Hair & Makeup: Veeutiful Makeup Artists | Photography: Veeutiful Makeup Artists | Art Direction: Vania (Veeutiful) & Jo (Jo’s Weddings) www.facebook.com/groups/joweddings welcome Firstly, I’d like to introduce myself. My name is Jo and I own Jo’s Weddings here in Townsville. I am a 32 year old mother of 4 (with plans to add more!) Congratulations on your Engagement! Planning a wedding can be SO much fun! Especially when you have everything you need right at your fingertips, leaving you free to do the planning instead of the researching! SETTING THE DATE ............................................................................ PAGE 5 stores from our home SET YOUR BUDGET ............................................................................ PAGE 8 in BRIDAL PARTY MEMBERS and run my two wedding Riverside Douglas Gardens, (Townsville) ............................................................... PAGE 10 WEDDING COLOURS ............................................................................ PAGE 13 ‘Dream Wedding Store’ WEDDING STYLE and ‘Flowers of Silk’. CELEBRANTS ......................................................................................... PAGE 18 I am passionate about assisting Brides & Grooms to achieve their Dream Wedding Day, ............................................................................ PAGE 16 CEREMONY VENUES ............................................................................ PAGE 20 RECEPTION VENUES CATERING ............................................................................ PAGE 22 ......................................................................................... PAGE 25 INVITATIONS & STATIONERY ............................................................... PAGE 27 without the hefty price WEDDING DRESSES tags associated. JEWELLERY & ACCESSORIES ............................................................... PAGE 39 As there are very limited resources within the Townsville Region to assist you in planning your special day, I have ............................................................................ PAGE 29 PHOTOGRAPHERS ............................................................................ PAGE 41 VIDEOGRAPHERS ............................................................................ PAGE 50 PHOTO BOOTHS ............................................................................ PAGE 52 CENTREPIECES ............................................................................ PAGE 54 DECORATORS ......................................................................................... PAGE 59 taken it upon myself to put CAKE MAKERS......................................................................................... PAGE 63 together this Townsville ENTERTAINMENT Wedding Planner, in the BEAUTY, HAIR & MAKEUP view that it will be of great FLOWERS - BOUQUETS & BUTTONHOLES assistance TRANSPORT in planning your special day. Jodie Smith Jo’s Weddings ............................................................................ PAGE 70 ............................................................... PAGE 72 ..................................... PAGE 74 ......................................................................................... PAGE 76 WEDDING SONGS ............................................................................ PAGE 78 INDEX CONTINUED NEXT PAGE DID YOU KNOW? In the rhyme ‘something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue’, “blue” is symbolic of the blood of royalty, since both the bride and the groom were once considered to be The Townsville Wedding Planner is Owned & Distributed by Design Firm Pty Ltd ABN 46 128 681 443 “royal” on their wedding day. Page 2 welcome Index continued.. DID YOU KNOW? The reason engagement that the rings are worn on the fourth finger of the left hand is because bomboniere ......................................................................................... PAGE 80 WISHING WELLS ............................................................................ PAGE 82 CHALK BOARDS & SIGNS ............................................................... PAGE 84 Egyptians CAKE TOPPERS ............................................................................ PAGE 86 thought that the “vein of SHOPPING LIST ............................................................................ PAGE 88 love’ ran from this finger HONEYMOON ......................................................................................... PAGE 90 directly to the heart ACCOMMODATION FOR INTERSTATE GUESTS ..................................... PAGE 92 the ancient HENS & BUCKS NIGHTS BRIDAL LINGERIE ............................................................... PAGE 94 ............................................................................ PAGE 96 MISC WEDDING SUPPLIERS ............................................................... PAGE 98 CHECKLISTS ......................................................................................... PAGE 100 RECEPTION SPEECHES & SCHEDULES.................................................. PAGE 102 AFTER THE WEDDING ............................................................................ PAGE 104 WEDDING FACTS - JUST FOR FUN PHOTOGRAPHER: Stephen Lane .................................................. PAGE 106 Contact: 0405 173 660 Page 3 R eal TOWNSVILLE COUPLE Romantic TRASH THE DRESS photoshoot Hair & Makeup: Veeutiful Makeup Artists | Photography: Veeutiful Makeup Artists | Art Direction: Vania (Veeutiful) & Jo (Jo’s Weddings) Photograph Credits: Veeutiful Makeup Artists & Photography Location: Riverside Ridge (Douglas) | Contact: Vivi or Vania on 0435 833 521 “Romantic Trash the Dress” Photography Shoot by Veeutiful Wedding Gown, Suit, Jewellery & Hair Piece by Jo’s Weddings 0488 700 425 Page 4 { SETTING THE DATE } for your wedding Page 5 brought to you by setting the date of your Wedding CHECKLIST tick when done Set your Wedding Date. One of the most important aspects of your Wedding is the Date. Here are some very important aspects you should consider when setting your Wedding Date: {Season} One of the first things you may want to consider when setting your date is the season. Do you want to be married during the Summer, Autumn, Winter or Spring? Not only is this important for you and your bridal party but your guests as well. The season will also help determine whether it can be an indoor or outdoor wedding. Keep in mind that in Townsville the Wet Season can be very unpredictable. Following is some information that may help you determine your Wedding Date. Wet Season: November - May Dry Season: June - October Historical Average Temperatures Historical Average Rainfall Approx Max Average Temperature Approx Average Monthly Rainfall - mm Deg C / Deg F Winter(June-Aug): 25 / 76 Winter(June-Aug): 17 Spring(Sep-Nov): 29 / 85 Spring(Sep-Nov): 30 Summer(Dec-Feb): 31 / 88 Summer(Dec-Feb): 229 Autumn(Mar-May): 29 / 85 Autumn(Mar-May): 108 {Defence Schedule} If you or your partner are in the Decence Forces, you’ll need to take into consideration any planned deployments or yearly training schedules, especially Talisman Sabre. Having either yourself or your partner away for this extended period of time will mean that limited decisions and preparation can be made together during these times. {Venues, Photographers, Makeup Artists, Hair Dressers} If you have your heart set on a specific Wedding Supplier, such as a Photographer, it is best to check their availability before setting your Wedding Date in stone. Our Wedding Date: Page 6 R eal TOWNSVILLE COUPLE Romantic TRASH THE DRESS photoshoot Hair & Makeup: Veeutiful Makeup Artists | Photography: Veeutiful Makeup Artists | Art Direction: Vania (Veeutiful) & Jo (Jo’s Weddings) Photograph Credits: Veeutiful Makeup Artists & Photography Location: Riverside Ridge (Douglas) | Contact: Vivi or Vania on 0435 833 521 “Romantic Trash the Dress” Photography Shoot by Veeutiful Wedding Gown, Suit, Jewellery & Hair Piece by Jo’s Weddings 0488 700 425 Page 7 { SET YOUR BUDGET } keep your wedding on track Page 8 brought to you by BUDGET of your Wedding ESTIMATED ACTUAL CHECKLIST CELEBRANT $ $ tick when done CEREMONY VENUE $ $ RECEPTION VENUE $ CATERING $ $ INVITATIONS & STATIONERY $ $ WEDDING GOWN $ $ GROOMS / GROOMSMEN SUITS $ $ BRIDESMAID DRESSES $ $ FLOWER GIRL DRESSES $ $ PAGE BOY SUITS $ $ WEDDING RINGS $ $ JEWELLERY $ $ TIARA, VEIL, BIRDCAGE VEIL $ $ PHOTOGRAPHER $ $ VIDEOGRAPHER $ $ PHOTO BOOTH $ $ CENTREPIECES $ $ WEDDING DECORATOR $ $ WEDDING CAKE $ $ ENTERTAINMENT / BAND / DJ $ $ BEAUTY, HAIR & MAKEUP $ $ FLOWERS - BOUQUET & BUTTONHOLES $ $ TRANSPORT $ $ BOMBONIERE $ $ WISHING WELL, CHALK BOARD $ $ CAKE TOPPER $ $ HONEYMOON $ $ HENS & BUCKS NIGHT $ $ BRIDAL LINGERIE $ $ HONEYMOON LINGERIE $ $ $ ESTIMATED WEDDING BUDGET TOTALS: $ ACTUAL $ Page 9 { BRIDAL PARTY MEMBERS } how to choose Page 10 brought to you by choose your Bridal Party Members CHECKLIST tick when done Choose the Members of your Bridal Party. Choosing your bridal party can be one of the most exciting parts of planning your wedding, but it can also be one of the most stressful. If you pick one of your best friends to be a bridesmaid, but not the other, it can lead to hurt feelings. The group you choose should represent your closest friends, family members or loved ones who will be there for support, guidance and to help plan for the big day. Heavily weigh the importance of the people who have been in your life for a long time. It’s important to select people who have played an important role in your life leading up to your wedding and that will remain just as important in the future. Keep in mind that the people you choose will forever remain in the photos from your wedding day. Our Bridal Party: Bride Groom Maid of Honour Best Man Bridesmaid Groomsman Bridesmaid Groomsman Bridesmaid Groomsman Bridesmaid Groomsman Bridesmaid Groomsman Bridesmaid Groomsman Flower Girl Page Boy Flower Girl Page Boy DID YOU KNOW? The Groom stands on the right of the Bride, deriving from the days of swords - should any man challenge him of his right to his Bride, the Groom was free to draw his sword with his right hand whilst protecting or holding his Bride with his left. Page 11 R eal TOWNSVILLE COUPLE Romantic TRASH THE DRESS photoshoot Hair & Makeup: Veeutiful Makeup Artists | Photography: Veeutiful Makeup Artists | Art Direction: Vania (Veeutiful) & Jo (Jo’s Weddings) Photograph Credits: Veeutiful Makeup Artists & Photography Location: Riverside Ridge (Douglas) | Contact: Vivi or Vania on 0435 833 521 “Romantic Trash the Dress” Photography Shoot by Veeutiful Wedding Gown, Suit, Jewellery & Hair Piece by Jo’s Weddings 0488 700 425 Page 12 { WEDDING COLOURS } for your special Page 13 brought to you by day choose your Colour Scheme CHECKLIST tick when done Deciding on your colour scheme can be just as exciting as setting the date. When it comes to styling, this is the first step. Your colour palette needs to represent you and your fiance. If you’re a believer in the representation of colours and emotions, the following graph will be of great interest. And if you’re not, then the following graph will still be useful in selecting colours that go beautifully together (as well as the shades of each colour that go well together) Elegance Destiny Spiritual mastery Music Respect Wisdom Long Life Acceptance Trust Belief Understanding Prophecy Purification Practicality Safety Productivity Renewal Fertility Victory Beauty Physical Energy Strength Vigilance Dedication Will-power Protection Joy Learning Alertness Good fortune Survival Spiritual development Glory Loyalty Pleasure Friendship Fulfilment Birth Fame Health Hospitality Power Clarity Idealism Family Change Community Growth Prosperity Harvest Serenity Calmness Understanding Empathy Openness Balance Drive Recovery Discovery Flexibility Mature Love Courage Insight Truth Grace Energy Inner Strength Magic Poetry Tenacity Vitality Virtue Honor Passion Originality Self-esteem Luxury Experience Creativity Discernment Inspiration Dignity Compassion Faith Intuition Judgement Self-knowledge Vision Imagination Maturity Long life Perception Dreams Success Optimism Intelligence Exhuberance Independence Awakening Receptiveness Meaning Belonging Influence Adventure Excitement Warmth Awareness Home Enthusiasm Confidence Consciousness Free expression Happiness Satisfaction Authority Enlightenment Decisiveness Our Colour Scheme: DID YOU KNOW? In ancient times, guests would tear off part of the bride’s gown as tokens of good luck, leading to the tradition of the groom throwing her garter and the bride her bouquet. Page 14 R eal TOWNSVILLE COUPLE Romantic TRASH THE DRESS photoshoot Hair & Makeup: Veeutiful Makeup Artists | Photography: Veeutiful Makeup Artists | Art Direction: Vania (Veeutiful) & Jo (Jo’s Weddings) Photograph Credits: Veeutiful Makeup Artists & Photography Location: Riverside Ridge (Douglas) | Contact: Vivi or Vania on 0435 833 521 “Romantic Trash the Dress” Photography Shoot by Veeutiful Wedding Gown, Suit, Jewellery & Hair Piece by Jo’s Weddings 0488 700 425 Page 15 { WEDDING STYLE } for your special Page 16 brought to you by day choose your Wedding Style CHECKLIST tick when done Decide on your Wedding Style The next step is to decide on your Wedding Style, or as many will refer to it - your wedding theme. There are so many beautiful options, here are just a few - followed by examples. Just remember, these are only ‘some’ of the styles. Try typing the words “Wedding Themes” into a search engine, and be amazed by all of your available options! • Beach Theme • Rustic Theme • Vintage Theme • Fairy Tale Theme • Country Theme • Rainbow Theme • Pastel Theme • Garden Theme • Carnival Theme • Whimsical Theme • Beauty & the Beast Theme OUR WEDDING STYLE: PHOTOGRAPHS: Dreamscene Events Sarah: 0402 667 515 EAMSCENE EVENTS WEDDING DECORATOR: DR Page 17 { CELEBRANTS } marriage celebrants Page 18 brought to you by CELEBRANTS Marriage Celebrants CHECKLIST tick when done Selecting your Celebrant Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life. Choosing the right marriage celebrant will make sure your day is a memorable one. Following are some tips on how to choose the right celebrant for you. TIP 1: Personality. You must feel comfortable with a celebrant if they are to legalise the most important decision of your life. You will want to ‘click’ with them and have an open communication line, this is very important. TIP 2: Religious, Non-Religious, Flexible or Set. Depending on the type of ceremony you would like to have, it is important to discuss this with your proposed celebrant, to ensure they are confident to carry out your ceremony wishes. TIP 3: Remember to ask your proposed celebrant for an information pack, which would include what they provide, fees associated, what is required of you, if you will be writing your own vows or if they have vows you can choose from, etc. IMPORTANT: Providing notice of your intended marriage (NOIM) Within 18 months of your proposed marriage, and no later than one month and one day prior to it, you must give a completed Notice of Intended Marriage form to the authorised marriage celebrant who is to conduct your marriage ceremony. You will receive this in your information pack from your chosen Celebrant. You will also need your birth certificates (originals) and evidence that any prior marriage (if applicable) has been dissolved by either death or divorce. Below are a list of contact details for some lovely local Celebrants that you may like to consider meeting with: ERONDA CEREMONIES LYNDA ROSS ANN BARNES LOCATION: Magnetic Island LOCATION: Alice River LOCATION: Townsville City Phone: 0416 272 806 Phone: 0400 794 283 Phone: 4725 8669 JEANETTE COLE Dianne Sherrington CASSANDRA LEWIS LOCATION: Bushland Beach LOCATION: Townsville LOCATION: Townsville Phone: 4751 8082 Phone: 0427 365 778 Phone: 0413 919 152 XENA QUINN JENNY STEVENS DRAGONFLY CEREMONIES LOCATION: Mysterton LOCATION: Thuringowa LOCATION: Annandale Phone: 4775 4590 Phone: 4723 9633 Phone: 0408 790 055 DID YOU KNOW? Apparently the bachelor (or stag) party originated in fifth-century Sparta where military compatriots would feast and toast one another on the eve of a wedding, like warriors going to battle. Page 19 { ceremony Venues } gardens & beaches Page 20 brought to you by Ceremony Venues gardens & beaches Following are a list of Ceremony Locations that are available for Hire from the Council (for a fee) THE STRAND • Rock Pool Headland • Landsborough Street Headland • Stuart Street Headland (adjacent the entrance to Strand Pier) • Burke Street Headland (adjacent to the Picnic Bay Surf Club) • Gregory Street Headland • Tobruk Pool (grassed area adjacent to Pool) • ANZAC Park: Rotunda, Parkland left or right of Centenary Fountain • Ceremonies are now approved on The Strand beach south of the Gregory Street headland only. > TO BOOK THE ABOVE VENUES, CONTACT: Community Venues 1300 878 001. To obtain a permit to marry on the sand, you must call National Parks & Wildlife on 13 74 68 PARKS & GARDENS • Queens Gardens: Rose garden, Herb garden, Raintree lawn (Kennedy St), Play lawn, Palm lawn, Lipstick lawn, Rainforest lawn, Frangipani lawn. • Palmetum: Tokuyama gardens (Summerhouse), Harold E Moore Crescent, Lagoon area or Savannah zone, Xerophytic zone, Rainforest (The Island area), Rainforest (Picnic area), Carl Von Martius Way. • Anderson Gardens: Ficus lawn, Lotus ponds, Palm lawn or Pandanus area, Cape York area, Rockery, Tropical conifers, Orchard, Rainforest • Riverside Gardens: Riverfront Park: Viewing platform (not pontoon), Monument Park: Amphitheatre. • Dan Gleeson Memorial Gardens: Pond area, Central rotunda, Front rotunda. > TO BOOK THE ABOVE VENUES, CONTACT: Community Venues 1300 878 001. MAGNETIC ISLAND - Bookings: 4778 5378 Picnic Bay Horse Shoe Bay Nelly Bay Cockle Bay Geoffrey BayAlma Bay CHURCH & CATHEDRALS St Andrew’s Presbyterian Townsville City Church Sacred Heart Cathedral St Joseph’s Church Phone: 4724 0655 Phone: 4723 9111 Phone: 4771 4461 Phone: 47213765 113 Wills Street, Townsville 12 Burnda St Kirwan 270 Stanley St, Townsville 6 Fryer Street, North Ward VENUES THAT CATER FOR CEREMONIES Townsville Golf ClubSeagulls ResortThe VenueJupiters Phone: 4779 0133 Phone: 4721 3111 Phone: 4724 2800 Phone: 4722 2333 Benson St, Rosslea 74 Esplanade Belgian Gardens 719 Flinders St, Townsville Sir Leslie Thiess Dr Rydges Townsville Mecure Inn Billabong Sanctuary Heritage Tea Rooms Phone: 4726 5265 Phone: 4725 2222 Phone: 4778 8344 Phone: 4778 0199 23 Palmer St, Townsville 166 Woolcock St Bruce Highway, Nome Herveys Range Page 21 { Reception Venues } and halls for hire Page 22 brought to you by RECEPTION VENUES and Halls for hire PHOTOGRAPHS: Beautiful Brides Melanie 0418 188 797 WEDDING DECORATOR: BEAUTIFUL BRIDES TOWNSVILLE RECEPTION VENUES Townsville Golf ClubSeagulls ResortThe VenueJupiters Phone: 4779 0133 Phone: 4721 3111 Phone: 4724 2800 Phone: 4722 2333 Benson St, Rosslea 74 Esplanade Belgian Gardens 719 Flinders St, Townsville Sir Leslie Thiess Dr Rydges Townsville Mecure Inn Billabong Sanctuary Heritage Tea Rooms Phone: 4726 5265 Phone: 4725 2222 Phone: 4778 8344 Phone: 4778 0199 23 Palmer St, Townsville 166 Woolcock St Bruce Highway, Nome Herveys Range Townsville RSL The Pier Restaurant Holiday Inn Yongala Lodge Phone: 4759 9500 Phone: 4721 2567 Phone: 4729 2000 Phone: 4772 4633 139 Charters Towers Road Sir Leslie Thiess Dr 334 Flinders Street, Townsville 11 Fryer Street, North Ward Chifley PlazaRockpool RestaurantThe WatermarkThe Brewery Phone: 4772 1888 Phone: 4771 6916 Phone: 4724 4281 Phone: 4724 2999 Flinders Street, Townsville The Strand, Townsville 72-74 The Strand, Townsville 233 Flinders Street MAGNETIC ISLAND RECEPTION VENUES Lotus House Nahmahlu House Oasis on Magnetic Barefoot Art Food Wine Phone: 4778 5955 Phone: 4774 6397 Phone: 4778 5955 Phone: 4758 1170 Restaurant Le Paradis Water Garden Oasis Phone: 4778 5044 Phone: 4778 5166 Page 23 RECEPTION VENUES and Halls for hire TOWNSVILLE HALLS FOR HIRE Aitkenvale PCYC Phone: 4781 9111 Annandale Community Centre Townsville Darts Club Townsville Turf Club Phone: 1300 878 001 Phone: 0411 386 3351 Phone: 4778 2400 Aitkenvale AnnandaleAnnandaleCluden Ignatius Park College Hall Riverside Gardens Comm. Centre Heatley Community Centre Hermit Park Hotel Phone: 0417 945 846 Phone: 1300 878 001 Phone: 1300 878 001 Phone: 4721 4743 CranbrookDouglasHeatleyHermit Park Suburban Bowls Club Rebels Soccer Club Townsville Orchid Society Brothers Cricket Club Phone: 0439 773 849 Phone: 4723 0633 Phone: 4773 4208 Phone: 0432 417 234 Hermit ParkKirwanKirwanKirwan Gecko’s Family Centre Brothers Soccer Club Jubilee Bowls Club Arcadian Surf Club Phone: 4771 1741 Phone: 4774 7192 Phone: 4779 1207 Phone: 4721 5855 Lavarack BarracksMount LouisaMundingburraNorth Ward Picnic Bay Surf Club Community Hall Wanderers Cricket Club Community Centre Phone: 4724 4211 Phone: 1300 878 001 Phone: 4725 8043 Phone: 1300 878 001 North WardOonoonbaPimlicoRailway Estate Progress Assoc Hall South Townsville Bowls Club St Patricks Hall Reid Park Pit Complex Phone: 0409 064 418 Phone: 4771 4204 Phone: 4771 4461 Phone: 1300 878 001 RupertswoodSouth TownsvilleSouth TownsvilleSouth Townsville Greek Community Hall CWA Hall Townsville Showgrounds Western Suburbs Cricket Phone: 0408 684 239 Phone: 4724 0843 Phone: 4771 4964 Phone: 0413 116 036 TownsvilleTownsvilleWest EndWest End Cutheringa Bowls Club Wulguru Community Centre Upper Ross PCYC OES Hall Phone: 4771 3742 Phone: 1300 878 001 Phone: 4789 2145 Phone: 4779 1969 West EndWulguruRasmussenWest End Bluewater Community Centre Paluma Community Centre Rollingstone Community Centre Saunders Beach Comm. Phone: 1300 878 001 Phone: 1300 878 001 Phone: 1300 878 001 Phone: 1300 878 001 BluewaterPalumaMystic SandsSaunders Beach Page 24 { CATERING } weddings & events Page 25 brought to you by CATERING Weddings & Events PHOTOGRAPHS: Flaming Feas t Townsville PHOTOGRAPHS: Magnums Cate ring Jacqueline: 0422 813 437 Melanie: 0418 188 797 CATERING BY: FLAMING FE AS T TOWNSVILLE CATERING BY: MAGNUMS TO WN SVILLE PHOTOGRAPHS: Flaming Feas t Townsville Jacqueline: 0422 813 437 CATERING BY: GOLDEN RO AS T CATERING OPTIONS Flaming Feast Phone: 0422 813 437 The Golden Roast Magnums Catering Chef on Call Phone: 1300 655 602 Phone: 0418 188 797 Phone: 4774 7272 Cuisine To GoJAM CornerRoux BlondPizza Fesco Phone: 25 4782 Phone: 4721 4900 Phone: 4724 4018 Phone: 0457 048 212 River Cafe Catering Ingham Road Seafood JR’s the Caterers Sarinees Thai & Chinese Phone: 0415 809 789 Phone: 4721 1464 Phone: 0416 320 111 Phone: 0423 096 361 Spotless Catering Jaffa Bah Catering Essentially Fresh Deli & Catering B-Catered Phone: 4771 9211 Phone: 4772 4421 Phone: 4724 2929 Phone: 0400 242 070 Many of the above Caterers will consider delivering to Magnetic Island - so call them and enquire. MAGNETIC ISLAND CATERING Restaurant Le Paradis Barefoot Art Food Wine Magnetic Island Party Hire (Catering Equipment Hire) Phone: 4778 5044 Phone: 4758 1170 Phone: 4758 1867 Page 26 { INVITATIONS } & wedding stationery Page 27 brought to you by INVITATIONS & Wedding Stationery INVITATION & STATIONERY DESIGNERS Paper FantasyJo’s WeddingsCoral Sea CalligraphersPrimaDonna Phone: 4725 1272 255b Charters Towers Road Phone: 0488 700 425 Phone: 4723 9050 Phone: 0413 133 694 By Appointment (DIY Supplies) By Appointment By Appointment (Douglas) HERMIT PARKDOUGLASTOWNSVILLEWHITSUNDAYS (will post) A Craft Affair Star Designs Creations by Henny Cupid’s Connections Phone: 4728 2044 Phone: 4783 4700 Phone: 0404 832 202 Phone: 4775 7573 44 Anne Street 3/215 Charters Towers Road By Appointment By Appointment AITKENVALEHERMIT PARKKIRWANANNANDALE Page 28 { WEDDING DRESSES } where it all begins to feel real! Page 29 brought to you by choose your Wedding Dress | Part 1 of 3 CHECKLIST tick when done Below are a few helpful tips that will assist you to select the perfect Wedding Gown for you 1. Do some research Use Google, or websites such as ‘pinterest.com’ and start searching for gowns. Make a folder on your computer to save any gowns that make your heart skip a beat with their beauty. Spend some time on this step, make sure you research all of your options - you’ll only be doing this once! CIRCLE YOUR FAVOURITE S ILLUSTRATION 2. Gown Shapes Below is a diagram for wedding gown shapes, to help you begin your research Ballgown A-Line Modified A-Line Trumpet Mermaid Sheath Tea-Length 3. Consider your Wedding Theme and/or Location If you plan to marry on the Strand, Palleranda or similar, a huge ball gown with a 3 metre train may not be the most suitable for your location (but then again, this may be exactly what your heart desires!). Whatever your location, please do take it into consideration when researching gowns. CIRCLE YOUR FAVOURITE S ILLUSTRATION 4. Train Length The length of your train is an often-forgotten component in the research of many brides, so below is a graph to show you the options available Sweep Court Panel Watteau Chapel Cathedral Page 30 choose your Wedding Dress | Part 2 of 3 5. Sleeve Types CIRCLE YOUR FAVOURITE S ILLUSTRATION With 14 types of sleeves (the fourteenth being sleeveless), you are certainly not limited on options. Cap Sleeves Short Sleeves 3/4 Length Long Juliette Puff Bell Butterfly Bishop Poet Set In Raglan Tulip 6. Neckline Options Next are your neckline options to consider when selecting the gown of your dreams. Square Sweetheart Boat Scoop Jewel CIRCLE YOUR FAVOURITE S ILLUSTRATION V-Neck Surplice Asymmetric Halter Top Strapless Page 31 choose your Wedding Dress | Part 3 of 3 7. Material Types CIRCLE YOUR FAVOURITES Below are the most common wedding gown material types, with a brief description of each Material: Brocade this is a thick and woven fabric that often features raised patterns. Generally wedding gowns made of this will be heavily shaped and the fabric can be found in almost any color imaginable Material: Lace comes as sheer and lightweight options and also as heftier materials, and they can be worn alone or layered over other fabrics too Material: Duchesse Satin those looking for a gown with elegant shine and texture of silk, but at a fraction of the cost will usually turn to this fabric Material: Taffeta a stiffer quality material that appears in many formal garments. The costs of Taffeta has risen over the years compared to other materials Material: Tulle made from a range of materials, this is the major component of skirts and veils and also tutus, crinopnes, and petticoats too Material: Crepe this is a thick and woven fabric that often features raised patterns. Generally wedding gowns made of this will be heavily shaped and the fabric can be found in almost any color imaginable Material: Silk true silk materials are extremely costly, somewhat difficult to work with, easily wrinkled, and yet still sought after by millions of brides due to the beautiful richness of the results Material: Organza a bit stiff, sheer, and used often as a layered material this is a fabric that appears in many designs. It can be used easily for sheer sleeves, overlays, and skirts. Stiffer and easier to work with1 Material: Chiffon this is often used as an overlay due to its delicate and transparent nature. It can be of silk, but many modern garments use rayon chiffon instead. It is a popular choice for sleeves as well as layered skirts Material: Satin this is probably the most widely used material in bridal and wedding gowns. It is shiny on one side, smooth, and heavy which makes it easier and less costly to work with than silk Material: Georgette sheer and silky, many gowns feature an overlay of this material. It can be made from silk, but is most often crafted today from polyester in order to remain affordable Material: Charmeuse light and silky this is a fabric which is extremely soft and even lustrous in appearance. It is extremely hard to work with and is the reason that a garment made of it will be quite costly GOWNS BY JO’S WEDDINGS www.facebook.com/groups/joweddings Page 32 Photograph Credits: Wedding Gowns by Melinda Location: 255a Charters Towers Road | Contact: 4728 1255 | Email: mholborn@bigpond.net.au Gorgeous, Ready made, Designer Gowns for Every Bride. Styles to Suit all Sizes & Budgets. Photography: Xon Photography - Facebook: www.facebook.com/XonPhotography Hair by: Chrischelle’s Hair and Beauty - Thuringowa 4723 5066 | Makeup by: THINK Pharmacy - Currajong 4728 6544 Wedding Gown & Accessories by Jo (Jo’s Weddings) 0488 700 425 Page 33 GOWNS BY JO’S WEDDINGS www.facebook.com/groups/joweddings Page 34 Photograph Credits: Wedding Gowns by Melinda Location: 255a Charters Towers Road | Contact: 4728 1255 | Email: mholborn@bigpond.net.au Gorgeous, Ready made, Designer Gowns for Every Bride. Styles to Suit all Sizes & Budgets. Photography: Xon Photography - Facebook: www.facebook.com/XonPhotography Hair by: Chrischelle’s Hair and Beauty - Thuringowa 4723 5066 | Makeup by: THINK Pharmacy - Currajong 4728 6544 Wedding Gown & Accessories by Jo (Jo’s Weddings) 0488 700 425 Page 35 GOWNS BY JO’S WEDDINGS www.facebook.com/groups/joweddings Page 36 Photograph Credits: Wedding Gowns by Melinda Location: 255a Charters Towers Road | Contact: 4728 1255 | Email: mholborn@bigpond.net.au Gorgeous, Ready made, Designer Gowns for Every Bride. Styles to Suit all Sizes & Budgets. Page 37 GOWNS BY JO’S WEDDINGS www.facebook.com/groups/joweddings BRIDAL STORES Bella Donna Wedding Gowns by Melinda Bridal Palace Phone: 4771 5580 Phone: 4728 1255 Phone: 4772 1107 1/1 Ingham Rd 255 Charters Towers Rd 80 Denham St TOWNSVILLEHERMIT PARKTOWNSVILLE AllgoodsJo’s Weddings Phone: 4728 1070 Phone: 0488 700 425 276 Ross River Rd By Appointment TOWNSVILLEDOUGLAS (Riverside Gardens) Page 38 { jewellery } & Accessories Page 39 brought to you by JEWELLERY & Accessories The one time in your life you can feel absolutely guilt-free purchasing take photographs of you trying the jewellery on. Look at the pictures an entire jewellery set - certainly a time to rejoice! immediately. Does it look too much? Too little? If you’re having your hair in an up-style and wearing a strapless gown, sometimes a With the decisions plentiful, what should you really be considering nice drop earring can make a huge improvement to fill the space in when looking at wedding jewellery? between. 1. The Stye of your Gown 4. Allow your hairstyle to dictate wedding jewellery selection, but at If your gown is primarily decorated with crystals, then jewellery that the same time make sure you find something you absolutely love. features crystals would be the best consideration. Likewise if your If possible, try your gown on with your jewellery and any other gown features pearls, or crystal/diamond embellishments. If you accessories. The last thing you want is to be uncomfortable with have a gown that has a high neck, or a great deal of design around what you are wearing. Every item of jewellery you choose needs to the upper-bust area, it may be best to steer clear of a necklace all complement your dress as a whole, and your final look needs to together and instead focus on wrist jewellery and earrings. show you off, not camouflage you. 2. The Colour of your Gown WHERE TO BUY? If your gown is a coloured design, for example blue or red, you may like to search for jewellery in the same colour tones to really make Jo’s Weddings DIVA Jewellery, Stockland your gown “pop” with feature. Phone: 0488 700 425 The Silver Shop, Stockland DOUGLAS (by Appointment) DIVA Jewellery, Castle Town 3. Picture Perfect Vie Jewellery, Castle Town To make sure that you are as delighted with your choices now as you Fuse Silver, Willows will be in years to come looking at your wedding photos, have a friend Vie Jewellery, Willows Photography: Lindsay Dray | Jewellery, Accessories, Gowns & Flowers - Jo’s Weddings PHOTOGRAPHY: LINDSAY DRAY Page 40 { PHOTOGRAPHERS } showcase of local photographers Page 41 brought to you by Photograph Credits: Silver Eve Photography Location: Townsville | Contact: Tanja Cornford Phone: 0410 307 423 Facebook: www.facebook.com/SilverEvePhotography Email: silverevephotography@live.com.au Photograph Credits: Desire Photography Location: Charters Towers (will travel to Townsville, Cairns, Airlie Beach) Contact: Lyndley Kane (Photographer) | Phone: 0427299299 | Email: DesirePhotography11@hotmail.com Photographer that uses Natural Light | Facebook Page: Desire Photography Page 42 Photograph Credits: Stephen Lane Photography Location: Townsville | Contact: Stephen & Hayley Lane Phone: 0405 173 660 Website: www.stephenlane.com.au | Email: info@stephenlane.com.au Page 43 Photograph Credits: Ollie Hughes Location: Townsville | Contact: Ollie Hughes 0428 427 962 Facebook: Olliehughes© - O D Photography Website: www.olliehughesphotographics.com Page 44 Photograph Credits: Trish & Phil Photography Location: Townsville | Contact: Trish Jones Phone: 0402 208 676 Website: www.trishandphil.com | Email: trish@trishandphil.com | Facebook: Trish and Phil Page 45 Photograph Credits: Xon Photography Location: Townsville | Contact: Simone Lennox Phone: 4770 8223 | Facebook: www.facebook.com/XonPhotography • Wedding Gowns, Flowers & Accessories by Jo’s Weddings (0488 700 425) • Hair by Chrischelles (4723 5066) • Makeup by THINK Pharmacy (4728 6544) Photograph Credits: White Avenue Photography Location: Townsville | Contact: Nadine 0411 777 390 Page 46 Photograph Credits: A & A Photography Location: Townsville | Contact: Anne & Anthony - 0437 223 201 Email: aandaphotography@bigpond.com Page 47 Pepper Pots Location: Townsville Contact: Pepper 0400 017 028 Photograph Credits: Che Klair Photography Location: Townsville | Contact: Xian 0431 638 040 Email: xianfindlay@hotmail.com | Facebook: Che Klair Photography Page 48 Photograph Credits: C A Photography Location: Townsville | Contact: Corrina Phone: 0447 626 176 Email: caallison@live.com.au Photograph Credits: Postle Photography Location: Townsville | Contact: Mandy Phone: 0427 845 981 Email: info@postlephotography.com.au Page 49 { videographers } for your wedding Page 50 brought to you by Videographers for your Wedding WHY EMPLOY A VIDEOGRAPHER? Always have the opportunity to re-live that moment when you profess your undying love to one another during your exchange of vows. Imagine sitting down for a romantic candle lit dinner each anniversary and being able to completely re-live, in vivid colour and motion, that exact moment and the butterflies you felt. So what questions should you ask your potential Videographer? Or what should you research beforehand? 1. Style. What type of style would you prefer your Wedding Video be in? Cinematic or Documentary? Or perhaps a mixture of the two? 2. Would you like simply a full wedding video of the ceremony, or perhaps a mixture of stills, slow-motion, “the kiss”, the announcement.. 3. Is your Videographer happy to meet with your Photographer? it is a good idea to have a three-way meeting, just to make sure all parties have an understanding of the angle the other party is taking, and can accommodate to their needs (i.e. so the Videographer doesn’t take the opposite angle as the Photographer and your entire video has your photographer down on one knee taking shots in the background) VIDEOGRAPHER CONTACTS Hawkeye Digital Films Captive Videography Through the Looking Glass Studio Phone: 0439 749 506 (Steve) Phone: 0415 990 002 Phone: 4721 6855 Aitkenvale (by Appointment) Townsville (by Appointment) 6 Queen Street, North Ward Email: hawkeyedigital@bigpond.com Email: weddings@captivevideo.com.au Email: service@looking-glass.com.au Website: www.hawkeyedigitalfilms.com.au Website: www.captivevideo.com.au Website: www.looking-glass.com.au Page 51 { photo booths } for your reception Page 52 brought to you by photo booths for your reception WHY A PHOTO BOOTH? Photo Booths are a great, fun way of getting some interesting and memorable photographs from your wedding reception. It will show your friends and loved ones in their true, fun character and bring entertainment. No body is too young or too old to enjoy the entertainment of a photo booth, be it your brother and sister holding their newborn baby or grandma and grandpa sneaking a kiss like they did when they were high school sweethearts, or your crazy mates pulling all sorts of incriminating faces for the camera. Your booth could double as a Guest Book - why not take along (or hire) a black board and have your guests write notes on them, holding the board up when posing for their photos. PHOTO BOOTH HIRE Flash Photobooths Stache Booth Phone: 0409 599 208 Phone: 0401 437 126 Quote: JWP13 for your free SD Card when hiring! Page 53 { CENTREPIECES } the centre of your reception Page 54 brought to you by choosING YOUR Table Centrepieces Deciding on your Centrepieces consider using a centrepiece that If that’s the case, or setting up your Consider the following questions consists of a floral arrangement, wedding does not appeal to you that will help you along the way in whether it be a large arrangement or - there are several wonderful and choosing a Centrepiece that is right small accents of flowers. Flowers are helpful decorators in Townsville who for you. so versatile they can be incorporated can do everything for you, from your into almost any centrepiece. The next Ceremony to Reception. 1. Will you be having a lot of Children question though - real or artificial? at your wedding? Whilst real flowers are incredibly Over the next several pages you will If the answer to this is yes, you beautiful - are they practical? Do find some gorgeous Centrepiece may like to consider a centrepiece any of your guests have allergies or Inspiration, as well as some contact without candles, or at least replace hayfever? Take this into consideration details to some talented Wedding the candles with LED Candles as when deciding. Decorators located in Townsville. a substitute. This can be done only Any of these featured Decorators will at the childrens table (if you are 3. To DIY or to Hire a Decorator? happily travel to areas that surround having one) or throughout the entire In this day and age, many couples Townsville, such as Herveys Range wedding. Some local Townsville are opting to DIY in order to reduce Tea Rooms. If your Reception is at Venues will also request a “No the overall cost of their weddings. Airlie Beach or Cairns (etc), you will Candle” Centrepiece. But for some, this can be a nightmare need to contact them to enquire if - especially if your venue is not able they will travel this far. 2. 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It is generally shot in the style of fashion or glamour photography. Such photography often takes place on a beach, but other locations include city streets, rooftops, garbage dumps, fields, and abandoned buildings. To see more “Trash the Dress” Shoots, join Jo’s Weddings (Townsville Group) on Facebook. Wedding Gown, Suit, Jewellery & Hair Piece by Jo’s Weddings 0488 700 425) Photograph Credits: Veeutiful Makeup Artists & Photography - Specialising in Trash the Dress Shoots: 0435 833 521 Page 69 { ENTERTAINMENT } DJ’s & Bands Page 70 brought to you by ENTERTAINMENT DJ’s & Bands CHECKLIST tick when done Selecting a DJ or Band Selecting a Band or DJ is a fun task (although, they’re all fun!) you want someone who will entertain your guests, accept requests (should you want them to) and have a musical selection that fits your personalities, likes & dislikes. Below are a list of Entertainment along with contact details to assist you in making your entertainment decisions: @MOSPHERE MOBILE DISCO MOBILE DISCO SERVICES PINKY’S DISCO ENTERTAINMENT DJ SPAGHETTI ENTERTAINMENT LOCATION: Aitkenvale LOCATION: Townsville LOCATION: Townsville Phone: 0412 195 367 Phone: 0412 258274 Phone: 0427 722 977 MARATHON SAINTS GROOVY DANCEWORX DISCO ENTERTAINMENT MUSIC & KARAOKE HIRE LOCATION: Annandale LOCATION: Townsville LOCATION: Mount Louisa Phone: 4725 4425 Phone: 4723 9925 Phone: 0412 268 004 POOLE’S A WILDY’S DISCO FX MOBILE OF MUSIC ROCKBOXES DISCO & LIGHT HIRE LOCATION: Idalia LOCATION: Townsville LOCATION: Townsville Phone: 4729 1752 Phone: 0423 547 926 Phone: 0439 509 344 NITETIME TURN IT UP DJ ROD’S ENTERTAINMENT MOBILE DISCO MOBILE DISCO SERVICE LOCATION: Kirwan LOCATION: Kelso LOCATION: Townsville Phone: 4789 2107 Phone: 0432 712 379 Phone: 0410 472 322 OUR RECEPTION ENTERTAINMENT WILL BE PROVIDED BY: Page 71 { BEAUTY } hair & makeup Page 72 brought to you by BEAUTY Hair & Makeup Inspiration Hair, Makeup & Photography by Veeutiful BEAUTY - HAIR & MAKEUP THINK PHARMACY TOWNSVILLE JUST TEEZING HAIR STUDIO VEEUTIFUL MAKEUP & HAIR LOCATION: Currajoing (will travel) LOCATION: Gulliver LOCATION: Douglas (will travel) Phone: 4728 6544 Phone: 4775 2101 Phone: 0435 833 521 URBAN MISS MAKEUP BELLANOVA ARIEL’S TOUCH OF BEAUTY LOCATION: Townsville LOCATION: Townsville City LOCATION: Bushland Beach Phone: 0418 796 897 Phone: 4771 6659 Phone: 0420 535 013 LUSH HAIR & TANNING PODIUM HAIR & BEAUTY CHRISCHELLE’S HAIR & BEAUTY LOCATION: Townsville (will travel) LOCATION: Townsville City LOCATION: Thuringowa Phone: 0413 570 603 Phone: 4724 2488 Phone: 4723 5066 SADESSA BEAUTY & MASSAGE BOWIES HAIR & BEAUTY BOHEME BEAUTY + BODY LOCATION: West End LOCATION: West End LOCATION: Townsville Phone: 4774 7076 Phone: 4771 6663 Phone: 4724 5900 Page 73 { FLOWERS } bouquets & buttonholes Page 74 brought to you by flowers Bouquets & Buttonholes Selecting your Flowers Will you go Real or Artificial flowers? In our North Queensland Climate, some flower varieties are unavailable due to the humidity, whilst others will be perfectly fine. Traditionally, artificial flowers were thought to be considered “gordy”, however in this day and age they are so life-like and realistic you can hardly tell the difference (all of the above photographs are of artificial flowers). Regardless of your preference for real or artificial, below are some contact information for local florists you may like to consider for your wedding flowers. JO’S WEDDINGS MALPARA SILVER WATTLE FLORIST LOCATION: Douglas LOCATION: Hermit Park LOCATION: Townsville Phone: 0488 700 425 Phone: 4771 6767 Phone: 4779 9943 DAISY MAISY FLOWERS STOCKLAND FLORIST THE BLACK ROSE FLORIST LOCATION: Annandale LOCATION: Aitkenvale LOCATION: Townsville Phone: 4728 6868 Phone: 4779 5311 Phone: 4775 5768 Page 75 { TRANSPORT } wedding cars & motorbikes Page 76 brought to you by transport Wedding Cars & Motorbikes HUMMER EVENTS MELVILLE’S ELITE CRUISING ACACIA HUMMER EVENTS WEDDING CARS & CARRIAGES Do you need to hire a Wedding Car or Carriage? In this day and age many family members will have spectacular cars you can loan for the day. However, if you’d like something a little less “common” and a little more “wow” then these businesses can certainly give you that! Whether you’re going traditional Horse & Cart style, Olden-Style Immaculate Condition Cars, Harley’s or even the popular Stretch Limo’s, these Cars & Carts all look fan-tab-ulous in photos! ACACIA LIMOUSINES ELITE CRUISING PR LIMOUSINE SERVICES LOCATION: Rosslea LOCATION: Rosslea LOCATION: Townsville Phone: 4728 8666 Phone: 0420 470 646 Phone: 4723 5677 TOWNSVILLE CUSTOM CYCLES MELVILLE’S (Horse & Carriage) HUMMER EVENTS LOCATION: West End LOCATION: Townsville LOCATION: Phone: 4771 2200 Phone: 4778 8388 Phone: 0487 HUMMER (486637) Page 77 { WEDDING SONGS } ceremony & reception Page 78 brought to you by Wedding songs Ceremony & Reception Grab your fiance, a bottle of wine, print this I Do – Colbie Caillat page out and sit down together on Put You In A Song – Keith Urban www.youtube.com and search for these Love Lost – The Temper Trap The Time (Dirty Bit) – The Black Eyed Peas song titles. Listen to each song carefully and I’d Rather Be With You – Joshua Radin The Way You Make Me Feel – M.Jackson when you look into each others eyes and This Will Be (everlasting love) – Natalie Cole What The World Needs Now – DeShannon smile - that’s ‘the one’. Wedding March – Felix Mendelssoh You’ve got the love – Florence the Machine Jesu Joy of Man’s Desiring – Bach Better Together – Jack Johnson Ode to Joy – Beethoven This year’s Love – David Grey Spring (from Four Seasons) – Antonio Vivaldi We found Love – Rihanna Ft. Calvin Harris Finale (from Water Music) – George F. Handel Good Feeling – Flo Rider WALKING DOWN THE AISLE Marry You – Bruno Mars Rhythm Of Love – Plain White T’s Just a Kiss – Lady Antebellum INTRODUCTORY & CAKE CUTTING You make me feel – Cobra Starship FIRST DANCE Just the way you are – Bruno Mars You da one – Rihanna Beauty and a Beat – Justin Bieber Nicki Minaj Marry Me – Train Bubbly – Colbie Caillat Walking on a dream – Empire of the Sun Every time we touch – Cascada (slow) I’m Yours – Jason Mraz Call me maybe – Carly Rae Jepsen A moment like this – Kelly Clarkson I Won’t Give Up – Jason Mraz Sitting on Top of the World – Delta Goodrem A Thousand years – Christina Perry You’ve got the love – Florence the Machine Fight For You – Jason Derulo I’m Yours – Jason Mraz Everything – Michael Buble Take Care – Drake (featuring Rihanna) Won’t Give Up – Jason Mraz This Ole Love – Lior Need Your Love – The Temper Trap Songbird by Eva Cassidy We found Love – Rihanna Ft. Calvin Harris What Makes You Beautiful – One Direction Pachelbel’s Canon – Johaan Pachelebel Good Feeling – Flo Rida Count on Me – Bruno Mars Ave Maria – Franz Schubert or Bach I don’t want this night to end – Luke Byran Isn’t She Lovely – Stevie Wonder To a Wild Rose – Edward MacDowell Just a Kiss – Lady Antebellum September – Earth, Wind and Fire Air (On A G String) – Bach Halo – Beyonce Say Hey (I love you) - M.Franti / Spearhead The Water is Wide (Gift of Love) – Traditional We Will Know What It Is –Seek Love Keeper My Girl – The Temptations At Last – Etta James or Beyonce Ceremony / signing register What The World Needs Now – Jackie You and Me – Lifehouse If you haven’t found ‘the one’ for each part Bubbly – Colbie Caillat Your Song – Elton John of your wedding from these lists, don’t panic. Everything – Michael Buble Come Away With Me – Norah Jones This Ole Love – Lior The Way You Look Tonight – Jerome Kern Plan a ‘take two’ and organise a second You’ve Got the Love – Florence & Machine The Music of the Night –Phantom / Opera evening together. What could be more Halo – Beyonce Unforgettable – Gordon enjoyable than staring into each others Paradise – Coldplay It Had to Be You – Jones & Kahn eyes for hours listening to romantic music Just A Boy – Angus & Julia Stone Moon River – Henry Mancini anyway? Lucky – Jason Mraz Waltz in A-flat Major – Brahms Mine – Taylor Swift Sleeping Beauty Waltz – Tchaikovsky Enjoy the experience! xx Page 79 { BOMBONIERE } gifts for your guests Page 80 brought to you by bomboniere Gifts for your Guests BOMBONIERE - WHAT TO GET? The word “Bomboniere” is Italian for “Gifts” - traditionally, at special occasions the Host/Hostess will present their Guests with a Gift, in order to thank them for their attendance and well wishes in their union. Bomboniere was introduced by the upper class society of 16th century France and has forever been a tradition of “Gratitude” to those who attend. So, what to get? Following are some ideas & businesses from which you can purchase your Bomboniere Gifts from, locally. THE WEDDING CENTRE THE STUBBY CO CINDY’S GLASSES ZOE’S CANDLES JO’S WEDDINGS Mundingburra Cranbrook Ingham (will deliver) Townsville Douglas (by Appointment) Phone: 4725 5974 Phone: 4723 0502 Phone: 0401 168 087 Phone: 0419 026 110 Phone: 0488 700 425 All types of Favours & Gifts Stubby Coolers Custom Glassware Custom Candles All types of Favours & Gifts Page 81 { WISHING WELLS } wells, cages & chests Page 82 brought to you by wishing wells Wells, Cages & Chests TO HAVE OR NOT TO HAVE? In modern society, most couples are living together long before their wedding day. With this being the case, traditional gifts of pots & pans, linen or glassware is not necessary (or necessarily wanted). The solution is to incorporate a wishing well, cage or chest into your wedding. But how do you tell people about it? By incorporating a small “Wishing Well / Cage / Chest” card into your stationery package, that will go out with the invitation itself. The card can be in line with your stationery and can entail a romantic or funny poem. Below are some samples of wording: “Many guests have enquired for a gift inspired ~ A wishing well we thought would be great, but only if you wish to participate. A gift of money you can afford will be very appreciated, you are assured.” “To save you looking, shopping and buying, here’s an idea we hope you like trying. In place of a kettle, toaster and serving tray, a gift of money would help us on our way! But if you had something else in mind, we’re sure a place for it we’ll find. Most important is your presence this day and night, as our wedding without you just won’t be right.” “We’d love to have you with us when all our dreams come true. We want to know that your presence, over presents, will truly do! But if we’re honoured with a gift from you, please think to wish us well. May we respectfully request a donation to our wedding wishing well.” “We don’t want to offend but we have it all. All household goods and so much more. To save you shopping, sit back and rest. A gift of currency is our request! Don’t go berserk or rob any banks any little amount will be met with thanks. Now that we have saved you all of the fuss, we hope you can come and celebrate with us.” “In our house we have the things that living together normally brings. Most household items we’ve already bought and because of this reason we thoughtA wishing well would be great but only if you wish to participate. A gift of money is placed in an envelope, so in the future we hope to furnish our house to it’s very best and always remember it was due to our guests.” “We have in mind, the things to find to make our house a home. A money gift would help us set the scene where love will roam!” “Because at first we lived in sin We’ve got the sheets and a rubbish bin A gift from you would be swell But we’d prefer a donation to our Wishing Well” THE WEDDING CENTRE ALL LOCAL TOWNSVILLE JO’S WEDDINGS Mundingburra WEDDING DECORATORS Douglas (by Appointment) Phone: 4725 5974 Phone: 0488 700 425 Page 83 { CHALK BOARDS & SIGNS } for hire Page 84 brought to you by chalk boards & Signs for Hire Chalk Boards & Signs are ideal to have, whether it be a private, back-yard affair or a glitzy all-out wedding. They add that extra touch of romance, regardless of your wedding theme. The Wedding Centre (in Mundingburra) have a huge range of Chalkboards, Easels, Picture Frames, Windows and almost anything else you can think of. Many of the local decorators in town will also be able to supply a small range of these. I myself have a small selection. If you choose to use one of these to announce the direction to your ceremony, or to list your bridal party - make sure you shop around to find the type of “style” to suit your wedding. If you’re not sure what best style would suit, perhaps a standard A-Frame Chalk Board is the best choice and decorate it with a little ribbon (affixed with double-sided tape, not glue!) THE WEDDING CENTRE Mundingburra Phone: 4725 5974 SOME LOCAL TOWNSVILLE WEDDING DECORATORS JO’S WEDDINGS Douglas (by Appointment) Phone: 0488 700 425 Page 85 { CAKE TOPPERS } for your wedding cake Page 86 brought to you by cake toppers For your Wedding Cake Choosing the perfect wedding cake topper for your special day can, at first, seem like a major problem for someone who has no idea where to start in the process. Sit down with your fiance and discuss what type you both like. The options are plentiful - with humerous toppers, flower toppers, crystal toppers, glass toppers, the list really does go on. On this page you will find samples of different cake toppers and below, where to purchase these locally. WHERE TO GET CAKE TOPPERS? JO’S WEDDINGS Douglas (by Appointment) THE WEDDING CENTRE Phone: 0488 700 425 Mundingburra • Humerous Toppers • Porcelain Toppers Phone: 4725 5974 • Floral Toppers • Crystal Toppers • Humerous Toppers • Porcelain Toppers • Crystal Toppers • Custom Toppers Edible Toppers - your Cake Maker Real Flower Toppers - your Florist Page 87 { SHOPPING LIST } for the big day Page 88 brought to you by SHOPPING LIST For the big day CHECKLIST OF ACCESSORIES FOR THE BRIDAL PARTY & THE BIG DAY Below I have written a comprehensive checklist of wedding items related to the bridal party, stationery and some additionals, to ensure you’ll have everything you need and nothing is forgotten! STATIONERY Suit Cufflinks Save the dates Vest Buttonhole Wedding invitations & Envelopes Tie or bow-tie Thank-you gifts RSVP Cards Shoes Thank-you cards Cufflinks Name cards Buttonhole Bomboniere Seating plan RING BEARER Suit Vest BRIDESMAIDS Tie or bow-tie Table numbers Dresses Shoes Menu’s Shoes Cufflinks Necklace s& ear-rings Buttonhole Bracelets Ring bearer pillow Wedding dress Clutch or bag Thank-you gifts Garter & toss garter Shawl or shrug Necklace & ear-rings Hair accessories MOTHERS & FATHERS (BOTH) Bracelet Posy Bouquets Floral Wrist or Pin Corsage Lingerie (bra & underware) Thank-you gifts BRIDE Corset or body shaper Shoes GRAND PARENTS (BOTH) FLOWER GIRLS Floral Pin or Wrist Corsages Tiara Dresses Veil Shoes Hair piece Necklace s& ear-rings Bomboniere Birdcage veil Bracelets Guest book & pen ‘I Do’ shoe stickers Shawl or shrug Toasting glasses Something blue Hair accessories Hens & Bucks accessories Hanky Flower girl basket, posy or flower wand Centrepieces Bridal bag Flower petals (if using a basket) Chair covers & sashes Bridal kit (needle, cotton, lip gloss, etc) Thank-you gifts Table runners & scatters Bolero or shrug Bouquet Toss bouquet ADDITIONAL ITEMS Bridal table backdrop GROOMSMEN Wishing well, cage or chest Hanky Cake Topper & cake table decorations Suit Cake knife & server set Vest Car ribbons Wrist watch Tie or bow-tie Cake bags or boxes Hanky Shoes Chalkboard (or similar) GROOM Page 89 { HONEYMOON } locations local & international Page 90 brought to you by honeymoon locations WANT TO HOLIDAY CLOSER TO HOME? 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What to do? Where to get the goodies?! FUN GAMES FOR THE PARTY Post It Note Game - We love this game as it’s a great way to give the bride a sweet momento of the night. Give everyone a post-it note Pass the Parcel - Similar to the ‘Pass the Parcel’ game you played and pen. Each hen writes a short sentence of a memory they have as a kid, this game steps it up a notch with some naughty prizes and of the bride. When everyone is done, place all the post-it notes on a risqué challenges. For prizes, consider pecker candy, massage oils hard surface for the bride to read one by one. As she reads them out and ticklers. Also slip in an embarrassing task or two between layers, she has to guess who wrote it and explain the story out loud. Tales such as ‘kiss a stranger’, ‘give someone a lap dance’ or sing the of childhood, old boyfriends and drunken nights welcome. The bride chorus to ‘Lady Marmalade’. can then add these into a nice hens night keepsake. Truth or Dare - This is a game set to embarrass the hen. At the Design the Wedding Dress - Probably one of the most well-known start of the night, have all the hens write a dare or naughty question games for a hens night, this game involves many rolls of toilet paper for the bride-to-be to complete or answer throughout the night. It and everyone breaking into small teams. The aim is to create the can be humiliating, such as removing her bra while on the dance dream wedding dress on one of your team members in the given floor, x-rated (think pinching a stranger’s bottom or having a specific time frame (10 minutes is a good amount of time to allow). At the end part of your body autographed), or something innocent, like asking each ‘model’ should strut her stuff on the imaginary catwalk while a married couple for advice. Stagger them throughout the night until another team member explains the inspiration (have fun coming up she’s gotten through the entire list. 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If you buy your bridal bra before your gown, look for a convertible bra with adjustable straps. Basic There are two types of bridal lingerie: what you wear for your wedding convertible bras may convert into strapless bras or crisscross backs, day, and what you wear for your wedding night. For the ceremony but more advanced convertibles can be turned into halters, backless, itself, focus undergarments that offer comfort and support. When t-shaped, and more. you and your new husband can enjoy some alone time, slip into something with a little more edge. Add volume. A good push-up bra can enhance your bust without looking too unnatural. Bras with cotton, gel, or water-filled pads can Choosing the right bra. Focus on support. During your ceremony, also create extra cleavage. Make sure whatever you choose looks support and comfort are more important that sexiness. The last thing and feels natural. you need on your big day is to worry about sagging or falling out of your gown, and you probably want to avoid wires that stab into your Slip into something sexier once the gown comes off. Ribbons, side or lace that chafes your breasts. lace, and other seductive details may ruin your smooth silhouette during the ceremony. Save these details for when you and your new Create a smooth silhouette. Look for seamless bras, especially if you husband can enjoy each other privately. have a gown made of lightweight fabric. You might be able to get away with a standard bra if your gown is made of heavier material, Create sex appeal with lace. Lace can be a sultry feature to have but you must make sure that no straps or other lines show through. for your wedding night. A bra with a few scallops of lace along the border creates a sweet appeal, but a full lace bra that allows your skin Mind your neckline. Not many gowns have a convenient neckline that to show through looks more naughty than nice. works with a standard t-shirt bra. Find a bra specifically designed to work with your neckline. Choose a strapless bra or bandeau if you Stick with white or nude for the ceremony. Match the color of your have a strapless gown. A strapless bra offers minimal support, while bra to the color of your skin or the color of the dress. Otherwise, it a bandeau offers plenty of support but may flatten your chest some. may show through the fabric. • Look for a backless bra that hooks at the waist if you have a backless gown. Play with color for the wedding night. Once you no longer need to • Try stick cups if you have a smaller chest. These cups worry about the gown or the crowd, feel free to expand your color adhere to your skin, offer basic support and coverage. They choices. 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Meet with celebrant to discuss Get final haircuts Hire DJ/band Apply for marriage license Get final spa treatments Hire caterer Send thank notes for any gifts received Make emergency bridal kit Hire videographer in advance Plan night-before activities Book celebrant Find rental supplier for chairs, linens, etc. THE CEREMONY POST WEDDING Book transportation Write ceremony Dry clean and preserve wedding gown Book wedding night accommodations Confirm participants and veil Send save the dates Write vows Write thank you notes within eight weeks Hire ceremony chairs, arch, decorations Change all insurance policies and wills to WHAT TO WEAR include spouse Buy wedding bands Complete name-changing paperwork Buy wedding dress Update all utility bills and phone bills with Settle on wedding party outfits new name Schedule gown fitting appointments Page 101 { SPEECHES & SCHEDULES } for the reception Page102 brought to you by speeches & Schedules for the Reception WHO SHOULD MAKE A SPEECH? SCHEDULES FOR THE RECEPTION • Bride • Groom This is usually where most couples get stuck. I have written a • Best Man • Maid of Honour/Chief Bridesmaid ‘traditional’ running sheet of a reception schedule, you may like to • Father of the Bride • Mother of the Bride tailor this to your own needs, or perhaps just use it for inspiration. • Father of the Groom • Mother of the Groom • Grandparents of the Bride and/or Groom 5:00pm Cocktail Hour for your Guests whilst you finish having • Siblings, close relative or notable friends of the Bride and/or Groom photographs taken with your photographer at your chosen • Somebody else meaningful in your lives locations 6:00pm Announcement made for everyone to be seated for dinner HOW TO WRITE YOUR WEDDING SPEECH 6:10pm Bridal Party arrive and are announced by the allocated MC, 1. Consider to whom you are toasting and who you will address during your speech. 6:15pm Typically the bride’s father welcomes everyone to the with the “Mr & Mrs” announcement to follow wedding reception and thanks them for coming. Some 2. Clarify your relationship to the couple. Some people at the wedding couples choose to do toasts here, but most wait until later might not know who you are, so making this clear at the beginning in the wedding reception. will avoid any confusion. 6:20pm First Course is served 6:30pm Speeches & Toasts 3. Give thanks. Show gratitude to whoever is hosting the wedding, 6:45pm Main Course is served whether it’s the parents of the bride or the couple themselves. E.g. 7:25pm First Dance for Newlyweds, followed by DJ’s announcement “Thank you for welcoming us to this happy occasion, and sharing your joy with us today.” 8:15pm Cake Cutting that all may now join in 8:30pm Bride & Groom Thanks (to guests) 4. Share an anecdote. Stories of how various parties met are always 8:40pm Father/Daughter & Mother/Son dance popular, whether you talk about how the bride and groom met or 8:50pm Dancing continues your first time meeting either of them. Another popular topic is an 9:30pm Bouquet toss / Garter toss embarassing story - always a winner! 9:45pm Dancing continues 10:45pm Last Dance 5. Offer a compliment. Say something nice about the person (or 10:55pm DJ Announces Farewell to the Bride & Groom couple) you are toasting to. Although your intentions might be good, 11:00pm Dancing continues / guests begin to leave don’t go on and on about how great a person is; instead, choose a 11:30pm DJ/Band pack up few appreciate adjectives that go a long way (e.g. “he’s generous, 11:55pm Everyone goes home intelligent, and kind”). Remember, this is only a sample of a ‘traditional’ running sheet. This 6. End the toast on a positive note. Offer a wish, a traditional toast, is your wedding and you really should tailor it to your needs. or a blessing. 7. Indicate the ending of the toast. Finish off with a phrase that’s It is extremely rare in this day and age that the Bride & Groom will to be repeated by the guests. For example: “Let us now toast the leave before the last guest has departed! Afterall, they’re celebrating happiness of Jill and Jack. To Jill and Jack!” for and drinking on you! Page 103 { AFTER } the wedding Page104 brought to you by AFTER the WHAT TO DO AFTER THE WEDDING Wedding cards in your wishing well, people will expect gratitude for their gifts. Try and personalise a message to them, such as “Thank You for the 1. Have your dress dry-cleaned as soon as possible after you new pressure cooker, it will be of great use - and we’ll be sure to return from your honeymoon (the sooner, the better!). Even if you invite you over for dinner the first time we use it!” etc. are undecided if you’ll keep it or sell it. By not cleaning it as soon as possible, any spillage from the reception may be much harder 10. Update any Lease Agreements with Real Estate Agents. to remove. Once it’s cleaned, store it in a box with acid-free tissue paper, somewhere cool and dry like the top of a cupboard. 11. Update any Pet Registrations to include your married name, whilst you’re at it, update your vets as well. 2. CHANGE YOUR NAME (if you have chosen to do so) Ideally, you should change all your IDs within 90 days of being 12. Call and update all of your details at your Doctors, Dentist, married, here’s what to do: Hospital and any other specialists you may see. Change your driver’s license by going to QLD Roads. You will need to 13. Get in touch with your Photographer & Videographer, just to take your marriage certificate in with you as proof of your new name. touch base. By this stage you should have DVD’s / CD’s ready for collection. 3. Change your passport. You’ll most likely need to send in a current passport, a photocopy of your marriage certificate, and possibly new 14. If you have received a DVD/CD of Photographs or a DVD of your passport photos which can be taken at the Post Office. But don’t Wedding Video, sit down with your new Husband/Wife and enjoy worry, you can still travel overseas for your honeymoon, as long as a relaxed “post wedding” romantic dinner and re-live the moment, you don’t change your name (step 1) before you go overseas. soaking up the atmosphere you may have been too busy to soak up on the actual day. 4. Change your Employer or Centrelink details. Update your Superannuation company, too. 15. Consider printing out some of your photographs if you have only purchased your images edited on a DVD/CD. Pop into Office Works, 5. Call all of your credit card companies to get your name changed. Kmart, Big W, Camera House or similar and investigate your options with printing some of your favourites to proudly display on your walls. 6. Get in touch with your Accountant, make an appointment if they recommend you to do so. You’ll need to update your taxes and any 16. Figure out your post-wedding finances. Sit down with your new legal documents if you are a business owner. Husband/Wife and have “that talk” about your 5-year plan. Where do you want to be in 5 years? Would you like to start saving for your own 7. Update all of your Utilities such as Electricity, Gas, Water and don’t home? Perhaps you’d like to plan a “Second Honeymoon”? Now is forget your Internet & Phones. You’ll need your new license and the time to set your goals so you have something new to focus on, possibly your marriage certificate. and this time as a Married Couple. 8. Update all of your bank accounts and loans (if any) 17. Legals. No one wants to talk about it, but it must be addressed. Most couples make their partner beneficiaries on Wills and on Life 9. Send out your Thank-You letters. If you have received presents or Insurances. Page 105 { WEDDING FACTS } just for fun Page106 brought to you by wedding facts Just for fun JUST FOR FUN - WEDDING FACTS (HISTORIES) Guests in ancient times would tear off part of the bride’s gown as Early Roman brides carried a bunch of herbs, such as garlic and tokens of good luck, leading to the tradition of the bride throwing rosemary, under their veils to symbolise fidelity and fertility and to both her garter and her bouquet ward off evil. These herbs served as a precursor to the modern bridal bouquet The phrase “tying the knot” initially came from an ancient Babylonian custom in which threads from the clothes of both the bride and The phrase “Something old, something new, something borrowed, bridegroom were tied in a knot to symbolise the couple’s union. something blue, and a silver sixpence in her shoe” symbolises Literally tying some type of ceremonial knot at a wedding ceremony continuity, optimism for the future, borrowed happiness, fidelity, and can be found across cultures wealth or good luck, respectively In some African ceremonies, it was a sentiment of well wishing to Las Vegas is the top wedding destination with over 100,000 weddings greet the new bride with the words: “May you bear 12 children with a year, followed by Hawaii at 25,000 weddings a year him Wedding rings are often placed on the third finger of the left hand A bride is traditionally carried over the threshold either to symbolise because ancient Egyptians believed the vein in that hand (which the her reluctance to leave her father’s home or because evil spirits Romans called the “vein of love”) ran directly to the heart hovered over the threshold of a house—so she was lifted over the entrance to protect her from the spirits In many cultures, the groom historically often kidnapped the bride, and the groom’s friends would help him, leading to the modern-day Pope Innocent III (1160/1-1216) declared that a waiting period groomsmen. At the alter, the groom always stood on the bride’s right should be observed between betrothal and marriage, which led to side so his right hand—or his sword hand—would be free to fight/ separate engagement and wedding rings. The first recorded account defend a jealous rival of a diamond engagement ring was in 1477 when King Maximilian I of Germany (1459-1519) proposed to Mary of Burgundy (1457-1482) Flower girls traditionally threw flower petals in the bride’s path to lead and offered her a diamond to seal his vow her to a sweet, plentiful future During Biblical times, shoes were seen as a badge of authority Nearly all cultures have showered the wedding couple with symbolic because they lifted a person off the ground, differentiating them food. For example, the French throw wheat, Sicilians throw wheat from barefoot slaves and serfs. They were used to seal a bargain bread and salt, and the English throw pieces of cake. Early Romans and fathers would give his son-in-law a pair on the wedding day as or Greeks threw nuts, dates, and seed-bearing plants. Bulgarians symbol of transferring authority have thrown figs Much like the modern tradition of feeding wedding cake to one’s Throwing rice at weddings symbolises fertility, prosperity, and bounty. spouse, in ancient Rome, couples pledged their unity by sharing In some countries, the bride might even carry or wear sheaves of food. Today a Japanese bride and groom drink sake together, Jewish grain. Many modern churches and wedding locations discourage couples drink from the same cup of consecrated wine, and Muslim rice throwing because rice can be fatal for birds who eat it couples eat from the same piece of candy Page 107 { ENJOY! } your wedding day!
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