March 22, 2015 Fifth Sunday of Lent SACRED HEART CHURCH The Catholic Community in Southbury, Connecticut Growing in Faith Together Day by day, day by day. O dear Lord, three things I pray. To see thee more clearly ~ Love thee more dearly ~ Follow thee more nearly. Day by day, by day, by day, by day. 910 Main Street South Southbury, CT 06488 203-264-5071 www.sacredheartchurch.info Our Mission Statement Sacred Heart Parish is a faith-filled family and vibrant Catholic community of believers in Jesus Christ. We are the visible presence of Jesus through: Creating a welcoming, joyful, and compassionate atmosphere Empowering the gifts of one another Supporting one another on our journey of faith Sharing God’s unconditional love Providing opportunities for spiritual growth through ministries and worship, particularly in the Eucharist, and Advocating responsibility for the poor and oppressed. If you are new to our parish or if you have been away from the practice of your faith, we extend a warm welcome and hope that you will find our parish to be a community in which your faith can be nourished. We invite you to introduce yourself so that we may offer our heart-felt greeting. Our parish family is enriched by your participation in our life of worship and service. Please consider becoming a registered member of our family. www.sacredheartchurch.info www.facebook.com/SacredHeartSouthburyYoungAdults March 22, 2015 Fifth Sunday of Lent Staff Father Joseph T. Donnelly jtd@shcsby.org Sr. Patricia Torre, DW spt@shcsby.org Ami Conlan ami@shcsby.org Deacon Chuck Dietsch Pastor 203-264-5071 ext. 3 Pastoral Associate for Pastoral Care 203-264-5071 ext. 5 Pastoral Associate for Faith Formation 203-264-5065 Deacon 203-262-1698 PARISH OFFICE 910 Main Street South, Southbury, CT 06488 Monday-Friday 9:00 AM - 4:30 PM www.sacredheartchurch.info Tel: 203-264-5071 Parish Office Tel: 203-264-5071 Fax: 203-264-9562 Mary Korsu Office Manager mkorsu@shcsby.org ext. 0 Karen Kirk (Bulletin Information) Information & Communications Manager bulletin@shcsby.org or kkirk@shcsby.org ext. 201 Mark Bentivoglio Building & Grounds mbenti@shcsby.org ext. 105 Patricia Richards Director of Music prichards@shcsby.org Jennifer Enger Accounting jenger@shcsby.org Faith Formation Office Tel: 203-264-5065 Ami Conlan ami@shcsby.org Jay Szymansky jms@shcsby.org Deborah McGrath Fran Walsh Fax: 203-264-4271 Pastoral Associate, Faith Formation Administrative Assistant Coordinator of Design (Gr. 1-8) Coordinator of GIFT (9-10) and Confirmation Liturgical Schedule The Lord’s Day: Vigil (Saturday): 5:00 PM Sunday: 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM*, 11:00 AM* 4th Sunday/Month:Children’s Mass, 11:00AM Daily Mass: 8:30 AM, Monday to Friday, subject to change. *At the noted Masses, children are invited to participate in Liturgy of the Word. Children ages 7-12 go to the chapel; those ages 3-6 go to the Hospitality room. Sacramental Ministries Baptism - To schedule a Baptism, please contact Sister Pat for an initial meeting and a parent preparation session. Reconciliation (confession) - Saturdays from 3:30 - 4:15 PM, or by appointment. Monday during Lent: 6-7:00PM Marriage - Please call the Parish Office at least six months in advance. Couples meet with Father Joe for an initial pastoral conversation before a wedding date can be set. Please do not make other plans until a date has been confirmed with the parish. For the Sick, including pastoral home visits, Eucharist or the Anointing of the Sick - Please call the Parish Office. Upon hospital admission, please indicate that you would like a visit by your parish, or please call the Parish Office to arrange a pastoral visit. 2 Gospel Reflection ~ John 12:20-33 Adults: Name several ways I have sacrificed my own desires to be of help to others? Children: How have I given something up to help my family, a classmate, or a friend? Mass Intentions If you arranged to have a particular person prayed for at a mass, notify the ushers upon your arrival so that you may bring up the gifts. Saturday, March 21, 2015 5:00 PM Genevieve Wagner Requested by The Wagner Family Katherine T. Hession Requested by Tim & Cindy Barry Bonnie Brown Requested by Bill & Hildegard Bayer Sunday, March 22, 2015 - Fifth Sunday of Lent 7:30 AM Vin Pavone Requested by Kathy & Paul OBear 9:00 AM B.G. Patterson Requested by Vince DeFenthis William Caspare Requested by Mary Ann Halford Joan Burns Requested by Bobbi Calabrese 11:00 AM Children’s Mass Monday, March 23, 2015 8:30 AM Bob Noe Requested by Ann Marie Christian Tuesday, March 24, 2015 8:30 AM Tom Flanagan Requested by his sister, Anne Wednesday, March 25, 2015 8:30 AM Susan Rathjen Requested by her parents Thursday, March 26, 2015 8:30 AM Tom & Joan Pamondetta Requested by Jim & Fran Anderson Friday, March 27, 2015 8:30 AM Regina Rabiega Requested by The Gustafson Family Saturday, March 28, 2015 5:00 PM Henry Duffy Requested by Johanna Metzker Mildred A. Stachowicz Requested by Sally Knauf Sunday, March 29, 2015 - Palm Sunday 7:30 AM Frederick Foster Requested by his wife and family Tammy Baldwin Requested by her mother and family Gerry Voity Requested by his family 9:00 AM Patrick Corcoran Requested by Tom & Kathleen Magrane Frank & Mary Ditter Requested by The Cote Family Georgia & Malvina Cote Requested by The Cote Family 11:00 AM Dean Savard Requested by his mother, Lina Joseph Mortati Requested by his wife, Jen May Loftus Requested by Cecelia Scales March 22, 2015 Fifth Sunday of Lent Of Many Things…. “I give you a new commandment: love one another as I have loved you.” Today begins Holy Week – it is the holiest week in our Christian Tradition. In our prayer we follow Jesus from his triumphant entry into Jerusalem through the Last Supper, his walk to Calvary and his death on the Cross, and finally celebrate his Resurrection from the dead. Holy Week begins next Sunday with the commemoration of Christ’s Passion. Our celebration begins with Jesus’ triumphant entry into Jerusalem. Sunday is called Palm Sunday because we bless the palm and read the Gospel story of Jesus hailed as King and the long awaited Messiah. (Mt 21:1 – 11) The liturgy begins with rejoicing but the mood liturgy quickly changes as we move from the joyous anticipation of the One who comes to save all people – to the angry cries of all people wanting to crucify Jesus. Sunday is also called Passion Sunday. What began with exaltation ends in a deafening silence. Reflection: What is one thing you will do next week to make it a “holy week?” (On Sunday, March 29 at 3 pm we will have our annual Palm Sunday Faith Reflection Service. Seven parishioners will share a moment from their lives when they knew God’s presence, in joy or in pain. Each reflection is followed by sacred music by our Adult Choir. A light reception follows. Come with an open heart to listen and to pray.) The Sacred Triduum begins with Holy Thursday and ends with the Easter Vigil. The Latin term ‘triduum’ means ‘three days’ and refers to Holy Thursday, Good Friday and Holy Saturday celebrated as one continuous liturgical feast as we celebrate the Last Supper of Jesus and his apostles; their walk to the Garden of Gethsemane, the place of Jesus’ agony and arrest; the trial and torture leading to his death on Calvary; his burial and his victory over sin and death in his resurrection. These three days are truly, and for this reason, the high holydays of our Catholic Christian Tradition. Holy Thursday: At 7:30 pm we will commemorate the Last Supper, Christ’s gift to us of himself. Central to this Liturgy is the washing of the feet, a reminder of Jesus’ mandate to love one another as we have been loved – by God and by those whose lives we touch. We proclaim this ritually through the washing of the feet. You will be invited to have your feet ‘washed’. This involves holding one foot over the basin and allowing the minister to pour water over your foot, and then dry it with a towel. On Holy Thursday, will you participate in this ritual of service and have your feet washed? If so, why? If not, why not? At the presentation of the gifts, in addition to the bread and the wine, we present the oils of catechumens, chrism and oil of the sick that have been blest by the Archbishop. We will use these oils in the celebrations of our sacraments of Baptism, Confirmation and the Anointing of the Sick. Our Liturgy ends in silence with the rite of transfer of the Eucharist to an altar of repose. This procession recalls Jesus’ journey into the night – from his meal with the disciples to the Mount of Olives – and onto to Gethsemane where he prayed for this cup to pass. Jesus invited his disciples to pray with him. You are invited to pray at the altar of repose until 11 pm. Whether you stay or leave, we unite in and keep a holy silence as we go out into the night…. Reflection: What is one thing you can do this Holy Thursday to live Jesus’ command to love another? Who needs your love, your forgiveness, your compassion? (At 10 am on Good Friday, we make our annual Faith Walk through town, joined with members of the other area churches, remembering the walk Jesus made on his way to Calvary) Good Friday: At 3 pm we commemorate the Lord’s Passion, the only day of the year when Mass is not celebrated. The altar was stripped bare after the conclusion of the Holy Thursday liturgy and it remains so. There are no altar cloths or candles. Songs are sung without accompaniment. The liturgy consists of the reading of the Passion and Death of Jesus from the Gospel of John, a reflection on the readings, intercessions and communal veneration of the Cross. The liturgy concludes with Communion, which was consecrated at the Holy Thursday liturgy. Reflection: What needs to ‘die’ in you so that new life may take root? Blessing of the Easter Food: Holy Saturday at noon in the Atrium: The blessing of Easter foods is an ancient practice and varies by culture. A basket containing lamb meat (which of course signifies Jesus, the Lamb of God), boiled eggs, dyed and plain, Pascha (a special Easter bread), and other meats and breads are blest for sharing at the Easter Day meal. Easter Vigil: begins at 8 pm with a service of light, a fire lit and blest, from which the Easter candle will be lit. This candle remains in the sanctuary for the 50 days of Easters and is used at baptisms and funerals throughout the year. We sing the Exultet, proclaiming Christ our Light, our salvation. We sit in a darkened Church as we read the stories that tell of our salvation history, of the covenant God had with our ancestors in faith and now has with us. We renew our baptismal promises – our ‘yes’ to all that God has done for us. Reflection: On Easter morn, with whom will you share the good news of Jesus’ peace and joy? Together, let us keep Holy Week holy. May we be renewed in our faith as we walk with Jesus in life, through death, to resurrection. Sister Pat 3 March 22, 2015 Pastoral Care Navigating the Rough Waters Addiction: Two Major Myths Addiction/alcoholism is a moral problem. This is FALSE. Addiction is a PRIMARY disease, and is not caused by other factors such as upbringing, environment, heredity, psychological illnesses, etc. These are contributing factors, which can make the disease worse. Changes in the brain occur as a result of addictive disease, thus recovery from addiction usually cannot be accomplished by personal willpower despite the negative consequences of the drinking/drug. It is a PROGRESSIVE disease, which if left untreated-gets worse. It affects ALL known life areas: health, relationships, family, job, finances, legal, school, and spirituality. As the disease progresses, the addict makes choices that are often at odds with his/her moral code in all of these areas. For these the addict is responsible, and recovery helps the addict to deal with the pain/shame of these choices. An addict in recovery need not live any longer in guilt and shame. Addiction/alcoholism is a “symptom” of some underlying psychiatric problem. Studies show that this is FALSE. Like all diseases, addiction is often hard to understand. There is no definitive cause connected to the disease. Career Transitions Wed., March 25, 7:00-8:30PM, Hospitality If you are considering retirement or looking for a new job, please join us in an atmosphere of encouragement and support to network, share experiences and learn about the tools and skills available to help in your transition. Individual meetings can be arranged after the meeting on the 25th. Over the past months, our group has had successful placements. For information, contact Peter Fitzpatrick:516-287-0441 or peterfitzpatrick711@yahoo.com. Fifth Sunday of Lent Stephen Ministry Stephen Ministry: Help, Hope, Healing Are you going through a tough time? Let Stephen Ministry help. Our Stephen Ministers are trained to listen and encourage, care for and pray with someone going through a difficult time. If you or someone you know is in need of caring support, please call Stephen Leaders Sister Pat at 203-264-5071 or Lynn Tidgwell at 203-217-0025 or Stephen Minister Catherine Hughes at 203-758-5421. Annointing of the Sick – all Masses, April 11 & 12 This Sacrament is deeply rooted in the care and concern of Jesus’ ministry for the sick. It is recommended for those experiencing a serious illness, suffering with mental and emotional disabilities, with chronic illness, struggling with addictions, before any surgery, or for the elderly if they are in a weakened condition. Those who would like to celebrate this Sacrament are asked to sit in the first pews around the church. The ushers will be available for your assistance. Spirituality LIFT Tuesdays, 9:15AM, Jerusalem Ladies in Faith Together meets weekly at Sacred Heart Church on Tuesdays mornings to pray, study, share, and provide service. Please Pray For... Lynne Perilli, Dennis Savard, Victoria Tocci, Deborah Libourel, Ralph Ponzo, John Chapin, Annette Reidy, Suzanne Hardy, Dorothy Ruggiero, Maureen Bird McGrath, RoseMary DeCarlo, Dee Holliday, Ken Schutte, Elena Saliani, Rich Young, Elizabeth Walsh, Glenn Robinson, Msgr. John Burns, Eric Hansen, Ino Toma, Frank & Barbara Ditter, Ann Rasch, Rosemary Wolahan, Debby Duffy, Corrine Burke, Brittney Wheeler, Caylin Roque, Barbara Pelletier, Bill Mikolsky, Judi D’Alessandro, Irene Visintin, Christina Corr, Mary Kay Ceballos, Diane Barrante, Joyce Johnson, Marilyn Brown, Faye Delaney Sullivan, Nancy Rutigliano, Sharon Ballard, Tracey Kepics St. Joseph Medal of Appreciation - March 22 at 3:00pm (St. Joseph Cathedral, Hartford) I am happy to announce that Kathleen and Tom Magrane are receiving the St. Joseph Medal of Appreciation for their outstanding service and ministry to the work of the Church here at Sacred Heart Parish. This medal is awarded each year to deserving parishioners in parishes throughout the archdiocese. Kathleen and Tom will receive it from Archbishop Blair in a ceremony on Sunday, March 22 at 3:00pm. The ceremony is open to all. Kathleen and Tom have been faithful and dedicated parishioners for many years. During that time, both of them have served terms on the Parish Council and presently both serve as Ministers of the Eucharist at Mass as well as in service to the homebound. Kathleen is one of our Stephen Ministers, directs and arranges all of our hospitality for the various occasions we celebrate here at Sacred Heart and is a member of the Extend-aHand Committee as well. Tom has for many years been one of the altar servers for funerals here at Sacred Heart and as such is part of our larger ministry to the bereaved. He also teams up with Kathleen in the ministry of hospitality. Thank you, Kathleen and Tom for your wonderful dedication and commitment to Sacred Heart Parish! I speak for us all in affirming the award you will receive. May God continue to bless you both! Sacred Heart to Receive Father Philip Cascia Service Award - March 26 at 5:30pm (Grand Oak Villa) Each year St. Vincent DePaul Mission of Greater Waterbury recalls and renews its commitment to serve the poor in our region at the Annual Banquet. This year, the Mission will acknowledge the sandwich-making, meals, construction, donations and many volunteer hours that Sacred Heart parishioners have given over the years. To attend, tickets are $50 per person and tables of ten are available for $450. Proceeds go to support the work of the Mission. For reservations, call Mary Korsu so we can coordinate attending parishioners with our Parish’s tables. 4 Ami Conlan, Pastoral Associate Faith Formation - ami@shcsby.org Fran Walsh, Coordinator of GIFT (9-10) and Confirmation - fwalsh@shcsby.org Deb McGrath, Coordinator of Design (Grades 1-8) - dmcgrath@shcsby.org Jay Szymansky, Administrative Assistant – jms@shcsby.org Faith Formation Office: 203-264-5065 Fax: 203-264-4271 No ROC Mass in April The Next ROC…May 2nd Children's Stations of the Cross Mission Trip Palm Sunday March 27, 7 - 7:30pm Church Sanctuary Bake Sale This is for children preschool to Grade 5, and is an introduction to this prayerful Lenten devotion. An RSVP is requested, but not required, as we will be using sticker booklets and want to ensure we have an adequate supply. Please email Faith Formation: jms@shcsby.org Faith Walk Good Friday—April 3 The Sacred Heart shuttles leave the parking lot periodically, starting at 9:00am. Last bus leaves Sacred Heart at 9:50am. Meet at 10AM at St. James Lutheran Church. Participating in the Faith Walk as an actor (Jesus, Mary, Roman guard, etc.) is both Liturgical Participation and Parish Service. Sign up on the Faith Formation bulletin board. After all Palm Sunday Masses: March 28-29 Buy a treat and support this year’s Mission Trip Confirmation Workshop Gifts of the Holy Spirit Confirmation Workshop April 19th at 7:00pm Monday, May 18, 7PM Rehearsal for Sponsors & Confirmation Mass Bishop Peter Rosazza, Presiding Candidates: May 17th at 6pm Next Children’s Mass April 26 at 11:00am To Volunteer: Email ami@shcsby.org or sign up at: http:// www.signupgenius.com/go/20f0945acaa2aa7fc1-childrens You Gotta Believe! Workshop for Students in Grades 7 & 8 6:30-7:00pm: Pizza & Drinks 7:00-8:00pm: Presentation The ROC Youth Group is hosting motivational speaker Bret Nichols for an interactive presentation on: making good choices looking at challenges with God as our focus inspiration and encouragement growing in faith anti drugs/alcohol message eliminating distractions that separate us from God’s plan for us Bret speaks to thousands of young people each year sharing words of motivation, inspiration and encouragement. He uses his basketball as a way to deliver his message with an interactive style. This is a student-only event and an RSVP is requested to the Faith Formation office. Please RSVP by calling 203-264-5065 or jms@shcsby.org. Email Ami Conlan ami@shcsby.org for more information. 5 March 22, 2015 This Week at Sacred Heart Church Saturday, March 21 At Mass - Haiti Video 5:30PM - Meeting - Jerusalem Sunday, March 22 At all Masses - Haiti Video 11:00AM Children’s Mass - Girl Scouts process in 12:00PM - Youth Choir 1:00PM - GIFT, Session II - Entire Facility 6:30PM - Mission Trip - Hall, Church Monday, March 23 6:00-7:00PM - Confessions/Reconciliation Service - Church 7:00PM - LRSS - Shalom Tuesday, March 24 7:30-4:30PM - Deliver sandwiches - Kitchen 9:00AM - SCC - Emmaus 9:15AM - LIFT - Jerusalem 6:30PM - Choir Rehearsal - Church 7:00PM - Haiti, Youth Trip - Emmaus 7:30PM - MBC - Hospitality Wednesday, March 25 10:00AM - JAM - Hospitality 1:00PM - LRSS - Emmaus 3:30PM - Women’s AA - Jerusalem 6:00PM - ROC Middle School Event - Hall, Jerusalem 7:00PM - Career Transitions - Hospitality 7:00PM - Choir Rehearsal - Church In case of SNOW or Thursday, March 26 8:00-6:00PM - Career Transitions - Emmaus ICY weather, please check our website or 9:30-12:00PM - LRSS - Hospitality 12:15-1:15PM - Support - Hospitality tune to TV Channel 1:30-3:00PM - New Day - Hospitality 3 or NBC 30 for 7:00PM - Adult Choir - Church Cancellation 8:00PM - AA - Jerusalem Friday, March 27 information. If 1:00PM - Martha & Mary - Kitchen Region 15 has a delay 1:30PM - SM Supervisory - Hospitality 4:30PM - Fish Fry - Hall, Kitchen, Jerusalem or cancellation, there is no 8:30a.m. Mass 7:00PM - Children’s Station of the Cross Saturday, March 28 9:00AM - Palm Sunday Rehearsal After Mass - Mission Trip Bake Sale - Atrium, Hall Sunday, March 29 - Palm Sunday After all Masses - Mission Trip Bake Sale - Atrium, Hall 12:00PM - Youth Choir 3:00PM - Palm Sunday Faith Reflection Service, reception to follow Fifth Sunday of Lent Social Outreach St. Vincent de Paul Meal Ministry Team “D” will be serving Chicken Noodle Casserole, salad, and cookies on Monday, April 13, 2015 at St. Vincent De Paul Shelter in Waterbury. Trays and lids are available in the church kitchen beginning April 4-12, 2015. Easter Basket Collection Covenant to Care will once again be collecting Easter baskets to give to our adopted social worker for the children in the Dept. of Children and Families care. Please place assembled baskets in the Covenant to Care box by Palm Sunday. (No peanut products please.) Mustard Seed Charitable Grant Application Mustard Seed Charitable Grant applications and instructions are available in the atrium. Deadline: March 31st. The Mustard Seed Charitable Grants are generously funded by bequests from Irma Ziegler Smith, Mildred Ziegler and Francis Brewer, as well as donations made in memoriam or honorarium. Only Sacred Heart parishioners may apply for a charitable grant for an organization by submitting the application by March 31 to Mary Korsu in the parish office. Palm Sunday Faith Reflection Service Sunday, March 29, 3:00pm The Sacred Heart Adult Choir will sponsor its Annual Faith Reflection Service. This service consists of personal faith stories given by seven Sacred Heart parishioners. Following each faith story, a selection of beautiful sacred music will be presented by the Sacred Heart Church Adult Choir, this year, featuring violinist, Alyce Cognetta Bertz. People in attendance have commented year after year how they feel their own faith being nourished as they listen to these inspirational and faith filled stories. Please join us for this reflective and spirit-filled service as we prayerfully begin our Holy Week together. Light reception to follow in Social Hall. Runners, Walkers, Sponsors & Volunteers The 5th Annual Hoof It for Haiti-Southbury 5K Run/Walk will be held on April 25 at 9:00AM with a kid’s run at 8:30AM. Contact Christine Granja, 203-2644467 or visit www.hoofitforhaiti.org for more information. Life Planning & Planned Giving Seminar You may have received a letter and pledge card asking you to support this year’s Archbishop’s Annual Appeal. Please prayerfully consider your response. Know that your financial support will touch the lives of thousands of people that are served in our Archdiocese through the Appeal. If you did not receive the 2015 Archbishop’s Annual Appeal mailing or have misplaced the pledge card mailed to your home, please pick up one of the extra pledge cards and envelopes in the rear of the Church. Sacred Heart … For the 21st Century campaign Help Sacred Heart pass on the gift of Faith, Hope and Charity and consider the gift of a bequest to Sacred Heart in your Will or estate plan. For more information, please call Father Joe. 6 The Office of Development with the Archdiocese of Hartford will be offering a Life Planning Seminar on April 7 at 3:00 & 7:00PM. Topics include the importance of establishing a Will, Living Trust, Advanced Health Care Directive, and Health Care Representative. Planned giving opportunities that will support Sacred Heart Parish will also be presented. To register, contact Mary Korsu at 203-264-5071. The Sacrament of Reconciliation in Lent As you know, we offer, with all churches in the archdiocese, the Sacrament of Reconciliation in Lent from 6-7PM each Monday in Lent. This week, both Monsignor Hossan and I will be available for the sacrament and we will celebrate it within a communal service beginning at 6PM. We offer such services each Advent and Lent. As you may know, the communal service consists of an opening hymn, prayer, reading of Scripture, a homily, examination of conscience and closing prayer. Participation in the entire service with a sincere sorrow for sin and intention to change our lives forgives non-serious (venial) sin without individual confession to a priest. At the end of the communal service, we will, however, offer the opportunity for those who desire it to confess individually to one of us, if they wish. As I mentioned last weekend, Lent is the particularly appropriate time to celebrate this sacrament. I suggest that all Catholics should do so at least once a year during Lent. Please join us on this Monday night, on one of the following Mondays in Lent, at our normal Saturday afternoon confession time 3:30-4:15PM or by personal appointment 24/7 during Lent.
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