January 2015 - Toms River Elks #1875

 CHARITY 
 JUSTICE 
– PRACTICE THE PRINCIPLES –
OF OUR ORDER
NEWS OF THE LODGE
ISSUE 10
60
JANUARY 2015
VOLUME LXI
A FRATERNAL ORGANIZATION  CELEBRATING 60 YEARS OF ELKDOM
ADDRESS SERVICE REQUESTED
JANUARY & FEBRUARY DINNER MENU
Reservations Are Recommended, call 732-349-9660 x202
Reservations Required by Wednesday to guarantee ANY item.
January 9
th
January 23
rd
Roasted Prime Rib . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16.00
Wiener Schnitzel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14.00
Founder Stuffed w/Crabmeat . . . . . . . 13.00
Fish & Chips . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9.00
Roasted Prime Rib . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16.00
Shrimp Parmesan . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14.00
Smoked Pork Chop . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13.00
Shrimp in a Basket . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9.00
February 6th
February 20th
Roasted Prime Rib . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16.00
Broiled Salmon . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13.00
Stuffed Cabbage . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12.00
Fish & Chips . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9.00
Roasted Prime Rib . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16.00
Braised Pork Shank . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14.00
Grilled Tuna Steak . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14.00
Fish & Chips . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9.00
All dinners served with salad, fresh rolls, dessert & coffee or tea. Soup, appetizers, and dessert specials available.
Exalted Ruler’s Message
Happy New Year to
everyone. It is hard to
believe that 2015 is here!!
It does not seem that long
ago that we all worried
about
our
computers
crashing on the eve of the
millennium. On well, we
made it through that and
we will make it through
this “winter thing” that
happens every year about
this time. (I’m kidding,
its Winter!) January is my
birth month and you would
think I would like it but I
don’t.
This time of year is a busy time for Elks Lodges. In
the month of February, we will have nominations
for officers at the first meeting and elections at the
second meeting. It is an exciting time for new folks
to get involved with their lodge. To breathe new life
into the governing of each individual lodge. March
will be our installation of the newly elected officers
and come April 1, the new lodge year begins . There,
you see, we made it through winter!
nearby, but are still members who care and share,
that it makes it impossible to exclude you from the
process as well. It is for this reason that my choice
for Elk of the Month is “You”. All of you! We are at
over 1000 members strong, and each and everyone
of you count. So wherever this newsletter finds you,
whatever your lot in life may be at this point, I say
“Thank You”.
You are all true and loyal members among us and
now you are officially an Elk of the Month!!
Keep in mind also; at the stroke of eleven, wherever
you are, when that hour falls upon the dial of night,
it is the Golden Hour of Recollection and you are
remembered! Yes, each and every one of you.
In closing, I would like to urge everyone to count
their blessings from this past year. To keep a smile
on their face and to be encouraged for the new
upcoming year. I ask Gods Blessing on each and
every one of you and Thank you all for giving me a
great 2014!!
See you around the Lodge,
Jeffrey Secord
Exalted Ruler
Toms River Elks Lodge #1875
I usually reserve this for the end of my message but
I am changing things up a bit. I have given a lot of
thought to Januarys Elk of the Month. There are so
many people to choose from, so many that work hard
day after day and input so much creative juice to the
process. But there are also so many of you that either
can’t get here for one reason or another or don’t live
U N I T Y
VETERAN’S
COMMITTEE
Our Veterans Committee did an outstanding job bringing Holiday Cheer to our hospitalized Veterans, we visited 4 different
facilities, Arbors Care Center (seen here)
Holiday Care Center, Arista Care Center
and Bey Lea Care Center. Pizza Parties, Bingo games and gifts distributed by Santa and
Mrs Claus were handed out to over 65 Vets,
some of the Vets can be seen wearing their
gifts, Elks hats. Santa (Gene Iannotta, Mrs
Claus (Pat Nelson) and the Christmas Elf, (
Marge Ianotta), did an outstanding job, and
one resident was so thrilled to see Santa,
that she hugged him under the Christmas
Tree. As always, an outstanding job by our
Veterans Committee, bringing joy to our
hospitalized Vets, we will NEVER forget
them and thank them for their service.
Sue Gajewski
Veterans Committee Chair.
NJBBA Pete D’Alessio
Memorial Fishing Flea Market
Toms River Elks Lodge #1875
Saturday January 24, 2015
8:00am to 1:00pm
Adults $3:00 Children 12 and under are free
• Show offers a wide variety of fishing tackle
and equipment.
• New, used, antique & custom fishing &
boating items at reasonable prices.
• The latest in Rods, reels, lures, boating and
nautical items.
• Custom plugs.
• 50 Vendors and 117 tables.
• If you can’t find it here it hasn’t been made.
• Door Prizes.
• Food & beverages available.
This show promises not to disappoint
For further information and directions
E-mail basshawg@njbba.org
NJBBA web site www.NJBBA.org
FROM THE SECRETARY
I hope everyone had a peaceful holiday. Happy
New Year to all. The lodge has been busy over the
Christmas weeks. The Festival of Trees event was a
nice touch this year and the Christmas trees all over
the lodge were the best decorations ever!
THE LODGE THANKS ALL OF
OUR BULLETIN BOOSTERS
ONLY $10.00 PER YEAR
BOOSTER FORMS IN LOBBY
PLEASE NOTE EXPIRATION DATE BY YOUR NAME
Hard to imagine that soon we will be nominating
the 2015-16 officers in February. Dues statements
will also be going out. Remember to pay your dues
BEFORE March 31st. The official beginning of our
new year is April 1st.
Current Boosters
American Maintenance Service - 1/2015
Muth, Herbert – 03/2015
Baker, Bud & Nancy – 2/2015
Nadeau, René & Marian - 2/2015
Bradley SGT MAJ USMC RET., Daniel –
4/2017
Nelson, Pat
Brummer, John PER & Shirley - 12/2015
Payne, Dolores – 06/2020
Buonviri, Carl & Rose – 5/2019
There will be a Blood Drive here at the Lodge on
February 15th, yes, the day after Valentines. Please
register to donate so we can help those in need. If
anyone has known someone with a blood disease,
they can tell you how important it can be. See my ad
in this issue.
Carpenter, Kay & Howard “Duke”, PER 10/2014
Carsten, Bill - 1/2017
Darrow, Evan & Sue – 6/2016
Davidson, Rich & Joanne - 7/2015
D’Alessio, Pete & Joan - 2/2017
DeMey, Dennis & Kathy – 3/2016
Donatiello, Don & Irene – 3/2015
Propositions
Dowling, John – 4/2015
New Members
Fitzpatrick, Tom & Kathy - 9/2015
Mark Joseph Carbonoro proposed by Danielle
Bartoshek
Peter Crawford proposed by Eileen Coyne
Mary Duggan proposed by Michael D. Paris
Steve Greene proposed by Christine Wilbert
Susan Rene’ MacBean proposed by Annie Crawford
Caroleanne McIntyre proposed by Danielle Bartoshek
John Ryan proposed by James Ryan
Hecht, Jean R - 8/2015
Hinkle, Dr. Brad - 5/2115
John and Sally – 9/2015
Kadlac, John & Midge - 1/2015
Kulik, George & Holly – 5/2015
Ostojich, Nancy & Vinnie – 4/2015
In Loving Memory of Bill Payne, PER
Philp, Sue & Paul – 12/2017
Piccoli, Vinnie & Nancy – 5/2015
Piccione, PER Nick & Joan – 10/2015
Presto Graphics 7/2019
Rose and Ray – 7/2016
Scalamoni, Peter Life Member – 9/2015
Spiecker, Daryl & April – 4/2016
Sprague, Clint PER, PS Tiler, PVP
PS Sgt at Arms, PDDGER,
Past Elk of the Year – 9/2015
Sunsback, Kathleen – 11/2017
In Loving Memory of George Blosser, PER
Tarnowski, Len PST, PVP, PDD & Lillian –
9/2015
Taylor, Don & Joan – 1/2017
Latshaw, Raymond J & Eleanor J – 1/2015 VanHouten, Toni – 2/2015
Lang, Steve & Tamara - 7/2015
Wagner, Roy, PER, PVP, PDD & Marlene
Leach, PER Parker, Jr & Agnes - 09/2014
In Loving Memory of Bill Lepley
LeRoy, Bill & Mary - 10/2017
-8/2016
Williamson, Florence - 3/2015
Zorojew, Tamerlan – 2/2016
Lewis, PER Richard & Catherine - 3/2015
Dimits in
Lightbody, Norvella (Pug) & Roden –
6/2015
Diane Langford from Brick Lodge #2151
Scott MacBean from Calabash Lodge #2679
Arthur Pompei from Springfield/Hillside Lodge
#2004
Donna M. Ryan from Springfield /Hillside Lodge
#2004
Lawrence Sutton Jr from Lacey Lodge #3880
In Loving Memory of Mary Ellen Gloff
Lightbody, Norvella (Pug) & Roden –
1/2015
MacIntire, Jeanette – 5/2015
In Loving Memory of Jerry MacIntire, PER
McDonald, Gail - 11/2014
McHugh, Phyllis - 8/2015
In Loving Memory of Ronald McDonald
Miller, Raymond & Laurinda – 10/2015
Morton, Brian & Betty 12/2015
Morton, Dennis – 02/2015
EXPIRED Boosters
We are sure it is an oversight, however,
there is a 60-Day grace period, after that
your listing will be removed. Thank you.
Hannah, Nancy & Secord, Jeff 8/2014
Torano, Thomas W. – 8/2014
Grandinetti, Joe & Becky 7/2014
Bolen, In Loving Memory of Larry- 1/2014
Cannella, Alex M - 4/2014
Ciavarella, Philip – 4/2014
Densmore, Wayne & Nancy - 4/2014
Masterson, Bill & PER Jackie - 10/2013
Schicker, Kevin & Lynne - 10/2013
We have room, so sign up now.
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BREAKFAST WITH
SANTA
The Coyne Slot
Mr. Jacobs, the biology instructor at a posh suburban girl’s junior
college, said during class, “Miss Arnold, would you please name the
organ of the human body, which under the appropriate conditions,
expands to six times its normal size, and define the conditions.”
Miss Arnold gasped, then said freezingly, “Mr. Jacobs, I don’t think
that is a proper question to ask me. I assure you my parents will hear
of this.” With that she sat down red-faced. Unperturbed, Mr. Jacobs
called on Miss Jones and asked the same question. Miss Jones, with
composure, replied, “The pupil of the eye, in dim light.” “Correct,”
said Mr. Jacobs. “And now, Miss Arnold, I have three things to say
to you. One, you have not studied your lesson. Two, you have a
dirty mind. And three, you will someday be faced with a dreadful
disappointment.”
On Dec 13th, Bruce and his helpers prepared and served
a delicious breakfast with all the fixings to over 200
children and adults. Josh was the best DJ who played
numerous songs for the children to sing and dance to, and
that they sure did. Roden was the greatest Santa as usual
singing songs along with the children. Pug was a grand
Mrs Santa Claus who read stories to the children sitting
around on the floor, listening attentively. The children
enjoyed themselves. Santa arrived and started handing
out gifts as Dennis De Mey called out their names. Santa
and Mrs Claus posed for photos with the children, while
their parents took pictures. Thank you Special Childrens
Committee headed by Kathy De May and Charlene Dolan
who did a fantastic job organizing the affair. Thanks also
to all the volunteers who helped behind the scene.
Always love a woman for her personality. She has ten you can choose
from.
I hate girls that complain about being
single every 3 minutes. 90% of my socks
are single & you don’t see them crying
about it.
Submitted by
Joe Tredo
I named my dog “5 miles” so I can tell
people I walk 5 miles every day.
Just changed my Facebook name to ‘No
one’ so when I see stupid posts I can click
like and it will say ‘No one likes this’
How can you tell which bottle has the
PMS medicine? It’s the one with the
teeth marks.
A little boy examines his privates while in
the bath. “Mommy, are these my brains?
His mother says “Not yet”.
How do you get a sweet little 80-yearold lady to say the F... word? Get another
sweet little 80-year-old lady to yell
*BINGO*!
Tech Support: “Do you have any windows
open right now?” Customer: “Are you
crazy , it’s twenty below outside!”.
A duck was about to cross the road, when
out of nowhere a chicken came running &
said no don’t do it! You’ll never hear the
frickin end of it.
Toms River Elks
American Red Cross Blood Drive
“I like to stand near ATM machines,
and when somebody types in their pin
number, I go, ‘Got it’ And then I run
away” ...
Sunday February 15th
9 AM to 2PM
What is the difference between a dog
& a cat? A dog will drop everything &
come when you call. A cat will check its
schedule, and try to fit you in.
600 Washington Street go to www.redcrossblood.org use Sponsor code: TomsRiverElks
One out of four people are insane. Look
at three of your friends. If it’s not them,
it’s you.
Or email secretarytrelks@verizon.net
732/275/5298 Nancy Hannah Please bring picture identification and remember to eat a healthy
meal and drink extra water before donating!
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Silence is golden, and duct tape is the
most effective way to get it..
Today is the first day of the rest of your
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life. But so was yesterday, and look how you messed that up.
A guy shows up late for work. The boss yells, “You should have
been here at 8:30!” The guy replies, “Why? What happened at
8:30?”
The invisible man marries the invisible woman. The kids were
nothing to look at either.
A penguin walks into a bar, goes to the counter, & asks “Have you
seen my brother?” bartender asks, “I don’t know, What does he
look like?
Why do old men take viagra? So they don’t roll out of bed.
DON’T FORGET TO ATTEND OUR ANNUAL COMEDY SHOW
AT THE LODGE FOR SOME REAL FUNNY STUFF!
Elks National Foundation
PRESENTS:
12 TH ANNUAL CHARITY COMEDY
NIGHT
JANUARY 9, 2015
DOORS OPEN 7PM, SHOW STARTS 8PM
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Start the New Year
with laughter!
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This year we have 3 new,
hilarious, nationally
known comedians !
Bring your own table food and enjoy the
evening with friends.
Tickets are $25.00 each, but if you put together
a table of 10 people it is just $200.00!
Tickets and reservation forms are at the main bar.
We'll have a cash bar and a 50/50 raffle
and the proceeds will benefit the
Elks National Foundation.
This is one show you don't want to miss!
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Beef Stew
Food 6 – 8PM
Music 7 – 11PM
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House Meeting
7:30pm
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Darts
7PM
21
18
Darts
7PM
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Lodge Meeting
7:30PM
23
24
Friday Night Dinner
6PM
20
Bingo 7PM
Veterans Meeting
7:30PM
Darts
7PM
14
Bingo 7PM
22
Beef n Brew
Fun Friday Night
Chicken Pot Pie
Food 6 – 8PM
Music 7 – 11PM
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16
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13
12
Lodge Meeting
7:30PM
Bingo 7PM
Bd of Directors
7PM
Charity Comedy
Show
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Friday Night Dinner
6PM
10
Darts
7PM
Fun Friday Night
House Made Pizza
Food 6 – 8PM
PER’s Meeting
7:30PM
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6
5
Tue
Mon
Sun
Editor’s Bday
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Wed
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Thu
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Fri
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CALENDAR
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JANUARY
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Blood Drive
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Lodge Meeting
7:30PM
Fun Friday Night
Chili Cook off
Food 6 – 8PM
Square Dancing
Veterans Meeting
7:30PM
Bingo 7PM
27
28
Friday Night Dinner
6PM
Bingo 7PM
21
16
House Meeting
7:30pm
26
20
19
18
Special Valentines
Friday Night Dinner
w/DJ Josh
6PM
Lodge Meeting
7:30PM
Bingo 7PM
BOD Officers 7PM
15
25
14
Casino Night
To Benefit
Pug & Roden
Lightbody
13
10
Bingo 7PM
Super Bowl Party
12
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PER’s Meeting
7:30PM
6
5
4
3
2
11
8
Fun Friday Night
French Dip
Food 6 – 8PM
Music 7 – 11PM
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Fri
Thu
Wed
Tue
Mon
Sun
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2015
CALENDAR
~ February OF
2015 ~EVENTS
FEBRUARY
LODGE ACTIVITIES
“Happy New Year” I can’t believe it’s 2015 already. Time to
get to work. Our Giant Gift Auction is coming up soon. Please
help Nancy Hannah and Phyllis McHugh to gather up all the
donations of gifts. The Lodge Activity Committee will be work-
HOUSE NEWS
ELKS NATIONAL
FOUNDATION
Dear Lodge Members,
ANNUAL SPORTS BANQUET MARK YOUR CALENDAR FOR SATURDAY, MARCH 21, 2015 @ 6:30 P.M. Eileen
ing hard the next few months.
As I write, tonight is the “Festival of Trees” that has been
going on since December 5th. We have 20 non-profit agencies
Please read about all the activities coming up in the next two
that are participating. Since December 8th we have been
months. If you can’t help out, participate and have some fun.
open to the public for them to come in a view the beautifully
Lodge Activities meeting is the first Thursday of the month.
decorated trees and vote for their favorites. I know one tree
has a donation of $25,000 (yes $25,000). I want to thank
Sue Darrow
the Lodge Members at our last Lodge meeting for passing the
prizes for the 1st, 2nd and 3rd place donations for the top 3
non-profits, that raised the most money.
I would like to take this time to thank Dennis Demey for his
dedicated and loyal service to the lodge. As you all may know
I want to Thank Everyone that purchased and/or sold 50/50
Dennis has stepped down from House Chairmen, He wants to
tickets. As of now I think we have less than 50 tickets (out of
concentrate on his rehabilitation from his knee replacement. We
500) to be sold! What a great job done by Nancy Baker and
wish him all the success and our prayers are with him. I will do the
Karen Thomas for excellent leadership.
best I can to continue in a manner that will make the lodge a FUN
AND HAPPY PLACE TO COME TO.
There are so many to thank for the work well done; Tommy,
I am asking for everyone’s patience while I am transitioning
Matt, Mike and Ron for keeping the place clean each day! ER
into the House Chairman’s role. I have a lot to learn but as with
Jeff for making the voting boxes and supporting our idea,
catering I am up for the challenge. I wish everyone a Prosperous
Secretary Nancy for counting so much money and helping me,
and Happy New Year. The Months ahead will have some really
The House Bruce and Dennis (etal) for being so flexible, PER
cool events. And I look forward for all our members to have a really
George for putting up with my stress and all his help (Love you
good time at the lodge.
Honey), PER Kenny for his piano playing, Sally for donating
Thank You All
the piano for our use, Sieggy & Casey for getting the piano
Bruce Baita House/Catering Chairman.
here, Cindi for the design ideas, Kathy, PER Jackie, Becky,
Karen, Kate Coyne, Nancy Novack for doing the decorations,
January 19th Harassment training conducted Mr. Dennis Demey
Trace Baxter and Thomas Stephens for the advertising and
at 7pm
the beautiful program, Kathy Jaworski, Shirley Emmons,
January 20th House meeting 7:30pm
Willow Damato, Rich Miller, Katie
January 29th Life Line
Yates for the endless jumping
Screening
in anywhere I needed them, Sue
January 30th Fun Friday
with DJ Lori.
Darrow for making sure all we do
February 1st Super bowl
ATTENTION ALL HORSESHOE ,DART & is legal.
Party
Shuffleboard P
LAYERS, S
UBS A
ND February 6th French Dip
Please put January 9th on your
SIGNIFICANT OTHERS: Night
calendar for the Annual ENF
Friday 9th Charity
Comedy Show. Tickets are $25/
comedy night.
piece or reserve and pay for a table
February 13th Special
Valentines Dinner with
of 10 for $200. Call George 732DJ Josh
506-9365 for your tickets.
February 15th Blood
Drive
The Southeast District ENF is
February 17th House
selling 50/50s for a wheel barrel
Meeting All are
PLEASE RSVP TO THE FOLLOWING ON OR BEFORE of Booz. If you’re interested in
Welcome
3/14/2015: buying 1 ($5 each) please call me
February 20th Chili Cook
at home 732-506-9365.
off and Square Dancing
Horseshoes -­‐ Denny Nowitzke 908-­‐915-­‐8993 February 21st Home
Town Heroe’s Casino
My best wishes for a Happy & Very
Darts-­‐Shuffleboard S
cott G
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32-­‐814-­‐8000 Night To Benefit Pug &
Healthy New Year fellow Elks!
Roden Lightbody
If you participate in any of the above please try and attend. THANKS!!!!!! 7
As I write, tonight is the “Festival of Trees” that has been
going on since December 5th. We have 20 non-profit agencies
that are participating. Since December 8th we have been
open to the public for them to come in a view the beautifully
decorated trees and vote for their favorites. I know one tree
has a donation of $25,000 (yes $25,000). I want to thank
the Lodge Members at our last Lodge meeting for passing the
prizes for the 1st, 2nd and 3rd place donations for the top 3
non-profits, that raised the most money.
Lodge Activities meeting is the first Thursday of the month.
Sue Darrow
I want to Thank Everyone that purchased and/or sold 50/50
tickets. As of now I think we have less than 50 tickets (out of
500) to be sold! What a great job done by Nancy Baker and
Karen Thomas for excellent leadership.
There are so many to thank for the work well done; Tommy,
Matt, Mike and Ron for keeping the place clean each day! ER
Jeff for making the voting boxes and supporting our idea,
Secretary Nancy for counting so much money and helping me,
The House Bruce and Dennis (etal) for being so flexible, PER
George for putting up with my stress and all his help (Love you
Honey), PER Kenny for his piano playing, Sally for donating
Thank You All
the piano for our use, Sieggy & Casey for getting the piano
Bruce Baita House/Catering Chairman.
here, Cindi for the design ideas, Kathy, PER Jackie, Becky,
Karen, Kate Coyne, Nancy Novack for doing the decorations,
January 19th Harassment training conducted Mr. Dennis Demey
Trace Baxter and Thomas Stephens for the advertising and
at 7pm
the beautiful program, Kathy Jaworski, Shirley Emmons,
January 20th House meeting 7:30pm
Willow Damato, Rich Miller, Katie
January 29th Life Line
Yates for the endless jumping
Screening
in anywhere I needed them, Sue
January 30th Fun Friday
with DJ Lori.
Darrow for making sure all we do
February 1st Super bowl
ATTENTION ALL HORSESHOE ,DART & is legal.
Party
Shuffleboard PLAYERS, SUBS AND February 6th French Dip
Please put January 9th on your
SIGNIFICANT OTHERS: Night
calendar for the Annual ENF
Friday 9th Charity
Comedy Show. Tickets are $25/
comedy night.
piece or reserve and pay for a table
February 13th Special
Valentines Dinner with
of 10 for $200. Call George 732DJ Josh
506-9365 for your tickets.
February 15th Blood
Drive
The Southeast District ENF is
February 17th House
selling 50/50s for a wheel barrel
Meeting All are
PLEASE RSVP TO THE FOLLOWING ON OR BEFORE of Booz. If you’re interested in
Welcome
3/14/2015: buying 1 ($5 each) please call me
February 20th Chili Cook
at home 732-506-9365.
off and Square Dancing
Horseshoes -­‐ Denny Nowitzke 908-­‐915-­‐8993 February 21st Home
Town Heroe’s Casino
Darts-­‐Shuffleboard Scott Golembeski 732-­‐814-­‐8000 My best wishes for a Happy & Very
Night To Benefit Pug &
Healthy New Year fellow Elks!
Roden Lightbody
If you participate in any of the above please try and I am asking for everyone’s patience while I am transitioning
into the House Chairman’s role. I have a lot to learn but as with
catering I am up for the challenge. I wish everyone a Prosperous
and Happy New Year. The Months ahead will have some really
cool events. And I look forward for all our members to have a really
good time at the lodge.
ANNUAL SPORTS BANQUET MARK YOUR CALENDAR FOR SATURDAY, MARCH 21, 2015 @ 6:30 P.M. attend. THANKS!!!!!! Eileen
Notes:
HOUSE NEWS
I would like to take this time to thank Dennis Demey for his
dedicated and loyal service to the lodge. As you all may know
Dennis has stepped down from House Chairmen, He wants to
concentrate on his rehabilitation from his knee replacement. We
wish him all the success and our prayers are with him. I will do the
best I can to continue in a manner that will make the lodge a FUN
AND HAPPY PLACE TO COME TO.
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Blood Drive
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Super Bowl Party
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Dear Lodge Members,
Please read about all the activities coming up in the next two
months. If you can’t help out, participate and have some fun.
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Lodge Meeting
7:30PM
Bingo 7PM
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House Meeting
7:30pm
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Veterans Meeting
7:30PM
Bingo 7PM
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Friday Night Dinner
6PM
Casino Night
To Benefit
Pug & Roden
Lightbody
Fun Friday Night
Chili Cook off
Food 6 – 8PM
Square Dancing
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Lodge Meeting
7:30PM
BOD Officers 7PM
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Special Valentines
Friday Night Dinner
w/DJ Josh
6PM
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Bingo 7PM
Bingo 7PM
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ELKS NATIONAL
FOUNDATION
“Happy New Year” I can’t believe it’s 2015 already. Time to
get to work. Our Giant Gift Auction is coming up soon. Please
help Nancy Hannah and Phyllis McHugh to gather up all the
donations of gifts. The Lodge Activity Committee will be working hard the next few months.
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Fun Friday Night
French Dip
Food 6 – 8PM
Music 7 – 11PM
PER’s Meeting
7:30PM
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2015 ~EVENTS
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2015
LODGE ACTIVITIES
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“Let our Family serve your Family
Traditional Funerals
Cremations and Memorials
Michael J. DeFonzo, Manager NJ Lic. #4075
Lawrence G. Bolen, Founder 1980
*Joyce L. Bolen, Owner
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Darts
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Darts
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House Meeting
7:30pm
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Bingo 7PM
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Lodge Meeting
7:30PM
Bingo 7PM
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Veterans Meeting
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Friday Night Dinner
6PM
Beef n Brew
Fun Friday Night
Chicken Pot Pie
Food 6 – 8PM
Music 7 – 11PM
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Lodge Meeting
7:30PM
Bingo 7PM
Charity Comedy
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May God Grant
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Editor’s Bday
35. FOOD AND OPEN BAR
DURING GAME
Fun Friday Night
House Made Pizza
Food 6 – 8PM
“Their Faults Will Be Written
On The Sand
And Their Virtues On The Tablets
Of Love And Memory”
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Brune Schlueter
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Jill Nowitzke
Fri
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passing of our members…
2015
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LODGE OF SORROW
BREAKFAST WITH
SANTA
The Coyne Slot
Mr. Jacobs, the biology instructor at a posh suburban girl’s junior
college, said during class, “Miss Arnold, would you please name the
organ of the human body, which under the appropriate conditions,
expands to six times its normal size, and define the conditions.”
Miss Arnold gasped, then said freezingly, “Mr. Jacobs, I don’t think
that is a proper question to ask me. I assure you my parents will hear
of this.” With that she sat down red-faced. Unperturbed, Mr. Jacobs
called on Miss Jones and asked the same question. Miss Jones, with
composure, replied, “The pupil of the eye, in dim light.” “Correct,”
said Mr. Jacobs. “And now, Miss Arnold, I have three things to say
to you. One, you have not studied your lesson. Two, you have a
dirty mind. And three, you will someday be faced with a dreadful
disappointment.”
On Dec 13th, Bruce and his helpers prepared and served
a delicious breakfast with all the fixings to over 200
children and adults. Josh was the best DJ who played
numerous songs for the children to sing and dance to, and
that they sure did. Roden was the greatest Santa as usual
singing songs along with the children. Pug was a grand
Mrs Santa Claus who read stories to the children sitting
around on the floor, listening attentively. The children
enjoyed themselves. Santa arrived and started handing
out gifts as Dennis De Mey called out their names. Santa
and Mrs Claus posed for photos with the children, while
their parents took pictures. Thank you Special Childrens
Committee headed by Kathy De May and Charlene Dolan
who did a fantastic job organizing the affair. Thanks also
to all the volunteers who helped behind the scene.
Always love a woman for her personality. She has ten you can choose
from.
I hate girls that complain about being
single every 3 minutes. 90% of my socks
are single & you don’t see them crying
about it.
Submitted by
Joe Tredo
I named my dog “5 miles” so I can tell
people I walk 5 miles every day.
Just changed my Facebook name to ‘No
one’ so when I see stupid posts I can click
like and it will say ‘No one likes this’
How can you tell which bottle has the
PMS medicine? It’s the one with the
teeth marks.
A little boy examines his privates while in
the bath. “Mommy, are these my brains?
His mother says “Not yet”.
How do you get a sweet little 80-yearold lady to say the F... word? Get another
sweet little 80-year-old lady to yell
*BINGO*!
Tech Support: “Do you have any windows
open right now?” Customer: “Are you
crazy , it’s twenty below outside!”.
A duck was about to cross the road, when
out of nowhere a chicken came running &
said no don’t do it! You’ll never hear the
frickin end of it.
Toms River Elks
American Red Cross Blood Drive
“I like to stand near ATM machines,
and when somebody types in their pin
number, I go, ‘Got it’ And then I run
away” ...
Sunday February 15th
9 AM to 2PM
What is the difference between a dog
& a cat? A dog will drop everything &
come when you call. A cat will check its
schedule, and try to fit you in.
600 Washington Street go to www.redcrossblood.org use Sponsor code: TomsRiverElks
One out of four people are insane. Look
at three of your friends. If it’s not them,
it’s you.
Or email secretarytrelks@verizon.net
732/275/5298 Nancy Hannah Please bring picture identification and remember to eat a healthy
meal and drink extra water before donating!
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Silence is golden, and duct tape is the
most effective way to get it..
Today is the first day of the rest of your
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life. But so was yesterday, and look how you messed that up.
A guy shows up late for work. The boss yells, “You should have
been here at 8:30!” The guy replies, “Why? What happened at
8:30?”
The invisible man marries the invisible woman. The kids were
nothing to look at either.
A penguin walks into a bar, goes to the counter, & asks “Have you
seen my brother?” bartender asks, “I don’t know, What does he
look like?
Why do old men take viagra? So they don’t roll out of bed.
DON’T FORGET TO ATTEND OUR ANNUAL COMEDY SHOW
AT THE LODGE FOR SOME REAL FUNNY STUFF!
Elks National Foundation
PRESENTS:
12 TH ANNUAL CHARITY COMEDY
NIGHT
JANUARY 9, 2015
DOORS OPEN 7PM, SHOW STARTS 8PM
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Start the New Year
with laughter!
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This year we have 3 new,
hilarious, nationally
known comedians !
Bring your own table food and enjoy the
evening with friends.
Tickets are $25.00 each, but if you put together
a table of 10 people it is just $200.00!
Tickets and reservation forms are at the main bar.
We'll have a cash bar and a 50/50 raffle
and the proceeds will benefit the
Elks National Foundation.
This is one show you don't want to miss!
VETERAN’S
COMMITTEE
Our Veterans Committee did an outstanding job bringing Holiday Cheer to our hospitalized Veterans, we visited 4 different
facilities, Arbors Care Center (seen here)
Holiday Care Center, Arista Care Center
and Bey Lea Care Center. Pizza Parties, Bingo games and gifts distributed by Santa and
Mrs Claus were handed out to over 65 Vets,
some of the Vets can be seen wearing their
gifts, Elks hats. Santa (Gene Iannotta, Mrs
Claus (Pat Nelson) and the Christmas Elf, (
Marge Ianotta), did an outstanding job, and
one resident was so thrilled to see Santa,
that she hugged him under the Christmas
Tree. As always, an outstanding job by our
Veterans Committee, bringing joy to our
hospitalized Vets, we will NEVER forget
them and thank them for their service.
Sue Gajewski
Veterans Committee Chair.
NJBBA Pete D’Alessio
Memorial Fishing Flea Market
Toms River Elks Lodge #1875
Saturday January 24, 2015
8:00am to 1:00pm
Adults $3:00 Children 12 and under are free
• Show offers a wide variety of fishing tackle
and equipment.
• New, used, antique & custom fishing &
boating items at reasonable prices.
• The latest in Rods, reels, lures, boating and
nautical items.
• Custom plugs.
• 50 Vendors and 117 tables.
• If you can’t find it here it hasn’t been made.
• Door Prizes.
• Food & beverages available.
This show promises not to disappoint
For further information and directions
E-mail basshawg@njbba.org
NJBBA web site www.NJBBA.org
FROM THE SECRETARY
I hope everyone had a peaceful holiday. Happy
New Year to all. The lodge has been busy over the
Christmas weeks. The Festival of Trees event was a
nice touch this year and the Christmas trees all over
the lodge were the best decorations ever!
THE LODGE THANKS ALL OF
OUR BULLETIN BOOSTERS
ONLY $10.00 PER YEAR
BOOSTER FORMS IN LOBBY
PLEASE NOTE EXPIRATION DATE BY YOUR NAME
Hard to imagine that soon we will be nominating
the 2015-16 officers in February. Dues statements
will also be going out. Remember to pay your dues
BEFORE March 31st. The official beginning of our
new year is April 1st.
Current Boosters
American Maintenance Service - 1/2015
Muth, Herbert – 03/2015
Baker, Bud & Nancy – 2/2015
Nadeau, René & Marian - 2/2015
Bradley SGT MAJ USMC RET., Daniel –
4/2017
Nelson, Pat
Brummer, John PER & Shirley - 12/2015
Payne, Dolores – 06/2020
Buonviri, Carl & Rose – 5/2019
There will be a Blood Drive here at the Lodge on
February 15th, yes, the day after Valentines. Please
register to donate so we can help those in need. If
anyone has known someone with a blood disease,
they can tell you how important it can be. See my ad
in this issue.
Carpenter, Kay & Howard “Duke”, PER 10/2014
Carsten, Bill - 1/2017
Darrow, Evan & Sue – 6/2016
Davidson, Rich & Joanne - 7/2015
D’Alessio, Pete & Joan - 2/2017
DeMey, Dennis & Kathy – 3/2016
Donatiello, Don & Irene – 3/2015
Propositions
Dowling, John – 4/2015
New Members
Fitzpatrick, Tom & Kathy - 9/2015
Mark Joseph Carbonoro proposed by Danielle
Bartoshek
Peter Crawford proposed by Eileen Coyne
Mary Duggan proposed by Michael D. Paris
Steve Greene proposed by Christine Wilbert
Susan Rene’ MacBean proposed by Annie Crawford
Caroleanne McIntyre proposed by Danielle Bartoshek
John Ryan proposed by James Ryan
Hecht, Jean R - 8/2015
Hinkle, Dr. Brad - 5/2115
John and Sally – 9/2015
Kadlac, John & Midge - 1/2015
Kulik, George & Holly – 5/2015
Ostojich, Nancy & Vinnie – 4/2015
In Loving Memory of Bill Payne, PER
Philp, Sue & Paul – 12/2017
Piccoli, Vinnie & Nancy – 5/2015
Piccione, PER Nick & Joan – 10/2015
Presto Graphics 7/2019
Rose and Ray – 7/2016
Scalamoni, Peter Life Member – 9/2015
Spiecker, Daryl & April – 4/2016
Sprague, Clint PER, PS Tiler, PVP
PS Sgt at Arms, PDDGER,
Past Elk of the Year – 9/2015
Sunsback, Kathleen – 11/2017
In Loving Memory of George Blosser, PER
Tarnowski, Len PST, PVP, PDD & Lillian –
9/2015
Taylor, Don & Joan – 1/2017
Latshaw, Raymond J & Eleanor J – 1/2015 VanHouten, Toni – 2/2015
Lang, Steve & Tamara - 7/2015
Wagner, Roy, PER, PVP, PDD & Marlene
Leach, PER Parker, Jr & Agnes - 09/2014
In Loving Memory of Bill Lepley
LeRoy, Bill & Mary - 10/2017
-8/2016
Williamson, Florence - 3/2015
Zorojew, Tamerlan – 2/2016
Lewis, PER Richard & Catherine - 3/2015
Dimits in
Lightbody, Norvella (Pug) & Roden –
6/2015
Diane Langford from Brick Lodge #2151
Scott MacBean from Calabash Lodge #2679
Arthur Pompei from Springfield/Hillside Lodge
#2004
Donna M. Ryan from Springfield /Hillside Lodge
#2004
Lawrence Sutton Jr from Lacey Lodge #3880
In Loving Memory of Mary Ellen Gloff
Lightbody, Norvella (Pug) & Roden –
1/2015
MacIntire, Jeanette – 5/2015
In Loving Memory of Jerry MacIntire, PER
McDonald, Gail - 11/2014
McHugh, Phyllis - 8/2015
In Loving Memory of Ronald McDonald
Miller, Raymond & Laurinda – 10/2015
Morton, Brian & Betty 12/2015
Morton, Dennis – 02/2015
EXPIRED Boosters
We are sure it is an oversight, however,
there is a 60-Day grace period, after that
your listing will be removed. Thank you.
Hannah, Nancy & Secord, Jeff 8/2014
Torano, Thomas W. – 8/2014
Grandinetti, Joe & Becky 7/2014
Bolen, In Loving Memory of Larry- 1/2014
Cannella, Alex M - 4/2014
Ciavarella, Philip – 4/2014
Densmore, Wayne & Nancy - 4/2014
Masterson, Bill & PER Jackie - 10/2013
Schicker, Kevin & Lynne - 10/2013
We have room, so sign up now.
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TOMS RIVER LODGE NO. 1875
STATUTORY COMMITTEES
Americanism/Flag Day - Evan Darrow . . . . . . . . . . 732-779-1771
Co-Chair - Becky Grandenetti
Auditing - Franca Reisen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 908-773-0444
Drug Awareness - Jackie Masterson . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-270-1757
Elks Training - Len Tarnowski, PER, PDD . . . . . . . . . . 732-505-8269
Government Relations - Richard Miller . . . . . . . . . 908-565-1286
Youth Activities - Kathy DeMay . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-814-7461
Indoctrination - George A. Coyne . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-506-9365
Investigation - Marian Nadeau . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-349-5991
Lapsation/ Membership Eileen C. Coyne . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-341-2180 Ext. 203
Memorial Services - Kenneth V Salerno, PER . . . . . 732-506-7971
Elks National Foundation Eileen C. Coyne . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-341-2180 Ext. 203
Veterans National Service Chairman: Sue Gajewski . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-657-6318
Co-Chair: Rudy Lucrezi . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-341-3781
Public Relations - Sue Darrow . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-267-9574
Social & Community Welfare - Bob Coughlin . . . . 732-379-1479
Lodge Activities - Sue Darrow . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-267-9574
Relief - Chair Officers, Treasurer & Secretary
General Charity - Bill Leroy, Chairman . . . . . . . . 732-831-0429
By-Laws - Ernie Thomas, ELK . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-691-6372
600 Washington Street, Toms River, N.J. 08753
732-349-9660
www.TomsRiverElks.com
new phone system
When calling the Lodge use Correct Ext #
Name . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Ext. #
Catering or Hall Rentals. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 201
Main Bar . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 202
Secretary. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 203
Treasurer. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 204
Steward . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 205
Voice Mail Only
Exalted Ruler . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 206
Information Only
Bingo & Other Event Info. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 207
Lodge & Committee Meetings. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 208
Directions to the Lodge. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 209
LODGE OFFICERS
Exalted Ruler - Jeffrey Secord . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-995-9989
Leading Knight - Jeffrey Downing . . . . . . . . . . 609-618-7808
Loyal Knight - Ernie Thomas . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-691-6372
Lecturing Knight - Bob Coughlin . . . . . . . . . . . 732-379-1479
Secretary - Nancy Hannah . . . . . . . . 732-341-2180 Ext. 203
Treasurer - Christine Wilbert . . . . . . 732-341-2180 Ext. 204
Tiler - Shawn Skidmore
Esquire - Casey Coyne . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 848-992-0779
Chaplain - Susan Baita . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 848-448-0194
Inner Guard - Richard Miller . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 908-565-1286
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Sport & Trophy Shop
2nd & 4th Thursday of the month
•••• Meetings start - 7:30 pm ••••
Past Exalted Rulers Meet
1st Thursday of the Month - 7:00 pm
TRUSTEES
One Year . . . . . . René Nadeau . . . . . . . . . 732-349-5991
Two Year . . . . . . Len Tarnowski, PER . . . 732-610-1470
Three Year . . . . . Dave Fitzgerald . . . . . . . 732-270-0053
Four Year . . . . . . Karen Thomas . . . . . . . . 732-831-9336
Five Year . . . . . . Dennis DeMey . . . . . . . . 732-814-7460
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TROPHIES AND PLAQUES
SILK SCREENING & EMBROIDERY
Veterans Meet
3rd Thursday of the Month - 7:00 pm
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Officers and Trustee’s Meet
Tuesday prior to Lodge Meetings - 7:00 pm
Presiding Justice . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Matthew Sage, Esq.
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House Committee Meets Monthly
Alternate to Grand Lodge
George A. Coyne, PER . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-506-9365
Bar Chairperson - Shawna Radler/Mary Ann Senatore
Bingo Chairman - Ralph Merlo, PER . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-364-5739
Buildings & Grounds - Trustee’s
Catering - Bruce Baita
Co-Chair - Nancy Hannah . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-275-5298
Convention - George Coyne, PER . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-506-9365
Darts - Scott Golembeski . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-814-8000
Special Children’s - Kathy DeMey . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-814-7461
Horseshoes - Denny Nowitzke . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-341-4157
Co-Chair - Tom Bird . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . elkshoes@gmail.com
House Chairman - Bruce Baita
Lodge Scholarship - Emmet Gaunt, Jackie Masterson . . 732-270-1757
Shuffleboard - Scott Golembeski . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-814-8000
Sickness & Distress - Susan Baita . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 848-448-0194
Steward - Tom Fitzpatrick . . . . . . . . . . . . . 732-244-1875 Ext. 205
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NEWS OF THE LODGE
ISSUE 10
60
JANUARY 2015
VOLUME LXI
A FRATERNAL ORGANIZATION  CELEBRATING 60 YEARS OF ELKDOM
ADDRESS SERVICE REQUESTED
JANUARY & FEBRUARY DINNER MENU
Reservations Are Recommended, call 732-349-9660 x202
Reservations Required by Wednesday to guarantee ANY item.
January 9
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January 23
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Roasted Prime Rib . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16.00
Wiener Schnitzel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14.00
Founder Stuffed w/Crabmeat . . . . . . . 13.00
Fish & Chips . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9.00
Roasted Prime Rib . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16.00
Shrimp Parmesan . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14.00
Smoked Pork Chop . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13.00
Shrimp in a Basket . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9.00
February 13th
February 27th
Roasted Prime Rib . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16.00
Broiled Salmon . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13.00
Stuffed Cabbage . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12.00
Fish & Chips . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9.00
Roasted Prime Rib . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16.00
Braised Pork Shank . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14.00
Grilled Tuna Steak . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14.00
Fish & Chips . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9.00
All dinners served with salad, fresh rolls, dessert & coffee or tea. Soup, appetizers, and dessert specials available.
Exalted Ruler’s Message
Happy New Year to
everyone. It is hard to
believe that 2015 is here!!
It does not seem that long
ago that we all worried
about
our
computers
crashing on the eve of the
millennium. On well, we
made it through that and
we will make it through
this “winter thing” that
happens every year about
this time. (I’m kidding,
its Winter!) January is my
birth month and you would
think I would like it but I
don’t.
This time of year is a busy time for Elks Lodges. In
the month of February, we will have nominations
for officers at the first meeting and elections at the
second meeting. It is an exciting time for new folks
to get involved with their lodge. To breathe new life
into the governing of each individual lodge. March
will be our installation of the newly elected officers
and come April 1, the new lodge year begins . There,
you see, we made it through winter!
nearby, but are still members who care and share,
that it makes it impossible to exclude you from the
process as well. It is for this reason that my choice
for Elk of the Month is “You”. All of you! We are at
over 1000 members strong, and each and everyone
of you count. So wherever this newsletter finds you,
whatever your lot in life may be at this point, I say
“Thank You”.
You are all true and loyal members among us and
now you are officially an Elk of the Month!!
Keep in mind also; at the stroke of eleven, wherever
you are, when that hour falls upon the dial of night,
it is the Golden Hour of Recollection and you are
remembered! Yes, each and every one of you.
In closing, I would like to urge everyone to count
their blessings from this past year. To keep a smile
on their face and to be encouraged for the new
upcoming year. I ask Gods Blessing on each and
every one of you and Thank you all for giving me a
great 2014!!
See you around the Lodge,
Jeffrey Secord
Exalted Ruler
Toms River Elks Lodge #1875
I usually reserve this for the end of my message but
I am changing things up a bit. I have given a lot of
thought to Januarys Elk of the Month. There are so
many people to choose from, so many that work hard
day after day and input so much creative juice to the
process. But there are also so many of you that either
can’t get here for one reason or another or don’t live
U N I T Y