PLAINVIEW JEWISH CENTER 5775/2015 FEBRUARY/SHEVAT/ADAR Happy Tu B’Shevat! SISTERHOOD MEETING TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 3RD - 8:15PM Book Review: The Paris Architect SISTERHOOD NEWS BEGINS ON PAGE 28 ISSUE #93 ORBIT Page 2 HAMAKOM YINACHEM Peter Jurmann on the passing of his mother, Anita Fader. Glenna Raskin on the passing of her brother Mark Sachs. MAZEL TOV Saundra and Harold Waxman on the birth of their granddaughter, Sonia Pearl Waxman Player, daughter of Jamye Waxman and Scott Player. Laurie and Joel Bates on the birth of their grandson, Levi Tyler Platt, son of Erica and Tyler Platt. Rhonda and Steven Smallowitz on the birth of their granddaughter, Aimee Smallowitz, daughter of Sheryl and Eric Smallowitz. Rhonnie Diener on the birth of her granddaughter, Addison Grace Diener, daughter of Ilana and Barry Diener. PJC MISSION STATEMENT Plainview Jewish Center is a forward-looking, family-friendly, Conservative synagogue, which respects and incorporates traditional Jewish values. We are completely egalitarian and inclusive in all aspects of synagogue life. We strive to provide a distinct, positive Jewish identity through worship, life-long education, enrichment, and community involvement. These practices ensure a congregation in which every member matters. KEEP US INFORMED!! Got good news? Engagements, marriages, births? Send your information by mail, fax (516-938-2737) or email (pjcli@optonline.net) so that we may share your simchas with the congregation. PLEASE LET OUR CLERGY KNOW! Current laws prevent hospitals from releasing names of patients. Please call the Temple Office when you, a family member, or friend are in the hospital and would welcome a visit. Contact the Temple office at 516-9388610 ext.0. ORBIT (USPS 410440) is published monthly from September to June for $2.00 per annum by the Plainview Jewish Center (a religious corporation under the laws of the State of New York), 95 Floral Drive West, Plainview, New York 11803. WE 8-8610. POSTMASTER: Send address changes to ORBIT, Plainview Jewish Center, 95 Floral Drive West, Plainview, New York 11803 RABBI...........................................................................Steven Conn RABBI EMERITUS...................................................Julius Goldberg * CANTOR......................................................................Morris Wolk PRINCIPAL.................................................................Rachel Ginsburg PRESIDENT..............................................................Bruce Elowsky CHAIRMAN OF THE BOARD............................Shea Z. Lerner SISTERHOOD PRESIDENT..........................Debbie Zaglin MEN’S CLUB PRESIDENT....................................Mark Hochberg FAMILYEDUCATION DIRECTOR......................................Judy Alper YOUTH DIRECTOR............................................Morgan Hammerman ORBIT EDITORS.......................................................Margie Richter Michele Haimes Elizabeth Kessler ORBIT COVER ART................................................... Joyce Eckstein * In Memorian DEADLINE - FOR- ISSUE DATE FEB 1st Plainview Jewish Center 516-938-8610 WEEKDAY SERVICES Mon. thru Fri…………… 6:30AM Mon. thru Thurs…….…...8:00PM Sun. and Holidays………. 9:00AM Sun. and Holidays………. 8:00PM Friday Evening Services Check Calendar for Times WE’RE ON THE WEB: WWW.PLAINVIEWJEWISHCENTER.ORG ORBIT Page 3 FEBRUARY CALENDAR Rabbi Steven Conn & Cantor Morris Wolk will officiate at services The Officers and Board of Trustees Extend a Hearty Mazal Tov to the Families of the Following Simchas Sunday, February 1st Service Followed by T/T Breakfast….………..9:00AM World Wide Wrap...............................................9:00AM Adult Bar/Bat Mitzvah Class………....………..9:15AM Daled Class Workshop…………..………..…11:00AM J-Flex……………………………..……………11:30AM Evening Minyan………………….......…………5:00PM NO 8:00PM SERVICE TONIGHT Monday, February 2nd Educational Director Search Meeting.……….7:00PM Tuesday, February 3rd Sisterhood Book Discussion………………….8:15PM Wednesday, February 4th Chesed Meeting………………………………..6:30PM Bible Class with Rabbi Conn………………….8:30PM Thursday, February 5th Senior FAN Club……………………………….1:00PM Family Ed Committee Meeting…….….....……7:30PM Friday, February 6th Erev Shabbat Service………………………….5:00PM Musical Tot Shabbat……………………………5:30PM Mishpacha Service & Tu B’Shevat Seder.…....7:00PM Saturday, February 7th Shacharit ServiceSisterhood / Men’s Club Shabbat…………..….9:00AM Musical Junior Congregation…………..……….9:45AM Mincha/Ma’ariv……………………......…………4:45AM Sunday, February 8th Services Followed by T/T Breakfast……..…….9:00AM Adult Bar/Bat Mitzvah Class……..…….....…….9:15AM J-Flex…….…………………………………...…11:30AM Monday, February 9th Educational Director Search Meeting.……..….7:00PM Religious School Committee Meeting……...….8:15PM Tuesday, February 10th Men’s Club Movie Night……………….…….….8:15PM Wednesday, February 11th Lunch and Learn……………………………….11:00AM AARP Smart Driver Course……………..……..6:30PM Ritual Committee Meeting……..……………….8:15PM Thursday, February 12th Senior FAN Club…………………………….…..1:00PM Board of Trustees Meeting………………..…….8:30PM Friday, February 13th Erev Shabbat Service……………….5:15PM Family Friendly Friday Night Service and Girl Scout & Boy Scout Shabbat......7:00PM Saturday, February 14th Shacharit Service…………………….9:00AM Mincha/Ma’ariv……………………….5:15PM Sunday, February 15th Services Followed by T/T Breakfast..9:00AM Wednesday, February 18th AARP Smart Driver Course……..…..6:30PM Thursday, February 19th Senior FAN Club…………............…...1:00PM Friday, February 20th Erev Shabbat Service………………..5:15PM Saturday, February 21st Shacharit Service…………….………9:00AM Bar Mitzvah: Zachary Barten Son of Donna and Andrew Barten Mincha / Ma’ariv………………………5:15PM Sunday, February 22nd Services Followed by T/T Breakfast…9:00AM Monday, February 23rd Chesed Meeting…………………..…..6:15PM Educational Director Search Mtg........8:30PM Tuesday, February 24th Sisterhood Board Meeting……..…….8:15PM Men’s Club Board Meeting…......…….8:30PM Thursday, February 26th Senior FAN Club………………………1:00PM Friday, February 27th Erev Shabbat Service…….….……….5:30PM Gimel Class Service………….……….7:00PM Saturday, February 28th Shacharit Service……………………..9:00AM Shabbat As One Led by Hey Class.............................10:30AM Mincha/Ma’ariv…………………..…….5:30PM Wine Tasting and Sale……...………....8:00PM Please Note: On Sunday, February 1st (Super Bowl Sunday) the Mincha/Maariv Service will be held at 5:00PM. There will be NO 8:00PM service. ORBIT Page 4 FROM THE RABBI by Rabbi Steven Conn There is no better place to see the future of Conservative Judaism than the United Synagogue Youth International Convention. United Synagogue Youth, known affectionately as USY, is, of course, the teenage arm of the Conservative Movement. Each year, teenagers from USY chapters all over North America, and beyond, come together for a five day convention in a large hotel. The convention brings together the “best and brightest” young people in the Conservative Movement. I attended USY International Convention in 1977, in Toronto. At the convention, I experienced everything that was great about USY, but on a much grander scale. I took part in spirited “ruach” sessions where our singing, clapping and dancing rocked the entire hotel. I engaged in serious and relevant Torah study with dynamic young teachers. And of course, my friends and I reveled in all the craziness and drama that is generated by a large group of teenage boys and girls far away from their parents for a few days and given the run of a large hotel. I also saw something at that convention that I had never seen before. I went to a weekday morning service and there, in one corner, were a group of girls wearing tefilin. I later found out they were from Seattle, which made perfect sense to me at the time. This was my first introduction to true egalitarian Judaism; which was all but unknown in the Midwest at the time. Sure, we had a couple of “liberal” Conservative congregations that counted women in the minyan. But girls wearing tefilin were something I had never even imagined. Six years later, when I entered rabbinical school at the Jewish Theological Seminary, plenty of women at the daily minyan wore tefilin. Many of those women became part of the first group of female rabbis ordained by the Conservative movement, beginning in 1984. Today, the vast majority of Conservative synagogues are egalitarian with women taking part in all aspects of synagogue life, including serving as rabbis and cantors. Many people are saying that a similar sea change took place at this year’s USY International Convention in Atlanta. One of the highlights of the USY International Convention is the election of the International Officers and Board. Teenagers elected to these coveted positions often become leaders of the Conservative Movement as adults on the lay or professional level. USY International Board members have always been required to adhere to strict standards of religious behavior, including keeping kosher and observing Shabbat. About twenty years ago, USYers added another standard. “It is expected that leaders of the organization will refrain from relationships which can be construed as interdating.” This year, after much discussion and debate, USYers voted to amend this standard. The amendment replaces this language with: The Officers will strive to model healthy Jewish dating choices. These include recognizing the importance of dating within the Jewish community and treating each person with the recognition that they were created Betzelem Elohim (in the image of God). According to the Jewish media, there has been a lot of negative reaction to this change. There are those who point to the amendment as another sign of the imminent demise of the Conservative movement, and of “surrender in the battle against intermarriage.” I believe we need to interpret the amendment differently. Yes, our ‘best and brightest” teenagers are trying to tell us what the direction of the Conservative Movement will be in the future. They remain committed to Conservative Judaism, but they also recognize that that commitment does not preclude inter-dating, and even inter-marriage. We have arrived at that point in our history where it is not just disconnected, disenchanted Jews who date and marry non-Jews. For all kinds of reasons, serious, ( continued on page 5 ) ORBIT Page 5 From The Rabbi ( continued from Page 5 ) engaged, passionate Jews may end up falling in love with non-Jews. And our teenagers want to make sure that there is a place for these serious, engaged, passionate Jews within Conservative Judaism. We can debate all we want about whether the future our teenagers are creating is a good one for Conservative Judaism, or Judaism in general. But we cannot escape the reality that the that future is here. Sure, it would be easier if our young Jewish adults only dated and married each other. It would be easier for young adults who care about being engaged in Jewish life to not have to grapple with awkward questions about how to live with a spouse, and even children, who do not share their commitments. But we do not get to determine the future. What we can do, though, is to decide how we are going to respond. And it is that response, and not the choices of dating and marital choices of our young adults, that will ultimately determine the future of Conservative Judaism. Every year, I talk with our seventh graders very frankly about the importance of having a Jewish family. We discuss just how much easier it is to have a Jewish family when your partner shares your commitment. I warn them of the pitfalls of assuming that “love conquers all” and that their future partner will change for them. I hope that our teens take this advice to heart. I hope they choose to be actively engaged in Jewish life in their high school and college years and beyond. I hope that they will make having a partner who shares their commitment to Judaism a priority. At the same time, I want to be prepared for what the future will bring. Inevitably, some of our young adults, even those who have pretty strong positive feelings about their Judaism, will end up dating and marrying non-Jews. Any number of families in our congregation have experienced this scenario already. As a synagogue, we need to find ways to reach out to these young adults and invite them to be a part of our community We have to once and for all dispel the notion that there is no place in our synagogue for interfaith families. As parents and grandparents, we need to find constructive and respectful ways to encourage them to continue to take part in Jewish life. Bringing about this kind of change is essential for the future of our synagogue, and for the future of Conservative Judaism. This kind of change is even more important for our young adults and their families; many of whom need our support and encouragement to explore the role that Judaism can play in their lives. As part of our congregation’s new strategic plan, we are beginning to explore the ways that we can become a more inclusive community and offer more support to both interfaith families and their parents and grandparents. We have been fortunate enough to receive a grant from the UJA-Federation of New York to pursue outreach to interfaith families and to their parents and grandparents. During the fall, I met with staff members from the Forest Hills Jewish Center, who received a similar grant last year. Based on their own successful experience, they recommended Susan Broxmeyer, a social worker with extensive experience in outreach to interfaith families, to consult with our congregation. I then met with Susan, who offered some wonderful suggestions on how we can begin our work. In the upcoming months, we will pursue two tracks. The first track involves creating a consensus about exactly what steps we need to take to be more effective in reaching out to interfaith families. Susan will be meeting with both our Executive Committee and our Board of Directors to begin exploring these questions. At the same time, Susan and I will be developing a series of programs to reach out to parents and grandparents of interfaith families. We hope that such a program will offer support for the families and a chance to share their experiences. The first program is tentatively scheduled for Sunday morning, April 19th. Watch this space (and the weekly e-newsletter) for more details. In embarking on this project, we are committing ourselves to do some very important work for our congregation’s future and the future of our young, and not-so-young adults. We can use all the help we can get. If you are interested in being involved in our Outreach to Interfaith Families Initiative, please let me know. I would love to work with you on this important project. ORBIT Page 6 The Cantor’s Note: Reflections on Michael and Heidi’s Wedding I can hardly believe that over a month has elapsed since Michael and Heidi’s wedding. Beginning with a festive Friday evening dinner, continuing at their aufruf, and culminating on their wedding day itself, the entire weekend was a happy dream, beyond anything we had anticipated. Looking at the photographer’s proofs has brought back many memories of a wonderful day, long in the making, but passing much too quickly. Time does, indeed, have a way of flying even as we try to savor every minute. The newlyweds are back to their professional routines and busy settling into their marital home. The months of preoccupation with planning every detail and assembling guest lists, and the wedding itself, are now part of the Wolk family history. Searching through my files, I came across the column that I wrote for Orbit following Michael’s bar mitzvah, and I now wonder incredulously where the years have gone. A boy has grown into a married man “even as we gaze”, to borrow a phrase from Fiddler. We are not the same people either. Gerri and I have gone from being parents of young children, dependent on us for nearly every need to being parents of adult men, responsible for themselves and making their respective ways through life quite well. Though our roles have changed accordingly, we are still happy to be called “Mom and Dad”, only now, of a daughter as well as two sons. We want to thank everyone from our Plainview Jewish Center family who came to Michael and Heidi’s wedding. We could not have celebrated fully without you. It is, indeed, very special and unique that every lifecycle milestone in Michael’s life - brit milah, bar mitzvah, rabbinic ordination, and now his marriage, was celebrated on the bimah in the same synagogue where he grew up, and where I have served as cantor for forty years. There are people in this congregation who have known him since infancy, and who were present at all of these simchas. From the time Gerri would bring Michael to shul in his stroller, he has been part of our community. As he matured, he regularly davened for us, read Torah, haftarot and Megillat Esther, officiated as hazzan sheni on the holidays, and, when he was in Seminary, conducted our Tikkun Lel Shavuot. All this was done with a skill, genuineness and openness to people that endeared him to everyone. We were thrilled that Michael and Heidi chose to be married here at the Plainview Jewish Center, and, of course, for me to officiate at their wedding was spectacular. I want to thank my colleague, Rabbi Steve Conn, for his enthusiastic help and participation, and for graciously extending his pulpit to me on Shabbat and at the ceremony. A special thank you to Marsha and Joe Elowsky, who lovingly restored the Center’s huppah, which had been unused for decades, and to our house chairman, Joel Hauptman, for his part in sprucing up the facility. Gerri and I cannot adequately express our thanks and appreciation to Robbie and Steve Steinberg of our own Robert Ian Caterers. We presented them with multiple catering and logistic challenges on three consecutive days, which they more than met with the utmost professionalism and finesse. Their cuisine was superlative and sumptuous, and their service impeccable. They were attentive to all our needs, responded with geniality to every concern, and, invariably gave us the best of everything. In short, the entire weekend was catered to perfection, and we could not have been more pleased. They are an asset to the Plainview Jewish Center. ( continued on Page 7 ) ORBIT Page 7 The Cantor’s Note ( continued from Page 6 ) In the second chapter of the book of Genesis, we find the biblical verse establishing the institution of marriage, “Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave unto his wife.” It seems to imply that at every wedding there is an undertone of sadness for the parents because, to a degree, their children are separating from them, and because a chapter in their lives is coming to a close. But, it is only natural and inevitable that our children will leave our homes to establish their own homes with a life’s partner who will be their soul mate. Though we are happy for them, it is, nonetheless, a poignant moment for parents. This same verse from Genesis, however, is open to a more positive interpretation. The Hebrew word “ya’azov”, usually translated as “to leave”, is also used in biblical Hebrew to mean “to help” or “to assist”. By leaving their parent’s homes and establishing a new home together, Michael and Heidi have helped us be fulfilled through them and their future family, our fondest hopes for their happiness and success in life. Thank you for sharing this simcha with us, Cantor Morris Wolk, D.Mus. We sometimes need to call people to make our morning and evening minyans. We would like to expand the list of people we can call. If we can call you in either the morning at 6:30AM or evenings at 8PM or both please let us know. Please email us at, pjcli@optonline.net or call 938-8610. Please specify: Name, Phone Number, Availability: Morning or Evening or both, Any restrictions (i.e. any day but Tuesday). ORBIT Page 8 PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE by Bruce Elowsky Though it is winter and cold outside, I hope that you had an opportunity to participate in many of January’s events. Whether you attended a Men’s Club Texas Hold-Em Tournament, Senior FAN Club, Family Friendly Friday Night Shabbat Alive Service (Klezmer Service), or any other activity, you and your family and friends can always feel welcome at PJC. At our Congregation meeting in January, we unveiled our Strategic Plan. This plan will help guide us through the next 5 years as we strive to nurture and sustain our presence in the community. Many thanks to Strategic Planning Committee Co-Chairs Evy Rothman and Marty Liebowitz, committee members, and special thanks to Rabbi Conn for his guidance and support. If you have not received a copy of this plan via email, you can always pick up a copy at our office. This past month, it was my pleasure to participate in The Arthur Guttmanstein Religious School Gimel Class Consecration Service. It was a proud moment for the parents and family members as they watched the students receive their Siddurs and embark on their Jewish Studies. There are many events taking place this February, and I hope that you will have a chance to attend. Sunday February 1st at 9:00 AM is the World Wide Wrap. This event is sponsored by the Men’s Club, and gives both men and women an opportunity to put on Tefillin. On Saturday, February 7th at 9:00 AM, we will have our Annual Sisterhood and Men’s Club Shabbat Service. Let’s not miss out on a chance to get together for our annual Wine Tasting event to be held on the evening of Saturday February 28th at 8:00 PM. You will be able to sample wines which can be used during Passover as well as throughout the year. Come join us for a fun filled evening of wine tasting and a lite fare. Looking forward in March, we will be celebrating Purim on Wednesday evening March 4th at 6:15 PM for the family Megillah reading, followed by a USY Carnival and Men’s Club Ice Cream Social. Please make sure you have ordered your Shalach Manot baskets from Sisterhood prior to this evening. Also in March, the Patio Players will be performing their production of Fiddler on the Roof. Please keep some dates open for what I am sure will be another wonderful performance. As always, please check our calendar for the many wonderful events and programs offered by PJC throughout the month. Please remember to Save the Date: Sunday June 7th at 5PM for th Anniversary Celebration. Stay warm, and be well. Bruce C a n t o r W o l k ’ s 4 0 The memorial plaques in our temple sanctuary help us to remember our loved ones who are no longer with us. For questions or information, contact the temple office: 516-938-8610 ORBIT Page 9 ORBIT Page 10 Help Support PJC’s Religious School Fundraiser for Extra-Curricular Activities and Programs Throughout the school year, the Religious School offers extra-curricular programs and events to its children to enhance their Jewish education and make learning fun. Some events offered in the past or that the Religious School Committee would like to pursue in the future include: an olive oil pressing workshop, a matzah baking workshop, a trip to the Suffolk Y to see the Jewish exhibit and a session with an Israeli dancing instructor. To help off-set the expense of these events, the Religious School Committee is conducting a congregation-wide 50/50 raffle now through Purim. Half of the total proceeds from the sale of raffle tickets will be allocated specifically to the Hebrew school to support extra-curricular educational activities and programs for the students and the other half will be divided into 2 equal parts offering participants 2 chances to win. The drawing will take place at the Megillah reading service on Purim in the main sanctuary on the evening of March 4th. Ticket prices are $5 each or 5 tickets for $20. If you are interested in purchasing raffle tickets, please complete the form below and send it with payment to the temple office at: 95 Floral Drive, Plainview, NY 11803; ATTN Religious School 50/50. Your raffle tickets will be mailed back to you. Participants need not be present the evening of the drawing as long as contact information is provided below. Thank you for your support with this fund raising initiative. If you have any questions regarding this fundraiser, you can contact the Religious School office or email Stacy Meyerson at stacy.meyerson@verizon.net. Hebrew School 50/50 Raffle o I would like to purchase 1 raffle ticket for $5.00 to support extra-curricular programs at the Religious School. o I would like to purchase 5 raffle tickets for $20.00 to support extra-curricular programs at the Religious School. o I would like to purchase ________ tickets for $__________ to support extracurricular programs at the Religious School. o I don’t want to purchase raffle tickets but would like to make a donation to the Religious School for $__________ Please make check payable to Plainview Jewish Center Name__________________________________________ Phone Number____________________ Address______________________________________________________________________________ ORBIT Page 11 Now we have Walgreens, Macy’s, TJMAXX, Marshall’s, California Pizza Kitchen & Panera cards too! HELP PJC’S RELIGIOUS SCHOOL JUST GO ONTO THE SHOPRITE WEBSITE: HTTP://WWW.SHOPRITE.COM/SHOPRITE-FOR-MY-SCHOOL/ FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTIONS. SELECT PJC AS YOUR SCHOOL AND ENTER YOUR SHOPRITE PRICE PLUS CARD NUMBER. EVERY TIME YOU BUY “BOXTOP” ITEMS, PJC WILL GET CREDIT. THREE TIMES A YEAR, OUR RELIGIOUS SCHOOL WILL RECEIVE A CHECK. IT’S SO EASY! THANKS FOR HELPING! ORBIT Page 12 LUNCH AND LEARN AT THE MID-ISLAND Y-JCC Monday, February 23rd at 12:30 PM Rabbi Conn will be presenting: “Israeli Elections 2015 Everything You Need to Know About the Upcoming Vote.” Participants are asked to bring their own lunch. Hot Drinks provided. Shiva Set Up A very special service that Sisterhood extends to our congregation is a shiva set-up for those who have, unfortunately, had a loss in their family. If you need this service, you have to call the temple office to request the set-up. Dorit will contact us and we will discuss the different options with you. If any one is interested in helping with the shiva set-ups, please call the office and leave your name and number. Thank you, Doris Cooper ORBIT Page 13 Israel Affairs by Sharon Kunoff In last month’s article, I indicated that I planned to read David Bedelein’s book, Roadblock to Peace:How the UN perpetuates the Arab-Israeli conflict: UNRWA policies reconsidered. I did read it, but rather than use that material, it made me want to learn more. However, before continuing, I would be remiss if I failed to mention the many recent incidents pertaining to Israel. First, Mahmoud Abbas have been trying to have the world recognize Palestine as a state, without negotiation with Israel. Several countries has agreed to do so, although all say this is contingent upon settlement with Israel. A few weeks ago, he had Jordan put a petition before the Security Council of the United Nations urging recognition of Palestine as a State. Fortunately, it did not get the required number of votes. He has resolved to try again. Meanwhile, he petitioned to join the International Criminal Court which could allow him to bring complaints of war crimes against Israel. In Gaza, Hamas has called for Palestinians to kill as many Israelis as they can. This has led to several serious incidents in Israel and around the world. It culminated in the killing of twelve journalists in Paris, followed by the killing of four French Jewish shoppers in a kosher supermarket. If that weren’t enough, internal problems in Israel led to the fall of Netanyahu’s government with new elections slated for March. At this writing, it seems that Netanyahu will come out ahead. So, keep your eyes on the news and try to stand up for Israel whenever you can. I will try to explain the UNRWA situation and how it seems to be the cause of many of the problems in the West Bank, Syria and other parts of the Arab world. When I heard Bedelein speak, I thought he was very articulate. But, I was extremely disappointed in the book. It left me feeling depressed without any ideas of how the situation could be changed. I was going to summarize my take on the situation, but recently, while searching the net, I came across an article which made me hopeful. Bassem Eid is the founder and director of the Jerusalem-based Palestinian Human Rights Monitoring Group. He has written an article which will be part of a special presentation to the British Parliament sponsored by the London-based Henry Jackson Society and the Jerusalem-based Center For Near East Policy Research. I will quote extensively from this article. I believe, it says better than I can, the primary reason for the hatred many Palestinians have for Israelis. As I understand it, UNRWA stands for the United Nations Relief Works Agency, a special agency set up to deal only with Palestinian Refugees. A Palestinian Refugee is defined as an Arab or an Arab descendent who lived in Israel any time between 1946 and 1948 and left the country as a result of the founding of Israel. UNWRA is funded separately from the main UN refugee agency which takes care of all other refugees. In general, other refugees have resettled within a year or so of being declared a refugee, usually not in their country of origin. These people include the over 800,000 Jews who were forced out of Arab lands around the same time as the Arabs were displaced from what was then Palestine. No one ever talks about them because they have resettled in Israel, the United States and other places. The same of course is true for Holocaust survivors. Some tried to return to their countries of origin but realized they weren’t welcome. They became displaced persons and then valued members in many areas of the world. Bassem Eid wrote, “We Palestinians can no longer deny our responsibility for the destiny of our people. For 26 years I have been devoting my life to the mission of defending human rights. I have seen wars and terror. I live in Jerusalem and was brought up in an United Nations Relief and Works Agency (UNRWA) refugee camp in Shuafat, a refugee camp like 58 other UNRWA refugee camps created for the sole purpose of keeping Palestinian Arab people in “temporary” conditions, for 65 years, under the false pretense and specious promise of the “right of return” to pre-1948 villages that do not exist. As a proud Palestinian, I must take responsible for what will happen to our people. We can no longer deny our responsibility for the future of our people. UNRWA, to continue its operation, depends on death and the visual suffering of five million Palestinians who continue to wallow in and around UNRWA ( continued on Page 14 ) ORBIT Page 14 Israel Affairs ( continued from Page 13 ) facilities. The more Palestinians suffer, the more power goes to UNRWA, which allows it to raise unchecked humanitarian funds and purchase munitions. People ask: Why not abolish UNRWA? Well, this cannot be done. People ask: Why not ask the donor nations to defund UNRWA? Do they not realize that a Western defunding of UNRWA would allow nations like Qatar to enter the vacuum, leaving the West with no leverage over UNRWA policy? The point is to influence donor nations to reform UNRWA and predicate future aid to UNRWA on reasonable conditions: 1. Audit all funds allocated to UNRWA, which operates with a $1.2b. budget. 2. Introduce UN High Commissioner for Refugees standards to UNRWA, to encourage permanent refugee settlement. 3. Cancel the UNRWA war curriculum, based on principles of jihad, martyrdom and right of return by force of arms. 4. Demand that UNRWA schools conform to the UNRWA slogan: “Peace Starts Here.” 5. Dismiss UNRWA employees affiliated with Hamas, defined by the donor nations to UNRWA as a terrorist entity. It is therefore the responsibility of the Palestinian people to rebel against the arbitrary administration of UNRWA, which seeks to perpetuate our refugee status instead of helping our people to strive for a better future. The Palestinians see that UNRWA is continually cutting back on its activities, devoting most of its budgets to health and education. UNRWA claims that this is because the contributing countries have not upheld their commitments regarding the transfer of funds. Furthermore, UNRWA provides many more services to the Gaza Strip than it does to the West Bank, and this even further infuriates the residents of the West Bank. Moreover, UNRWA has not raised the salaries it pays to its local workers for years, and, in many cases, has even neglected to pay its workers for months at a time –thus enraging the Palestinians even further and leading to numerous strikes and conflicts. UNRWA has not conducted a census within the refugee camps for some two decades, and so the organization cannot know how many refugees are living in the camps in the Occupied Territories and in the Diaspora. To this day, the numbers remain unclear. While one source says there are 2.5 million refugees, the Palestinian Authority claims that the number is higher than 6 million. UNRWA, which should be the authoritative source, is silent. So on what figures is UNRWA basing its requests for funds? Do the contributing countries have any idea of what they are contributing to? The Palestinian refugees have lost all hope that UNRWA will make any effort to return them to their original lands (right of return) and they believe that they will have to settle for compensation. But they are concerned that if they don’t bring pressure to bear on UNRWA, these monies, too, will be swallowed up by its vast organizational apparatus. In my opinion, it is essential to carry out a comprehensive investigation within the refugee camps throughout the entire Middle East, not only to ascertain the precise numbers of refugees, but also to understand what the Palestinian want for themselves, what they wish for, and what they believe they can reasonably expect. In the eyes of the Palestinians, UNRWA acts a state with its own foreign policy. And that foreign policy does not serve the best interests of the Palestinian refugees. I’m saying this as a loyal Palestinian. I’m saying this because I am concerned about my people’s future.” I too believe that something has to be done about UNWRA. Perhaps if the impetus comes from the Palestinians, it is more likely to happen. If any of you have any idea on this situation, let me know. My training is not in Histrory, Political Science, or any allied area. I’d welcome a critique from someone with more expertise. Here my hopefulness comes from knowing there are Palestinians who feel a responsibility for the situation and want to do something about it!! ORBIT Page 15 PJC IS GOING TO ISRAEL! Come to an informational session in the PJC ballroom on: Tuesday, March 3rd at 7:30pm Larry Ritter, President of Israel Tour Connection (ITC) will be giving a presentation about the trip and will be available for Q&A and to take deposits. Please RSVP if you plan to attend. stacy.meyerson@verizon.net or through the synagogue office. This year we will be in Israel!! Your Israel Trip Planning Committee More details on pages 37 & 38 ORBIT Page 16 FRIENDLY REMINDER from SISTERHOOD....... Purim is Just Around The Corner-Wednesday evening, March 4th... Please participate in the Mitzvah of sending Shalach Manot to one another. Let PJC’s Sisterhood be your agent again this year. Don’t forget to place your Shalach Manot Orders early. The deadline is fast approaching - so don’t be left out. There are 3 different Order Forms in this issue of Orbit and they have also been mailed to you. If you participated last year we have also mailed you the order you placed last year to help make it easier to place your order this year. 1- There is an Order Form for Shalach Manot Baskets - send to your friends, family, children, Hebrew School Teachers, etc. (deadline is Feb 13th) 2- There is an Order Form for Purim Cards to friends or family far away (or nearby). (deadline is Feb 20th) 3- There is an Order Form for College Kits - send Shalach Manot to your children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews, etc. or anyone you love who is away at college. They will be thrilled to receive this. (deadline is Feb 13th) You may also visit the PJC website at www.plainviewjewishcenter.org to find the forms. So, don’t wait - place your order today. Send completed forms with payment to PJC attn: SISTERHOOD Any questions contact: Marion @ 516-933-8085 darimazy@optonline.net Bunny @ 516-433-5778 Sisterhood thanks everyone for their support and participation in this amazing project! The Sisterhood Shalach Manot Committee ORBIT Page 17 ORBIT Page 18 SISTERHOOD PLAINVIEW JEWISH CENTER Purim Kits for College Kids Order Form If you are interested in sending a kit(s), please provide Sisterhood with the following information: Name of College Student: ______________________________________ College Address: ______________________________________ ______________________________________ ______________________________________ Who is sending the kit: ______________________________________ Name(s) to be signed on card: ______________________________________ Send: $15.00 per kit if you are a Sisterhood Member $20.00 per kit if you are not a Sisterhood Member TO: Sisterhood PJC: 95 Floral Drive, Plainview, NY 11803; Attention: Purim Kits We plan to be sending out lots of kits this year so be sure to place your order early! ***Please remember The cut-off date for ordering is Friday, February 13, 2015 so that we can ensure delivery by Purim, March 4, 2015. ORBIT Page 19 Page 20 ORBIT Plainview Jewish Center 60th Anniversary Special Gifts Tribute Please consider becoming a permanent gift donor to the Plainview Jewish Center. The following is a list of suggested Special Gift items that can be dedicated to celebrate joyous events such as engagements, weddings, births, Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, birthdays, and anniversaries. Dedications can be made in the memory of loved ones or to acknowledge a special friend. Brass inscriptions will be provided. Synagogue Bimah Torah New Torah Torah Crown Torah Rimonim Torah Breastplate Megilah Pulpit Chairs Kiddush Cup Havdalah Service Items Pew Seats Torah Reader’s Yad Bimah Wall Candelabra Flags on Bimah Memorial Boards Challah Cover Mezuzahs Lobby/Main Corridor Religious School Presidents Plaque Tree of life Leaf(s) Trophy Display Case Tallit and Prayer Book Cabinet Bulletin Board Art Work Classroom Library New computer Smart Board Display Case Wall Artifacts Garden Name memorial Garden Benches For further information, please contact: Steve Glasser at: 516-938-3069 or stevetg@aol.com WE WISH TO THANK AND EXPRESS OUR DEEP APPRECIATION TO THE FOLLOWING FAMILIES FOR THEIR GENEROUS CONTRIBUTION TO THE MORNING MINYAN: Gale Pine Ruth & Michael Tuller Rachel & Joe Slater Judy & Harvey Altman Wendy & Dennis Fingold Audrey & Lawrence Leventhal r e p l A y d u J y b r e n r o C n o i t a c u d E y l i m a F ORBIT Page 21 Happy New Year…of the Trees! Yes, we’ve hopefully just celebrated globally a wonderful New Year of 2015. However, in our Jewish year of 5775, this coming February 5/6, we are celebrating Tu B’Shevat, the new year of the trees. Our love and appreciation of the trees has stretched to incorporate much more and we are all thinking about our world and its natural resources. How wonderful that the Jewish people incorporated this into our lives thousands of years ago. Save February 13, 2015 at 7:00pm on your calendar and join us for the Family Friendly Friday Night Service. This month we will be joining together in prayer, song and dance as the Rabbi and Cantor lead us in a wonderfully warm and inspiring service—don’t forget that there’s dancing in the aisles! As usual, an oneg follows the service and Oneg Sponsors are always welcome. Share with the community your family and friends birthdays, anniversaries, simchas and news. Contact Judy Alper about becoming one of the sponsors of the oneg. Are you a member of PJ Library? PJ Library is a program of the Harold Grinspon Foundation,a program made possible through partnerships with philanthropists and local Jewish organizations. Today, families in hundreds of communities across the United States and Canada are able to explore the timeless core values of Judaism through books and music. All Jewish families whose children range in age from six months of age through eight years are welcome to sign up. You can do this through the Plainview Jewish Center website, the PJ Library website (linking in with Plainview Jewish Center) or by emailing Judy Alper @ pjcfamilyed@gmail.com. For more information or to become a sponsor of the FFFNS please email Judy Alper at pjcfamilyed@gmail.com. Wishing everyone a happy, peaceful and sweet Tu B’Shevat 5775. FREE MONEY Please help our Religious School earn free money Save Box Tops from General Mills brand items Ziploc – Kleenex – Hefty – Cheerios – Scott Paper Gogurt – Kix – Betty Crocker and many more !! ORBIT Page 22 CONGRATULATIONS TO OUR B’NAI / B’NOT MITZVAH ZACHARY BARTEN January 21, 2015 Zachary is the son of Donna and Andrew Barten and has a sister, Jillian. He is a seventh grader at POB Middle School. Zachary enjoys sports, basketball, flag football, being with his friends and playing with his dog, Maxwell. His favorite holiday is Chanukah which he celebrates with his family. For his Mitzvah Project, he is collecting recyclables and donations to aid in the research for people suffering with mutliple myeloma in honor of Zach’s dad, Andy Barten. This will benefit the International Myeloma Foundation. REMEMBER TO PURCHASE CANDY BAGS FOR YOUR BAR/BAT MITZVAH THROUGH OUR YOUTH GROUP CONTACT THE TEMPLE OFFICE: 938-8610 Spend the First Night of Pesach with your PJC Family Friday, April 3 at 6:30pm $40 per person $18 per child (Pre-Bar Mitzvah) Under 4-Free Leave the preparation to us and come enjoy a beautiful seder led by Rabbi Conn and Cantor Wolk with a delicious meal supplied by Woodbury Kosher RSVP is a MUST Mail your check to PJC to confirm your reservation. ORBIT Page 23 ORBIT Page 24 SCHOOL NEWS By Rachel Ginsburg, Principal This year Tu B’Shevat will fall on the evening of February 3rd and the day of February 4th. Tu B’Shevat doesn’t appear in the Bible, so when was the holiday created – and why? In the Torah, we have two mitzvoth that caused the holiday to be established. In Leviticus, Chapter 19, v23-24, we read that when a fruit tree is planted, you have to wait three years before you can eat the fruit. In the fourth year, the fruit was picked and a Jew had to go to Jerusalem to give it to the Temple as a gift. Only in the fifth year could he eat the fruit. But how did we know the age of the tree? In Deuteronomy, Chapter 14, v.22-26, we read that Jews were to give tithes to the Temple – Every third and sixth years they were supposed to take one tenth of their crops (including fruits) to Jerusalem and eat them there, or sell them and use the money in Jerusalem. So how would they know which fruits belonged to these years and which to the previous year? To answer this question a New Year of Trees was created by the Rabbis. In the time of the Mishna, about 200 B.C.E. we already find a statement that “the first day of Shevat, is a Rosh Hashana to the fruit trees, according to the house of Shamay and the 15th of Shevat, according to the house of Hillel.” We also have a mishna that deals with people who improve a tree by splicing less than 30 days before our regular Rosh Hashana. If the fruits are ripe before the 15th of Shevat, there is a question whether the fruit belongs to this year or the previous year concerning to shemita. If they belong to the previous year, you can eat them. If they belong to the present year, they are forbidden. (Found in Talmud Rosh Hashana.) So why was the 15th of the month chosen? According to Rabbi Elazar (speaking in the name of Rabbi Oshiah), “because most of the rain already has fallen and Rashi adds that “it was the time of year when the fruits are half ripe.” (Talmud Rosh Hashana, Page 14a.) This is how the Rabbis decided that full ripe fruits belonged to the previous year. Today, in Israel, we still keep the laws of not eating the fruits of the first 3 years and the shemita year, which is this year, but there are no more tithing laws because there is no Temple. Instead, we plant trees on Tu B’Shevat and eat from the special fruits which grow in Israel. We plan to have a Tu B’Shevat seder in our Mishpacha Service on Friday, February 6th. Tu B’Shevat Sameach, Rachel ORBIT Page 25 FEBRUARY 2015 SCHOOL CALENDAR 2/1/15 1 1 4 4 6 7 8 9 13 13-22 23 23 27 28 Sunday Teacher Conference - ALEF ONLY NO REGULAR ALEF CLASSES Sunday DALED Family Workshop Sunday J-Flex Wednesday Tu-B’Shevat Day Wednesday Chesed Meeting Friday Mishpacha Prgm - Tu B’Shevat Seder Saturday Musical Jr.Congregation Sunday J-Flex Monday School Comm Meeting FridayFamily Friendly Service Friday-Sunday Winter VacationMonday School Resumes- Regular Schedule Monday Chesed MeetingFriday GIMEL Class Service Saturday Shabbat-As-One- Hey Service 9:00AM-11:30AM USED COAT DRIVE 11:00AM-1:00PM - Kirschner Room 11:30AM-1:00PM - Room 213 Regular Schedule 6:30PM - 8:00PM - Room 211/209 7:00PM-8:00PM 9:45AM-11:15AM - Youth Lounge 11:30AM-1:00PM - Room 213 8:15PM - Library 7:00PM-8:00PM No School or Jr. Congregation 4:15PM-6:15PM6:15PM - 8:00PM - Room 211/209 7:00PM-8:00PM - Main Sanctuary 10:30AM-12:00PM - Youth Lounge/Sanctuary ORBIT Page 26 REFUAH SHELAYMAH Our Plainview Jewish Center Family wishes a refuah shelaymah to: Hank Marcus Lucille Giniger Irving Weingarten Martin Bertisch Zelda King To our PJC members: if you would like to have a family member included in this section, please notify the temple office at: 516 938-8610 x101 Premier staffing agency providing consultants and permanent hires for a wide range of industries in the tri-state area including law and accounting firms; insurance, hospital and healthcare organizations; financial and educational institutions; and advertising, marketing and media companies. 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Page 27 ORBIT Page 28 SISTERHOOD NEWS PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE - Debbie Zaglin, President February is “Brotherhood Month.” According to the dictionary, a brotherhood is a group or organization of people having a close relationship, common interests, etc. In my opinion, this definition describes the relationship between all arms of the Plainview Jewish Center - Sisterhood, Men’s Club and Congregation. Together we form a single, united “brotherhood” whose purpose is to work for the benefit of Plainview Jewish Center and its members. There should exist a feeling of unity between these various groups. Events run by one of these organizations should be supported by members of all branches of the temple. We should all try to attend fundraisers for the benefit of Plainview Jewish Center whenever we can, no matter which organization is listed as the sponsor of that event. While many aspects of each group will always be separate, we should all work together where possible for a better Plainview Jewish Center. Each year, Sisterhood and Men’s Club work together to host a joint Shabbat in February. This year’s Sisterhood-Men’s Club Shabbat will be held on Saturday morning February 7th. It promises to be a very interesting, enlightening and inspirational day and we hope that many of you will attend. Hopefully some of you are also participating in leading the services as well. On Sunday, March 1st, Sisterhood will be packing our Shalach Manot bags for Purim. Please join us for this wonderful fundraiser, mitzvah, and all around good time. I hope to see you there! I hope you will all participate in the Mitzvah of sending Shalach Manot. The order forms have gone out in the mail and are also in this issue of Orbit. The deadline is fast approaching! Please support Sisterhood in this project! The funds that we raise go a long way to help PJC- especially our Hebrew School Children and our Youth Group programs. Please be aware that the megillah reading is WEDNESDAY EVENING , MARCH 4th. THAT IS WHEN YOU CAN PICK UP ANY BAGS THAT WERE ORDERED FOR YOU AS WELL AS ANY BAGS YOU HAVE ORDERED FOR NON MEMBERS. Let’s make PJC the place to be!!! Warm Regards, Debbie Zaglin PROGRAM Rose Weiner - Program Vice President Please join us on Tuesday February 3rd for our general meeting at 8:15 PM. We have two events happening on this evening. First, you will be meeting Sisterhood’s very own Queen Esther. Then Judi Dorosin will be leading our book discussion of, “The Paris Architect “. Please read the book. If you don’t get a chance to read or complete it please come anyway. Our discussions are always very interesting and informative even if you have not read the book. March 17th is our Passover meeting. In the past we’ve handed out recipe booklets which also include information about the Seder. If you have any interesting recipes you would like to share with Sisterhood members, please e-mail them to me so that our committee can incorporate them into the new booklets we are working on. My e-mail address is RoseW1@optonline.net . Thanks in advance! Looking forward to seeing everyone in February. ORBIT Page 29 FUND RAISING Carol Hauser - Fund Raising Vice President Sisterhood’s fund raising efforts have recently supported a Special Education teacher and a Technology Teacher for the Religious School and sponsorship of the Tironim and Kadima Youth Programs. The fund raising committee is working on developing additional events as well. If you have any suggestions, please contact me at: cahawh@verizon.net or (516) 433-8423. Save the date Wednesday, April 29th Sisterhood’s Fashion Boutique!! EDUCATION Diane Miller - Education Vice President Sisterhood and Men’s Club Sabbath SAVE THE DATE: February 7th, 2015 Once more, we will be celebrating our annual Sisterhood and Men’s Club Sabbath on Saturday, February 7th, 2015. Our women and men take over the roles of our professionals and they are great! As nerve-wracking, exciting and tension filled as it is (and I’m referring to how our Rabbi and Cantor feel), our participants perform with great aplomb. This year we have a very special speaker. Her name is Risa Simon and she is a Naval Commander serving in the office of Naval Intelligence. Not only is she a Bronze Star Medal recipient (among many other awards), she has served in Japan, Iraq, and Afghanistan and aboard the aircraft carrier U.S. John C. Stennis. You will hear exciting stories from Risa. Her subject will be “Jews in the Military.” So don’t be shy. If you want to participate, we offer Hebrew and English parts. If you just want to attend services and support your friends we would be very happy to see you there. Sincerely, Doris Cooper, Education Chairperson, and her Committee: Zita Jospa Diane Miller Michele Brickman ORBIT Page 30 SISTERHOOD JUDAICA SHOP The Sisterhood Judaica Shop has gifts for all your holiday needs. We have a large selection of honey and apple sets,seder plates, menorahs, mezuzahs, jewelry and head coverings for both men and women. Our great holiday serving pieces, including platters and utensils, are wonderful for celebrating and entertaining or to bring as a gift to family and friends. WHEN YOU THINK GIFTS, THINK SISTERHOOD JUDAICA! FOR INFORMATION, CALL MICHELE HAIMES @ 516-822-0704 BUY JNF TREES FROM SISTERHOOD THEY CAN BE IN MEMORY OF A LOVED ONE OR IN HONOR OF A LOVED ONE OR JUST BECAUSE YOU WANT TO PLANT A TREE IN ISRAEL JNF TREES ARE $18.00 EACH PLEASE CONTACT: BUNNY FINKELSTEIN @ 433-5778 OR DEBBIE SIEGEL @ 822-6146 MAY WE SERVE YOU Prayer Book Fund Diane Miller 935-7732 Judaica Shop Michele Haimes 822-0704 Torah Fund Rose Weiner 935-0454 Joyce Rimer 433-4826 Judi Dorosin Book of Life Rhoda Meshover 938-8818 Cookbook Barbara Alhadeff 631-923-0000 JNF Certificates Bunny Finkelstein 433-5778 Debbie Siegel 822-6146 Mitzvah Committee: Call Temple Office: 938-8610 (Shiva Set-up & Shiva Chairs Available) ORBIT Page 31 TORAH FUND - Rose Weiner, Torah Fund Coordinator I want to thank everyone for attending our Double Chai Kick-Off at Joyce Rimer’s home. It was a very interesting and informative evening. Again, a big THANK YOU to Joyce for offering her home and serving an array of delicious desserts! The Torah Fund campaign is Sisterhood’s commitment to the Jewish Theological Seminary. The JTS is the basis of Conservative Judaism with a worldwide network of academic and religious institutions. By supporting the Torah Fund campaign you are making it possible for our future rabbis, cantors and teachers to be trained and educated. You can help by purchasing Torah Fund cards which are available for all occasions. They can be bought for personal use or they can be sent out for you. Cards are available at general meetings, or you can contact Joyce or Rose who will be happy to send them out for you. Cards are $4.00 each ( plus $.50 postage if we send it for you). We welcome benefactors for a pledge of $180 and you will receive a beautiful pin. Your donations will help safeguard the future of Jewish life for our children and future generations to come. Thank you for your support! Rose - 935-0454, Joyce - 433-4826 *** Special Sale: $36 for ten cards; $20 for six cards Welcome a new arrival! Send one of these beautiful Torah Fund cards today! Send these beautiful cards to celebrate happy occations, to acknowledge the death of a loved one, to thank a friend, to wish someone a return to good health or just to let someone know you’re thinking of them. ORBIT Page 32 WE WISH TO THANK AND EXPRESS OUR APPRECIATION TO THE FOLLOWING FAMILIES FOR THEIR GENEROUS CONTRIBUTION TO THE YAHRZEIT & YIZKOR FUND: Shirley & Ross Landesman Bruce Schachter Arlene & Richard Friedman Ellen & George Rosenbaum Jeffrey Gleicher Mona Grinspan Sheryl & Philip Smolowitz Ellen & Steven Haas Jeffey Hochdorf Lillian & Stanley Bernstein Zita & Marvin Rosen Natalia Nevidomsky Linda & Allan Furman Cecilia Brodie Rosalie Miller Janice & Howard Gellman Eileen Glotzer Donna & Steven Swidler Marilyn & Jerry Kreditor Anne B. Axelrod Alice & Edward Langholz Gloria Gewirtz Susan Shebairo Gary Littman Harriet Cohen Toby & Harvey Gordon Anita & Martin Shlufman Sharon & Morton Amster Linda Sobolow Beatrice Leffert Eileen & Steven Dershowitz Lisa & Lance Gordon Matilde & Cliff Broder Judith & Lawrence Cohen Marge Felder Doris Saks Enid Flax Judy & Harvey Altman Harold Sigmund Judith & Stuart Forman Pearl & Martin Plawsky Marjorie & Mitchell Kantor Ellen & Richard Lincer Ruth Kleinberger Philip Brandfon Caryn & David Nazarieh Helen R. Rudowsky Ida & Murray Kleiner WE WISH TO THANK AND EXPRESS OUR DEEP APPRECIATION TO THE FOLLOWING FAMILIES FOR THEIR DONATION TO PJC: Sabrina & Bruce Hymowitz – In honor of Lauren Hymowitz Birthright trip to Israel Rita & Richard Wein Helene Parker – In honor of Diana and Leonard Lerner’s 60 th wedding anniversary Sharon & Steven Stone – Cantor’s Discretionary Fund – In honor of Heidi Bennett and Michael Wolk’s wedding Stacy & Andrew Meyerson – Cantor’s Discretionary Fund – In honor of Heidi Bennett and Michael Wolk’s wedding Stacy & Andrew Meyerson – In memory of Sarita Robinson Debbie & Michael Zaglin – In honor of Danny Zaglin’s graduation from Binghamton University MEN’S CLUB by Stephen Taub Several fun events are coming to Plainview Jewish Center courtesy of Men’s Club. On Tuesday, February 10th, we will be hosting our annual, winter Movie Night. This year we will be showing Suzie Gold, a comedy about a young Jewish woman living in London with a sister who is about to marry a young Jewish man. We will be serving popcorn, candy and soda. As always, there is no charge to all attendees. The movie will start at 8:15 p.m. On Purim evening, March 4th, Men’s Club will be hosting its annual Ice-Cream Sundae Party, complete with all of your favorite toppings. And, of course, this too is complementary. Then it is time for the Men’s Club Patio Players to take over the Temple. This year we will be performing, Fiddler on the Roof. Ever hear of it? Performances will take place Saturday evening March 7th, Sunday afternoon March 8th, Saturday evening March 14th and Sunday afternoon March 15th. For tickets, call the office and leave a message for Michael Prospect or Rob Cohen. Meanwhile, look in your mailboxes shortly before Passover for your Yom Hashoah candle, again courtesy of Men’s Club. Hope to see you at all of these events. ORBIT Page 33 A.A.R.P. SMART DRIVER COURSE Hosted by THE PLAINVIEW JEWISH CENTER ** SAVE 10% ON AUTO LIABILITY, COLLISION AND PERSONAL INJURY PROTECTION INSURANCE FOR THREE YEARS, AND ** REDUCE YOUR ACTIVE POINT TOTAL BY UP TO FOUR POINTS (SEE DMV BROCHURE) THIS COURSE IS OPEN TO ALL PJC MEMBERS COURSE DATES , WEDNESDAY, FEB. 11, 2015 AND WED., FEB. 18, 2015 COURSE TIME: 6:30 PM to 9:30 PM. YOU MUST ATTEND BOTH SESSIONS REGISTRATION IS LIMITED TO THE FIRST 30 APPLICANTS. * THE NON-REFUNDABLE FEE IS $20.00 PER PERSON FOR AARP MEMBERS, PAYABLE AT TIME OF REGISTRATION. SPOUSES BOTH USE THE SAME AARP MEMBERSHIP NUMBER. ENTER THE NUMBER IN THE LOWER LEFT HAND CORNER ON THE FACE OF THE CHECK. THE FEE FOR NON-AARP MEMBERS IS $25.00 PER PERSON. * BRING YOUR NEW YORK STATE DRIVER’S LICENSE AND A PEN TO THE SESSIONS. THIS PROGRAM IS MADE POSSIBLE AND GIVEN BY OUR OWN LARRY ABRAMS. * PLEASE FILL IN THE APPLICATION BELOW AND MAIL IT BEFORE THE CLASS DATE, ALONG WITH YOUR CHECK for the appropriate amount (NO CASH), PAYABLE TO AARP, TO: LARRY ABRAMS 17 TIPTOP LANE HICKSVILLE, NY 11801 Tel. 516x735-6483 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -CUT HERE- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - NAME(s) _____________________________, ____________________________ ADDRESS: ____________________________ NUMBER ATTENDING____ ____________________________ AARP MEMBER?_____ If yes, AARP #__________________ TELEPHONE: __________________________ WED., FEB 11, AND WED.. FEB. 18, 2015 6:30 PM SHARP to 9:30 PM FEE FOR AARP MEMBERS IS $20 PER PERSON (ENTER YOUR AARP NUMBER ON THE CHECK.) FEE FOR NON-AARP MEMBERS IS $25 PER PERSON. CHECKS ONLY, PAYABLE TO “AARP”. ORBIT Page 34 THE BIBLE CLASS CONTINUES! THE BOOK OF EZRA & NEHEMIAH - BACK TO THE PROMISED LAND Looking for an hour of action, drama and excitement on Wednesday night? Take in a classic series that has been delivering the thrills for more than 2000 years. Join Rabbi Conn, for all the action on selected Wednesdays at 8:15PM. This month, we will begin our study of the Books of Ezra and Nehemiah. These books chronicle the return of the Babylonian exiles to the land of Israel in the sixth cnetury BCE. Although the events described in these books happened 1500 years ago, they often seem like they could have happened today. Ezra and Nehemiah grapple withy questions like: “What if Jews don’t want to retrun to Israel? Who is a Jew? And what does it mean to have a Jewish State?” Our discussions will focus not only on how Ezra and Nehemiah address these questions, but also on what their answers mean for our time. Free and open to all. Bring your own Bible or use the study sheets provided in class. No Hebrew necessary. Next Session Wednesday, February 4th Ezra 5 Rebuilding the Temple II: A Letter to the Persians/ A Cameo Appearance By Two Famous Prophets New participants are always welcome. LUNCH AND LEARN Wednesday, February 11th Join us from 11:00 AM to 12:45 PM for stimulating study, good food and even better company at our monthly Lunch and Learn with Rabbi Conn. This month, inspired by the writings of the late Gil Marks, we will explore, “The History of Jewish Food.” Learn about the origins of some of our favorite dishes and sample some “classics” prepared by Rabbi Conn! Suggested donation is $5 per person. Lunch and Learn is usually held on the second Wednesday of each month. Open to all PJC members and the community at large. ORBIT Page 35 ORBIT Page 36 ORBIT Detailed Itinerary on Page 38 Page 37 ORBIT Israel Tip Itinerary Page 38 ORBIT Page 39 ORBIT Page 40 Hatzilu Means Rescue Hatzilu is reaching out to our community for help. This worthy organization has been assisting impoverished and needy Jews throughout Nassau County for many years. Volunteer social workers help elderly Jews obtain the government benefits to which they are entitled and food is provided to the hungry. Hatzilu maintains the largest kosher food warehouse in Nassau County and volunteers deliver food to people who need it desperately. The warehouse is in dire need of canned goods and nonperishable foods. Donations of these products would help restock the shelves that are almost bare. Hatzilu appreciates all money donations as well. A food collection box will be placed by the main entrance of the synagogue. Thanks for helping those in need. For further information about Hatzilu, please go to: www.hatzilurescue.org or call 931-2884. Arlyne Skolnik HATZILU IN ORDER TO HELP OUR JEWISH POOR AND ELDERLY, PLEASE MAKE A DONATION TO HATZILU. MEN’S CLUB WILL SEND A CERTIFICATE TO HONOR THE NAME OF MEMORY OF WHO YOU CHOOSE. THIS IS AN IDEAL WAY TO EXPRESS A “SIMCHA” OR “SYMPATHY” AND TO HELP OUR FELLOW JEWS. PLEASE EMAIL STEVE GLASSER AT: STEVETG@AOL.COM OR CALL HIM AT: 516 938-3069 TO ORDER A CERTIFICATE ORBIT Page 41 ATTENTION ALL CONGREGANTS: OUR WEEKDAY EVENING MINYANS ARE IN NEED OF A FEW GOOD PEOPLE! WEEKDAY MINYAN IS AT 8PM AND LASTS 15 MINUTES. ANY DAY YOU CAN COME DOWN WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED. THANK YOU PJC BUY A BRICK PROGRAM Please help us in raising money to upgrade, beautify and maintain our building and grounds. Our Walkway of Memories will provide a permanent way to honor or memorialize a family member or friend, a business or special occasion. For further information or additional order forms, please call: Larry Speiller at (516) 938-8610. M’yad L’yad (Helping Hands) Please join Sisterhood, other members of PJC and many others on Long Island as an anonymous sponsor of a LI family in need . All you need do is send a package as few as four(4) times per year through your local UPS store. M’yad L’yad will pay the shipping cost. For more information, call: Marilyn or Marty Leibowitz at 822-6965. Text Study with Rabbi Conn Most Shabbat Afternoons between Mincha (Afternoon) and Ma’ariv (evening) services. Begin the new week with a few minutes of study. This fall, we will focus on a question from the weekly Torah portion and the answer given by Rashi, the most famous of all commentators. Our discussions are always brief, and usually insightful. So join us for prayer, study and camaraderie as we explore the Torah together. ORBIT Page 42 PSSST! IT’S OKAY TO TALK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE . Respecting others’ privacy is an important Jewish value. Lashon HaRa—gossip—is uniformly condemned by our tradition. But there is at least one exception. When someone is ill or in need of care and support, it is a mitzvah to tell people who can help. In our community, the Rabbi and Cantor provide pastoral support to individuals and families who are suffering illness and those who need emotional support. The Rabbi also serves as the liaison to our newly formed Bikur Cholim Committee; which provides additional visits and support to those who request it. Please let the Rabbi and Cantor know when someone in our congregation is ill; or when a family is dealing with a crisis. Only when they know can they reach out to individuals and families in need. Only when they know can they mobilize our Bikur Cholim committee to provide additional support. Don’t worry that they might already have the information. Don’t worry that you are “bothering” these busy people. The information you provide will be vital to helping our congregation to serve the needs of those who need us the most. Rabbi Conn and Cantor Wolk can be reached at PJC at (516) 938-8610. Rabbi Conn can be reached by cell at (516) 524-7447 or by email at rabbiconn@plainviewjewishcenter.com. PLAINVIEW JEWISH CENTER CEMETERY GROUND Location: Wellwood Cemetery at Pinelawn, New York Cost: Single Graves available at $600 each grave. Terms: 25% down with interest free monthly payments for a period of up to two (2) years. Eligibility: Available to PJC Members ONLY. For information call: JOEL FASS 938-7351
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