Meditations for Lent 2015 A Gift of the Stephen Ministry Myers Park United Methodist Church 1501 Queens Road Charlotte, NC 28207 Do This and You Will Live Just then a lawyer stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he said, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?” He said to him “What is written in the Law? What do you read there?” He answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself.” And he said to him “You have given the right answer; do this and you will live.” -- Luke 10: 25-28 During Lent we ponder the life of Jesus and his journey to resurrection. We ask “What must I do?” Jesus clearly answers: Love God and neighbor. What does it mean to live eternally, and how does loving our neighbor fit into that picture? We want to live well, to know peace and joy, to rest in God’s promises. It is a great paradox of our faith that such a life is found in giving up our self-interest so that we may serve others, loving our neighbors as ourselves. We serve in response not only to our neighbor’s need, but also to our own. Serving helps us grow, offering us new insights, spiritual challenges and an other-worldly joy. We serve not because we must, but because we want the life that Jesus promises us. May your Lenten pilgrimage take you onto new paths of loving service so that you may truly LIVE. Introduction Each year we train new Stephen Ministers to care for our congregation. I am sure they are never fully and totally prepared for all that will be asked of them in this ministry. However, one of the requests we do make of them is they stay close to God by practicing the spiritual disciplines of our faith. We ask this not so they will have the perfect prayer or just the right scripture for every situation but rather so the hurting might see glimpses of God in them, as they walk together. Likewise, the devotions that follow are not an attempt at having the perfect word or prayer but are simply offered in the hopes you might catch sight of God on your Lenten pilgrimage. It is our hope you will not say how lovely these devotions are but rather see hints of God’s presence in them and know how wonderful His love is for you. As always, thank you to Carmen Rivera and Bonnie Gunter for their herculean efforts in getting this booklet to print. Thank you to all who took the time to write a devotion and share of yourselves. Finally, thanks to you, our readers. We hope these devotions will enliven you as you follow along the way of Christ in this season of Lent. Rev. Bill Roth Minister of Congregational Care Ash Wednesday, February 18 Matthew 6:1-6, 16-21 By John W. Springer As we enter into this Lenten Season, may we begin with “Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven.” Today’s passages in Matthew beg the questions “why do we do what we do?” and “for whom are we doing what we do?” Whether you celebrate this season by giving up something, taking on something new or just keep on keeping on, ponder these things in your heart. As Christ says, “store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consumes and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where you treasure is, there your heart will be also.” So with all of our hearts, with all of our souls and with all of our might let us love the Lord. When we seek Him with our whole heart, we will find Him. This is my prayer for us all. Rejoice. Thursday, February 19 1 John 1:3-10 By Miriam Bundy Every Sunday’s church service includes a Prayer of Confession which we read aloud, together as a congregation and fellowship of Christians. Then the clergy will say those comforting words, “In the name of Jesus Christ, your sins are forgiven”. And as a congregation we follow and say aloud the same statement and add “Glory to God. Amen.” I find such peace in those powerful words. Sometimes I allow myself to wonder what sins other people are thinking of, but then I come back to my own sins and shortcomings. Thankfully I trust the cleansing and forgiveness promised in these verses and our congregation’s declarations. I’ve noticed it is easy to see another person walking in darkness and the sins that surround them. When one is blind and in denial about their own sin, the scripture is clear that God’s word is not in that person. What’s trickier is to see one’s own sin and to change behaviors, words and thoughts to get to the truth and light of God. Art, music and the written word reflect the mysterious, warm brilliant light for which we yearn. In my life, the image of God as light comes to me most times in quiet meditation and moments of reflection as I walk in the woods. Today’s scripture means I must also live my life according to God’s word and commandments and then the light will surround me with the peace that passes all understanding. Prayer: May this season of Lent bring us closer to God’s light in how we treat people, how we worship, how we give and how we pray. Most of all, may we know Christ as our savior and know deeply that he shed his blood for you, me and all who will believe in Him. Friday, February 20 2 Timothy 4:1-5 By Bonnie Gunter “Preach the word, be prepared in season and out of season, correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction.” 2 Timothy 4:2 My good friend in college invited me to spend Easter weekend with her family in Winston-Salem. I am a night person. The idea of getting up so early for Easter sunrise service was going to be hard. We made our way to the Old Salem Moravian Cemetary “God’s Acre”. It was dark and a big crowd had gathered. Then the sun begain to appear, the horns played and the cemetery glowed. I’ve always been a Christian but this was the first time I really got it. Jesus Christ died for our sins. He was buried. He was raised from the dead. He will come again and we will have eternal life with Him! God is in the darkness and the light! Share the good news with an unbelieving world. Get excited, we have a lot to tell! God’s gift is ready to encourage us and those we know! Prayer: Heavenly Father, may my heart be full of your glory. Let us share the sunrise. In Jesus name, Amen. Thought for the Day: Attend an Easter Sunrise Service. Saturday, February 21 Matthew 9:2-13 By Bruce Hughes We enjoyed a great vacation in New Orleans last year. Certainly there is no better city to contemplate Jesus’s assertion that “I have come not to call the righteous but the sinners” or to ponder along with the Pharisees the meaning of “I desire mercy, not sacrifices.” Since I love cemeteries I took those musings with me to some of the best graveyards in the country. New Orleans’ rich history and heritage, beauty and ugliness, triumphs and failings, saints and sinners can all be found in her cemeteries. I enjoyed exploring and studying the ranks of tombs. Many are grand, some ornate and opulent, and some no more than piles of weathered bricks. Contrary to some of the tourist hype, they do not glorify death. They honor lives and memories and history and thereby celebrate Life. They invite contemplation. But I enjoy them all the more because I believe that by the grace and love of God and the sacrifice of His Son, that all of these tombs, no matter how fascinating, informative, poignant, beautiful or pitiful, are also empty. The Tomb is empty. Prayer: Lord God Almighty, thank you for the gift of an earthly life full of wonder and mystery. Please help us to use it to its fullest potential according to Your Will. Thank you for the blessing of hope and life everlasting that can only be found in You. Sunday, February 22 Mark 1:9-15 By Liz Wicker My father taught me that words are important. Not only did he talk with my sisters and me as children, he also left us letters and papers that he wrote. These writings remind me of the lessons and ideals that defined him. One paper describes the background of a treasured family ‘heirloom’: a group of small rocks from Hadrian’s Wall in Scotland, where my grandmother was from. She traveled to visit family in Scotland when my father was a young boy fascinated with Roman history. According to the story, my grandmother had promised to bring back a rock from this Roman wall as a memento for my father, but forgot until the end of her trip. Although her visit was nearly over, her father insisted that she fulfill her promise to retrieve a rock for her son. The scraggly group of rocks that she gave my father on her return illustrated an important principle to him throughout his life. “My Grandfather was saying to her, and indirectly to me, that if you say you are going to do something, do it; if you make a promise, keep it.” According to my father, his grandfather was “…an illegitimate child who was taken into his father’s household. He had few advantages in his life, but he lived at a time when honor, trust and commitment were greatly respected and valued, a time when a man’s word was his bond regardless of his station.” I cherish the written words that my father left, and I remember the words he spoke that guided me as I grew. In today’s passage, I believe that Jesus also cherished the words He heard from his Father as He emerged from the Jordan. I believe that His father’s words guided his ministry and life. Monday, February 23 Ephesians 2:1-10 By Keels Dickson Paul warned Ephesus from his final imprisonment, that ''we are dead in our sins...we lived the same kind of life the children of disobedience do...at the mercy of the desires of our lower nature.'' And it's true, we are indeed born supremely selfish. Infants need what they need and they need it now; demanding cries absolutely necessary for their survival. Only parental guidance and eventual self-discipline can prevent the darker side of our ''lower nature'' from becoming ''I want what I want and I want it now.'' The mantra of the selfobsessed Narcissist whose desire for pleasure can lead to forbidden and harmful things. The noted author, Oscar Wilde lamented of his dissolute life, ''I ceased to be lord over myself; I was no longer Captain of my soul;'' A slave to his ''lower nature,'' desire, his master. Paul warns that our darker nature deserves nothing less than the wrath of God. And here's the Pauline Paradox. Though we might have earned the wrath of God, no good deed or work can make us righteous. Nothing can contribute to our salvation. Nothing! Only God's infinite grace and loving kindness are we forgiven. A paradox indeed; but it works like this. Knowing we are forgiven, who among us does not still feel compelled to lead a life acceptable and worthy of God's grace. Right there, that, is the magic and majesty of Christianity. Tuesday, February 24 1 Peter 3:8-18a By Sandy Sanders As we prepare our hearts during the Lenten season we see Jesus tempted by Satan in this scripture. Jesus responded by looking to God through all these temptations and trusted. As we are tempted, we need to remember that each day is a day the Lord has made and we are to rejoice and be glad in it refusing to worry about tomorrow. Just like with Jesus in the desert, God is with us through all our difficulties. He knows our hearts and our weaknesses. Let God displace worry at the center of our being. Thanks be to God and may we accept each day as a gift. Prayer: Thank you, Dear Lord, for all of our many blessings. Please open our hearts and minds to your will and not ours, especially during this time of preparation. Your will is not always the easiest, but it is always the best. Any good we experience comes from you. We should not wait for you to do something before we trust you. We should trust you first, and then watch how you work. Hope does not come from what we can do. Hope comes from what you can do. Thank you Lord! Amen Wednesday, February 25 Matthew 4:1-11 By Belva Sefcik When we were little, we were taught the "If You're Happy and You Know It" children's song. Today, a song titled "Happy" has been hugely popular for months. We all want to be happy and we want to be happy all the time! What if we are not happy? How do we get happy? This passage in I Peter gives us the road map to happiness. Don't say evil things. Don't tell lies. Turn away from evil and work hard at making peace. It goes on to say God watches over us and hears our prayers when we do these things. So why do we see fellow Christians suffering in spite of trying to make peace and not say evil things? Peter says God will reward those who continue to trust Him and serve Him in spite of their suffering. It is so much easier to praise God and trust Him when things are going well, or does it? Do we get complacent? Do we start taking credit ourselves for all the good in our lives rather than knowing all of our blessings come from God? Christ did nothing wrong and yet He suffered and gave up His life for a bunch of sinners who can't get their heads around how to truly appreciate His suffering and sacrifice. If ever there was a justification for lashing out, Christ had it. Yet that is not what He did. We know that doing wrong has consequences but Peter points out that it is better to suffer for doing right than doing wrong. Prayer: Lord, help me to remember that it is better to suffer for doing good than for doing bad. Help me to remember the words of Maurice Sendak who said, "There must be more to life than having everything!" Thursday, February 26 Romans 3:21-31 By Martha Abbey "For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God's glorious standard. Yet God, with undeserved kindness, declares that we are righteous." Has anyone ever said to you that they just could not forgive someone for what they had said or done? That what they had done was unforgivable. Probably at some time we all have felt that unforgiveness towards another person. If you read Romans 3:21-31 you will find that God in his mercy towards us has made us right with him through the sacrifice of Christ on the cross. God has removed all charges from our record because Christ paid our debt with his life. God calls us to forgive others and show compassion just as he has done for us. When we pray "forgive our debts as we forgive our debtors," do we mean it? Forgiveness is not a feeling ,but a choice. If we wait until we feel like forgiving someone, it may never happen. It's wonderful to know that when God forgives us he does not keep looking at us as if we had done something. There are times I have to remember and choose not to continue to bring up some offense that I feel my spouse, family, or friend has committed after telling them I forgive you. I pray for the Lord to guide me to forgive and forget. "Great is God's faithfulness to me." Prayer: Teach me Lord to learn to love as Christ loves me. Thank you for your unconditional love, forgiveness, mercy and kindness. May my focus be to follow you. Amen Friday, February 27 Romans 3:21-31 By Ken Rice We each have the same amount of time available to us every day. How do we spend that time and what impact do we have on the lives of others? When we look back over the years, what Christmas presents do we remember the most? Sadly, there are very few that we really can remember as extra special. However, there are events that occur in our lives that greatly influence us, and we remember those for the rest of our lives. Cade Pope, a 12 year old in Yukon, Oklahoma wrote a letter to all 32 NFL teams asking them why he should root for their teams. He had been a St. Louis Rams fan but was looking for a new team. Of the 32 teams he wrote to, only one team responded to his request. It is not surprising that Jerry Richardson, Panther owner/founder was the only one who responded to Cade’s request sending him a replica Panther helmet signed by Luke Kuechly along with a handwritten note telling Cade the Panthers would be honored if the Carolina Panthers became his team. A person who took the time from his busy schedule to do something for a young boy has made an impression on that boy that will last a lifetime. Let us never underestimate the influence we have on other people by the way we act and the acts we do for them. Prayer: Dear Lord, we know that everything we say and do influences other people with whom we come in contact. Be with us that we may be a positive influence. Amen Saturday, February 28 Mark 8:27-30 By Gail Lenarcic Jesus and his disciples went on to villages around Caesarea Philippi. On the way he asked them, “Who do people say I am?” They replied, “Some say John the Baptist, others say Elijah; and still others, one of the prophets. “But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?” Peter answered, “You are the Christ.” Jesus warned them not to tell anyone about him. Even though the disciples proclaimed Jesus as the Christ, they did not have a thorough understanding of what that meant. Jesus knew they needed more instruction about the Messiah— that Jesus must suffer, be killed and rise from the dead. Only after the resurrection would the disciples grasp Jesus as the Savior who took on mankind’s sins and overcame death so that we could have eternal life with God in Heaven. Today, we have the Bible to teach us lessons such as righteousness, love, faith, trust, mercy, commitment, truth, grace, sin and forgiveness. Each of us can grow in our personal relationship with God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. But do we? If asked by someone to explain your faith or share about the God of your understanding, could you? Or would you be afraid that you would be misunderstood, rejected or seen as too religious? Might you say it’s through prayer, study, worship and the daily application of God’s Word in all our affairs that leads us to His presence and forever love? This we can share and teach to others, sowing one seed of Christian faith at a time. I urge you to search your heart for the obstacles that prevent you from spreading the Good News and professing your faith in Jesus Christ. Sunday, March 1 Mark 8:31-38 God’s Timing Is Perfect By Molly Carlberg It is easy to get caught up in comparing ourselves to others. Social media makes it considerably easy for us to do so. Most of us are guilty of spending a tremendous amount of time looking at presentations being displayed by each person in our newsfeed. This appearance is often their best self and we may also be responsible for doing this ourselves. If it is not social media it may be on the soccer field or at a neighborhood function. The truth is most of us spend countless hours wondering about the plan God has for us and comparing our plan to someone else’s plan. We must remember each season in our lives is planned out uniquely for us. Don’t compare yourself to other people and their seasons. You do not know what they went through to get to their current season or the struggles within their season because it is not yours. The way we speak about our season is detrimental. It affects our experience in our season and it may cause us to oversee a lesson or miss out on an opportunity of growth that is supposed to take place within us during that season. Next time you catch yourself comparing yourself to others and their seasons, stop and ask Him to help you discover faith and strength in your season. Be reminded of hidden struggles in every season and know that grace will find you in every season. “He changes times and seasons;he deposes kings and raises up others. He gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to the discerning.” Daniel 2:21 Monday, March 2 Hebrews 1:8-12 By Munro Sefcik People quite often ask, "Why do you have faith?" Each Christian has some level of faith that Christ is who he said he was and that he is our savior or we wouldn't be Christians. To paraphrase part of my Bible translation's of Hebrews 11:1, Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen. We can't see Jesus, the Holy Spirit or God and yet we believe that the Trinity is the foundation of our faith and that what we read about them in the Bible is true and their promises WILL happen. We read that God loves each of us, even with all of our imperfections. We may occasionally wonder why He loves us when we demonstrate poor examples of our love for Him and our fellow man or we fail to put forth our best effort in a task we're completing. Know that God's love for us and our faith in that love is like the wind. Even though we can't see the wind, we can see and feel the effects of it. Like the wind, I have faith because I confidently believe. May your faith journey lead you to believe confidently and know God loves YOU, even when you don't feel you deserve His love!! Tuesday, March 3 Hebrews 11:1-3, 13-19 By Annie Albini As my husband and I strolled, hand in hand, slowly down the pier of a Florida beach last November, I was overwhelmed by the beauty that surrounded us. It was the perfect autumn day! The sun was bright and warm, the water, blue and crystal clear, the sand soft and white and the finishing touch, the cloudless blue sky. My senses were overloaded and my heart full of joy and wonder. Over the years, the beach has become my playground, where I swim in the ocean, walk on the beach, dig in the sand or simply relax to the sound of the surf and enjoy the beautiful scenery; this is truly my happy place! How truly blessed we are to be surrounded by such beauty that begs us to relax, reflect, recharge and renew our souls. What a precious gift from God! As we make our way through this Lenten season, my hope is that we slow down and enjoy the renewal that is taking place as our earth awakens from winter. Let us also be aware of the renewal that is taking place in our hearts as we remember Jesus’ sacrifice for us. Prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for the rebirth of the earth that takes place each spring and your constant faith and abiding love. Guide us during this Lenten season as we recharge and move forward reflecting your love and grace. Amen. Wednesday, March 4 John 12:36-43 By Bill Roth John 12:36b “…believe in the light, so that you may become children of light.” Today’s passage suggests to me some of the how’s and why’s of our Christian faith. How does one become a Christian? By believing, or perhaps more accurately, committing to the light which is Jesus Christ. Why is it so important to commit to the Jesus, the light? The answer in John’s gospel is clear-- so that we may become children of the light. When I first became a Christian, I must confess that I was not very interested in becoming a child of the light. I became a Christian out of fear and wanting to be “saved”. I now understand that trying to do the right thing in order to avoid punishment or get a reward is a development stage. A higher stage of development is doing the right thing because doing the right thing is its own reward. Thus, the more I have practiced my faith, the more my hopes for my faith journey have changed. With each passing year, I grow less concerned about being saved and more hopeful about becoming the light of Christ in the world. My “belief” is now more a practice of becoming a light in a dark world and less a fear based intellectual ascent to a theological concept. I think John 12:36b summarizes the goal of the Christian path very succinctly, “believe in the light, so that you may become children of light.” In this season of reflection may each of us commit to follow the light which is Christ, so that we too might become the light of love in the world. Prayer: Lord, help us to believe in your light that we might become compassionate followers of you way. Amen. Thursday, March 5 1 Peter 2:4-10 By Kay Rice “Bear one another’s burdens and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” Galatians 6:2 For the past four years Ken and I have been privileged to lead the training of Stephen Ministry. This ministry provides support to those who are in difficult situations and are hurting. One of the great benefits of being a part of our Christian community is to have a companion who will walk with you through dark days. We had a holly tree that was once uprooted by a severe ice storm. Ken tied it to a nearby strong tree and over a period of time it recovered its former vigor. That is the idea behind Stephen Ministry: someone who will listen, encourage and support. The program requires fifty hours of training and is quite a commitment for those who choose to participate. It is amazing each year to see who comes forward, having felt God’s call to become a Stephen Minister. Many of those called have themselves suffered losses and grief and know the value of an accompanying spirit. Most of them feel inadequate for the task ahead, but as we always know, God does not always call the equipped, but he will equip the called. As we journey through this period of Lent, we remember the mandate that Jesus gave to love one another, bear another’s burdens, and encourage and lift each other up. This is the work of the entire body of faith, not just Stephen Ministers. John 13:24 “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you should also love one another.” Prayer: Lord, lead us to be encouraging, watchful of those who are hurting, and listening always for the needs of others. Amen. Friday, March 6 Acts 7:30-40 By Rob Sanders Seen any burning bushes lately? I have always found it fascinating to see the special effects that moviemakers use to portray this classic voice of God. There is fire, a commanding voice, and a message that something is about to change. A truly rare event, and in today's context not really very practical as a guide to daily living. Consider the idea that burning bushes are all around us. A promise of "The Good News" is that we are never alone, and that the voice of the burning bush is always personal and always accessible to us. For many of us this voice is easily heard, but there are others who find it muted by loss, by pain, or by defeat. We are created for community, called to respond with empathy to those whose bushes have dimmed or gone out. Pause for a moment and look around you for an opportunity to fan a spark of hope. No special effects required. “For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness”, made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of God’s glory displayed in the face of Christ.” 2 Corinthians 4:6 Saturday, March 7 Mark 9:2-8 By Beth Malak Some of my best mornings this past year were spent in prayer, study and reflection with special women of our Myers Park family of faith, who inspire me, light my path and bless me through their amazing friendship. The following is a devotion shared on one of these special mornings…. I asked God to take away my pain. God said No. It is not for me to take away, but for you to give up. I asked God to make my disabled child whole. God said No. Her spirit is whole her body is only temporary. I asked God to grant me patience. God said No. Patience is a byproduct of tribulations. It isn’t granted; it is earned. I asked God to give me happiness. God said No. I give you blessings. Happiness is up to you. I asked God to spare me suffering. God said No. Suffering draws you apart from worldly things and brings you closer to me. I asked God to make my spirit grow. God said No. You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful. I asked for all things that I might enjoy life. God said No. I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things. I asked God to help me Love others as much as he loves me. God said ….. ahhhh, now you get the idea. Through God’s grace and my dear friends and Faith Warriors, I am starting to get the idea. Prayer: Dear Lord, In all we do please help us to live simply, love generously, care deeply, speak kindly and listen, listen, listen leaving the rest to you. Amen. Sunday, March 8 John 2:13-22 By Liz Taramianz Lent is the season that inspires us to clean out our house and clear our mind, body and spirit. This passage reminds me to do just that. Three and a half years ago, my husband and I felt called to do so in a significant way, as we left behind the familiarity of our home in Tennessee to change course and put roots down in Charlotte. As we settled in the Queen City and grew acquainted with the area, we aimed prayerfully and purposefully to “clean our house”. We took stock and embraced what had served our family well in our former home, and consciously decided to discard what was no longer serving or inspiring us. We sought a church home that welcomed and embraced us, as well as a school that would inspire and influence our children both morally and academically. We desired friends who were supportive and engaging, along with volunteer opportunities that would fulfill us and benefit our community. I feel blessed and fortunate to be able to say that we have found this, and more, as we endeavor to live with a clearer mind, body and spirit in this new chapter of our lives. Monday, March 9 1 Corinthians 3:10-23 By Lennie Washington I have never built a house, but I have great respect for those who have. For the architect who draws the plans, the contractor who implements them, and the craftsmen whose skills bring the house to life. In our lives with Christ, the good news is we don’t have to draw the master plan. It is drawn for us by him. He is the architect. His plan is to build his kingdom and as we meet with him daily, we know our part in this grand project. And as we listen, we know what materials to use. What words to give the lost and hopeless. What love to extend to those who are hurting. What path to walk in the storm and in the darkness. Apart from Christ we are workers without direction. Without direction our tasks may seem to have meaning, but to what end? Our ways are not God’s ways, and I am glad. If I choose my own cheap materials, my part of the project will fail. My work will not be to his standards and the good that I might do doesn’t happen. Let us walk in the light Christ gives us. In his light the plan becomes clear and our work is not in vain. Prayer: Lord, help us to hear you; to love as you love, and above all else, to seek you. Tuesday, March 10 Hebrews 9:23-28 By Anne Riley Following ankle surgery I’ve learned to depend and appreciate the kindness of others in everyday occurrences. There’s certainly more goodness in the world than the media portrays. As I’ve been hobbling along using crutches awkwardly, I’ve had folks in all walks of life offer assistance. Yesterday a lady offered her husband to carry my groceries to the car and in the same store a woman who didn’t speak English well got me a bag for the vegetables and motioned that she would get them for me. Her smile and eyes indicated concern and love for my situation . I’ve had people with a similar injury stop and ask what I’ve had done and after we compare notes we cover other topics as well. I was asked how I was able to trust the doctor and I said through prayer for the health team and asking the Lord to be with me, giving me peace. I’ve been in caregiving roles most of my life as a nurse, a daughter, a Stephen Minister and caring for my spouse. These are defined roles and I now know, as Jesus did, to offer help to all of those in need. Helping each other out is our way of being “little Christs.” As Christ suffered for all and therefore identifies with our sufferings, we all suffer and identify with each other. “All of us, at some time or other, need help. Whether we’re giving or receiving help each one of us has something valuable to bring to this world. That’s one of the things that connects us as neighbors-in our own way each one of us is a giver and a receiver.” As written by Mr. Fred Rogers. Wednesday, March 11 Mark 11:15-19 By Grig Murdock Many of our church members currently or in the past have been involved with the Sunday morning worship programs for our children. This ministry extends from infant child care through high school. In addition there are programs offered to these age groups for learning the importance of giving back to our community and beyond. Our Adults of all ages are guided by our dedicated and appreciated staff, as well as members in the congregation that support and lead programs such as the Stephen Ministry, Adult Sunday School, and Bible Study. For those of you who are not yet “old enough” for the Adults Plus! Group, I suggest you stop by sometime when you are in the building and peek in. In case you have not been involved with children in our Sunday School program I will share an experience I recently had with our grandson. I was thinking about my Lenten message and wondered what an eight year old thought about his Sunday School class. He gave me a summary that included Bible verses, stories from the Bible, saying prayers and drawing pictures or creating crafts that reflect the story of the morning. In December I was taking care of our grandchildren because their mother was not feeling well. As I walked through the dining room I noticed a small piece of paper propped up on the table with the following message on it: “Dear God, please help my Mom feel better. Her stomach really hurts. Please help”. I assured our Grandson that God had heard his prayer. He replied, “I know he did. The note was just a reminder”. Thanks be to God! Thursday, March 12 Ephesians 1:3-6 By Lynn Polk A few years ago, my son-in-law’s father was diagnosed with cancer. He fought a valiant battle and through these years, he had the most beautiful outlook on his prognosis and life! He was truly a hero and example to those of us who were fortunate enough to know him. Last year, it was obvious that the cancer was rapidly moving through his body and his time on earth was drawing to a close. As I went to visit him in these last days, I took him a prayer shawl from Myers Park that had been lovingly knitted by a special group of ladies. I wanted him to have something to keep him warm but more importantly to know that God was there too wrapping His arms around him. In the days that followed, this incredible man passed into God’s loving arms free from the pain and destruction that had inhabited his body. In the months to follow, as the family grieved and yet rejoiced in the life this man had lived, friends of theirs made a quilt out of his shirts so that his wife would have a sweet remembrance but more important something to wrap herself in to feel his love still there. I think often of this man who loved God and his family. He has been gone a year this month. As I read the Bible verse, it talks of the blessings that God has for us by giving us His Son and how He knew us even before we were born. God’s love knows no boundaries and the greatest gift is that like the blankets, He wraps His loving arms around us and never wants to let go. What a blessing to us all! Friday, March 13 Ephesians 1:7-14 By George Scott When I read today’s scripture, the part of the text that really resonated with me was the reminder that there was a very significant expectation of us in exchange for our salvation through Jesus’ death on the cross. That being that we are “to live for the praise of his glory”. There are many ways that we can live to glorify God. In fact, we are experiencing right now one of the most meaningful ways that we glorify God, by reading scripture and reflecting on its importance. But there are other ways that we connect with God that allows us to fulfill this obligation. Some of us like to participate in local and international mission work, bringing aid to God’s people that suffer the most. What a satisfying way to glorify God that can have immediate, life changing impact. Others like to spread the good news to those they meet, hoping to encourage someone else to experience Christ. But, what I worry about most are not the actions each day that glorify God, but rather the countless actions each day that do not. For most of us, these are really just small, ill-considered acts that are not purposefully intended to hurt anyone or put distance between us and our relationship with God. But the reality is that many of these actions do hurt someone, even if in only a small way. But more importantly, they do not show us to the world as the example of someone worthy of Jesus’ saving grace. Perhaps this can be our goal today – to be more aware of our actions, even the small ones, and try to be a better example of a person that lives “for the praise of his glory”. Saturday, March 14 John 3:1-13 By Saundra Magee In John 3: 1-13, we learn that Nicodemus, a well educated religious leader, visited Jesus. He had heard much about Jesus and his work and had concluded that Jesus was from God. The high-ranking Pharisee was looking for answers. He believed Jesus would be able to teach him, so he went to Jesus with an open heart. No matter how intelligent we are we must continually turn to our Bibles, turn to our Lord and Savior, and study God’s truths. What the world teaches us as truth is many times not what God teaches as truth. The Bible is a wonderful book full of scriptures that can provide truth and transform our lives. Turn to The Word and meditate on God’s truths. Let His truths be a part of each day of your life. Some of my favorite scriptures are Philippians 4: 6-7 (“Do not be anxious…” ) , 1 Corinthians 2: 9 ("…the things God has prepared for those who love Him”), John 14: 27 (“Do not let your hearts be troubled…”), and Matthew 6: 6 (“But when you pray…”) , and those are but a few of God’s wonderful messages that can guide you to a happier and holier life. When you take time to focus on Jesus His peace will be with you and His promises will give you strength. Prayer: Heavenly Father, help us to be like Nicodemus by turning to You with an open heart. Allow us to let Your Word transform our lives so we can live a life full of truth, beauty and holiness. Sunday, March 15 John 3:14-21 By Linda Myers How often are we around people who mean a great deal to us and we believe it goes without saying that we love them? Perhaps that is true but putting your regard into words is powerful and affirming. Some thirty years ago, I chose a veterinarian to take in a neighborhood cat who was ill and running around outside in the cold. I just could not take the sight of this creature suffering around me daily. The office I chose was staffed by a newly graduated Veterinarian and his wife. Let me say I made an impression when I said I didn't own the cat but wanted to get him help! Evidently Veterinary School had not covered this contingency. I kept the cat, kept the vet, became friends with the family and have had a 30 year professional relationship/friendship with these people. During a major illness of mine, Mrs. Vet would write me notes addressed to THE Linda Myers. It made me feel better every time one of her notes arrived. Recently, I was at their office with yet another critter. Mrs. Vet was arriving as I was leaving. She came over, hugged me, and in the conversation that ensued, said how grateful she and her family felt that we had happened upon each other all those years ago and how much knowing me meant to them! May I just say her words had impact. I felt their love and the memory of her words uplift me each time I remember them. Even if love goes without saying, putting it into words is reassuring and very much worth saying aloud. Prayer: Lord, Thank you for your great love for us. Keep us mindful of the power of an encouraging word. Amen Monday, March 16 Hebrews 3:1-6 By Linda Borders In today’s reading, the verses discuss the faithfulness of both Jesus and Moses. Both appointed by God. Jesus is God’s Holy Son and therefore more worthy of glory than Moses. Moses was appointed to the task of freeing the people of God from oppression by the Egyptians, and leading them to freedom, to the Promised Land. In the forty years that ensued, he was given instructions by God on what to teach the people. From God, Moses taught the people about Holy worship, what to sacrifice and how to sacrifice. How to build the tabernacle, what to put in it, and who to choose as the Holy priests to make the sacrifices to God. The sacrifices needed to be pure and without blemish. Moses was paving the way for our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. God sent His Holy Son to save us. He became the Holy sacrifice to save each of us for eternal life. He was pure and without blemish. As we go through this Lenten season, remember all that Jesus taught about how to live and how to take care of those we love and this beautiful earth that we live on. Take time to give Thanks and be in meditation about the sacrifice that Jesus made for each of us so that we too can have eternal life and be in fellowship with Him. Prayer: Gracious and Holy Father, Thank you for sending your Son Jesus to show us the way to eternal life with you. Help us to love each other, and to be mindful of the care of this beautiful earth that you have provided so graciously for us to live. Amen. Tuesday, March 17 1 Corinthians 10:6-13 Wipe Your Feet By Bob Truscello When I was in Dublin two years ago, I lit two candles at St. Patrick's Cathedral, the national church of Ireland. One candle was in memory of my dear friend, Pat Patterson, of Winchester, Virginia, who was a career mentor to me until he passed in 1999. Milton E. Patterson was his full name; true green, lovable, born on St. Patrick's Day; and his father, also Milton E. Patterson, and "Pat" for short, was likewise born on St Patrick's Day. This past December 28, we lost a second dear Irishman: Jack Cassidy. Jack, from Ottawa, Illinois, was another of my coworkers with whom I maintained a constant long distance relationship--more like family. I loved Jack's robust ways, his energy for life, his affable stubborness, and his many ready Irish sayings. He'd say, "Oh, you're a dandy," whenever I would get his goat during football season. We would end our phone calls and occasional visits with the same sign-off each time: One of us would say, "Here's to Pat Patterson." Then Jack would inevitably close with, "Mind your manners, wipe your feet, and give the house a good name!" I always thought that he was quoting an Irish blessing, but no. I learned from his youngest son, one of four Cassidy boys, that that's what Jack would say to his kids all the time--that he literally wanted them to be respectful to their mother, help with the cleaning, and always do the Cassidy name proud--at great risk to any dissenters. And like us, they so loved Jack. The second candle I lit in Dublin was for Jack and his dear wife, Barb, who was gravely ill at the time...Wonderful people. Both candles still burn bright for me. Prayer: Father, thank you for the blessings of friendship, for love and sense of family among the unrelated. Amen. Wednesday, March 18 John 8:12-20 By Mary Katherine Vass “I am the light of the world; he who follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life” John 8:12 RSV The night was long and dark. My breathing was labored. In my bed, propped up by pillows, I diverted my attention from hard breathing to listening to the radio. The radio, with volume low, was broadcasting a program listing current prices of agricultural commodities. Subjects were the weather, soil conditions, schedules for planting, harvesting, and best farming practices. Finally, the sunlight through my window removed the shadows of tree limbs moving in the wind. The window brightened with the sun’s light, and it was morning. Morning always brought easier breathing. The exacerbation of asthma was receding. Sunlight was breaking the dark. We all experience different kinds of darkness, physical, psychological, and theological. Barbara Brown Taylor in her book Learning To Walk In The Dark explores darkness in several ways including a guided venture into a dark cave. She suggests that we need not resist darkness, but stay with it, and learn from it. Exploration of darkness may be done with a friend or Stephen Minister to reveal for yourself what is true. Expressing feelings of darkness, loss, and suffering helps us bring those feelings and experiences to a conscious level. From that level we begin to learn and find truth. “The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is thy faithfulness” Lamentation 3:22-23 RSV Thursday, March 19 Hebrews 4:1-13 By Linda Stephens To fully understand and appreciate today's reading, we need to be aware of the events leading up to the time. Moses, a reluctant hero, was chosen by God to lead the Israelites, out of bondage in Egypt to freedom in the land He had prepared for them. The trek across the desert wasn't great fun though the promise should have made them euphoric. From the beginning, the Jews complained about almost everything. They were tired, hungry and lost. Many begged to return to the harsh life in Egypt because it was familiar to them, not scary like the unknown ahead. Their constant complaining sorely vexed Moses, but he pushed on to complete the task assigned him by God, even as the unruly mob lost faith in the Lord's ability to know and provide what was best for them. They steeled their hearts against God when He warned them to listen and obey Him. Their increasingly defiant attitude led them to erect and worship a pagan god while Moses was on the mountain talking to God, asking Him to give the Jews another chance. God was patient for 40 years doing miracles and offering His chosen many chances to repent but they still refused to repent and trust Him. Finally, God, full of anger against them vowed that they would never enter His place of rest even though He had been waiting for them since the world began. It is a sad story but the Good News is that there is still a place of rest waiting which for Christians is peace with The Lord now and eternal life on a new earth later. This hope of eternal life is only achieved through salvation and commitment. God's promise still stands and some will get in, but not those who had the first chance and refused His word. Because of God's unfailing love and mercy, He has set another time for coming in which was announced by King David. “Today if you hear His voice, do not harden your hearts as when they provoked me" Prayer: Merciful God, you know everything about us. We can't hide anything from you. Please help us hear your voice, hear all you have to say, and worship and obey you, and you alone. Friday, March 20 Hebrews 4:14—5:4 By Chris Williams I must admit that two tenets of the Christian faith that really challenge me are perseverance through trials and maintaining a consistent, wholehearted prayer life. When things get tough, I find the temptation to become negative, cynical and a bit temperamental. Feeling embarrassed by these patterns, I struggle to pray wondering why would God be interested in hearing my frustrations time and again. In this uplifting passage, the Apostle Paul presents two commands: Hold fast to the faith we profess (persevere) and to draw near with confidence (pray). Jesus, in his humanness, was tempted in every way and understands our weaknesses. While remaining sinless, He demonstrates the way to resist our selfish inclinations. His ascension into heaven allows Him to intercede for us to God and provide the assurance of God’s mercy and grace, regardless of our sins. What a blessing! As we face trials in the future, let us all remember this passage of Hebrews and, through prayer, remain steadfast being mindful of a loving God and the gift he provided in his son, Jesus. Prayer: ‘Father, thank you for sending your Son to us, whose perfect life bridged the gap between heaven and Earth. Grant us the wisdom to confidently present our requests to you, remembering your love and mercy in our times of need. Amen. Saturday, March 21 John 11:45-57 By Lisa Euwer Some 2000 years ago, God’s people saw the Light of the world, experienced his sovereignty and acknowledged it; but still feared how following him would alter their comfortable lives. So they rejected him, and ultimately he was crucified. And so it is with us. Though we do not see Jesus today, we do see signs of His presence. Therefore, we experience His sovereignty, acknowledge it, and praise Him. But we, too, are often fearful of how following Him completely will change the comfort of our lives. So we, also, in our various actions will deny and reject Him. Today’s passage is disturbing, prophetic and promising. Caiaphas declaration was intended with selfish motives, and yet it was an unknown prophesy of our ultimate hope and salvation. The High Priest utters what God already intended. Each Lenten season, I watch “The Passion of the Christ”. I weep for most of the movie, but at the end I always find myself smiling through my tears at the “happy ending” … and thanking God for the glorious, undeserved and precious gift of His Son who died for me. And so, ultimately, it IS Good News! Christ died for our sins … and He is risen ! Alleluia ! Quote by John Piper on today’s passage: “When you say with the apostle Paul, ‘I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me’ (Galatians 2:20), you mean: He didn’t just offer me love. He pursued me with love. He conquered me with love. He awakened me with love. He satisfied me with love. And now, I live trembling and joyful, on the love God.” May we love God in return with all our heart, mind, soul and strength. Sunday, March 22 John 12:20-33 By Bill Roth In this chapter Peter proclaims Jesus as the Messiah and then Jesus explains to him what that really means and it a good thing because Peter was “clueless Galilee”. But if we are honest so are we. Most of us think that God’s real acts of power are in the big dramatic moments. This was the case of many of Jesus followers. They wanted a leader who would restore Israel to a place of prominence. The many miracles of Jesus fueled this desire but in the end, Jesus was in fact a disappointment. He was a different Messiah than they expected, he was one who suffered. Thus, in today’s gospel reading, Jesus invites us to reevaluate our own basic understanding of suffering. It is tempting for us to feel superior to those earlier follows of Jesus, after all we all now know that Jesus was a suffering Messiah. Or do we? When we face times of suffering do we not often think God should intervene and meet evil with divine power sparing us pain? Are we really any more comfortable than Peter was with a God who enters into suffering versus overcoming it? Many time in my ministry I hear people say, “why is this happening to me?” Behind this question is a mindset that Christians should not have to experience hardships or pain because we are God’s beloved. Thus, if we do suffer, it must be a punishment or an aberration. But today’s text is clear on two points, Jesus is God’s anointed, the Messiah and those who follows him will suffer as he did. At first blush this does not sound like good new, yet I find it comforting to know our God was strong enough to become vulnerable and walks with us in our pain. Prayer: O Lord, help us to truly understand what it means to be God’s anointed. Amen Monday, March 23 2 Corinthians 3:4-11 By Richard Baker The scripture is part of Paul’s second letter to the church in Corinth. Paul is showing how the Spirit of Christ offers us hope for our brokenness and compares that to the law given to Moses in stone from which there was no hope if any law was broken. We are given an opportunity for forgiveness if we only accept it. We have greater hope than did the Israelites who only knew of punishment and not forgiveness. This change offers us hope and is given to us free. Here is a personal story of how events offer an opportunity for change. In 1966 I was in the Army and spent that year in Vietnam as a rifle platoon leader and an assistant operations officer. In short, my year kept me in or close to combat. The most difficult part of the year was being separated from my wife and son. An unexpected benefit was the bond that developed among my peers. Unless someone has experienced combat, I don’t think it is possible to know the love and trust that grows between people who depend on one another for life itself. Living that year in life threatening situations and sleeping on the ground most of the time makes one appreciate loving relationships back home and an environment that is clean and safe. One promise I made to God and to myself was, upon my return to the US, to never complain about anything. I have remained generally true to that promise. The passage of time creates change. It is how we deal with the change that matters. God does give us choices, and we choose. Prayer: Gracious God, thanks for sharing your son Jesus with us and for the opportunity He gives to forgive us when we do make poor choices. Amen. Tuesday, March 24 Acts 2:14-24 By Mollie Baker Five years ago I sat by my dear Mother's bed as she had only a few days left in this world. I will always remember how tired, lonely, and sad I felt as I watched her breath in and out in her unconscious state. I needed a sense of God's presence but it just was not there. Why did I feel so lonely, restless, and absent from God? I prayed for God to be with us, but continued to feel empty. As Mother's caregiver entered the room, she simply asked how we were doing and my answer was, "fine". She went to my Mother and whispered in her ear, smiled sweetly at her, and gently stroked her forehead. Such a special touch!! She tenderly took both my Mother's hands in hers, knelt by the bed, and very softly sang......"Surely the presence of the Lord is in this place....I can feel His mighty power and His grace...I can feel the brush of angel's wings, I see glory on each face....surely the presence of the Lord is in this place"........Now I have heard that beautiful hymn many times over the years, at weddings, funerals, and in worship but had never dreamed it could be as special and meaningful as it was that day, in that room. Tears streamed down my face as I saw, felt, and heard my prayers answered. God sent an angel, a caregiver, to me and my Mother that day. I know for sure we, as Christians, can experience the presence of the Lord in a room with 2 or 3 or in a sanctuary with hundreds. Mother died 2 days later and the peace I felt upon her death may not have been possible without the presence of the Lord in that room. Mother's "Angel" and I continue to remember each other with occasional cards. She will be in my thoughts and prayers as long as I live. Prayer: Loving God, Thank you for Jesus and for His presence in our lives. Amen Wednesday, March 25 John 12:34-50 By Janie Reynolds Summer evenings at the beach house, my grandchildren and I love to take the golf cart onto the golf course and hunt for alligators. Now, I can assure you we are safe and keep our distance but we cuddle together close and holler shrills of delight as our flashlights and cart lights capture the red gleam of the beast’s eyes. One hot, humid night we were in pursuit to find the local 10 foot creature “Scaley Back.” Our cart weaved down the dark path and our bottoms bounced up and down on the seats as we hit the moguls. Our songs, giggles and shrieks assured any invaders to keep their distance. Suddenly the gold cart’s headlights went out. As we sat silent in the dark wondering how we would find our way safely home, the clouds in the sky parted and the gleaming, full moon appeared. Our path was bright and full of light. Jesus is our light when we find ourselves in a dark place. He assures us that if we walk in His light, we will become “sons of light”. Christ is the “light of the world”. As Christians, we are Christ’s light bearers, letting His light shine through us. Prayer: Thank you Lord, for sending your son, Jesus. Teach us how to shine our light brightly so others will notice. Amen. Thursday, March 26 Philippians 2:1-11 By Dori Fuller Almost 10 years ago, I moved with my husband, Doc, to Aldersgate. This proved to be a geographic cure for my previously restless and melancholy life. Then I wondered, “How can I find meaning and fulfillment in retirement?” Soon I found Asbury, our skilled nursing facility, and started visiting. Before long I would weekly drive my golf cart up the little hill to seek those who wanted to chat, or just hold my hand for a few moments. One afternoon after visiting, I started back home in my open golf cart. As I gathered speed on the downward hill, I noted the warmth of the afternoon sun and the breeze blowing through my hair. It felt so good, and I was blissfully happy. Then, for a moment, I was scared. I thought, “What is this? What’s happening? Is this what it feels like to be high?” I pulled into the driveway and stopped, pondering my feelings. In a moment of quiet and peace, I recognized that I was feeling real joy. It was a sacred and humble moment of gratitude to God for the strength and courage of my responses, and for putting me in this place at this time. I knew then, in my golf cart, I had been touched by the Holy Spirit and was answering the call to be the hands and feet of Jesus. Prayer: Lord, we are grateful for your blessings. Open our eyes to the challenges of service around us. Grant us compassion, sustain us with energy, and pour courage upon us. Hold and guide us as we pray to follow Jesus. Friday, March 27 Philippians 2:12-18 By Bonnie Gunter The rooftop of the Carlton where I, and many of our congregation live, has a beautiful view of our great city. On New Year’s Eve, the Duke Energy Building lights up. Many colored lights stream up and down the building, with lights blinking up top. Fireworks are spraying the sky in all directions, all rejoicing! This is how our prayers feel when we come to God with our excitements and joys, heartaches and fears. He waits for us and we are filled with His presence. I love the expression—”Rejection is God’s protection”. He loves us and goes before us and next to us. The journey is much sweeter when we go with God. Even when there is sickness, death and loss, we can look back and see God’s care. We don’t understand heartbreak here until He calls us home with Him. Jesus lived and died for us. Our hope is in Him. For now in prayer we are comforted. No profound words required. Just share your heart—give thanks. Pray for others, Pray for yourself. Talk to Jesus. Have you prayed today? All heaven awaits! Prayer: I will rejoice and be glad. I am a child of God. In Jesus name, Amen. Saturday, March 28 Mark 10:32-34, 46-52 By Susan Mobley Jesus is walking with his disciples heading to Jerusalem and the cross. In Jericho they come across a multitude and in the midst of the multitude is blind Bartimaeus crying out "Jesus, son of David, have mercy on me". Bartimaeus does not stop, he continues to cry out, "Son of David, have mercy on me". In this passage the words mercy and blindness stand out to me. Webster's defines mercy as “compassion shown especially to an offender or to one subject to one's power". As I thought about both of these words in context, I came up with more questions than answers. How do I show mercy, or do I? How do I accept compassion given? In what ways am I blind, like Bartimaeus? As I stood out on our deck in the mountains late one January winter night I saw the clearest, brightest, most magnificent sky! The stars could almost be touched, the mountains reached to touch the stars and I could see the constellations which seemed to be ready to share their story of the years! Observing the night sky in pitch darkness felt healing to me. God's love, mercy and faithfulness through the years seemed to come alive in the stars. I, like Bartimaeus could see! If Bartimaeus had not cried out, if I had not stepped into the darkness that January night, a spiritual and physical blindness might remain. A Bible commentary I read said it well. " To be healed from spiritual blindness is to grasp the true identity of Jesus and to join him on the way to the cross." Prayer: Lord, may the veil be lifted from our eyes as we experience God's mercy and compassion for ourselves and others as we move toward Jerusalem! May we act justly, love mercy and walk humbly with our God (Micah 6:8). Palm Sunday, March 29 Mark 11:1-11 By Ashley Douglas What an interesting messianic moment the writer of Mark gives us. Jesus tells two disciples to go and borrow a colt that had never been ridden. The colt had never been ridden and although my horse knowledge is limited, I know that this is a really bad idea. My younger sister has always loved horses. She learned how to ride at a young age. Many of my Saturday afternoons growing up were spent eating boiled peanuts sitting on bleachers watching her bob up and down riding “proper” in competitions. Many hours of hard work went into my sister’s technique and training her horse. I remember all of the work that went into her riding a horse I read these words of Mark. How on earth did Jesus ride an untrained creature? This brief moment is nothing short of divine! The willful submission of a thousand pound wild animal to someone who climbs on top should leave us speechless! Even so, the two disciples had to have been wondering the whole time if this wild-eyed colt would buck Jesus off and kill all three of them. This scene is crazy and wonderful. Jesus ushers in the coming kingdom of God peacefully, on the back of a wild-eyed colt. All of creation, even wild beasts, submit to Jesus. Baffling stories occur all throughout the gospels. Jesus calms the roaring seas, heals the diseased, rides an untrained colt, and shows limitless authority over creation. Within the gospel of Mark, the hope of salvation and liberty is connected with the kingdom of God. Jesus is sovereign over creation and shows us how we can participate in the coming of kingdom of God. May we be faithful and listen to Jesus’ instruction. Like these two brave disciples, let us be bold in following Jesus. Monday, March 30 John 12:1-11 By Sarah Sumner All four Gospels record this event (Matt. 26:6-13; Mark 14:3-9; Luke 7:36-39) but with important differences in where, with whom, when, and even who the woman was. John sets the story at the home of Mary, Martha, and Lazarus, Jesus’ dear friends. I wonder what each person sees as this story unfolds? John, the writer, sees it as part of the passion story; that is, it focuses on the death of Jesus. He weaves into the account all the dark forebodings of death: Bethany, where there waits an empty and available tomb; Lazarus, the person to whom Jesus gave life, an act that will now cost Jesus his; Passover, which in this Gospel is death time; Judas, the thief and betrayer who sits with the other friends; Mary, anointing Jesus for burial. Judas sees the act as an incredible waste and reacts with indignation: “What a waste – the money could have gone to the poor!” Mary sees a way to show hospitality, friendship, and gratitude for a brother restored. She ministers to Jesus who has done so much for her family. Others around the table probably see Mary acting, once again, in a way that is inappropriate for a woman. What does Jesus see? Maybe he sees a ministry to him, a preparation for his burial. Maybe he sees a simple thank-you from one friend to another. Whatever he sees, he appreciates what she has done and tells the others, “Leave her alone.” What does God see? Does God see what Judas saw – a waste? Does God see what the others saw – poor judgment? Does God see what Jesus saw – a gift of love? What do you see? “Open our eyes, Lord, we want to see Jesus, to reach out and touch him, and say that we love him. Open our ears, Lord, and help us to listen. Open our eyes, Lord, we want to see Jesus”. (words by Bob Cull). Tuesday, March 31 John 12:20-36 We Want to See Jesus By Bill Roth In today’s passage from John’s gospel, some Greeks come to the two disciples with Greek names, Philip and Andrew, and ask to see Jesus. What is interesting about this is that just as these two Greeks are seeking Jesus, his own people are plotting to kill him for raising Lazarus from the dead. But even more interesting is how Jesus answers them by speaking about his own death. “Unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains just a single grain; but if it dies, it bears much fruit. Those who love their life lose it, and those who hate their life in this world will keep it for eternal life.” About this connection between seeing Jesus and death Michael K. Mash writes the following in his sermon, Dying to See Jesus: Somehow death and seeing Jesus are intimately related. To see Jesus is more than looking at him. It is more than just believing the things he said and did. We follow Christ as participants not spectators. If we want to see Jesus then we must learn to die. To the degree we avoid and deny death, we refuse to see Jesus. Seeing Jesus means dying to all the parts of our life that blind us: fear; the need to be right or to be in control; anger and resentment; the guilt and disappointments of our past; attachment to power, wealth, and reputation; the ways in which we separate ourselves from one another; our obsessions, compulsions, and emotional agendas; the ways in which we hurt one another and damage relationships. Ultimately, it means dying to our own self-sufficiency. We let go of our life to receive God’s life. Prayer: Lord, help us see the places in our life where we need to die to self so that we might see you. Amen. Wednesday, April 1 John 13:21-32 By Lauren Stines I’m going to be honest with you. This was not cheerful scripture to read today. This passage is difficult because within it, we see Jesus acknowledge that Judas will betray him and we know the story that will come from his betrayal. Jesus and Judas share in Communion then Jesus dismisses Judas to “Do quickly what you are going to do” (v. 27). When Jesus shares this with Judas, the other Disciples believe he’s just sending him out to give money to those in need. We read that there is Communion with one another, then betrayal, then confusion and finally Jesus acknowledging in verses 31 and 32 that God will be glorified because the Son of Man has been glorified. I wonder what Jesus had in mind when he said that to Judas. Jesus knew Judas would betray him, yet in his words he gave permission to continue with his plan. When we begin our day, I wonder if Jesus knows we will betray him with our words and deeds and yet he gives us permission because we have been given a choice. The strength of Jesus to watch us walk away from him each day and then be ready for us to return to him when our hearts are strangely warmed, like John Wesley’s, is amazing. That’s a love and grace that often times has me baffled. Jesus sees me make wrong choices, watches me walk paths that cause anger and hurt and then says, come to me my child and know that you are forgiven. WOW! What a gift we have been given! This week is a tough week to watch the Son of God prepare to be put to death but even through the pain and sorrow, we are given a gift of such grace and love through the Resurrection. Prayer: Creator God, thank you for your abundant love and grace given to us each day even when we choose to walk away from you. Amen. Maundy Thursday, April 2 John 13:1-17, 31b-35 By Parker Hayes Traditionally on Maundy Thursday, we celebrate the Lord’s Supper and also wash each other’s feet as Christ did in this Scripture passage. At its core, washing someone’s feet is an act of service: we must love our brothers and sisters enough that we would humble ourselves and wash their feet. The tradition of feet washing goes hand in hand with the tradition of Holy Communion since both are acts of service (in the former we perform the act of service, in the latter we partake). Jesus shows us that the Christian life is one of service. While many can quickly identify where we serve in our church and communities, we are less likely to say how and where we receive service from others. Not service like “The Lowe’s guy delivered my refrigerator today,” but “Jane offered to help with the kids today. She knows I need some time to grieve my father’s loss, but I don’t want to look weak or like a bad mother.” Can we find what’s holy in someone offering to serve us? Tomorrow is Good Friday. One of the major theories of Christ’s atoning work is Peter Abelard’s Moral Influence Theory, which understands the problem of humanity to be that we don’t know how to love God fully. Jesus is our example: because Christ came and died for us, we then want to love God in return. We can only love God and love one another if we can see Christ’s act of service for us and receive it as a gift. Think about how Jesus washed the disciple’s feet and then sacrificed himself on the cross for you. Can you receive that? Can you learn to say, “Thank you,” without offering something else in return? Good Friday, April 3 John 18:1—19:42 By Melanie Dobson Simon Peter is struggling with faithfulness in our scripture passage for this Good Friday. Just this morning, he has been with Jesus in prayer. So he started off well and holy in the darkness before dawn. Then, soldiers came to the garden with all manner of weapons and torches, lighting up that garden of tranquility with blazes of violence. Simon felt captivated by his own fear. He reached for his sword and for his old and well-trained ways of dealing with conflict—severely hurting someone else with his own terror. For that Jesus’ reprimanded him—the sword isn’t Christ’s way of love. Barely daybreak, and Peter has already revealed just how human he is. Later in the day, Peter denies that he even knows Jesus. “I am not with him,” he declares. In his fear, Peter obviously forgot that he had told Jesus he would lay down his life for him (John 13:37). After three years of the most incredible love he has ever known, Peter gets scared. Huddled around charcoal, he tries to warm his body while his heart and mind grew ever colder (2 more denials will come). Perhaps on this Good Friday (or some other day this week or month) you’ve struggled with faithfulness, too. Maybe you started the day off well, with good intentions and maybe a little prayer and Bible reading. And then something went wrong and you got scared and reached for old and well-trained, but hurtful ways--ways that deny Christ’s love. “I’m not with Jesus” your responses say. All of that makes your soul grow cold. Prayer: Jesus, on this day in which we mark your crucifixion and placement in the tomb, seep your grace and love into our own cold, dark places. Forgive us of when we have denied you by thought, word, or deed. Help us to start anew—now, this very moment--as forgiven and grace-filled people, who trust Easter is coming! Holy Saturday, April 4 Matthew 27:57-66 Waiting By Ellen Robison Holy Saturday is quiet. After the anguished cries and suffering of Good Friday comes the silence. Everyone’s gone. The hill is deserted. And even though Jesus had told his disciples he would rise again, no one could be sure. It certainly seemed like the end. We know what that feels like. When something cataclysmic happens in our lives: a divorce, a frightening diagnosis, the death of someone we love, we are left with the same questions those early followers had. Why? Where is God? What happens now? We wait in our grief for understanding to come. We live between the now and the not yet, praying for a glimpse of God in the darkness. In today’s passage from the Gospel of Matthew we read about a large stone that scholars think weighed over 1 ½ tons. Was the stone placed at the door of the tomb to keep someone out or someone in? The answer is both. Joseph of Arimathea, the owner of the tomb didn’t want anyone going in and stealing Jesus’ body. But Pilate and the Pharisees didn’t want Jesus coming out, dead or alive. Often the large roadblock size stones in our path are placed there by life’s circumstances. Other times we ourselves have rolled them in place. But in the end God will not be controlled by us. No matter the circumstances, the locked doors, the guards, the stones, there is nothing that can ever separate us from the love of God in Jesus Christ. One of my favorite quotes reminds us, “Everything will be alright in the end. If it’s not alright, it’s not the end.” Hold on, Easter is coming! Prayer: Merciful God, help us to wait with you in the silence as we await the end of the story. Amen. Easter Sunday, April 5 Mark 16:1-8 By Dr. James C. Howell The mood of those who were the first to learn about Jesus’ resurrection is intriguing. The women were “amazed” – understandably! But the angel said to them, “Do not be amazed.” How could they not be amazed? They ran and told the disciples, who also were amazed – and the women didn’t bother trying to talk them out of being amazed. Yet we also read that they “trembled,” and that they were “afraid.” We are anything but fearful on Easter morning, unless it’s a fear we won’t get a seat in the crowded sanctuary, or that our Easter outfits won’t be handsome enough. Why were they afraid? Well, they’ve come face to face with the impossible, the whole universe has shifted on its axis, so the ground under your feet is uncertain. Also, they had yet to get the hang of a God you didn’t expect to be afraid of. It was only in the past couple of years Jesus brought a message of God’s love and grace – and old habits of shrinking before a despotic god die hard. Perhaps it was their sense of sin. We think of Easter as meaning we get eternal life! But the Bible says clearly that because of the resurrection your sins are forgiven. Did the disciples realize their hardness of head, their desertion of Jesus, their doubts, their greediness? And in the face of the forgiver trembled over what was dark in their souls? We cannot know. I wonder if there is some way, especially on Easter, to rekindle a little bit a holy fear in us – a trembling before the astonishing might of God, or the way a parent trembles when first holding her newborn child, or the way you swallow hard before asking for her hand in marriage. We have our fears, after all. The risen Jesus came to meet fearful people – and to love and heal them. The Stephen Ministry at Myers Park United Methodist Church Lenten devotions will be available on the church website at www.mpumc.org. Lenten calendars for families will be available on Sunday. Activities are suggested for each day as children and their families journey through Lent. Pick up your calendar from any elementary classroom, at the front desk in the lobby of the Parish Life Building or from the Children’s Ministries offices. Please read the Cornerstone newsletter for opportunities to give of your time in service of others. The Stephen Ministry at Myers Park United Methodist Church www.mpumc.org
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