin provides an extraordinary overnight camp experience and meaningful tradition for thousands of Jewish families. Chi staff helps campers build skills that boost self-esteem while enjoying innovative programming. Each day offers a new and exciting mix of age-appropriate activities, such as Jewish culture, art, music, sports, swimming, cookouts and games. Chi’s facilities are among the best in the country, with two heated pools, an indoor air-conditioned gym and recreation center, fine arts studio, equestrian center, private dock for water skiing and motorized water activities, low and high ropes course, 4-sided climbing wall tower, radio and video studio, lakefront activities, and water inflatables. Jewish tradition guides and enriches the JCC Camp Chi experience, and Shabbat is one the most favorite events at camp. Camp Chi serves campers 3rd grade-12th grade with a large variety of session options. It is ranked the #1 overnight camp in the Midwest for the third consecutive year by Sheknows.com, and #1 by makeitbetter.com 2014. JCYS Camp Henry Horner (847) 740-5010 www.jcys.org/CHH Located on 180 acres in In- gleside, Illinois, an hour north of Chicago, Camp Henry Horner offers an overnight camping experience for the most adventurous camper, but close enough to home for the comfort of mom and dad. With programs for campers in 3rd – 10th Grade, families can choose anywhere from one to six weeks of overnight experiences. With access to Lake Wooster and a heated outdoor pool, high ropes course and zip line, sports fields and archery, arts and crafts, dance and music, cooking and outdoor education, Camp Henry Horner packs in the fun. Our warm, friendly atmosphere encourages all campers to try new things and to expand their comfort zone in a safe environment. An overnight Camp Henry Horner experience will include weekly camping trips, clean and comfortable living spaces, evening programs with camp fires and community building activities, a counselor camper ratio of 1:7 and a close-knit community that will have #CHHamps wishing that all year was JCYS summer camp. Register by Dec. 31, at jcys.org/CHH and receive Early Bird & Multi-Sibling discounts. URJ Olin-Sang-Ruby Union Institute (847) 509-0990 www.osrui.org The Reform movement’s overnight camp in Wisconsin offers a unique environment for campers in grades 2 -12. OSRUI combines creative and innovative Jewish experiences with all the fun of summer camp. Sessions run from 5 days to 7 weeks and focus on specific areas of interest, including kibbutz living, the arts, Hebrew language, biking, adventure camping and more. Midreshet Torat Chessed – a unique seminary in Israel An exceptional partnership has created a unique option for girls heading to Israel after high school. Midreshed Torat Chessed, a project of Bet Elazraki Children’s Home, a world renowned Emunah children’s home for at risk children, offers its students the opportunity to combine serious Torah study with life altering chessed on a daily basis. After a morning of stimulating classes with expert educators, each student is assigned to a group of children with whom she will each afternoon throughout the year. Under the guidance and tutelage of trained social workers – with whom the students meet each week – t he girls greet these children every day after school, help them with homework , and share life’s ups and downs. As they serve as role models for the children, the seminary students learn lessons that will indelibly shape their own lives. MTC’s program is rounded out through exciting tiyulim and numerous shabbatonim in different communities across the country. As an added bonus, the students learn firsthand a bout life in Israel, as they work side by side with young Israeli girls their own age, who are fulfilling their own year of Sheirut Leumi, N ational Service, providing the students with an opportunity to learn firsthand from their Israeli peers about life in the State of Israel. As Rachel Russman of West Rogers Park, a Rachel Russman graduate of Ida Crown Jewish Academy, describes it, “the combination of learning and work with the children of Bet Elazraki was a truly life changing experience and I am able to look back on it as one of the greatest years of my life. There is no doubt that I would not be the person I am today without the lessons and experiences that MTC gave me. For more information about MTC, go to toratchessed.com, or contact us at midreshettorat chessed@gmail.com, or (856) 393-4749. Rabbi Yossi Goldin, Menahel of MTC, will be in Chicago on Nov. 11, and is available to meet with by appointment. Contact him at yossigoldin@gmail.com. 17 Chicago Jewish News - November 7 - 13, 2014 By Joseph Aaron CONTINUED F RO M PAG E CJN Classified 18 know that at one point, North V ietnamese prime minister Ho Chi Minh and David Ben-Gurion lived in the same Paris hotel. And that when Ben-Gurion explained to Ho that he was working to create a Jewish state, Ho generously offered that he could set up a Jewish government in exile in North Vietnam. David said no thanks, but he appreciated the gesture. Tell me we don’t have friends in the world and that everyone is out to get us. Even Ho wanted to help us out. But it’s not just Vietnam that’s got me upbeat these days about Jewish life. A few other developments have also brought a smile to my Jewish face. The first, as reported by the Jewish news service JTA, is that a former church will become Germany’s newest synagogue and the first in the state of Brandenburg since 1938. In ceremonies, Ulrike Menzel, who has led the Evangelical parish in Cottbus since 2009, handed a key for the Schlolsskirche, or “castle church,” to the Jewish Association of the State of Brandenburg. The actual dedication of the synagogue is planned for Holocaust Remembrance Day, Jan. 27. The ceremony took place almost 76 years after Kristallnacht, or the “Night of Broken Glass,” a Germany-wide pogrom in which Jewish property and synagogues – including the one in Cottbus – were destroyed. Cottbus traces the first mention of Jewish residents to 1448. Its first Jewish house of prayer was established in 1811 in the inner courtyard of a cloth maker. At the time, there were 17 Jews in Cottbus. In 1902, a larger synagogue was dedicated. Nazi hooligans set it afire on the night of Nov. 9-10, 1938. And now it will have a synagogue once again. Goo d Jewish news. The Jewish world today. And then, as reported by JTA, there is the fact that two ancient synagogues that Soviet authorities confiscated in rural Russia were rededicated as Jewish houses of worship. One rededication occurred in Voronezh, in southern Russia, at a 110-year-old synagogue that was nationalized and turned into a textile factory. The other rededication took place in the Black Sea c ity of Krasnodar. Two small Russian towns that now have places for Jews to pray. More good Jewish news from JTA. Jewels were returned to the descendant of a Jewish couple who had given them to neighbors for safekeeping before being deported by the Nazis. A Dutch historical society returned the jewels to Els Kok, a descendant of Benjamin Slager and Lena Slager-de Vries, at a ceremony in Winschoten, in the north of the Netherlands. The ceremony was held 72 years to the day that the Slagers were among 500 of the town’s Jews sent to the Westerbork concentration camp. Only 46 of the town’s Jews survived the Holocaust. Before they were marched to the local train station, the Slagers gave a box with the jewels to their next-door neighbors, the Schoenmakers. Women in the Schoenmaker family passed on the box from daughter to daughter with instructions to keep them for the Slagers. In 2013, the last keeper, Astrid Klappe, gave the box to the Old Winschoten Society, which tracked down Kok with the assistance of a local resident, Willem Hagenbeek. Kok received the box containing a few items including rings, a wrist watch and a locket. She was quoted as saying that she was deeply moved and “happy to have something tangible” by which to remember her relatives. And finally there is this. Syria’s official news agency, SANA, has launched a Hebrew-language website to reach Israeli readers. The website joins existing pages in Arabic, French, Russian, Turkish, Chinese and Spanish. Now, yes, I am aware Syria hates Israel and that this website is intended to spread anti-Israeli messages into Israel. I’m not saying Syria is a friend of ours or doing this for any nice reason. But I don’t care. It was not so long ago that the Arab world would not even say the word “Israel,” would talk only about the “Zionist entity” would not acknowledge anything about Israel at all. Now they’re running a website in Hebrew. That, my friends, is a very big and important change and one we should be happy about. No, it’s not where we want to be, but it’s a lot better than where we were. All of the above is. A German town that hasn’t had a shul since 1938 will now have one, thanks to a church. The hinterlands of Russia now have two restored synagogues. A Jewish family whose ancestors were sent to the death camps, has jewels back hidden for them by neighbors who safeguarded them for all these years. The Jewish world may be messing up with rabbis who like to be peeping Toms and prime ministers who so enrage the president of the United States his top aides refer to him as chickenbleep, but all over the world, the non-Jewish world is being very nice to us, recognizing us, accepting us, helping us, caring about us. A nice way to start the next 20 years of reporting on all things Jewish. CEMETERY LOTS FOR SALE 4 family plots in WESTLAWN CEMETERY Block 2, Section D Asking $12,000 total which includes transfer fees. Will sell in pairs of 2. Price negotiable. 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Some 60 volunteers came to the Waehringer Cemetery in Vienna, one of the city’s largest ancient Jewish burial sites, on Sunday morning as part of a grassroots initiative that began 10 years ago, bringing predominantly non-Jewish crowds to the cemetery every N ov. 2, or All Souls Day – a day on which many Christians tend to their relatives’ graves. “My parents are buried very far away, so I couldn’ t go there this year,” said one volunteer who last year visited the Waehringer Cemetery for the first time on a guided tour. “So I figured that instead of watching television, I’d tend to a grave that usually does not get attention.” Located north of the city’s center, the cemetery is closed to the public because of the thick vegetation that covers its corroded headstones, some of which have collapsed to form deep pits that make the area unsafe. Thousands of Jews were buried there between 1784 and 1880, when the cemetery became inactive. After the rise of Nazism in Germany and Austria, hundreds of graves were opened and their contents emptied by researchers studying race theories. The excavations caused major damage, according to the historian T ina Walzer, who has cataloged many of the gravestones. The Jewish community of Vienna, which owns the cemetery, “cannot be expected to use its limited resources for the dead at the expense of the living,” said Marco Schreuder, who began recruiting volunteers for the cleanup operations a decade ago when he was a city counselor for the Green Party. The community has only 7,500 members; it once was 200,000 strong. Despite its condition, “this cemetery is the final resting place of some of the founders of Vienna as we know it, people this city owes a lot to,” he added. Among the people buried there are members of the Epstein family of entrepreneurs, who helped build Vienna’s famed Ringerstrasse, and Heinrich Sichrowsky, who developed Austria’s railway system. 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The first was about the peeping rabbi, one Rabbi Barry Freundel of Washington, D.C., whose c ongregants include a lot of big t ime movers and shakers, including Secretary of the Treasury Jack Lew and former vice presidential candidate Joe Lieberman. Seems that Freundel had placed a clock radio with a hidden camera in the shower room of the mikvah used by the women of his shul. He would sit in his office or at home and watch video of them getting undressed, taking a shower, going into the mikvah. Beyond dis gusting, yes, but even more so because he was known in the nation’s capital as a champion of moral rectitude. And he was a peeper and a creeper. “He made a lot of comments that didn’t sit right for me about my appearance, about how attractive he thought I was, about whether guys were pursuing me, about my clothing,” one woman recalled. “I found it quite uncomfortable to be around him for long periods of time alone.” We have learned much more about the rabbi, such as the fact that he once took a train trip to Chicago and had one of his female congregants share a sleeping car with him, and how he would make candidates for conversion do clerical work for him, organize his files, open his mail, pay his bills, take dictation and respond to emails on his behalf. Forcing them to do menial work for him by holding his power to convert them over their heads. Also known as extortion. But to have a prominent rabbi secretly video hundreds of naked women over several years while they were in the sanctity of the mikvah is a new low even for rabbis. And we’ve seen quite a few lows in the world of rabbis recently. The former chief rabbi of Israel, for instance, is awaiting trial for taking bribes. Another rabbi, known as the ‘rabbi to the stars’ because he counsels many wealthy Israeli celebrities and businessmen, was found to have stolen millions from the charities he runs. A prominent Chasidic rabbi has been on the run going from country to country for years now to avoid being charged in Israel for forcing underage girls to have sex with him. I could go on with quite a list of other rabbis, but let’s just say every time we think we’ve seen the most disgusting thing any rabbi can do, along comes an even worse one. Such as one Barry Freundel, peeping rabbi. Meanwhile, we had the chickenbleep affair in which senior Obama administration officials told journalist Jeffrey Goldberg that they think Israeli Prime Minister N etanyahu is ‘chickens—-.’ That unleashed storms in both Washington and Jerusalem. Whatever you think about what was said, what it shows is just how bad the blood has become between the two countries, thanks to Bibi. And yes, I blame him, not Barack. I know Jews think Obama has been hard on Israel, but the facts simply do not support that. It was Obama who gave Israel Iron Dome, Obama who led the effort against Palestinian statehood at the UN, Obama who backed Israel during the Gaza War and on and on. Bibi, on the other hand, has gone out of his way to provoke, always issuing orders to build settlements in the mostly hotly contested areas just as he was about to meet Obama. It is Bibi who keeps saying he’s for peace but who has does nothing to bring it. And, oh by the way, Sweden just became the latest country to recognize Palestine. You can say it’s anti-Semitism all you want, but the reality is that the world is on to Bibi’s games, which, to coin a phrase, have been chickenbleep. In America, most Jews were on Bibi’s side in the Chickenbleepgate affair. But in Israel one cartoonist expressed his view with a cartoon showing Bibi piloting a plane heading for the W orld Trade Center. His point: Bibi has been attacking America for no reason. So peeping rabbis and chickenbleep prime ministers is how I’ve started my second 20 years as a journalist covering the Jewish world. But am I depressed? No. In fact, I’m in a very good mood. That’s because of Vietnam. Did you know Israel has diplomatic relations with Vietnam? Did you know it’s celebrating the 20th anniversary of those relations? Did you know it’s celebrating by the Israeli Embassy putting on an Israeli Film Festival in Hanoi? Yes, an Israeli Film Festival in Hanoi. T ell me this isn’t a great time to be Jewish. By the way, speaking of Vietnam, a little history note. Did you SEE BY JOSEPH AARON ON PAG E 1 7 Chicago Jewish News - November 7 - 13, 2014 Jerusalem CONTINUED F RO M PAG E 3 “Well then,” Kennedy said. “I’m not sure why that Congress passed it then.” Like Bush before him, Obama maintains that changing the wording on passports would damage the American role as a peace broker in the Middle East by favoring an Israeli claim to Jerusalem. Since Israel declared independence in 1948, the United States has maintained that no country has sovereignty over Jerusalem and that the city’s status must be determined by negotiations. A win for the Obama administration would inhibit Congress’ ability to affect foreign policy, said Marc Stern, the general counsel for the American Jewish Committee, which filed an amicus brief on behalf of Zivotofsky. Such an outcome could have an immediate impact by, for example, limiting congressional ability to restrict the dimensions of a nuclear deal with Iran, Stern said. “It won’t be just a decision on presidential power around the world, it will also be understood as undercutting Israeli claims to Jerusalem,” Stern said. “In the real world it will have impact and we’ll have to figure out what to say at that point. What does that mean for what the administration says about a final settlement, and is west Jerusalem up for grabs?” Lewin said she was not concerned that a decision, even one that goes against her client, would have such broad ramifications. The current court has been known for narrowly casting its decisions and avoiding far-reaching constitutional conclusions. “I don’t see this court writing an opinion giving the executive branch such broad power in foreign policy that it cuts out Congress from that role,” said Lewin, the daughter of seasoned Supreme Court lawyer N at Lewin. Lewin did acknowledge, however, that the ruling could have far-reaching import for Jews and their attachment to Jerusalem. “Getting this practice changed is very important psychologically, regardless of separation of powers,” she said. “And this case has raised awareness. 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