VOLUME 37, NO. 4 www.mkorshalom.org Adar-Nisan-Iyar 5770 / March-April 2010 The Rabbis Teach Living As We Pray I sat down to write this article shortly after watching a news story on television about the dangers of “Distracted Driving.” During the report, experts from various scientific fields all agreed on the fact that doing anything else while driving (talking on the phone, texting, eating, etc.) dangerously lowers our level of awareness and significantly limits our ability to remain focused on the task at hand. As I thought about what I had just heard, I realized that driving is not the only thing we seem to be doing on autopilot these days, as we attempt to juggle busy schedules and to tackle seemingly never-ending to-do lists. Oftentimes, we do not even have a chance to reflect on what we have just done before moving on to the next activity of the day. So I cannot help but wonder how different our perspective might be if we lived our lives in the same way our tradition teaches us to engage in the act of prayer. Jewish prayer is guided by two main principles, keva and kavannah. Keva is the fixed regularity of our liturgy. The words of the Sh’ma, the Amidah and other blessings found within our prayerbook do not change, nor does their order shift from day to day or week to week. Kavannah is the heartfelt intention we bring to the words we say, the thoughts, feelings and devotion that give our prayers personal meaning. Keva without kavannah is like simply going through the motions without an awareness of what we are doing or why. And yet, kavannah without keva fails to ground us in tradition and root us in the comfort of a shared and fixed structure. It makes sense, then, that we should work to infuse our prayers with a combination of both, and that our daily lives should reflect a similar balance. Our alarm clocks go off at the same time each morning, our drive to work or to school takes us along the same route each day and, even in our “free time,” we find ourselves running between scheduled errands, appointments and activities. Those are the things we see when we open our daily planners or check our calendars. Those are the things that make up the keva of our lives. (continued on page 2) INSIDE HIGHLIGHTS M’kor Cares . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Page 6 Tot Programming . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Page 7 M’kor Shalom Monthly . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Pages 10-12 Torah Commentary . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Page 13 What Is A M’kor Buddy? A Message From Your President Greetings! I hope all of you have weathered the grueling cold of winter and look forward to the beauty of spring. I am writing to let you know about a new concept being initiated by your Board of Trustees. As you know, it has been a longstanding tradition for members of M’kor Shalom’s Board of Trustees to reach out to you during the High Holy Days and Pesach. Until now, the Board member who called may have changed from year to year. With our new “in-reach” program, that will change. It is our goal to establish a closer relationship with each family by having a Board member dedicated to you and your family. It is a relationship that will provide a reliable contact for upcoming, relevant special events throughout the year. Our aim is to make sure you are aware of opportunities for involvement in ways that touch you and your family members’ interests while ensuring you are getting greater value from your M’kor Shalom membership. It will also provide you with a comfortable channel to provide feedback about your synagogue. We want to be more responsive to your needs through a consistent relationship with a Board member during that person’s time of service on the Board. We want to know about your interests and perceptions of Congregation M’kor Shalom. Are there things you are looking for that you have not found in our congregation? What do you value most about your membership? Our lay leaders are committed to making the most of your M’kor Shalom experience. So, when one of your fellow congregants reaches out to you during the upcoming days of Pesach, please chat with him or her for a bit and remember that we are not calling to solicit funds. We are calling because we really do care about your needs and interests at our “Source of Peace.” B’shalom, David From Your Leadership Helene Sterling, Vice President M’kor Shalom is a “family of families.” As a member of our congregational family, each of us should strive to help our synagogue and our community. We are taught that “all Jews are responsible for one another” (Shavuot 39a) and doing a mitzvah is a responsibility. To make it easy to find ways to fulfill that commandment, we are introducing a campaign and a concept called “M’kor Cares” that invites and encourages all our members to get more involved in congregational life and volunteerism. The opportunities for involvement will be coordinated, so that congregants can easily learn how to become engaged in activities that are of interest. Everyone is welcome to participate in one program or in multiple activities throughout the year. The programs include those within the congregation and those within the greater Jewish and South Jersey communities. The “M’kor Cares” logo (see page 6) will identify those programs in need of volunteers via many of our publicity vehicles ((E!Minders, What’s Happening page of the website, the M’korMonthly mailer, etc.). It is our hope that volunteering will help you to stay connected to M’kor Shalom and make new friends. Also, when you help others you get a good feeling and serve as a role model for our children. Some of the major social actions events that need volunteers each year or each week are: cooking for the hungry at New Visions (a day shelter for the homeless in Camden), staffing the Metro Camden Ronald McDonald House at Christmas, helping in the IHOC Hospitality Program that supports homeless men staying at our synagogue each December and working at the South Jersey Food Bank. There are many activities sponsored by synagogue committees that also need volunteers, such as help for the Purim Carnival, the Chanukah Bazaar, M’korstock, Party Expo and selling gift cards each week to raise funds for the synagogue. There are opportunities to help in the Religious School. M’kor Shalom cares about you, our congregants. Services, coordinated by our Caring Community Committee, are available to lend a helping hand at difficult times such as illness or a family death. If meals are needed, a group of volunteers will prepare and bring them to your house. Our Shiva Outreach Support assists mourners during the postfuneral period. They will provide comfort and assistance for the family in preparing the house for shiva and wait for food deliveries on the day of the funeral. Please notify the office if you are in need of these services. A Shiva Corps works with the clergy to coordinate shiva services. A grief support group that meets twice each month at the synagogue can lend emotional support, if needed, after the funeral. As a vice president, I find it extremely rewarding to volunteer my time in support of a place about which I am so passionate. I hope that you take the time to volunteer and do mitzvot in an area that interests you. Please know that M’kor Shalom cares about you and is dedicated to enriching your lives. Look for the opportunities, identified by the M’kor Cares logo, so you can become connected to M’kor Shalom and make a difference. B’shalom, Helene 2 Young Professionals Network Inaugural Event The first major event of M’kor Shalom’s new Young Professionals Network was a great success. Almost two dozen young adults between the ages of 21 and 29 came out to PJ Whelihan’s in Cherry Hill to watch the photo by Meara Lebovitz Eagles game and meet Rabbi Jennifer Frenkel. Many thanks to the following who planned the event: Maya Afek, Meara Lebovitz, Stacy Schlags, Nadav Schwartz and Merle Steinberg. Would you like to know more about future events including a happy hour and a social action project in the works? Join our facebook group and send your e-mail address to Merle Steinberg at merlesteinberg@mkorshalom.org to get on our mailing list. Passover snap shot Most of our holiday traditions were passed down from my mother’s side of the family, but there is one beloved and highly competitive tradition from Dad’s ilperin by Marilyn Ha side, “The Egg Game.” When we get to the part in the seder where we highlight the egg, beitzah, on the seder plate, we pause. My sister brings out the eggs that were hardboiled in a pot of water with onion skins (for a beautiful amber color). We then proceed around the table, one by one, to knock the end of the egg we’ve selected into the end of one held by the person on our left. Believe it or not, only one egg will crack at a time. The one with the uncracked egg at the end wins and has bragging rights until the next year. My mother, of blessed memory, was the queen of this game and squealed with laughter each time she beat her husband, daughters, sons-in-law and grandchildren. We keep an egg in her honor/memory next to Elijah’s cup on our seder table now, and we can hear the echo of her laughter each year when we play “The Egg Game.” The Rabbis Teach (continued from page 1) It is up to us, however, to decide how intentional we will be as we move through our day, how aware we will remain of the world around us and how present we will be in the moment at hand. Unfortunately, kavannah usually does not simply “happen.” Most of the time it takes effort and a focused direction of our energy. It means shutting off the autopilot function and attempting to live mindfully, attuning ourselves to each moment in order to experience it fully. It means living with eyes open and souls ready to experience the sacredness in the ordinary hours of our lives and the holy ground on which we usually walk unaware. Many times it is the events in our lives that influence our prayers. However, may we remember that the way we pray can have a very powerful effect on how we live as well. B’shalom, Rabbi Jennifer Frenkel Mazal Tov to… Matthew & Beth Cohen on the birth of their son Elliot Harris Cohen Francine Cooper on the birth of her grandson Alex Michael Comito Craig & Sheryl Dossick on the engagement of their daughter Renay to Scott Shaw Barry & Sharla Feldscher on the marriage of their daughter Hope to Joseph Horwitz Marjorie Garfield on the marriage of her daughter Valerie to Lawrence Dobrow Sidney & Barbara Geller on the birth of their twin granddaughters Joselyn Paige Polak & Lilah Shea Polak Norman & Myrna Grolnick on the birth of their grandson Blake Philip Fisher Gary & Robin Kushner on the naming of their grandson Jonah Gadarian Michael & Marcy Partnow on the birth of their granddaughter Ella Partnow Joan Paskow on the birth of her great-grandson Levi Carter Sawdon Bruce & Lynne Podrat on the engagement of their son Randy Torban to Laurie Stern Rabbi Michael Satz & Rabbi Janice Elster on the birth of their son Eitan Noam Elster-Satz Max Taytelbaum & Shonnie Lebovitz on the engagement of their daughter Stacey Taytelbaum to Nathaniel Hackney Joshua & Elizabeth Whinston on their recent marriage Stephen & Joan Whinston on the marriage of their son Joshua to Elizabeth Rogers Going The Extra Mile M’kor Shalom Finance Manager and World-Class Marathoner Alex Kasich Has a Need for Speed By Stephanie Arasim Portnoy For Alex Kasich, life is a numbers game. By day the Cherry Hill resident crunches numbers as Finance Manager of M’kor Shalom. By night, he’s recently been honored for his ability to crush numbers (and world records) in marathon and longdistance running. Just this past January, Kasich, along with 10 other world-class athletes, was inducted into the Mercer County Hall of Fame in Hickory Township, PA, honored both for his achievements as a runner at Hickory High School back in the ’70s and on the national stage. Among his many incredible accomplishments were being named an NCAA All-American Athlete in 1975; placing 9th in the New York City Marathon in 1981; placing Alex Kasich 22nd in 1983; being an Olympic trial qualifier twice and holding two world records: for the 1968 Phillippi 4-mile classic (run in 18 minutes, 38 seconds) and the 1986 Nike OTC 25K (completed in 1 hour, 16 minutes and 30 seconds). Alex spoke at the induction ceremony. Always a team player, he didn’t dwell solely on the accomplishments of the year’s fellow inductees—who included former players for the Pittsburgh Steelers and Tampa Bay Buccaneers—but for the extended group. “We were so grateful for the honor [of being inducted], but also grateful for the chance to get to thank our coaches and families for encouraging us, and, yes, tolerating us, while we pursued our dreams,” says Alex. “When you’re training at that high a level, it takes up so much of your time. Having your family’s support means everything.” Alex has that support at home, from his wife Elena, herself a former rhythmic gymnastics athlete in her native Siberia, and their young children, Katia, 8, and Michael, 9 months. While his busy career and home life don’t leave him much time to compete these days, he continues to run for fun both by himself and with members of the South Jersey Athletic Club. Asked for advice he’d give to aspiring runners, this hall-of-famer says that setting a realistic timeframe to train and being patient with oneself are key. With those two things, anyone can become a champion. “One of the things I like best about running is that it’s such an individual thing,” he says. “Some people are trying to beat the clock, others are trying to go faster than another person, some are just trying to finish. No matter what level you’re at, everyone’s trying to win their own race; and as long as you keep trying, you’re going to hit your goal.” Sounds like Alex has clearly already hit a few of his goals. In a life that’s a numbers game, there’s nothing better than being #1. High Holy Day Appeal 5770/2009 We gratefully acknowledge the following families who have contributed to this year’s High Holy Day Appeal. Dedicatory Contributions Jack & Sharon Weinberg in honor of M’kor Shalom Dennis & Jane Satanoff in memory of Mitzie & Arnold Fuhrman and Phillip Satanoff This list includes contributions received since the last edition of The Source. 3 On My Soapbox By Sherry Wolkoff My friends and I have reached a stage where our children are grown and live independently from us. Our days of carpooling them to Hebrew School are long gone, and our social activities no longer revolve around our synagogue. Although we still enjoy longstanding friendships made with other congregants, we have also moved on to enjoy travel and the activities and cultural events offered by the over-55 active adult communities where many of us now live. Though the synagogue is no longer central to our lives, I am saddened by the exodus of seniors from its membership rolls. Some of my friends tell me they don’t need it any longer. They have many reasons. It no longer suits their needs. It’s too expensive for the number of times they use it. They’d rather spend the money to take a trip. They can find a place for the High Holy Days that will let them in free. Sadly, I know quite a few people who dropped out the day after their child became a Bar or Bat Mitzvah – one actually celebrated the end of her child’s Hebrew School education with a pizza party. This comes at a time when synagogue membership is dropping precipitously due to the troubled economy and rising rate of intermarriage, and Jewish identity in many families is tenuous at best. It makes me think of the popular children’s book, The Giving Tree, by Shel Silverstein, which follows a friendship between a growing boy and a tree. The story begins as the tree is full grown and vibrant and healthy and the boy is very young. The tree gladly provides the child with shade, apples and a branch on which to hang a swing. As the boy grows older, he asks more and more of the tree and is never turned down. All the tree wants is for the boy to be happy. Eventually the boy becomes a man, cuts most of the tree down in order to make a boat, and the tree still does not protest. Many years later, the withered old man returns to the tree, which is now no more than a stump. The man asks to sit and rest on the stump while he waits for his own death, and the tree once again complies. There are many interpretations of this story, but my own is of a tree that served the boy well throughout his life, gave him everything it had, and is abandoned because it seemingly has nothing left to offer. Like the tree, a synagogue is weakened and diminished when we take what we need and then leave it behind. I have a problem with this on several levels. First, I believe we have an obligation to support Jewish institutions, as many of them need our membership desperately if they are to survive. In a world where Jewish rituals and observances often take a back seat to the pressures of modern life, it is the synagogues, the camps, the Jewish Community Centers and other Jewish organizations that help to keep Jewish life alive. The synagogue serves us faithfully…educating our children, enabling us to celebrate their B’nai Mitzvah, weddings and other life-cycle events, and helping us to build social lives and cultural traditions. Then, poof, we are done with it and out the door, with little thought for those who will come after us. Second, I believe that people who drop out after their children are grown are missing many opportunities to enjoy what synagogue life can offer them as they age. Most synagogues have reduced senior membership fees, but continue to plan events that are of interest to older congregants. Also, as we age and experience some of the stressors in later life, such as failing health and loss of loved ones, attending synagogue services can bring us an even greater sense of peace and restoration than it did in our younger days. As some of our friends die or move away, it offers us opportunities to create new friendships. Our increased leisure time affords us more opportunity to take advantage of adult education courses offered at many synagogues, reminding us that we are never too old to learn. Also, drop-outs miss opportunities to spend time in synagogue with their grandchildren and other extended family members, where they could be creating memories that will endure long after the last family Bar Mitzvah. Sure, that shul in Center City may offer free High Holy Day tickets, but is that where your children and grandchildren are? Third, I grew even more disturbed after I read the recent results of the Philadelphia Federation’s demographic study of Jewish population and synagogue membership trends. The rising rate of intermarriage is causing serious drops in synagogue membership, and even young inmarried couples have lower affiliation rates than their older counterparts. All of this portends serious problems for the future of Judaism. There’s no doubt that synagogue membership is expensive and can pose a hardship for some families. But synagogues will work with you if you explain your circumstances. If you do have the means, remember that most of our religious institutions are suffering from the poor economic climate yet must keep paying the bills in order to keep their doors open. So, I say give what you can. Keep on taking what the giving tree has to offer. Help keep its roots strong so that it may live to make another child happy, and keep Judaism alive and flourishing. Editor’s Note: The above first appeared as a blog entry on The Voice website where Sherry, a M’kor Shalom congregant, is a regular contributor. All congregants are welcome to participate in synagogue activities. If you have any special needs, please let us know by calling the synagogue office and leaving a message for the Caring Community Committee. We will make every attempt to arrange appropriate accommodations. 4 BOARD MEETINGS is published bi-monthly, September through May, by: Congregation M’kor Shalom 850 Evesham Road, Cherry Hill, NJ 08003 The March and April meetings of the Board of Trustees of Congregation M’kor Shalom will take place on Wednesday, March 17 at 7:30 pm and Wednesday, April 21 at 7:30 pm. All congregants are welcome to attend. From MAZON: A Question To Ask & Answer This Passover: Q. Why On This Night Are Millions Of People Going Hungry? A. Because on this night, like every other night, millions of people in poverty have no other choice. Ian Berg Father of Jeffrey Berg Arthur Dubowitch Father of Stuart Dubowitch Barbara Epstein Mother of Yale Epstein Craig Fisher Uncle of Cantor Scott Borsky David Garfield Husband of Marjorie Garfield Father of Valerie Dobrow, Caren Garfield & Rachel Garfield Theodore Gordon Uncle of Ellen Shapiro Daniel Jones Son-in-law of Michael & Kathy Perloff Jeremy Kane Son of Melinda Kane Brother of Daniel Kane & Benjamin Kane Shelly Kaneff Mother of Robert Kaneff Robert Klein Father of Anne Klein Farber Sylvia Markowitz Grandmother of Michael Koenig Bertha Mishkin Mother of Beverly Lerner Grandmother of Marc Snyderman Salvatore G. Perice Father of Salvatore Perice Judith Rood Mother of Jan Rood-Ojalvo Carol Schissel Grandmother of Ellyn Cominetto Albert Weiner Father of Penny Robinson John Wesley Father of Karen Slutsky Joseph Zalcmann Father of Albert Zalcmann Grandfather of Audrey Snyderman, Amy Waldman & David Zalcmann As Passover approaches each year, I think about MAZON: A Jewish Response to Gail Donner Hunger and all the good work they do. I always hope that the day will come when their work will be done and all will have enough to eat and a roof over their heads. Unfortunately, that day has not yet arrived. So, what can we do? • Make it a point to discuss this question and answer during our own seders. • Spread the word and ask others to do the same. • Take action by donating to MAZON (www.mazon.org) – or any other organization that helps feed the hungry – the amount you would have spent on your seder meal for one additional guest. Every action matters and every gift represents outreach to those who desperately need a helping hand. Since 1985, MAZON MAZON, with the support of the Jewish community, has awarded more than $50 million in grants to prevent and relieve hunger among people of all faiths and backgrounds in the United States, Israel and around the world. Recently, they participated in the “Haiti Food Project: A Second Aid Benefit Concert” and sent much-needed funds to that devastated nation. A national nonprofit organization, MAZON makes grants each year to more than 300 carefully screened hunger-relief agencies, including emergency food providers, food banks, multi-service organizations and advocacy groups that seek long-term solutions to the hunger problem. M’kor Shalom is one of over 2,000 synagogue and community partners of MAZON MAZON. We ask our families celebrating simchas and committees organizing events with meals to donate 3% of the food costs of the event to MAZON MAZON. We also ask all our families to participate in MAZON’s annual High Holy Day and Passover appeals. Especially in these difficult economic times, let’s keep in mind those less fortunate than ourselves, and do what we can, each according to our means, to make a contribution toward eradicating hunger and homelessness. B’shalom, Gail Green Corner The vibrant blooms of spring are nearly here and perhaps you’re thinking about starting your own organic vegetable garden, but you really don’t have the space, time or a green thumb. Yet, you care about the environment and want to do something to meet the goals of M’kor Shalom’s Green Covenant. Like many of you, I’m concerned about the source, safety and carbon footprint of food, and I want to take action. Last year I joined the Hazon Community Supported Agriculture (CSA) Program. Joining a CSA involves signing a contract, paying an upfront fee and becoming a shareholder in the harvest. You share both the risks and successes of the farmer’s harvest. Bountiful plump tomatoes or scrawny string beans are possibilities, but it was a delectable experience last year and I’m looking forward to a repeat performance in 2010. Discover and experience the culinary possibilities, as I did this past Thanksgiving with the dense flavors and aromas of a cornucopia of New Jersey organic roasted root vegetables like rutabaga, beets and white turnips. Your palate will be enlivened, surprised and amazed at how good local food tastes! Hazon is a CSA with Jewish roots (pun intended) that encourages our Jewish community to become ‘localvores’ and support local food producers who practice organic agriculture while remaining mindful of agriculture’s effects on the environment, economy and human health. Energy use is reduced by decreasing the distance from the field to the plate. Hazon sponsors social events, cooking demonstrations and visits to the farm. In the spirit of tikkun olam (“healing the world”) as well as good environmental and social justice practices, a portion of the weekly harvest is sent to help the hungry. Hazon is open to the southern New Jersey community and is organized by Marty Feigenbaum and Valerie Yasner (HazonCSAnj@gmail.com) with weekly produce pick-ups at Temple Beth Sholom. For more information, visit www.hazon.org/csa. – Debby Schwartz, M’kor Shalom Green Council 5 Four Very Special Dinners Passover snap shots Our Passover crowd of 30+ sometimes sits on cushions in a tent made of bed by Carol sheets hanging from the playroom Hupping Fisher ceiling to make us feel closer to the Jews who just left Egypt and are now in the desert. But, even if there is no tent, there is still Madam Matzah! This matronly gamester sometimes delights us with jokes or brings along Minnie Matzah for a few card tricks. Other times she leads us in a game of charades or Jewopardy. Whatever, everyone looks forward to her popping in for a few minutes of laughs during the pause in our seder. I remember when my greatgrandfather would hide the afikomen, and then, once we found it, we were given silver dollar coins wrapped in material with a rubber band. an elm ce Kim y by Jo by Jaime D. Friedman The only Hagaddahs we use at our seder our children brought home from Preschool and Religious School. M’kor Shalom is with us each year and will be forever a part of our family heritage. Sponsored by THE SENIORS March 12, April 9 and May 14, 6:00 pm March 24 (Senior Seder), 5:00 pm Join us before Shabbat services on the above dates in March and April for provocative conversation. Our March 12 dinner speaker will address “The Swiss Banks and Jewish Holocaust Money.” In April we will discuss “Jewish Resistance to the Nazis.” And, in May, we will hold a Dinner to Honor Roz Rodman. Stay tuned for more information about that special event. Also, we will hold a Senior Seder on March 24 starting at 5:00 pm. Now that will be a special dinner! Please remember that at M’kor Shalom, a SENIOR can be any adult who enjoys a variety of fun and stimulating programs where we renew old friendships and make new ones. If you are at a time in your life when you are no longer raising a family or working as much as you used to (or at all), now might be a good time to focus more on yourself and perhaps join activities for which you previously had no space in your busy life. Whether it is our famous SENIORS Dinners, Brown Bag Lunches, Social Dancing or special events like the Senior Seder or New York bus trip, SENIORS are creating a distinct presence as a “family of families” within M’kor Shalom. Stay connected and join us, as we set an example for others to follow. What is missing at SENIORS events? YOU! If you have any questions or would like to become more involved, don’t hesitate to contact either Harriet or Stan Ginsberg, co-chairs of THE SENIORS, at TheSeniors@mkorshalom.org. Introducing M’kor Cares How To Find Opportunities To ‘Do Good’ Boomers New Year’s Eve December 31 Since its start, Congregation M’kor Shalom has been known as THE synagogue in South Jersey devoted to social action and social justice. Helping others is at the heart of M’kor Shalom, and if ever there was a time to recommit to our community and the larger world around us and to teach these values to our children, that time is now. Many of our congregants actively volunteer, but sometimes it’s difficult to uncover appropriate volunteer activities for us as individuals or as a family. M’kor Cares is designed to make it easier for you to locate opportunities to engage in social action and other volunteer programs in our community, both inside and outside of the synagogue. Look for the M’kor Cares logo on synagogue announcements and visit the M’kor Cares website page at www.mkorshalom.org to easily identify volunteer opportunities supported by Congregation M’kor Shalom. These will include activities sponsored by our committees and our Religious School, some associated with our B’nai Mitzvah program and others supported by our clergy, staff and neighborhood partner programs. We know you will find meaningful opportunities for service that match your and your family’s interests and availability. The Board of Trustees thanks Holly Berlin for introducing this new idea to M’kor Shalom and Carol Hupping Fisher, chair of the Social Action Committee, for recognizing its value to our congregation. photos by Jack Weinberg 6 For more information, contact Holly at hollyberlin@comcast.net. Programming For Tots & Their Families Tot Shabbat is a unique Shabbat experience designed for children ages 2-Kindergarten to enjoy with their families. On March 13 at 10:00 am, in addition to our fun and lively celebration of Shabbat, we will focus on the holiday of Passover through interactive storytelling, dynamic music and wonderful crafts. On April 10, we will “travel” to Israel for an immersive celebration of Yom Ha’atzmaut, Israeli Independence Day. We will learn about the customs and people of the Jewish homeland and enjoy some yummy Israeli food. We encourage everyone to show Israeli pride and attend the service wearing blue and white. Passover snap shot Last year my older grandson Nathan (who was in Kindergarten at the time) recited the four questions in Hebrew – pretty much all by himself. He could not read the English, r ne by Gail Don however, and he suggested we have a new tradition – the youngest one who is able reads the Hebrew and the oldest reads the English. So my dad, who was never the youngest present in my memory, got to read the four questions, and my son (Nathan’s father) finally got to stop reading them – since he was no longer the youngest able. Tot Shabbat is open to all members of the community. Members and non-members of M’kor Shalom are welcome and encouraged to join in for the fun. Our second Mom’s Night Out will be held at 8:00 pm on Thursday, March 11. Join us at Swanky Bubbles (Cherry Hill) for a delicious tapas-style dinner and a fun evening unwinding with friends. Reservations must be received no later than March 3. The Mom’s Night Out II event chair is Jayne Bloom, whom you may contact at 424-1171 or jayne_jacova@verizon.net. Jewish Heritage Night At The Sixers January 13 Bring your Tots over their Spring Break from school for Spring Break Playtime with Puppets! This fun event, which is scheduled for 10:00 am on April 1, will include an interactive puppet show, an opportunity for kids to make their own special puppets and a kosher-for-Passover snack. The cost for this event is $9 per child if you RSVP on or before March 28 and $12 per child at the door. The Tot Programming Committee will sponsor a synagogue-wide fundraiser at The Pop Shop in Collingswood on Thursday, April 29. A portion of the bill for each family that eats at the restaurant on that date will be donated back to the synagogue. More information to come…stay tuned. For more information about Tot Programming or to volunteer to help at an event, please contact Cheryl Herzfeld at TotProgramming@mkorshalom.org, or Shannah Grossman at challahbackk@gmail.com. Tot Shabbat January 9 photos by Tami Bloom & Tracy Festinger K’lal Yisrael Corner Celebrate Israeli Independence Day M’kor Shalom Style Join the K’lal Yisrael and Ritual Committees for a Shabbat celebration of Yom Ha’atzmaut on Friday, April 23 at 8:00 pm. For more information, contact Bruce Matez at mkormatez@verizon.net. photos by Joel Herzfeld 7 The 5th Question: What To Do With The Seder Leftovers?!? M’korstock Names Its Charity Partner Join us on Monday, March 8 at 7:00 pm to find out Women’s Connection is hosting a special event called “Passover Chopped.” For the low price of $10, you can sample Passover wine, taste delicious Passover dishes prepared by volunteers and observe a cook-off between two of M’kor Shalom’s renowned chefs using items one might have as leftovers from a traditional seder. We are looking for volunteers to prepare 9 x 13 inch pans of any dairy or pareve (no meat) Passover dish (e.g., appetizer, vegetable, side dish, main dish, dessert). We ask that the items be brought in ready to serve. If you are volunteering to cook, RSVP to Lynne Podrat at WomensConnection@ mkorshalom.org. Women’s Connection Royal High Tea January 10 M’korstock was not just a day of awesome music, crafts and food. It was a fundraising event with profits shared between M’kor Shalom and Gift of Life Donor Program. The M’korstock II Planning Committee is proud to announce that Gift of Life once again will be a special collaborator with M’kor Shalom for the event in May 2011. Formerly known as Delaware Valley Transplant Program, the organization’s name was changed to Gift of Life Donor Program in 1999 to better reflect its mission to serve and support donor families, transplant patients, organ recipients and area hospitals. Since 1974, this organization has helped to coordinate more than 25,000 life-saving organ transplants and tens of thousands of life-enhancing tissue transplants. The relatively high rates of organ and tissue donations in this region are directly related to the courage of the families of organ and tissue donors who saw beyond their grief and loss and followed through with their loved one’s donation wishes. In addition to M’korstock II, our synagogue will collaborate with Gift of Life in a variety of ways in the coming year to bring awareness and education about the importance of organ donation. (See below.) An event like M’korstock does not just happen. It involves time, participation and sponsorship for the event to be a success. Bring your talents, ideas and enthusiasm and join us for the next planning meeting on March 4. For more information, please contact Rob Bloom at rbloom67@msn.com. Join The M’korstock Team At The “Dash For Donor Awareness” on April 18 We plan to have a M’korstock Team walk in the Gift of Life “Dash” that will be held on Sunday, April 18 at the Philadelphia Museum of Art starting at 9:15 am. If you are interested in participating in this worthy cause with fellow M’kor Shalom friends, contact Debbie Mitchell at dfmesq1@comcast.net. photos by Joyce Kimelman Two New Initiatives From JFCS To Serve Our Community Free Online Career Forum Women’s Connection At The Liberty Museum And Lunch February 5 In an effort to help those who are struggling in this economy and who may be looking for employment, JFCS has launched a new, free online Career Forum. Individuals seeking employment can post a description of the type of job they are seeking, and employers can browse through the descriptions to find someone who might match an employment need. The Southern NJ Addiction Planning Committee Event Sunday, March 7 JFCS is co-sponsoring, along with Jewish Family Service of Bergen and North Hudson, a Wellness Day for people with addiction issues and their friends and families. It will be a meaningful and uplifting experience. photos by Joyce Kimelman 8 To learn more about these services and other events, go to the JFCS website at www.jfcssnj.org. March Madness At The Gift Shop M’kor Shalom Theater Group Announces Older inventory offered at even deeper discount Look around for Passover. We have beautiful seder plates. Need a hostess present or just a cute apron to wear in the kitchen? We have matzah plates for sale. Pick out a candy dish. Why not have Alan Schorr’s fabulous CD, A Joyful Shabbat Noise, playing in the background of your seder? Get finger puppets and masks for the children to act out the 10 plagues. What a great way to bring fun and laughter to your seder while celebrating an important part of our history. We have a variety of haggadot with a focus on children, women or a more traditional telling of the Exodus story. This annual production is always a hoot and a holler and a big fundraiser for M’kor Shalom. There will be music, singing, comedy, laughter and wonderful desserts. If you are interested in participating in some capacity, contact Larry Siegel at larry@siegelweb.com or Beverly Weiss at bbweiss@aol.com. If you wish to perform, please note that there is a rigorous rehearsal schedule. It starts on Sunday evening March 28 and runs each Sunday from 7:00-9:30 pm through May 2. From May 2 through May 6, rehearsals are held from 7:00-10:00 pm, with a possible last run-through the morning of the May 8 show. Traditions often start with Weddings. Let the Gift Shop at M’kor Shalom get one started for you or someone you love. Pick out a wedding mezuzah or the glass to shatter at the ceremony. We have beautiful wedding plates, menorahs and Shabbat plates. Select a wedding frame or give a tzedekah box. Caring Community Shabbat 30% Off Everything in the Store* Opening (& Closing) Night Save the Date! Saturday, May 8 – Erev Mother’s Day January 29 Jewelry…Need we say more? We have a great collection of very well priced sterling silver jewelry. Treat yourself. Treat your child’s teacher. Buy for your mom or your friend. Now is the time to splurge. *Excludes kippot, tallitot and some books and music. Discount applied to up to two items per purchase Adult Israel Trip Led by Cantor Anita Hochman, Merle Steinberg and Musi Goldin Saturday, October 16 through Tuesday, October 26 photo by Sharon Weinberg This unique trip is not to be missed! We’ll travel the Northern Coast to Jerusalem, then to Jordan and Eilat and on to Tel Aviv. We’ll spend seven nights in Israel and one night in Jordan. Just about everything is included in the cost of this special trip, including the bus to the airport, breakfasts, dinners, overnight stays, tour fees, taxes, tips, insurance, flights and more. There are only a few spaces left. If you are interested, please contact Merle Steinberg as soon as possible at 424-4304 or MerleSteinberg@mkorshalom.org. Cooking For The Hungry December 24-25 Passover snap shots Our Passover meal is not complete without our family’s great matzah ball debate… sink or float?!? Which one wins at your house? by Leah Wolf Last Passover my 22-year-old niece Rachel was in month 4 of a 6-month trip to Israel. She loved living in Israel, but she was feeling very blue about missing our family seder, as Passover is her favorite holiday. She went to a lovely seder in Israel an ism by Erica Re and when she got home later that evening we called her on Skype (a software program that allows you to make video calls over the internet). We had her on video conference during our entire seder, and she was able to spend Passover with her aunts, uncles and cousins. She was so happy to be part of our seder and we all had a blast talking with Rachel in Israel while celebrating Passover. We will always remember how special that was. photos by Tracy Festinger 9 Erev Shabbat Service In Honor Of Martin Luther King, Jr. January 15 M’KOR SHALOM MONTHLY: MARCH The Image Of God In Medieval Jewish Poetry Led by Rabbi Jennifer Frenkel Sponsored by THE SENIORS Monday, March 1, 10:15 am Brown Bag Lunch Sponsored by THE SENIORS View Itzhak Perlman’s joyous documentary “In The Fiddler’s House.” Bring your own dairy or pareve lunch. Beverages and dessert provided. Monday, March 1, 11:45 am The Spiritual Dynamics Of Prayer photo by Jack Weinberg Monthly Mitzvot Mksy (our senior youth group) will host a Prom Dress Event on Wednesday, March 3, from 7:00-9:00 pm. Bring in your gently used formal wear (such as prom and bridesmaid dresses, shoes, accessories and men’s suits and shoes). Mksy volunteers will take these to Camden County High School for students to select items for their prom this year. Contact Jessie Cohen at 428-5450 or jncdrama@aol.com or Lori Garber at 772-1007 or lagarbs@comcast.net if you need more information. From March 15 through March 19, drop off at the synagogue filled shoe boxes to support the Interfaith Homeless Outreach Council (IHOC). Fill a shoebox with full-size personal care items such as toothbrushes, toothpaste, shampoo, deodorant, wash cloths, socks and underwear. Separate items by category and label each box for a man, woman, boy, girl or baby. If you have any questions about Adopt-A-Box, please contact Lori at 772-1007 or lagarbs@comcast.net. In April (watch E!Minders for more information), Achim (The Men’s Group) will sponsor an Images and Attitudes Career Clothing Drive for Men. Image and Attitude, Inc. is a non-profit organization that helps to improve the image and selfesteem of economically disadvantaged men, women and at-risk youth by providing quality business attire and personal and professional development support to help ensure employment success and job retention. It is located in Pennsauken, NJ. We will collect men’s gently worn suits, ties and shoes. Please contact Lori at lagarbs@comcast. net for more information. During the week of April 13, unopened boxes of aluminum foil, plastic wrap and plastic bags can be dropped off at the main synagogue office. These will be delivered to MetroCamden Ronald McDonald House. Study Series with Rabbi Jennifer Frenkel Sponsored by Adult Education See article on page 16 for details. Mondays, March 1, 15 & 22, 7:30 pm Social Dancing Sponsored by THE SENIORS Learn the Cha Cha! $20 per person for congregants; $25 for non-members 6 Mondays, through April 19, 7:30 pm (No sessions March 29 & April 5) Achim (The Men’s Group) Lunch At Short Hills Deli This group has no planned agenda, other than pleasant conversation and a shared meal with men from M’kor Shalom. No RSVP necessary. Questions? Contact Howard Greenberg at howiegre@aol.com. Wednesday, March 3, 12:00 noon Prom Gown/Formal Wear Collection Sponsored by Mksy and Social Action Bring in your new or gently used formal wear, such as prom and bridesmaid dresses and men’s tuxedos and suits. Wednesday, March 3, 7:00 pm Social Action Cooking Sponsored by Social Action Committee Join fellow congregants at the synagogue to cook meals that will be delivered to New Visions Community Services of Camden. Limited space. You must RSVP to tfestinger@comcast.net. Thursday, March 4, 7:00 pm Shabbat Havurah (Renewal Shabbat) Friday, March 5, 8:00 pm Cherry Hill Volvo Jewish Film Festival Of The Katz JCC Sunday, April 18 – Sunday, April 25 Celebrate the best in Jewish film from around the world with thrills, laughs and stories that move the heart and touch the soul. The 5th annual festival promises something for all. For more information, visit www.katzjcc.org. 10 New Dimensions – Awakening Service Led by congregants Steve Cohen and Hope Honeyman, this service incorporates breathwork and easy movement, song, traditional liturgy and contemporary readings, as well as meditation. Saturday, March 6, 10:00 am Shabbat Services Saturday, March 6, 10:30 am & 5:45 pm M’KOR SHALOM MONTHLY: MARCH Mystery Date Night Sponsored by M’kor Shalom Parents Association There may be a few spots left for this fun-filled evening. Contact Jaime D. Friedman at jd_friedman@yahoo.com. Saturday, March 6, 8:00 pm Monthly Bake Sale In School Lobby Sponsored by M’kor Shalom Parents Association Sunday, March 7, 8:30 am – 12:30 pm “Chopped” – The 5th Question What to do...What to do...With all your seder leftovers? Sponsored by Women’s Connection See article on page 8 for details. The evening includes a cook-off using seder leftovers as ingredients. $10.00 per person. Questions? Contact Lynne Podrat at WomensConnection@mkorshalom.org. Monday, March 8, 7:00 pm Grief Support Group Sponsored by Caring Community Committee Ongoing, the 2nd Monday and 4th Wednesday of each month; open to all who have suffered a loss. Monday, March 8, 8:00 pm Wednesday, March 24, 8:00 pm Mom’s Night Out II Sponsored by Tot Programming See article on page 7 for details. Join us for dinner at Swanky Bubbles. Questions? Contact Jayne Bloom at jayne_jacova@verizon.net. Thursday, March 11, 8:00 pm Erev Shabbat Dinner Sponsored by THE SENIORS Congregant Steve Whinston will speak on “The Swiss and Jewish Money.” $18/congregant; $23/guest. Friday, March 12, 6:00 pm Shabbat Tzedek (Justice Shabbat) Friday, March 12, 8:00 pm Tot Shabbat A unique Shabbat experience designed for children ages 2-5 to enjoy together with their families. This month we will focus on Passover with interactive storytelling, dynamic music and wonderful crafts. As always, the entire community is welcome. Saturday, March 13, 10:00 am Torah Study Sponsored by Adult Education Sarah Rosenson will lead a discussion of the week’s portion (Vayakhel/Pekude) on March 13 and Stefanie Cohen will discuss Bemidbar from a Kabbalistic perspective on March 20. Saturdays, March 13 & 20, 10:00 am Shabbat Services Saturday, March 20, 10:30 am & 5:45 pm Passover Wine & Horseradish Sale Saturday, March 13, 10:30 am & 5:45 pm Sponsored by Achim (The Men’s Group) Looks for us in the school and administrative lobbies for a selection of fine and traditional Passover wines and homemade horseradish. Sundays, March 21 & 28, 8:30 am – 1:00 pm Daylight Saving Time Begins M’Cabaret Shabbat Services Sunday, March 14 Diaspora Education Program Sponsored by Adult Education See article on page 15 for details. Sunday, March 14, 10:45 am Adopt-A-Box Sponsored by Social Action Fill a shoe-box with full-size personal care items and underwear, mark for “man, woman or child” and bring to the synagogue. Will be distributed to area shelters. Monday-Friday, March 15-19 Horseradish Preparation Sponsored by Achim (The Men’s Group) Share in the fun of preparing horseradish from scratch, to be sold to the congregation for Passover. Mitzvah credit available. Questions? Contact Howard Greenberg at howiegre@aol.com. Monday, Tuesday & Wednesday, March 15, 16 & 17, 6:30 pm AARP Safe Driving Course An evening honoring our clergy and celebrating our congregation Hosted by the Past Presidents of M’kor Shalom Cocktails and Supper, featuring Eddie Bruce in his acclaimed musical tribute to Tony Bennett. Sunday, March 21, 6:00 pm Passover Seder Sponsored by THE SENIORS “Ourstory” – A Modern Haggadah in Words and Music. $45/person; RSVP by March 17. Wednesday, March 24, 5:00 pm Shabbat Limud (Learning Shabbat) This service will include excerpts from “A Joyful Shabbat Noise,” by Alan Schorr. Friday, March 26, 8:00 pm Shabbat Services Saturday, March 27, 10:30 am & 5:45 pm Confirmation Class Trip To Israel Saturday, March 27 – Tuesday, April 6 First Seder Sponsored by THE SENIORS $12 for AARP Members; $14 for Non-members Make checks payable to AARP – send to synagogue ASAP. Class is limited to 25 participants. Wednesday & Thursday, March 17 & 18, 9:30 am Monday, March 29 Board Of Trustees Meeting Monday & Tuesday, March 29 & 30. All congregants are welcome to attend. Wednesday, March 17, 7:30 pm Shabbat Mishpacha (Family Service) Our third graders help lead the service. March birthdays will be recognized. Friday, March 19, 7:30 pm Fellowship Minyan A meditative and spiritual Erev Shabbat experience for adults. Friday, March 19, 7:30 pm Passover Tuesday, March 30 – Monday, April 5 Office Closed In Observance Of Passover Deadline For The Source All articles, announcements and essays should be submitted to editor for publication in the May/ June edition of the congregation’s newsletter. Wednesday, March 31 For more information about these events and to register , please go to the M’kor Shalom website at www.mkorshalom.org and click on the “What’s Happening” tab. 11 M’KOR SHALOM MONTHLY: APRIL Spring Break Playtime Sponsored by Tot Programming Committee Spring Break Playtime with Puppets. See article on page 7 for details. Thursday, April 1, 10:00 am Social Action Cooking Sponsored by Social Action Committee Join fellow congregants at the synagogue to cook meals that will be delivered to New Visions Community Services of Camden. Limited space. You must RSVP to tfestinger@comcast.net. Thursday, April 1, 7:00 pm Shabbat Havurah (Renewal Shabbat) Friday, April 2, 8:00 pm Concluding Service For Passover Yizkor is recited. Sunday, April 4, 7:30 pm Office Closed: Last Day Of Passover Monday, April 5 Achim (The Men’s Group) Lunch At Short Hills Deli This group has no planned agenda, other than pleasant conversation and a shared meal with men from M’kor Shalom. No RSVP necessary. Questions? Contact Howard Greenberg at howiegre@aol.com. Wednesday, April 7, 12:00 noon Women & Spirituality Group Wednesday, April 7, 7:30 pm Erev Shabbat Dinner Sponsored by THE SENIORS “Jewish Resistance to the Nazis” $18/congregant; $23/guest Friday, April 9, 6:00 pm Shabbat Tzedek (Justice Shabbat) Friday, April 9, 8:00 pm Tot Shabbat A unique Shabbat experience designed for children ages 2-5 to enjoy together with their families. Music, storytelling, crafts and more! This month, we will “travel” to Israel for a celebration of Yom Ha’atzmaut, Israeli Independence Day. As always, the entire community is welcome. Saturday, April 10, 10:00 am 12 New Dimensions: Awakening Service Led by congregants Steve Cohen and Hope Honeyman, this service incorporates breathwork and easy movement, song, traditional liturgy and contemporary readings, as well as meditation. Saturday, April 10, 10:00 am Shabbat Services Saturday, April 10, 10:30 am & 5:45 pm Yom Hashoah Holocaust Remembrance Day Sunday, April 11 Monthly Bake Sale In School Lobby Sponsored by M’kor Shalom Parents Association Sunday, April 11, 8:30 am – 12:30 pm Brown Bag Lunch Sponsored by THE SENIORS Professor Jennifer Kay will speak on “Shlomo the Dancing Robot/Robots 101.” Bring your own dairy or pareve lunch. Beverages and dessert provided. Monday, April 12, 11:45 am Social Dancing Sponsored by THE SENIORS Learn the Cha Cha! $20 per person for congregants; $25 for non-members for each 6-session series. This series began March 1. Mondays, April 12 & April 19, 7:30 pm Jewish Humor: No Area of Life Left Untouched Sponsored by Adult Education Led by Rabbi Richard A. Levine Rabbi Levine will present an informative, thought provoking and, yes, entertaining look at Jewish humor throughout the ages. See article on page 15 for details. 4 Mondays, April 12 through May 3, 7:30 pm Grief Support Group Sponsored by Caring Community Committee Ongoing, the 2nd Monday and 4th Wednesday of each month; open to all who have suffered a loss. Monday, April 12, 8:00 pm Wednesday, April 28, 8:00 pm Men’s Casual Night Out Sponsored by Achim (The Men’s Group) Meet at Kaminski’s (Brace Road in Cherry Hill) for casual conversation and refreshments. No RSVP necessary. Thursday, April 15, 7:30 pm Shabbat Mishpacha ((Family Service) Our second graders help lead the service; April birthdays will be recognized. Friday, April 16, 7:30 pm Fellowship Minyan A meditative and spiritual Erev Shabbat experience for adults. Friday, April 16, 7:30 pm Torah Study Sponsored by Adult Education Committee Yossi Afek leads the discussions this month. Saturdays, April 17 & 24, 10:00 am Shabbat Service Saturday, April 17, 10:30 am Holocaust Studies Series: Survival in Auschwitz Sponsored by Adult Education “Staying Alive,” an analysis of Primo Levi’s Survival in Auschwitz. See article on page 16 for details. Sunday, April 18, 10:00 am Board Of Trustees Meeting All congregants are welcome. Wednesday, April 21, 7:30 pm K’lal Yisrael Shabbat Celebrate Israeli Independence Day M’kor Shalom style. Friday, April 23, 8:00 pm Shabbat Services Saturday, April 24, 10:30 am & 5:45 pm M’kor Cares Brunch Volunteering: Stories from the Front Line Our own Dan Gottlieb leads the conversation. Sunday, April 25, 11:00 am Communications Deadline Submit material for E!Minders and May M’korMonthly Wednesday, April 28 The Pop Shop Fundraiser Details coming soon. Thursday, April 29 Erev Shabbat Service Friday, April 30, 8:00 pm For more information about these events and to register , please go to the M’kor Shalom website at www.mkorshalom.org and click on the “What’s Happening” tab. TORAH COMMENTARY This month: “What does it mean for us to be holy like God?” The Talmud has become a foundation of our Jewish faith. Written over a period of 300 years and completed in 500 CE, it has a unique look and composition with commentary from medieval rabbis surrounding text from Torah. In each edition of The Source Source, congregants serve as our rabbis, our teachers, and we present their words in the format of the Talmud. The rest of Leviticus 19 provides specific examples of what it Jewish holiness stems from Leviticus 19. God directs the Israelites to means to be holy like God. Many of these are about ethical behavior strive for holiness. Holiness is portrayed as both a God-like quality and on an individual level: respect your mother and father; do not a goal for individuals to strive for. Included among the laws of holiness mistreat the disabled (deaf and are: a prohibited list of sexual blind); do not swear falsely by relations (it’s okay to read on, God’s name; and show respect I won’t go there); restrictions for the elderly. Included are on the way that one relates to “You shall be holy, for I, the Lord your God, am holy.” some of the classic dictates of neighbors, business associates (Leviticus 19:2) the Bible (“love your neighbor and hired workers; and ritual To be holy like God means to achieve the status of saintliness, as yourself”) and Judaism (“do restrictions such as eating blood. which can only be achieved by loving your neighbor infinitely. When not mistreat the stranger for The Jewish relationship with you were strangers in Egypt”). one is successful in doing that, one experiences joy and that is when God emanates from God setting Some examples are more we achieve holiness like God. The joy of loving our neighbor (a.k.a. apart the Jewish people as the specifically about social justice bearing the burden of the ‘other’) is infinite as God is infinite. chosen ones. The people of Israel such as leave part of your Since the human experience and worldliness is finite, meaning are commanded to be holy in order harvest for the poor and do we have a beginning and an end, experiencing holiness requires us to be considered God’s people. not hold back wages from your to integrate interruptive (ritual) and instantiative (ethical) mitzvot. Being close to God is employees. Others are about Interruptive mitzvot interrupt our obsessions with ourselves considered holiness. Objects following rituals… (observe the and material distractions. This preoccupation with ourselves is such as synagogue buildings and Sabbath)… about taking care of called our yetzer hara. Saying motzi before a meal is an example Torah scrolls are considered holy your body (do not use tattoos)… of an interruptive mitzvah because its intention is to make us stop because they are used in a way about taking care of the earth to consider the ‘other’ and his/her needs. Instantiative mitzvot that brings them close to God. (do not eat fruit from trees you actualize the bearing of the other’s burden. Listening to someone, Holiness is also achieved by plant until the fifth year). responding compassionately, acting with humility and doing what doing good deeds; those that are When we are holy like God, will bear their burden are ways that we express instantiative mitzvot. ethically and ritually proper. we connect and elevate that part Through these combined efforts, we can experience glimpses of My view of holiness relates of God that is within us. We strive holiness or joy when we feel truly connected with another human being primarily to my relationships with for the highest ethical standards in loving them or bearing their burden. Experiencing these moments of others. At the forefront are my in our relations with each other joy inspires us to seek more joy that in turn helps us to strengthen relationships with my wife Eileen, and with the world. To reach our soul, also known as our yetzer tov. Our hope is that one day our my children, my mother and my this goal requires discipline. souls will be enlarged to the point of achieving saintliness. sisters. I also consider the choices It helps to follow rituals and to It is interesting that this text is found in the middle (neither the I make that impact my world. show respect for our bodies and beginning nor the end) of the Torah, which further reinforces its These are easily achieved at M’kor our natural environment. This infinite wisdom. Shalom, whether it is sharing in discipline constantly reminds – Catherine S. Fischer the joy of a congregant’s simcha, us of our ethical obligations, giving support to a grieving family of our higher selves and of our by attending a shiva service, giving connection to God. To be ordinary is easy; to be holy is difficult. tzedakah or taking part in the IHOC program. My sense of holiness begins However, only in this way can we transform ourselves and the world. with my family and my synagogue. May you find holiness in your life. – Joshua Spielberg – Robert Elias How can we be holy like God? The question itself feels arrogant. After all, we’re just humans, imperfect at best. Sometimes we make bad choices or disappoint ourselves and those we love. How can we be compared to God? Holiness is simply part of Godliness, an inherent aspect of the Divine. In humans, holiness feels less attainable. But I propose that holiness is in fact as inherent in us as it is in God. Humans are uniquely able to form relationships, to repair the world through connections with others and with God. It is our job to use our Divine sparks to do that. Note that “spark” is both a noun and a verb. We can imagine a Divine spark as a light or an essence that fuels our own capacity for holiness. It represents God’s most blessed gift to us, a piece of God that becomes essential to our human existence. However, the verb “to spark” means to create, to inspire, to produce. We must “spark” to action, doing good work and living with integrity, kindness and creativity. The words, “You shall be holy, for I the Lord your God am holy,” are a command as well as a gift, an instruction from God to do our best work from that point of light within us. So is our holiness the same as God’s holiness? That depends on how we view the Divine energy that inspires us. To me, when we quiet our minds enough to really hear our inner voice, when we allow our actions to be guided by the essence of God within us, we are living in holiness. Is that the same as God’s holiness? I believe it is. – Stefanie Cohen 13 RELIGIOUS SCHOOL NEWS Teenagers! Merle Steinberg Education Director Diane Malin Assistant Education Director In The Spring Our Focus Turns To Teenagers – In Many Different Ways Our Confirmation Class (10th Grade) is getting ready for two major events. The first is the journey to Israel that will begin on March 27. Rabbi Jennifer Frenkel and Bruce Matez, who are the Confirmation Class teachers, and I will lead a group of 20 M’kor Shalom students on a never to be forgotten adventure to our Jewish homeland. Joining us this year will be Rabbi Debbie Cohen and Barry Pisetzner and 13 students from Temple Emanuel in Cherry Hill. There is no bonding like the bonding that takes place while climbing Masada or visiting the Kotel. These students are also preparing for Confirmation, which takes place on the festival of Shavuot on Wednesday, May 18. The students will lead the morning service and have chosen their parts according to their strengths and preferences. For now, they are busy practicing Torah and Haftarah portions, writing essays and rehearsing songs. It all comes together in this house; a meaningful and beautiful service. Blue Box Bob January 10 photos by Diane Malin Club 5-6: Iron Chef January 18 Rutgers! Penn State! Delaware! NYU! Boston! Maryland! And the screams fill our hallways as one by one our senior students find out where they are going to college next year. This is an emotional time for them, their families… and for us… Not everyone gets accepted to his or her first choice. The scholarship money may or may not come through, and they need still another letter of recommendation–yesterday! Some teens have known for months through the early admission process and the rest, by April 1, will know in what state they will live next fall. Graduating from public school is only part of their roller coaster year. Our seniors are getting ready to graduate from Post-Confirmation as well. This year on Tuesday, May 11, our 28 twelfth graders will sit on the same bimah they sat on at their Consecration, Bar/Bat Mitzvah and Confirmation to receive their certificate of graduation. Their thoughtful essays, reflecting their educational experience at M’kor Shalom, will be bound in a booklet for all to read, and a few will be read at graduation. Their 12th grade teachers, Rabbi Barry Schwartz, Steve Burkett and Drew Molotsky, will share with their parents, family and friends the pride of this special “M’kor Moment.” Soon most will be members of the College Connection, receiving packages of treats throughout the year from our congregation. And as for me… I have known most of these students since they were little. Watching them grow and take their places in the world is, on a personal level, an emotional experience filled with pride. On a professional level, no Educator could ask for a more extraordinary testament to the work that we do. Thou shalt teach… commands us to educate but does not begin to explain the rewards that we receive by fulfilling this commandment. We look forward to seeing our Confirmands next year in Post-Confirmation and our Graduates at the High Holy Days. Teenagers! – Merle Steinberg 14 photos by Diane Malin and Steven Pantaliano MKSY At WINSTY January 16-18 photo by Meara Lebovitz We Celebrate The B’nai Mitzvah Of: March 6 10:30 am 5:45 pm Brett Olin, son of Sean & Robin Olin Daniel Neumann, son of Marc & Elyse Neumann March 13 10:30 am 5:45 pm Dayna Wachman, daughter of Barry & Marsha Wachman Emily Lichtenstadter, daughter of Debra Bromson March 20 10:30 am 5:45 pm Roxanne Friedman, daughter of Jerry & Judith Friedman Aaron Molotsky, son of Brad & Ellen Molotsky March 27 10:30 am Zachary Kuptsow, son of Scott & Eileen Kuptsow Sadie Ronga-Rubin, daughter of Susan Rubin and Gloria Ronga Scott Abrams, son of Brad & Suzanne Abrams 5:45 pm April 10 10:30 am 5:45 pm Raffi Cohen, daughter of Matthew & Beth Cohen Evan Zelig, son of David & June Zelig Avery Reiter, daughter of Michael & Stacy Reiter April 17 10:30 am Rob Kaplan, son of Charles & Tracy Kaplan April 24 10:30 am 5:45 pm Alex Vincoff Vincoff, son of David & Elyse Vincoff Bobby Waller, son of Robert & Susan Waller We Welcome Our New Members Lawrence & Valerie Dobrow New York Ari & Rebecca Forman Wynnewood, PA Stephen & Michelle Weichert Jacob, Jessica, & Joseph Voorhees Diaspora Series Program The Jews of Turkey, Ancient and Modern Adult Education Committee Lecture Series Sunday, March 14, 10:45 am The Adult Education Committee proudly presents what it is hoped will be an annual series of programs focused on Jewish communities throughout the Diaspora. Historically, American Jews have looked inward to the evolution and needs of Jews in the United States and outward in strong support for the modern State of Israel. This is understandable. Additionally, we have reacted in short bursts to crises affecting Jews in other parts of the Diaspora, such as the campaign to support the Jews of the former Soviet Union, the Falasha Jews of Ethiopia and Jews impacted by international political and economic crises. Jewish Humor: No Area Of Life Left Untouched April 12, 19, 26 and May 3, 7:30-9:00 pm However, we do not seem to maintain an ongoing interest in the history and present-day status of Jewish communities throughout the world. We may occasionally travel to countries with relics of ancient Jewish communities or meet Diaspora Jews during the course of conducting our business affairs. However, what do we really know about other Jewish communities that remain, whether vibrant or weak, in far-flung places and how their histories brought them to their current status? Through educational and entertaining programs presented by noted speakers who possess expertise on countries with an existing Jewish community, or by others in our community who may be expatriates or have specialized knowledge about these countries, we expect that this series will offer insight and new perspective on the Jewish Diaspora. We begin our series with the Jews of Turkey and a presentation by Laurence Salzmann, a noted professional photographer/filmmaker who, along with his wife, Ayse Gursen-Salzmann, an anthropologist at the University of Pennsylvania, has extensively studied the history of the remaining Jewish communities in Turkey. Salzmann and his Turkish-born wife travelled throughout Turkey during a five-year residency (1984-89) to discover and record Jewish life. His approach involved long term observation of local communities, developing close relationships with the subjects of his images, speaking their languages and following the activities of their daily lives. Salzmann will present his film, “Turkey’s Sephardim – 500 Years,” which looks at the history of Turkey’s Sephardic Jews, descended from Jews expelled from Spain in 1492. The film will be followed by a question and answer session. There will also be Turkish culinary treats. This program will offer an opportunity to learn about how the Jews of Turkey blend their Jewish religious life and traditions with the larger Turkish culture. The Adult Education Committee proudly welcomes Rabbi Richard A. Levine of Rabbi Richard A. Levine Adath Emanu-el (Mt. Laurel, NJ) as a speaker in our 2009-1010 Lecture Series. Rabbi Levine will present an informative, thought provoking and, yes, entertaining look at Jewish Humor throughout the ages. Describing this lecture series, Rabbi Levine remarks, “Some have said it is Jewish Humor that has helped our people survive the many trials and tribulations that have confronted us over the centuries. Yet, Jewish Humor goes beyond that. It has enabled us, among other things, to laugh at ourselves, our community and our ‘accomplishments.’ We will engage in ‘serious’ study of a wide range of topics dealing with people, situations, pogroms and even God. Everything is worthy of humorous treatment by the Jewish people. At the same time, there will be many chances to smile and laugh.” 15 New Study Series With Rabbi Frenkel Adonai S’fatai Tiftach (Adonai Open My Lips): The Spiritual Dynamics of Prayer March 1, 15 & 22, 7:30-9:00 pm Rabbi and theologian Abraham Joshua Heschel once wrote, “The worth of public worship depends upon the depth of private worship, of the private worship of those who worship together.” There are at least two dimensions of prayer in the Jewish tradition, keva (the fixed form of the prayers and their recitation) and kavannah (heartfelt intention/ direction). In this class, we will learn about both, but with a stronger emphasis on kavannah. We will look at traditional, Hasidic, mystical and modern-day texts related to prayer and at different versions of familiar prayers. We will also experiment with Jewish meditational techniques, chanting and musical arrangements for daily, Shabbat and holiday liturgy. No Hebrew reading ability is necessary, just an interest in spending some time concentrating on what we each can and do bring to our personal and communal prayers. Holocaust Studies Series Survival in Auschwitz Audio Books Basic Modern Hebrew by Pimsleur Language Program…Learn to speak and understand modern Hebrew using the highly effective Pimsleur Method that gives you quick command of the language without tedious drills. Beat the Reaper by Josh Bazell…In this darkly comic suspense novel, Bazell follows the 14-yearold protagonist as he evolves from a hit man avenging the murder of his grandparents to a medical intern in a witness-protection program. Brighton Beach Memoirs by Neil Simon…In this memoir of his family in 1930’s Brooklyn, Neil Simon contrasts the comic growing pains of teenager Eugene with the family’s struggles with illness, poverty and Hitler’s rise to power in Europe. This production is read by Valerie Harper. DVDs DNA: Secret of Photo 51…NOVA investigates the shocking truth behind the discovery of the double helix structure of DNA by the brilliant biologist Rosalind Franklin. Old Jews Telling Jokes…The 18 joke tellers featured in this delightful film are not professional actors. They are regular folk like your Jewish grandfather or uncle delivering off-color and risqué jokes from a bygone era. Two Lovers…This classic romantic drama set in Brooklyn stars Joaquin Phoenix as a bachelor torn between the family friend his parents are hoping he will marry and his exotic and mysterious new neighbor (Gwyneth Paltrow). Books Delilah: A Novel by India Edghill…Edghill’s book is a spellbinding and emotionally powerful retelling of the Biblical story of Samson and Delilah. April 18 at 10:00 am The Adult Education Committee proudly presents the second program of this year’s Holocaust Studies Series we entitled “Staying Alive.” The program on April 18 will be an analysis of Primo Levi’s book, Survival in Auschwitz. Larry Glaser, congregant and professor of Holocaust Studies at Richard Stockton College, will guide our study. Scholars of the Holocaust are certain that other than those who were actually there, nobody could imagine what it would take to survive imprisonment in Auschwitz. The novelist Philip Roth tells us that for Primo Levi, “…[T]hinking and observing were survival factors.” Levi himself writes of Auschwitz and says, “Here the struggle to survive is without respite, because everyone is desperately and ferociously alone.” Levi painstakingly and vividly describes the process of his capture, transport, incarceration and eventual liberation in a riveting book entitled, Survival in Auschwitz. For the author, this book was an act of courage and the fulfillment of a commitment to face and record the painful experience. For those of us who were not there but are drawn to the lessons of history, this book is a tool for inquiry that should motivate meaningful discussion. Come join us to listen or share your thoughts and feelings about Holocaust survival. We’ll delve into what Primo Levi can teach us about staying alive in body, in mind and in spirit while fighting a battle designed to terminate all three. 16 The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Mary Ann Shaffer…In the1940s, Juliet Ashton, a single, 30-something author, reveals through letters written by the inhabitants of Guernsey, the tragic stories of life under Nazi occupation. Shaffer writes with humor and optimism while affirming the power of books to sustain people during difficult times. Manhood for Amateurs: The Pleasures and Regrets of a Husband, Father and Son by Michael Chabon…In a collection of entertaining essays, novelist Chabon revisits his suburban Maryland childhood of the 1970s with nostalgia and humor. He describes himself as “an attentive father and a fairly observant Jew” who lives in Berkeley, California, with his four children and his wife, author Ayelet Waldman. Conquering Fear: Living Boldly in an Uncertain World by Harold S. Kushner…In his 12th book, Kushner, bestselling author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People, urges readers to overcome fears such as rejection, aging and death through trust, faith, hope and courage. Library Hours (when Religious School is in session) Sundays, 8:30 am – 12:30 pm Mondays, 4:00-6:00 pm Tuesdays, 10:00 am – 12:00 pm; 4:00-6:00 pm & 7:30-9:00 pm Wednesdays 4:00-6:00 pm Friday after services Questions? Contact Deena Worrell at library@mkorshalom.org. In times of happiness or sadness sadness, M’kor SShalom offers a variety of ways to share your wishes and thoughts with others. Minimum donation $12; 2 Silver Cards 2; $18;; Gol $18 Goldd Cards $36, unless otherwise noted. Cards to keep at home and send yourself are also available in packs of 5 for $$36 36.. Every attempt is made to list all 36 contributions received in the synagogue office by the 1st of every very other month in the following issue of The Source. Contributions may also be made online from the M’kor Shalom website (www.mkorshalom.org). In Memory Of Jeremy Kane Son of Melinda Kane, Brother of Daniel Kane & Benjamin Kane Jeremy Kane Confirmation Class Israel Trip Fund Rabbis’ Good Works Fund To provide support for the Confirmation Class Trip to Israel Amy & Debra Schwarzl and Family Barbara, Stew, Jackie & Andrew Abrams Carol & David Laskin Catherine & Richard Fischer Dan Gottlieb David & Susan Rush David Burd & TGS Financial David Singer Eileen & Robert Elias Erica, Richard & Zoe King Gail & Dick Donner Gail, Steven, Hope & Sarah Fine Gerri & Larry Carroll Harriet & Stan Ginsberg Howard & Stacy Heyman and Family Irene Giman & Glenn Trommer and Family Joanne Rosenthal Jodi & Les Streitfeld John & Marilyn Hailperin Jovina Spirgel Leonard Sattel Lisa & Mitchell Conn Lynda & Steve Hopkins Madison Palat and Family Marla & Gary Vecchio and Family Marty & Joni Bisk Merle & Bernie Steinberg Michael, Barbara, Samantha, Brett & Allyson Wolf M’kor Shalom 2004 Confirmation Class Neil & Suzan Weitz Penni & Buddy Mandel Peter & Elle Hecht Peter & Faye Rosengard and Family Renée & David Weisband and Family Robert, Wendy, Jenna & Sarah Spivack Ron & Beth Brody and Family Sandy & Dick Simon Scott Mullen Seth & Erica Concors Adult Education Fund To support programming for adults. Received From Beverly Solomon In Memory Of David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Rose Solomon, mother-in-law Sidney Franklin, father Sophie Solomon, sister-in-law Lorna Seidman, mother of Maury Seidman Shelly Kaneff, mother of Robert Kaneff Jeff & Celestine Berg Abraham and Sylvia Angstreich Building Preservation Endowment Fund* In Memory Of Linda & Steven Angstreich David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Patsy Brandt, wife of David Brandt Joseph Zalcmann, father of Albert Zalcmann David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Myrna & Norman Grolnick Steve & Rolane Sunshine Received From Sara, John, Jessica & Julia Honovich In Honor Of The marriage of David & Marjorie Garfield’s daughter Valerie to Lawrence Dobrow Carol Neulander Beautification and Completion Fund Received From To beautify and complete our building and grounds. Morra & David Molotsky In Memory Of Patsy Brandt, wife of David Brandt Received From Iron Chef Program Participants Mary Ellen, Maury, Sam, Brian & Claire Seidman In Honor Of Judy Stern Rabbi Frenkel Caring Community Fund To support the Caring Community Committee in their efforts to make M’kor Shalom a more compassionate and inclusive synagogue. Received From In Memory Of Karen & Mark Cohen Albert Weiner, father of Penny Robinson Marylee & Stuart Alperin David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Sharon & Arky Halperin Daniel Jones, son-in-law of Kathy & Michael Perloff Shonnie Lebovitz, Max Taytelbaum and Meara Lebovitz Joseph Zalcmann, father of Albert Zalcmann Steven & Marcy Lahav Arthur Dubowitch, father of Stuart Dubowitch Sue & Gary Polikoff Albert Weiner, father of Penny Robinson The Sklar Family Ian Berg, father of Jeffrey Berg William & Marian Karsif Albert Weiner, father of Penny Robinson Received From Barbara & Stew Abrams Carol & David Laskin Karen & Neal Slutsky In Honor Of The birth of Lynn & Bob Davis’ granddaughter, Sarah Levanah Davis The engagement of Sheryl & Craig Dossick’s daughter Renay to Scott Shaw The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman To distribute funds to worthy and charitable causes at the discretion of the rabbis. Ronnie & Rob Coben and Family Religious/Preschool Fund To provide funding for creative programming for our students. Kathy & Michael Perloff Warren J. Elias Special Needs Fund* To support ongoing efforts to ensure that M’kor Shalom is a welcoming community for those with special needs. Carol Sekeres Weller & Paul Weller photo by Jack Weinberg Marlyn & Harry Starkman Merle & Bernie Steinberg Rabbi Richard Address Maxine Bernstein’s speedy recovery The birth of Lynn & Bob Davis’ granddaughter, Sarah Levanah Davis The marriage of David & Marjorie Garfield’s daughter Valerie to Lawrence Dobrow Roberta Israelsky Cantor Borsky Shirley Solot Allen Goodman’s speedy recovery Shonnie Lebovitz & Max Taytelbaum The marriage of David & Marjorie Garfield’s daughter Valerie to Lawrence Dobrow Choir Fund Received From To keep our synagogue ssafe, secure and beautiful for generations to come. Received From Shari, Mitch & Isaac Sklar Sharon, Larry, Samantha & Zach Siegel Sheryl & Craig Dossick and Family Stefanie, Steve, Jessie, Maddie & Lizzie Cohen Stephanie & Adam Levine Stephanie & Brian Baker Steve & Judy Stern Steve & Rolane Sunshine Sue & Gary Polikoff Teri & Neal Nover and Family Tracy & Andy Gardner and Family To contribute in honor of our choir for expanded activity. Albert & Carmella Zalcmann David & Susan Rush Hersh Kozlov & Family Judy Levin & Rich Cohen Lynne & Edward Cohen Sharla & Barry Feldscher The Choir Family In Memory Of David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Patsy Brandt, wife of David Brandt Enid Kozlov, wife & mother David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Michael Stein, uncle of Ellen & Roger Sheinkin David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Enid Kozlov, wife of Hersh Kozlov Received From In Honor Of Audrey Litto Bruce & Sandy Blumenthal Carol Cedar Chad Satanoff Elyse Pello Erma Glass Estelle Kushner Hersh Kozlov & Family Jane & Dennis Satanoff Shayna Grinbergs’ Bat Mitzvah Bruce Weinger’s speedy recovery Cantor Hochman The engagement of Jane & Dennis Satanoff’s daughter Rachael to Ken Ovitz The Clergy & Staff of M’kor Shalom Norman Rednik’s special birthday The naming of Jonah Harris Gadarian, great-grandson Cantor Hochman Bruce Weinger’s speedy recovery Karen Wallenobrien’s speedy recovery Rabbi Schwartz’s speedy recovery Janice Botwin Shayna Grinbergs’ Bat Mitzvah Marc & Andrea Millstein Dennis & Jane Satanoff’s special anniversary Mary Ellen, Maury, Sam, Brian & Claire Seidman Cantor Hochman Rebecca & Art Silver Karen Wallenobrien’s speedy recovery Robin & Gary Kushner Cantor Hochman Shari & Mitchell Sklar Cantor Hochman College Connection Fund To provide hol holiday gifts and monthly Jewish publications for all our college students. Received From Bella & Eric Levine Susan & Scott Soslow Received From Elyse Pello Sandy Kushner In Memory Of Arthur Dubowitch, father of Stuart Dubowitch Shelly Kaneff, mother of Robert Kaneff In Honor Of The Clergy & Staff of M’kor Shalom Sam Cole’s college graduation 17 Community Compassion Fund To enable us to directly aid those less fortunate than ourselves. Received From In Memory Of Andrew & Samantha Sklar Debi Kahn Jaye & Len Halpern Susan Shpeen, sister-in-law & aunt of the Feist Family Daniel Jones, son-in-law of Kathy & Michael Perloff Albert Weiner, father of Penny Robinson Patsy Brandt, wife of David Brandt Daniel Jones, son-in-law of Kathy & Michael Perloff Shelly Kaneff, mother of Robert Kaneff Arthur Dubowitch, father of Stuart Dubowitch David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Melinda Kane and Family Sheryl & Craig Dossick Steve & Judy Stern Received From In Honor Of Officers, Board of Trustees & Committee Chairs David Snyder’s new role as JCRC Executive Director The marriage of Marjorie Garfield’s daughter Valerie to Lawrence Dobrow Sue & Gary Polikoff Zachary Riley’s Bar Mitzvah Tracy & Andy Gardner The birth of Barbara & Sidney Geller’s twin granddaughters, Joselyn Paige & Lilah Shea Polak Jeremy Kane Confirmation Class Israel Trip Fund To provide support for the Confirmation Class Trip to Israel. Received From Morra & David Molotsky Shari, David & Cole Leff In Memory Of Arthur Dubowitch, father of Stuart Dubowitch David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Received From In Honor Of David & Susan Rush The birth of Barbara & Sidney Geller’s twin granddaughters, Joselyn Paige & Lilah Shea Polak The engagement of Sheryl & Craig Dossick’s daughter Renay to Scott Shaw Elyse Pello The Clergy & Staff of M’kor Shalom Morra & David Molotsky The marriage of Joan & Stephen Whinston’s son Joshua to Elizabeth Rogers Officers, Board of Trustees & Committee Chairs The engagement of Lynne & Bruce Podrat’s son Randy Torban to Laurie Stern Suzy & David Peltzman Josh Diamond’s Bar Mitzvah Warren J. Elias Special Needs Fund* To support ongoing efforts to ensure that M’kor Shalom is a welcoming community for those with special needs. Received From Eileen & Robert Elias Morra & David Molotsky In Memory Of David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Received From In Honor Of Brad & Ellen Molotsky Justin Major’s Bar Mitzvah John & Randee Mateo The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman Linda & Larry Robinson The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman Lois Taylor The marriage of Thelma & Donald Spivack’s granddaughter Rebecca Elias to Ari Forman Lynne & Norman Rednik The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman Marilyn Cohen The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman The marriage of Thelma & Donald Spivack’s granddaughter Rebecca Elias to Ari Forman Merle & Bernie Steinberg The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman Neil & Jodi Levine The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman Officers, Board of Trustees & Committee Chairs The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman Peter & Elle Hecht The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman Sara & John Honovich The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman Selma & Stan Hochman The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman The marriage of Thelma & Donald Spivack’s granddaughter Rebecca Elias to Ari Forman Sharon & Arky Halperin The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman Teri & Neal Nover and Family The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman Library Fund To purchase books and equipment. Bookplate Minimum Contribution: $36 (gold card). Received From In Memory Of Mark Eichman Marlyn & Harry Starkman Received From Elyse Pello Marlyn & Harry Starkman Lorna Seidman, mother of Maury Seidman David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield In Honor Of The Clergy & Staff of M’kor Shalom The marriage of Joan & Stephen Whinston’s son Joshua to Elizabeth Rogers Prayer Book Fund Received From Regular prayer book w/bookplate: $18 ((silver silver card); Holiday prayer book w/bookplate: $12 (blue card). Gary & Sheryle Banin Peter & Faye Rosengard and Family Selma & Stan Hochman Wendy & Paul Frantz Received From Marlyn & Harry Starkman In Memory Of Michael & Lesley Rosenbaum’s aunt Albert Weiner, father of Penny Robinson David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Shelly Kaneff, mother of Robert Kaneff In Honor Of Michael Starkman’s special birthday Rabbis’ Good Works Fund* To distribute funds to worthy and charitable causes at the discretion of the rabbis. Received From Bart & Lisa Saidel Carol & David Laskin Carole & Steve Branch 18 In Memory Of Ian Berg, father of Jeffrey Berg David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield The father of Debbie Costello David & Judi Weinberg and Family Dorothy & Myron Sigal Eileen & Leonard Segal Jane & Mel Chilewich Jaye & Len Halpern Marc & Sharon Cutler Peter & Faye Rosengard and Family Rebecca & Art Silver Ronnie & Rob Coben and Family The Wachman Family The Zalcmann Family Zara & Evan Davis Arthur Dubowitch, father of Stuart Dubowitch David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Daniel Jones, son-in-law of Kathy & Michael Perloff David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Ian Berg, father of Jeffrey Berg Salvatore G. Perice, father of Salvatore Perice Salvatore G. Perice, father of Salvatore Perice Ian Berg, father of Jeffrey Berg Lorna Seidman, mother of Maury Seidman Joseph Zalcmann, father of Albert Zalcmann Enid Kozlov, wife and mother Received From In Honor Of Barbara & Rudy Schwartz The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman The marriage of Thelma & Don Spivack’s granddaughter Rebecca Elias to Ari Forman Elyse Pello The Clergy & Staff of M’kor Shalom Gayle Coopersmith & Alan Taflin Rabbi Frenkel Hilda Katz & Carol Cedar Rabbi Frenkel Joan & Stephen Whinston Rabbi Schwartz Joyce & Morris Dworkin Rabbi Schwartz’s speedy recovery Kathy & Michael Perloff The Clergy & Staff of M’kor Shalom Marilyn & Sheldon Rotter Rabbi Schwartz’s speedy recovery Marty & Ellen Faye and Family Rabbi Schwartz’s speedy recovery Maury & Mary Ellen Seidman Rabbi Schwartz Michael & Stacy Kline Cantor Borsky Officers, Board of Trustees & Committee Chairs The birth of Rabbi Michael Satz & Rabbi Janice Elster’s son, Eitan Noam Elster-Satz Paul & Selma Zonies Rabbi Schwartz’s speedy recovery Phyllis Popiel Rabbi Schwartz’s speedy recovery Rebecca & Art Silver The marriage of Robert & Eileen Elias’ daughter Rebecca to Ari Forman Shari & Mitchell Sklar Rabbi Frenkel Stuart & Amy Dubowitch Rabbi Schwartz The Zalcmann Family Rabbi Schwartz Zara & Evan Davis Cantor Hochman Religious/Preschool Fund To provide funding for creative programming for our students. Received From In Memory Of Received From In Honor Of Ann Goffman Barbara Epstein, mother of Yale Epstein Carol & David Laskin Ian Berg, father of Jeffrey Berg Dee & Harry Green David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Howard & Renée Siegel Arthur Dubowitch, father of Stuart Dubowitch Howard & Stacy Heyman Shelly Kaneff, mother of Robert Kaneff Irene Giman & Glenn Trommer and Family Ian Berg, father of Jeffrey Berg Jaime, Rick, Jordan, Hunter & Jake Friedman Ian Berg, father of Jeffrey Berg Jason & Leah Wolf Shelly Kaneff, mother of Robert Kaneff Mark, Sheryl, Brett & Landon Schuster Grandmother and great-grandmother of the Unterlack Family Marla & Gary Vecchio and Family Barbara Epstein, mother of Yale Epstein Melissa, Jeff, Matthew & Amanda Merovitz Barbara Epstein, mother of Yale Epstein Ross, Judy, John & Mara Greenberg Ian Berg, father of Jeffrey Berg Scott & Andrea Rosenthal Jeanne Gabel, grandmother of Stefanie McCarthy Scott, Eileen, Zack & Jeremy Kuptsow Ian Berg, father of Jeffrey Berg Susan & Scott Soslow Ian Berg, father of Jeffrey Berg Suzy & David Peltzman Shelly Kaneff, mother of Robert Kaneff Teri & Neal Nover and Family Shelly Kaneff, mother of Robert Kaneff The Wachman Family Barbara Epstein, mother of Yale Epstein Shelly Kaneff, mother of Robert Kaneff Yossi Schwarz & Renée Jerome-Schwarz David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Dorothy & Sam Feigenbaum Elyse Pello Jayne, Craig, Ravi, Lee & Cary Bloom The birth of Mr. & Mrs. Evan Zweben’s son The Clergy & Staff of M’kor Shalom Lynn Mustica Lynne Rednik Teri Nover Jennifer & Gregory Bauman Renée Jerome-Schwarz Stacy Heyman Judi Weinberg & Harriet Uris Harley Getson’s Bat Mitzvah Judy Gerson The B’not Mitzvah of Lynne & Ed Cohen’s granddaughters, Allison & Rebeca Linda & Larry Robinson Arky Halperin’s speedy recovery Mary Ellen, Maury, Sam, Brian & Claire Seidman Cantor Borsky Naomi & Bob Hilbronner The B’not Mitzvah of Lynne & Ed Cohen’s granddaughters, Allison & Rebeca Officers, Board of Trustees & Committee Chairs Shayna Herzfeld’s Consecration Rachel Bauman Kenny Einhorn Zipora Lasman Robert & Beth Kaneff Cantor Borsky Shari & Mitchell Sklar Cantor Borsky Shonnie Lebovitz & Max Taytelbaum The birth of Rabbi Michael Satz & Rabbi Janice Elster’s son, Eitan Noam Elster-Satz Stef, Darren, Hannah & Chloe McCarthy Harley Getson’s Bat Mitzvah Teri & Neal Nover and Family Harley Getson’s Bat Mitzvah Terri & Scott Akman Lynne Rednik & the Preschool Tot Programming Committee of Congregation M’kor Shalom Nancy Davis Scholarship Fund To provide camp and educational scholarships for our congregants. Received From Elyse Pello In Honor Of The Clergy & Staff of M’kor Shalom Amy Silvers Israel Scholarship Endowment Fund* To provide financial support to enable students to participate in the Confirmation Class Israel Trip. Received From Israel Trip Friends of M’kor Shalom Maury & Mary Ellen Seidman Merle & Bernie Steinberg Norman & Arlene Silvers Received From Gail & Mark Shafarman Maury & Mary Ellen Seidman Norman & Arlene Silvers In Memory Of Albert Weiner, father of Penny Robinson Ian Berg, father of Jeffrey Berg Albert Weiner, father of Penny Robinson Florence Silver, wife of Al Silver Kate Vogel’s mother & John Littleton’s wife, Bess Libby Cerniglia’s brother The husband and father of Mrs. Lee Berg & Family Helen & Leon Weinberg Scholar-in-Residence Fund* Received From To support the biennial Scholar-in-Residence Program. Sharon & Jack Weinberg Received From In Honor Of Carol & Paul Weller Karen Wallenobrien’s speedy recovery Torah Fund Received From With Bookplate. Minimum Contribution: $72. Jay & Shea Rosen Renée & David Weisband Shonnie Lebovitz & Max Taytelbaum In Memory Of Joseph Zalcmann, father of Albert Zalcmann David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield David Garfield, husband of Marjorie Garfield Yahrzeit Memorial Fund In Honor Of Norman & Arlene Silvers’ 50th wedding anniversary Cantor Borsky Arlene & Ken Borow’s 50th wedding anniversary Elaine & Herman Katz’s 50th wedding anniversary Elaine Cohen’s special birthday Gary Davis’ speedy recovery Irvin Borowsky’s special birthday Marcia Zerivitz’s special birthday Muly Litvak Phyllis Punch’s birthday Sol Brown’s special birthday The birth of Elliott & Marcia Zerivitz’s grandchild The birth of Jerry & Jane Krasker’s grandchild The marriage of Caren Lichter & Stan Sack In Memory Of Albert Weiner, father of Penny Robinson Ian Berg, father of Jeffrey Berg Received From Beatrice Steiner Faye Rosengard Leonard Denbo Naomi Stoglin Phyllis Popiel Vivian & Bart Friedman To remember beloved family and friends. In Memory Of Daniel Steiner, husband Martin & Shirley Pearlman, parents Rose Denbo, mother Jeanette Salkow, sister Charles Popiel, husband Maurice Needle, father Funds noted by an asterisk (*) are restricted funds – that is, contributions are used solely for the fund’s stated purpose. Contributions to all other synagogue funds ensure support of specific activities, as well as general congregational needs. 19
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