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December 21, 2014
CHURCH OF ST. MARY
20 Harrison Ave., East Islip, NY 11730
Tel: 631-581-4266
Website: www.parishofstmary.org.
Fax: 631-581-0112
Rectory Reception Desk Hours
9am to 7:30pm ~ Monday to Friday
9am to 4pm ~ Saturday
Closed on Sunday
Parish Ministries
Office of Social Ministry 581-7070
Sr. Camille Solis, DW, Director
9:30am to 4:30pm (Mon, Tues, Wed & Fri)
1pm to 4:30pm (Thursday)
Office of Music & Liturgy
Barbara Grace, Director 581-4266 ext. 107
Pastoral Staff
Rev. Donald E. Babinski, Pastor
Rev. Michael P. Flynn, Associate Pastor
Rev. Jaime Calderon-Hernandez, Associate Pastor
Rev. Robert W. Ketcham in Residence
Rev. Hugh D. Cannon, Associate Pastor Emeritus
Deacon Stephen Behar
Sr. Patricia Tippen, IHM, Pastoral Associate
Mass Schedule
Weekday Masses:
Monday through Friday: 7:30am & 9:00am
Saturday: 8:30am
Office of Family Faith, Catechesis & Enrichment
9am to Noon & 1pm to 4pm (Mon-Thurs)
Religious Education
Linda Crowley, Director (Grades1-8)
581-3304 ext. 122
Baptismal Ministry
MaryAnn Giannettino, Director 581-3304 ext. 120
Family Life & Youth Ministry
Theresa Roach, Director 581-3304 ext. 124
St. Mary School: 581-3423 8am to 2:30pm
Biagio M. Arpino, Principal
Rectory
Joseph Isoldi, Business Manager 581-4266 ext. 102
Business Office: 8am to 4pm (Mon-Fri)
Ann Galioto, Bookkeeper 581-4266 ext. 104
Sunday Masses:
Saturday: 5pm in the auditorium
Sunday: 7:30am, 11:00am, and 5pm in the church
9:15am, 10:45am, and 12:15 in the auditorium
Parish & Pastor’s Secretary/Bulletin Editor: 9am to 5pm
Teresa Van Buren 581-4266 ext. 105
Eve of Holyday:
Holyday:
Facility Maintenance Management & Janitorial Services
LBS—Loyal Building Services, Inc. 581-4266 ext. 135
7:30pm in the church
Masses as announced
New Parishioners: New families are welcome to register at the
Rectory Reception Desk during office hours.
Anointing of the Sick: 1st Saturday monthly — 8:30am Mass.
Baptisms are celebrated on the 1st & 3rd Sundays of each
month at the 11am Mass (10:45am in the summer) and the
12:15pm Mass. Baptisms are celebrated on the 2nd & 4th
Sundays of each month at a 1:30pm ceremony in the church.
No Baptisms during Lent. Parents should call the Faith
Enrichment Office at 581-3304 ext. 120, preferably before the
baby’s birth, to schedule an interview, class and celebration
date.
Confessions: Wednesday (8:00am—8:45am), and Saturday
(4:00pm—4:45pm).
Marriages: Engaged couples should call the Rectory and
arrange for a Nuptial Interview with Deacon Steve at least one
year in advance of the marriage date.
Birthright: 631-277-3888
THE FOURTH SUNDAY
OF ADVENT
DECEMBER 21, 2014
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Liturgical Ministers—If you wish to serve at our
Christmas and Feast of Mary, Mother of God Liturgies,
please call Teresa Van Buren at 581-4266, x105.
MONDAY DECEMBER 22
7:30 a.m.
Desmond V. Burke
9:00 a.m.
Bill Kreamer (Living ~ Birthday)
TUESDAY DECEMBER 23 ~ St. John of Kanty
7:30 a.m.
Frank Flora
9:00 a.m.
Edward Owsiejko
WEDNESDAY DECEMBER 24 ~ Christmas Eve
7:30 a.m.
9:00 a.m.
Helen and Vincent Romano
4:00 p.m. C Christmas Novena
Fr. Hugh
4:00 p.m. A Christmas Novena
Fr. Jaime
5:30 p.m. A Christmas Novena
Fr. Don
12 Midnight C Christmas Novena
Fr. Michael
(C=Church and A=Auditorium)
THURSDAY
7:30 a.m.
9:15 a.m.
10:45 a.m.
11:00 a.m.
12:15 p.m.
DECEMBER 25 ~ The Nativity of the Lord
Christmas Novena
Fr. Hugh
Christmas Novena
Fr. Jaime
Christmas Novena
Fr. Don
Christmas Novena
Fr. Michael
Christmas Novena
Fr. Don
FRIDAY DECEMBER 26 ~ St. Stephen
7:30 a.m.
Judy Ann Murphy & Robert Albert Brandt
9:00 a.m.
Robert Bozzett
SATURDAY DECEMBER 27 ~St. John, Apostle
8:30 a.m.
In Thanksgiving
5:00 p.m.
Deceased Members of
Fr. Michael
The Del Genio Family
SUNDAY DECEMBER 28 ~ The Holy Family
7:30 a.m.
Debra Paul
Fr. Jaime
9:15 a.m.
Dorothy Jane Rombouts
Fr. Hugh
10:45 a.m. All Parishioners
Fr. Jaime
11:00 a.m. AnnMarie & Robert Venturini Fr. Don
Michael De Cosimo
Peter L. Cavanaugh, Sr.
Joseph Scotto
Joan Oelckers
Kent Bachmann
12:15 p.m. William Kreamer (Living~Birthday) Fr. Jaime
5:00 p.m. Stephen Cioliono
Fr. Michael
THE SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION
Confessions: Wed., Dec. 24 at 8am-8:45am and
10:30am—Noon: 8am/Fr. Hugh; 10:30am/Fr. Michael;
11am/Fr. Don; 1:30am/Fr. Jaime
Confessions: Sat., Dec. 27 at 4pm—4:45pm Fr. Michael
SCRIPTURE READINGS FOR THE WEEK
Continued on page 10 of bulletin . . .
The ANOINTING OF THE SICK will be celebrated on
Saturday, January 3 at the 8:30am Mass in the church.
All are most welcome. Please pray with us.
ADORATION HOLY HOUR & BENEDICTION
Please join us on Monday, January 19 to pray for priests
in the Church at 12 noon. All are welcome.
Please pray for the safety of the members of St.
Mary Parish who serve in the Military. If you have
a relative or friend that you would like to add to our
Military Prayer List for six months, please call
Teresa Van Buren at 581-4266, x105.
Let us remember in our prayer . . .
Brian Alfano, Anthony Barbera, Jr.,
Sgt. Kurt Benjamin USMC,
Colin Boyle Second Lieutenant,
George Byrnes, Ray Callahan, Nick Cerbone,
Sgt. Timothy Chaplin, Anthony Corrado, Jr.,
Mark Crawford, Patrick Donohue,
Dale Dougherty US Navy, Terrence Edward,
Lance Corporal Gwen Ehatt, John Gregory Finn,
Mickey Flannery, Charles Flood III,
Major Gregory Galligan US Army,
Lance Corporal Marine Matthew Gervais,
Matthew Granetta, Lance Corporal John Grogan,
Christopher Hill, MA Erik Kasper,
Keith & Teague Liming, Ian Lynch,
Alex & Sean Lyon, USMC, Paul Minihan,
Colleen Stephens-Minihan, James Misner,
PFC Eric Mitchell, Robert Necci Jr.,
Lance Corporal Matthew Paterno,
Michael Paradiso, Michael Pare, Rob Raguso,
Lt. Commander Lloyd Reinhold US Navy,
Janel Santana, Lance Corporal Daniel Santos,
Lance Corporal Andrew Schaedtler USMC,
Eric Schurman, Private Donald Scott,
Sgt. Rick Seitz USAF, Ray Sigman, Michael Skelly,
Kevin Snow USAF, Private Eric Thomesen US Army,
Lt. Samuel Warren, Anthony Adam Wilson,
John Yancigay, and all Military Chaplains
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Dear Friends,
As you probably know, two of our recent popes have been made saints by the
Church. They are John XXIII and John Paul II.
St. John XXIII was elected pope in 1958. In December of that year, he
celebrated his first Christmas Mass at the Vatican. It was also the first time that the
Church had the technology to broadcast the Mass worldwide on radio and TV. As the
oldest living organization on earth — 2,000 years old — the Church invited people from
everywhere in the world to come to Rome to attend this memorable event.
Present at the Mass were color-robed cardinals, bishops and priests, peasants
and intellectuals, poor and wealthy, believers and unbelievers, Catholics and
Protestants, average men and women. They represented people from every walk of life.
Though he was a new pope, most people were expecting the usual papal homily referring to the scriptural texts
as they pertained to the feast. How surprised the congregation was when it heard him begin his homily in his native
Italian by asking, “Who represented us at the first Christmas?”
Then he added, “If you say it was the angels, you would be wrong because angels do not have bodies like us.
If you say it was the shepherds, you would be wrong because the shepherds were farmers, and most of us are not. If
you say it was the Wise Men, you would be wrong because they were wealthy and highly educated, but most of us are
poor and stupid.”
John XXIII went on to say, “I will tell you who it was that represented us at the first Christmas: it was the
donkey.” Now you could see and hear the stirring and murmuring within St. Peter’s Basilica. Many of them were
probably feeling humiliated, especially those who brought non-Catholic guests along for the experience.
The pope proceeded to explain, saying, “The donkey was always feeling sorry for himself. He felt frustrated
and thought his life was too monotonous and meaningless. He was habitually unhappy. He would always walk around
with a long face, or what we Italians call, una faccia lunga.”
It happened that first Christmas day, said the pope, that as the donkey looked up he saw a horse. He thought
to himself, “What a beautiful animal the Lord made when He created the horse. Look at him. He’s gorgeous. He has a
magnificent head of hair, and he can run like the wind. Me — I am short and ugly. I don’t have his beautiful hair and I
cannot run very fast.”
With his long face, the donkey continued to glance around the stable. He noticed the camel. This time he said
to himself, “What a wonderful creature God made when he made the camel. Look at him. He can go for days —- as
the pope put it— giorni, giorni, days, days without any water. Me — I am always thirsty and can never seem not to
thirst.”
As the donkey continued looking around with the same long face, he suddenly looked up and saw a cow. He
said to himself, “What a marvelous creature God made when He made the cow. Look at her. She is friendly and gets
along with everyone. The cow not only gives milk to nourish her own but she nourishes others as well. Me — I cannot
nourish anyone. I am not easy to get along with. I am very stubborn.”
Continuing to focus on the scene around him, the donkey looked up and saw a baby in a manger. There was
something special about this baby — something in the look of the baby’s eyes captured the donkey’s attention. So he
walked up to the manger and sat down by the infant. It was a cold wintry night and the baby was cold.
Here the pope described a bit of the better part of our nature. No one likes to see children suffer. Even people
who don’t like children do not like to see them suffer. Then the pope said the donkey began breathing heavily on the
baby.
The next thing everyone heard was the pope panting loudly into the microphone. Remember that John XXII
was a very short and stocky man. So it sounded something like this: “Uhh huh . . . Uhh huh . . . Uhh huh.”
When he finished making those sounds, the pope told the crowd, “The baby reached up and patted the muzzle
of the donkey as if to say, ‘Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for keeping me warm on this cold wintry night.’” Now for
the first time in his life, the donkey was happy. He no longer felt sorry for himself. He had found meaning and purpose
in his life, and all his troubles went away.
Then the pope absolutely stunned the entire world saying, “For that’s the way it is with Almighty God. All He
wants is the warm breath of a living soul. You give Him that and he will take care of the rest. Let me repeat that. It is
so powerful and compelling that I want you to remember it for the rest of your life. ‘For that’s the way it is with Almighty
God. All He wants is the warm breath of a living soul. You give Him that and He will do the rest.’”
Overwhelmed at these words, the crowd remained utterly silent. Eventually, the pope broke the silence as he
spoke again. He said, “I must first give you the Italian: ‘Da un asino a tutti voi altri asini, Buona Natale’ which means,
‘From one donkey to all of you other donkeys, Merry Christmas!’”
My friends, we all have a chance to breath warmly upon each other. We do that simply when we love and care
for one another. And God will certainly do the rest.
To you and your loved ones, I extend my best wishes for a “Blessed Christmas and a Happy New Year!”
Fr. Don
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VOLUNTEERS NEEDED!
The More the Merrier . . .
Are you available to help
decorate St. Mary Church &
Auditorium for the Feast of Christmas? If so,
please meet Fr. Don at the Church on Tuesday,
December 23 at 1:00pm. Thank you!
100TH ANNIVERSARY
CELEBRATIONS!
Lenten Evening of Prayer & Song with
Fr. Charles Mangano and Laurie
Friday, February 27, 2015 at 7pm in Auditorium
Admission is a free will offering.
100th Anniversary Brunch
ST MARY CHILDREN’S CHOIR
Next Rehearsal: Tuesday, January 13
6pm-7pm ~ Auditorium
We will be leading song at the 5:30pm Mass in the
Auditorium on Christmas Eve, Dec. 24 and
January 25 at the 10:45am Mass.
Lynne Cook @ stmaryschildrenschoir@yahoo.com
RETIRED MEN’S MINISTRY
Wednesday, December 31
Immediately following the 9am Liturgy
Joseph Room
Come check us out!
NEW YEAR’S EVE AFTERNOON OF PRAYER
Wednesday, December 31 ~ 2pm—4:30pm
Rectory Chapel
(Details on page 5.)
PASTORAL COUNCIL MEETING
Joint meeting with Pastoral Staff
Saturday, January 10 ~ 9:30am
Joseph Room
“A GATHERING OF MEN & WOMEN IN OUR
WISDOM YEARS...GOLD IN OUR MEMORIES”
Monday, January 12 ~ 9:45am—11am
Sacred Heart Hall
Presenter: Dot Horstmann
All are welcome!
ROSARY SOCIETY
Wednesday, January 14 ~ 9:30am
Joseph Room
FINANCE COUNCIL MEETING
Tuesday, January 20 ~ 7:15pm
Rectory
Sunday, March 1 at 11am in Sacred Heart Hall.
Adults-$16 per person & Children-$8 per person
Tickets: Contact Lois Mills Lannigan at
lojer99@gmail.com or 631-650-5033.
Please note tickets are limited.
Annual St. Patrick’s Day Parade follows at 2pm.
100th Anniversary Principal’s Gala
Join us for a night to celebrate 100 years of
Catholic Education honoring
Fred & GinaMarie Bianculli and
Joseph & Maureen Szabo
Saturday, March 14, 2015 ~ 7:00pm—11:00pm
An evening of elegance on the beautiful waters
of the Great South Bay at Chateau La Mer,
845 South Wellwood Avenue, Lindenhurst.
Highlights: Cocktail Reception, Top Shelf Open
Bar, Five course Sit-Down Dinner, Dancing &
After Dinner Cordial Bar and
100th Anniversary History Book &
Commemorative Tribute Journal
St. Mary School Red Carpet Photography
Chinese Auction, Grand Prize & 50/50 Raffle
Ticket prices: $85/adult; $150/per couple;
$70/Faculty & Staff; $750/Table of Ten and
$900/Table of Twelve
Underwriting opportunities and Journal
Advertisement available.
For further information, please e-mail
stmaryschool100gala@aol.com.
Night of Irish Song with Andy Cooney
Friday, March 27 at 7pm in Auditorium
Tickets-$25 per person~Contact Megan Reitzel
at MeganLreitzel@yahoo.com or 581-3423 x149.
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“A vision of Church as envisioned by the Second Vatican Council, the Gospel message proclaimed by the Lord,
Jesus Christ, the solemn obligation to hear the cry of all those in need.”
With these as our FOUNDATIONAL STONES, the ST. MARY’S MISSION STATEMENT is:
“CENTERED IN THE WORD OF GOD AND THE GIFT OF JESUS IN OUR MIDST, THE MISSION OF ST. MARY’S
PARISH FAMILY IS TO BE A WELCOMING COMMUNITY WHICH PROCLAIMS THROUGH WORD AND ACTION
THE DIGNITY OF EVERY PERSON”. . .and we take our mission seriously!
Please let us know how we can help you.
“New Year’s Eve Afternoon of Prayer”
Join us on Wednesday, December 31 from
2pm—4:30pm in the Rectory Chapel.
Give
yourself some time to consider the blessings of
the past year and look to the New Year with
Hope, Openness, Joy and Prayer. Please call
Sister Patty at 581-4266, x134 to reserve a
place. All are welcome! Come and bring a friend!
If you wish to list a name in the “Prayers for the
Sick” section of the bulletin for the month of
DECEMBER, please use the form below and return it
to the Rectory (Attn: Teresa Van Buren) or place it in
the weekly collection basket.
Prayers for the Sick
Date:
________________________
Name:
________________________
Requested by: ________________________
Phone #
SPIRITUAL CARE ~ If you yourself or someone you
know is confined to home and wishes to have a visit by a
lay companion or to receive the sacraments from a priest,
please call the Rectory Receptionist at 581-4266, x100.
The Ministry of Consolation is in need of men to assist
as Altar Servers at Funeral Masses. If you are retired
or have some time to help in this special ministry, please
call Sister Patty at 581-4266, x134.
“Centering Yourself in Prayer”
Take some time from your busy day and
spend some quiet, quality time with God!
Our next gathering is Monday, January 5
at 10am in the Rectory Chapel for
approximately 30 minutes.
Have your own inner,
meditative time with God. For more information, call
Sister Patty at 581-4266, x134 or visit
www.contemplativeoutreach.org.
Please pray for the child who will be
baptized and for their family:
Victoria Lyn Zul
Maggie Cate McCaffrey
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Names will be listed in the bulletin for one month. A
family member may call the Rectory Office (581-4266
x100) to place or remove a name on our monthly
Prayers for the Sick. Thank you.
Rose Abruzzo
Bob Ahearn
Joseph Balletta
Robert Beconsall
Max Berlin
Sherry Brightman
Michael Caliendo
Caren Callimano
John Cascio
Christopher
Mary Rose Creamer
Pat Croteau
Maria Josephine Dahan
Christopher Dahl
Sonny D’Ambrosio
Debbie
Dominic De Yorgi
Theresa Drake
Cindy Ginty
Angela Hamm
Theresa Harvey
Thomas Smith Henley
Theresa Henry
Janice Hock
Art Krenicky
Debra Lane
Susan Lauto
Doris Lindauer
William Mc Sweeney
Tom Magoulas
Karen & Vito Marzovilla
Harry Munster
Paige Julia Nelson
Joan Oberkirch
Tom O’Keefe
Kay Peterson
Alexis Raghunandan
Virginia Restifo
Diane Romeo
Thomas Ruddy
Reynold Sainton
Joanne Scala
Peter Sloboda
Josie Spano
Stephen Schaedtler
Robert Tirado
Edward Tierney
Dan Traietta
Paul D. Vigliotta
Leo Vollbracht
Brian & Sabrina Ward
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Dear All of You,
In a few days it will be Christmas. Hopefully most of your
Christmas shopping, decorating and menu planning will be done.
Here at Outreach we have packed and delivered the Holiday
Food Baskets and distributed the Christmas presents. All this
activity is good. It helps those in need, it builds community, and we
have the satisfaction of doing what God asks of us.
Now I long for the time just to be reflective. I want to be still and feel the holiness of
what was, what is, and the mystery of what is to come.
One of my favorite paintings is one by Henry Ossawa Tanner. It is “The Annunciation”
and it hangs in the Philadelphia Museum. One summer I traveled there to see the original, but
to my dismay, I found out when I arrived that the picture was out on loan.
So I must be content with the print . . . which is still lovely. The colors are soft and
muted and the expression on young Mary’s face is one of wonderment. The angel is portrayed
as a light that falls across the bedcovers where Mary sits.
It is hard to take my eyes away from this picture. I listen to their conversation. I am
most impressed with Mary’s response when she was told that she was with child. Her words
must have been whispered, “May it be done to me according to your word.”
Surely not able to realize all the ramifications of her “yes,” she consented with
confidence. Like Mary, I too desire to have the confidence to say Yes, my Lord without
knowing all the answers.
In Wisdom’s love,
Sr. Camille Solis, DW
By popular demand, St. Mary Parish 3rd annual
CHINESE AUCTION is coming! If you missed the
last one, this is your chance! The event will be held in
the auditorium on Friday, February 6, 2015 and will
benefit the renewal of our parish facilities.
We need prize items!
Families, groups &
organizations are encouraged to donate gift cards
(buy with SCRIP & benefit St. Mary twice!), readymade gift baskets, house wares, toys, etc. Re-gifting
is encouraged. Please, NEW ITEMS ONLY.
Please drop off prizes at the Rectory by January
16, 2015. For more information, please call Barbara
Grace at 581-4266, x107.
RESPECT LIFE ~ HOLY INNOCENTS
PRAYER VIGIL will be held on Monday,
December 29 at 8pm at the Church of St.
Joseph, 39 North Carll Ave., Babylon, NY.
For more information, please call 631-4224635.
ST MARY FOOD PANTRY NEEDS
COFFEE
TEA
MAYO
SHAMPOO
TOOTHPASTE
LAUNDRY SOAP
CLEANING PRODUCTS
The meetings for Catholic Gays/Lesbians, Parents and their
Families are held on the third Tuesday of each month at
7pm. For further information, please call Al and Rita Mazza at
631-650-7016.
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Sacrificial Giving
Thank you for sharing
your Treasure
Offering 12/07 $18,949
12/01EFT
$ 2,447
Last Week’s Offering 12/14 $—
(Tithing amount unavailable due to early
bulletin deadlines.)
“MEMORIAL GARDEN”
Our
landscaping
plan
surrounding this garden is a work
in progress. We have received
many compliments thus far and a
renewed interest in the purchase
of bricks. Our volunteers have
made such a difference. Check them out on Facebook
(Church of St. Mary)!
St. Mary Memorial Garden Dedication Brick
Honor your loved one or family with a brick ($200) which
will be placed in the Memorial Garden adjacent to SHH.
You can help make this garden a place of peace &
prayer. Your Inscription—Maximum of 30 Characters.
Forms available at the Rectory Reception Desk.
“Msgr. Peter A. Chiara Sacred Heart Hall”
Renovations are
completed. There are
plans
for
a
new
landscaping design and
new signage. Volunteers
have painted the exterior
stucco a vibrant color.
Everything is looking
great.
If you are interested in donating to the
renovation of Sacred Heart Hall in honor of Fr. Pete,
please call the Rectory at 581-4266, x100. You may
also mail your donation to the Church of St. Mary, 20
Harrison Ave., East Islip, NY 11730 ~ Attention “Fr.
Pete Fund.” Also please write “Fr. Pete Fund” in the
memo section of your check as these funds are in a
restricted account and can only be used for the sole
purpose of the renovation project.
When planning your Will, bequests and
memorials, prayerfully consider including
our parish community of St. Mary.
St. Mary Parish Renovation Campaign
“Improving Our Parish — Housing Our Ministries”
Over $875,000 Pledged — Help us reach our goal!
Father Don and the Campaign Committee would like to thank all parishioners who have responded. We
appreciate your generous support.
CAMPAIGN EFFORTS CONTINUE
The campaign will not end until all members of our parish family have had an opportunity to be part of the
campaign’s success. We need everyone to participate if we are to make our goal. Please make your
pledge or one-time donation by returning the all-in-one pledge envelope that was mailed to your home, or
pick up an extra one at Mass. No down payment is necessary. Please review the suggested gift plans
and continue the success of our campaign by making your gift today!
As you consider your pledge . . . Please remember
•
•
No Down Payment is Necessary.
• Your gift is matched by the Diocese at a rate of fifty cents on every dollar.
• Pledge payments are in addition to your weekly offertory.
Payment reminders will be mailed in accordance with the selected payment plan.
• All contributions are tax deductible.
• Make checks payable to: St. Mary Capital Campaign
All Pledges & One-Time Donations, no matter what the amount, are welcome and appreciated!
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There are NO classes this week or next week.
Classes will resume on January 6, 2015.
The FFE Office will be closed until January 5, 2015.
We hope that all our families enjoy a very Blessed Christmas!
First Eucharist Parents Meeting ~ If your child is receiving the Eucharist for the first
time this year, please make every effort to attend the Parents Meeting on Monday,
January 12 at 7pm in the Auditorium. It is important that one parent be present.
Children are not expected to attend.
“ST. MARY SCHOOL”
May the spirit of peace and goodwill
that
Christmas brings . . .
Always be with you!
Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a
Happy New Year!
Sincerely,
Mr. Arpino, Principal
Faculty, Staff and Students
of
St. Mary School
Question:
How do we get
more people to attend Mass?
Answer: So many baptized
Catholics have left the Church
in recent years. In the New
Evangelization, we are called to reach out to our
brothers and sisters and invite them back. If
you have a family member or friend who no
longer practices the Catholic faith, why not
gently invite them to come back home for
Christmas.
And then, invite them again.
Sometimes, all we need is an invitation
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Christmas Eve ~ Wednesday, December 24
4:00pm in Church & Auditorium
5:30pm in Auditorium with Children’s Pageant
12 Midnight in Church
Christmas Day ~ Thursday, December 25
7:30am in Church
9:15am in Auditorium
10:45am in Auditorium
11:00 am in Church
12:15 pm in Auditorium
(There is no 5:00pm Mass on Christmas Day)
Prayer for the success of the St. Mary
Parish Renovation Campaign
The Solemnity of Mary
Mother of God
New Year’s Eve, December 31, 2014
5:00 p.m. in Auditorium
New Year’s Day, January 1, 2015
8:00 am in Church
10:00am in Church
12:00pm in Church
Gracious God, building your
Kingdom on earth is your will
and our privilege.
Keep us
mindful of the needs and
mission of our Parish of St.
Mary that has served you and
your people faithfully for over a century.
Empowered by your Holy Spirit, be with us now
as we embark upon a new capital campaign to
improve our parish buildings and grounds that
are used for the good of your Kingdom. Open
our hearts and minds to be generous in our
giving, knowing that whatever we give will be of
great sacrifice. May Mary, the mother of your
Son and our patroness, watch over us so that
our efforts may accomplish the goals you have
set before us. We ask this through Christ our
Lord. Amen.
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SCRIPTURE READINGS FOR THE WEEK
Monday:
Tuesday:
Wednesday:
Thursday:
Friday:
Saturday:
Sunday:
1 Samuel 1:24-28; Luke 1:46-56
Malachi 3:1-4, 23-24; Luke 1:57-66
2 Samuel 7:1-5, 8b-12, 14a,
16: Luke 1:67-79
Isaiah 52:7-10
Psalm 98: 1, 2-3, 3-4, 5- 6
Hebrews 1:1-6
John 1:1-18
Acts 6:8-10; 7:54-59; Matthew 10:17-22
1 John 1:1-4; John 20:1a, 2-8
Genesis 15:1-6
Psalm 105: 1-2, 3-4, 6-7, 8-9
Hebrews 11:8, 11-12, 17-19
Luke 2:22-40
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The Good News at St. Mary . . .
St. Mary Parish is blessed with the 50 dedicated volunteers who staff our Thrift Shop on Main Street in
East Islip. These men and women live the Gospel message of “Clothing the Naked” on a daily basis in
offering new and gently used clothing at economical prices. The volunteers minister to the customers in a
gentle, non-threatening and Christian manner. They are directed to “love thy neighbor” even when it is
difficult. Most of the volunteers as you can see were able to attend their Christmas “Thank You” Party
hosted by Sister Camille and all had a wonderful time!
Preparation for Total Consecration
Presented by the Legion of Mary
Start the New Year committed to growing in your
faith and closer to Jesus through Mary. A 5-week
series on Total Consecration with a guided video
by Father Hugh Gillespie, SMM at the Montfort
Spiritual Center, 26 South Saxon Avenue, Bay
Shore, NY. The First Session starts January 3,
2015.
$20 includes all material.
For more
information, call 631-666-7500 or visit
reginacordium.org.
To register, e-mail
trossmccarthy@reginacordium.com.
THANK YOU to all the parishioners of St. Mary who
very generously donated so many wonderful gifts and
their time to impact thousands of hurting children this
Christmas. Together we were able to pack over 1421
boxes filled with toys, schools supplies and basic
necessities for Operation Christmas Child. Our
packed boxes were filled with lots of great items,
especially love and prayers. They are now on their way
to children in need in over 105 countries around the
world. The children who receive the boxes will be filled
with joy knowing someone cares about them and best of
all, they will know the promise of God’s love, hope and
joy. 1421 children have been impacted by the power of
a simple gift generously donated by you! Thank you very
much for making this possible.
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(631) 581-9055
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Diamond & Stone Setting
Jewelry & Watch Repair
Custom Redesigning
All Major Credit
Cards Accepted
Readings • Reflections • Prayers
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Russ Knoth Exterior Designs
Siding - Windows - Roofing
Decks - Gutters - Flooring
Painting - Sheetrock - Interiors
631-581-2291 Parishioner
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“The Complete and
Unique Look for All”
We Specialize in Barbering
183 East Main St., East Islip
581-1443/4
166 E. Main St.
St. Mary’s Graduate
007008 St Mary Church (B)
Cleaners and Laundry
Expert Tailoring &
Wedding Gown Preservation
1628 Union Blvd.
665-0335
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Overton Funeral Home, Inc.
172 Main Street, Islip
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Eric S. Buehler, Manager
Family Owned and Operated Since 1923
279 Orinoco Drive
Brightwaters
665-5550
665-3774
FABER BROS AUTO REPAIR
COMPLETE AUTO SERVICE
ESTABLISHED 1957
Karp’s Wines
& Liquors
Imported & Domestic
214 E. Main St.
Ackerly Insurance Agency
You owe it to yourself to try to
save money on your insurance
(631) 581-4776
174 W. Main St., East Islip
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Margaret Zadnik-O’Connell, DDS
Nicole Cuoccio, DMD
Shane Hoelz, DDS
SANDLES
Kids
Love Us...
FUNERAL HOME
581-8100
Member Of St. Mary’s Serving The Parish
With Dignity & Reverence
98 Carleton Avenue, Islip Terrace
Gary A. Rosenfeld, DDS
228 East Main Street
East Islip, NY 11730
(631) 581-8600
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439 Main Street, Islip
581-1150
581-9242
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Captain Bill’s
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Medicaid Planning • Real Estate
THE GREAT SOUTH BAY SEAFOOD CO.
Water Front Dining • Catering
www.captainbills.com
122 Ocean Avenue, Bay Shore
665-6262
Fax 665-6293
Hilary H. Hollborn & Sons, Inc.
Plumbing - Heating - Electric
GORMLEY & GORMLEY, PLLC
Attorneys & Counselors At Law
130 W. Main Street (next to St. Mary’s) 277-1800 Parishioners
Licensed & Insured
“4” Generations of Experience
102-5 Carleton Ave.
581-2624
Islip Terrace
Hilary H. Hollborn & Sons, Inc.
KOHLER GENERATORS
Sales & Installation
Licensed & Insured
581-2624
Islip Terrace
Vitagliano Orthodontics
A long standing member of the neighborhood & Catholic
community and a supporter of education for our children
We Strive for Excellence and miles of smiles!
Drs. Joseph & Pasquale Vitagliano
Massapequa: (516) 798-6786
West Islip: (631) 661-3025
New Patient Special Offer for Parishioners
665-3300
7 Belford Ave.
Bay Shore
FUEL OIL...HEATING
& AIR CONDITIONING
“Dependable Service Since 1932”
Sister Locations
EAST ISLIP
Family Owned and Operated
62 Carleton Avenue
WANTAGH
603 Wantagh Avenue
(516) 731-5550
(631) 581-2828
EAST MEADOW
2515 N Jerusalem Rd.
(516) 826-1010
Family Owned and Operated
Proud Members of St. Mary's R.C. Church for over 50 Years
DR. MICHAEL CASSANO TAX & ACCOUNTING SERVICES Taylor Rental Center
WILLIAM G. BAST, D.M.D.
Party Tents, Tables, Chairs
Board Certified Podiatrist Joseph A Schiano CPA PC
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277-1700
369 E Main St., E. Islip
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Garden and Construction Tools
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84 Fifth Avenue, Bay Shore
631-665-2055
Diplomate American Board of Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery
Practice Limited to Oral and Maxillofacial Surgery
194 Middle Road, Sayville drwbast.com 567-3777
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EAST ISLIP
200 East Main Street
631•581•5600
631-224-4969
Seamus Flannery
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WEST ISLIP
(Across from Good Samaritan Hospital)
1225 Montauk Highway
631•661•5644
007008 St Mary Church (A)
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20 Hicksville Road
516•731•5600
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