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November 16, 2014
33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time
November 16, 2014
33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time
Staff
Gospel Reflection Matthew 25:14-30
Father Joseph T. Donnelly
jtd@shcsby.org
Sr. Patricia Torre, DW
spt@shcsby.org
Ami Conlan
ami@shcsby.org
Patricia Richards
prichards@shcsby.org
Jennifer Enger
jenger@shcsby.org
Pastor
203-264-5071 ext. 3
Pastoral Associate for Pastoral Care
203-264-5071 ext. 5
Pastoral Associate for Faith Formation
203-264-5065
Director of Music
Accounting
PARISH OFFICE
910 Main Street South, Southbury, CT 06488
Monday-Friday 9:00 AM - 4:30 PM
www.sacredheartchurch.info
Tel: 203-264-5071
Parish Office
Tel: 203-264-5071 Fax: 203-264-9562
Mary Korsu
Office Manager
mkorsu@shcsby.org
ext. 0
Karen Kirk (Bulletin Information) Information & Communications Manager
bulletin@shcsby.org or kkirk@shcsby.org
ext. 201
Mark Bentivoglio
Building & Grounds
mbenti@shcsby.org
ext. 105
Faith Formation Office
Tel: 203-264-5065
Ami Conlan
ami@shcsby.org
Jay Szymansky
jms@shcsby.org
Deborah McGrath
Fran Walsh
Fax: 203-264-4271
Pastoral Associate, Faith Formation
Administrative Assistant
Coordinator of Design (Gr. 1-8)
Coordinator of GIFT (9-10) and Confirmation
Liturgical Schedule
The Lord’s Day: Vigil (Saturday): 5:00 PM
Sunday: 7:30 AM, 9:00 AM*, 11:00 AM*
4th Sunday/Month:Children’s Mass, 11:00AM
Daily Mass: 8:30 AM, Monday to Friday, subject to change.
*At the noted Masses, children are invited to participate in Liturgy
of the Word. Children ages 7-12 go to the chapel; those ages 3-6
go to the Hospitality room.
Sacramental Ministries
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Baptism - To schedule a Baptism, please contact Sister Pat for an
initial meeting and a parent preparation session.
Reconciliation (confession) - Saturdays from 3:30 - 4:15 PM, or
by appointment.
Marriage - Please call the Parish Office at least six months in
advance. Couples meet with Father Joe for an initial pastoral
conversation before a wedding date can be set. Please do not
make other plans until a date has been confirmed with the parish.
For the Sick, including pastoral home visits, Eucharist or the
Anointing of the Sick - Please call the Parish Office. Upon
hospital admission, please indicate that you would like a visit by
your parish, or please call the Parish Office to arrange a pastoral
visit.
Adults: What gift haven’t you developed as you had
hoped? What could you still do?
Children: What gift has God given you? What do you
want to do with it?
Mass Intentions
If you arranged to have a particular person prayed for at a mass, notify
the ushers upon your arrival so that you may bring up the gifts.
Saturday, November 15, 2014
5:00 PM
John Luke McGuinness
Requested by Doug & Bonnie Brown
Bill Fitzgerald
Requested by Ken & Mary Korsu
Donald Cheh
Requested by Bob & Ann Haig
Sunday, November 16, 2014
7:30 AM
Intentions of Sacred Heart Parishioners
9:00 AM
Patricia Lawlor
Requested by Conrad & Roberta Hade
Curtis Krieske
Requested by Liberta Cunningham
Mildred Folsom
Requested by The Huhn Family
11:00 AM
Perry Jeffery
Requested by Eileen Locher
Elizabeth Winkler
Requested by The Sharkey Family
Deceased Members of the Cortese Family
Requested by Faustina Cortese
Monday, November 17, 2014
8:30 AM
Donald Paris
Requested by his wife
Tuesday, November 18, 2014
8:30 AM
Intentions of Sacred Heart Parishioners
Wednesday, November 19, 2014
8:30 AM
Intentions of Sacred Heart Parishioners
Thursday, November 20, 2014
8:30 AM
Intentions of Sacred Heart Parishioners
Friday, November 21, 2014
8:30 AM
Intentions of Sacred Heart Parishioners
Saturday, November 22, 2014
5:00 PM
John & Martha Dougherty
Requested by John, Ann, Mark & Michael
Elizabeth M. Forte
Requested by her daughter, Susan & Clay
Cassidy and family
Sunday, November 23, 2014
7:30 AM
Intentions of Sacred Heart Parishioners
9:00 AM
William Langrock
Requested by The Langrock Family
Deceased Members of the Knights of
Columbus and Columbiettes
Ron Beaulieu
Requested by Tom & Kathleen Magrane
11:00 AM
Perry Jeffery
Children’s
Requested by Margaret & Leroy Fitzgerald
Mass
Kenneth R. Windover
Requested by The Gibson Family
November 16, 2014
Of Many Things….
Full, Conscious, Active Participation at Mass
Do you get much from coming to Mass? One of the reasons
people often give for no longer attending Mass regularly is
that they don’t get anything out of it. And the response that
is often given to that reasoning is: “You have to give
something when coming to Mass in order to get something
out of it.” Let’s talk about that.
For more than a century, the Church has been encouraging
active participation in the liturgy. It began long before
Vatican II with the encouragement of frequent
Communion, singing as part of the prayer, and the use of
missals in one’s own language to actually understand what
the priest was saying in Latin. The first document
published by the Church at Vatican II was the document on
the Sacred Liturgy where we find this famous quotation:
“Mother Church earnestly desires that all the faithful be led
to full, conscious and active participation in liturgical
celebrations which is demanded by the very nature of the
liturgy.” (#14) Therefore, I conclude from that teaching
that when we participate at Mass in a full (body, mind and
spirit), conscious (not unconscious and mindless) and
active (not as a passive spectator watching the action), we
are guaranteed to get something out of it.
Here are some simple ways to do that:
Be There: Making Mass a part of the natural rhythm of
you life (“It’s what we do!”) builds a sense within you of
its meaning and importance. We all give time to the things
we value. Coming to Mass, giving over one hour a week to
express your faith and focus intentionally on God says that
you value that sacred relationship.
Observe and Be Aware of Those Around You: Mass is
the prayer of the Church and we are all the Church as I
mentioned in last weekend’s homily. Other people who are
there are not a distraction but an inspiration for us to be
reminded that others believe similarly to me, acknowledge
that they need God’s life in Word and Eucharist and inspire
me to be faithful too. We are all part of the Body of Christ
and we build up one another here.
Listen to the Readings: We have worked very hard
training our readers and investing in a good sound system
so that you can have a better experience of listening to
God’s Word each week. We give “At Home With the
Word” to each household so that you might read the
readings sometime during the week before you come to
Mass and even study it a bit about them from the
commentary there. We try our best to offer good,
understandable and relevant homilies to help you
understand the meaning of the Scriptures. We offer Little
Rock Bible Study sessions as well as our GIFT program to
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help you understand the Word of God. Really listening
not just with the ears but with the heart can draw you
more and more into the Scriptures and allow them to
nourish you as they are meant to do. The missalettes are
for those who have difficulty hearing. If wish to read
along we ask you to bring your “At Home With the
Word” book to allow those who really have hearing
impairment to use the missalettes.
Sing: Some view singing as an option but it is a
unique form of our prayer. St. Augustine said: “The one
who sings prays twice.” Sung prayer, the powerful
words and melody of the songs can touch us at a deeper
level than the spoken word. Try it and see if that is not
true. The music and lyrics express what we believe. Our
music ministry is the best I have ever experienced in a
parish and they work to choose, play and lead good
appropriate music. It is discouraging when people refuse
to participate in song.
Offer the Sign of Peace to Others: Again, the Mass is
the prayer of the community and the sign of peace is a
concrete opportunity to express that truth. And it should
be a concrete gesture, a handshake, rather than a nod
over the top of your glasses or a distant wave. Obviously
if you are ill, you should not shake the hand of another,
but the concreteness of the gesture expresses a
connection among the members of the Church. Look at
the person too since eye contact is important for that
connection and exchange.
Receive Communion from Both Host and Cup:
Receiving both the body and blood of Christ in
Eucharist is the fullest way to receive it. Not receiving
from the cup for any reason other than allergy, addiction
or illness misses the point. It is another concrete act of
faith in God whose real life the Eucharist is.
Stay for the Entire Mass: Once in a while, we all have
to leave Mass before it is over (the end of the closing
hymn) for one reason or another, but certain people
leave early every week usually at the same time so it
appears to be intentional or a bad habit. I particularly
notice those who line the aisle behind the back row
waiting until I leave. Once when I asked why they do it,
one person told me that they do it out of respect for the
priest. But Mass is not about the priest. How about some
respect for Jesus present in the Mass? I can literally be
trampled down as I leave and try to open the doors for
those behind me. An extra two minutes is not going to
make a lot of difference in any of our days. And staying
until the end acknowledges a person’s belief about what
we actually are doing at Mass.
Why not give these suggestions a try. They work and
you will get a lot more out of Mass if you try them. May
God bless our parish and this primary gathering to
celebrate Mass as Jesus asked us in his memory.
Father Joe
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November 16, 2014
Navigating the Rough Waters...
With the death of a loved one we are often confused by
the wide range of emotions that we may feel. Some of the
most common are sadness, anger, guilt, anxiety, loneliness,
fatigue, shock, yearning, relief and numbness. We may feel
some or all of these. No matter what, it is important that we
know, that these feelings are signs that we are going
through a normal and healthy grief process. We should not
deny or suppress them but rather recognize them for what
they are.
Our parish offers support through Bereavement groups,
our Stephen Ministers and pastoral staff. Call us today at
203-264-5071. Or have a friend call. We are here to guide
you through this.
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Don’t Suffer Alone
Sometimes we fall into a trap where we think it’s a sign of
weakness to ask for help. So when we’re stressed, discouraged,
lonely, or sad, we try to keep our struggles hidden and are
reluctant to ask for help. However, that’s not God’s plan.
Galatians 6:2 says, “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill
the law of Christ.” God want us to care for others – and allow
others to care for us in our time of need. If you’re sad or
struggling inside, don’t suffer alone. Ask for help. We’ve got a
team of Stephen Ministers who are ready to provide
confidential one to one care, encouragement, and support to
help you through a tough time. Our Stephen Ministers are
ready to bring God’s love and care into your life. Find out more
about Stephen Ministry by talking with one of our Stephen
Leaders. If you or someone you know would benefit from a
confidential conversation with one of our Stephen Ministers,
please call Lynn Tidgwell at 203-217-0025, Sister Pat at 203264-5071 and Stephen Minister Catherine Hughes at 203-7585421 or log onto: www.stephenministries.org
—From Stephen Series
The Marion Candle burns in loving memory of Donald Paris by his stepdaughter and family
Please Pray For...
Lynne Perilli, Dennis Savard, Victoria Tocci, Deborah Libourel, Ralph Ponzo, John Chapin, Annette Reidy, Suzanne Hardy,
Dorothy Ruggiero, Maureen Bird McGrath, RoseMary DeCarlo, Bob Bowalick, Ken Schutte, Greg Fortin, Jeanne Kaufman,
Mary Johnstone, Mary Ann Preston, Elena Saliani, Rich Young, Elizabeth Walsh, Glenn Robinson, Msgr. John Burns, Eric
Hansen, Ino Toma, Elaine Williams, Harry Gaffney, Colin Lent, Corinne Robertson, Frank & Barbara Ditter
Small Christian Communities
Little Rock Scripture Study (LRSS)
Four-week Study on The Infancy Narratives of Jesus
Wednesdays, 1:00-3:00PM, Nov. 12-Dec. 3,
Emmaus Room
This study of the Infancy of Jesus from the gospels of Matthew and
Luke will provide the opportunity for us to look at the realities of
the darkness of our world and anticipate the joyful expectation of
the bright light of hope, peace and salvation that is brought to us
each year by the birth of Jesus. Contact: Elizabeth Tishion at 203264-1390 or ehtishion@att.net if you have any questions.
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Tuesdays, 9:00-11:00AM (Begins Nov. 25th)
Emmaus Room
Are you longing to engage in a more spiritual preparation
this Advent? Please join our Small Christian Communities
throughout Advent.
Please call Anne Sharkey at 203-262-1894 to sign up so
that sufficient Quest books will be available.
Dates: Nov. 25, Dec. 2, Dec. 9, Dec. 16
Ami Conlan, Pastoral Associate Faith Formation - amiconlan@sacredheartchurch.info
Fran Walsh, Coordinator of GIFT (9-10) and Confirmation - FranWalsh@sacredheartchurch.info
Deb McGrath, Coordinator of Design (Grades 1-8) - debmcgrath@sacredheartchurch.info
Jay Szymansky, Administrative Assistant – jms@sacredheartchurch.info
Faith Formation Office: 203-264-5065 Fax: 203-264-4271
Sunday I,
November 16
Wednesday, November 19
Friday, November 21
Sunday II, November 23
Grades 9 and 10
Confirmation Service
Opportunities
4:00-6:30PM
Confirmation Parish Service
November 25th, 3:00-6:00pm
Help change out the hymnals
5:00-7:30PM
6:00-8:30PM
1:00-3:30PM
November GIFT meals:
All sign up sheets are located on the Faith Formation bulletin
board. The sheets will be removed as they are filled; please
check frequently for available service dates.
Grilled Chicken w/vegetables over pasta
catered by Elenni’s Restaurant
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5:00P
4th Sunday of Each Month
11:00AM Mass
Dec. 6
Jan. 3
Feb. 7
Mar. 7
May 2
June 6
Nov. 23
Mar. 22
Dec. 28
Apr. 26
Jan. 25
May 24
Feb. 22
Have you signed up to volunteer yet? Opportunities include altar
server, cross/banner carrier, reader, youth choir, greeter, and more!
To volunteer: Contact Ami Conlan at ami@shcsby.org
Teens & Young Adults:
Sign up on the Faith Formation
bulletin board
Families—Join Us!
Save the Date!
Breakfast with Santa
Help Change Out the Hymnals
Saturday, December 6th, Seatings between 9-11AM
Ticket sales after all Masses (Nov. 29 & 30)
Check your Home Packet flier for more information.
“Breakfast with Santa” benefits the Southbury Needy Fund.
Mission Trip Bread Sales
November 25th, 3:00-6:00pm
Your whole family — all ages! —
is invited to help us get ready for
the new church year by changing
out the hymnals.
Nov. 22 - 23 ~ After All Masses
JAM
Wednesdays at 10:00AM
(Open enrollment)
Come find out more about
JAM and meet Miss Jen,
Miss Jenny, and
Miss Maryanne during the
prelude sing-a-long!
A 45-minute music and bible story program for children, birth to age 5.
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This Week at Sacred Heart Church
Saturday, November 15
After Mass - Knights of Columbus & Columbiettes’
Membership Drive
Sunday, November 16
After all Masses - Knights of Columbus & Columbiettes’
Membership Drive
12:00-12:30PM - Youth Choir - Church
1:00-4:00PM - J-Walking (offsite)
4:00PM - GIFT, Session I - Entire Facility
Monday, November 17
7:15PM - LRSS - Shalom
Tuesday, November 18
9:15AM - LIFT - Church, Kitchen, Jerusalem, Library, Hall
6:30-8:30PM - Stephen Ministry Training - Jerusalem
7:00PM - Career Transitions - Emmaus
7:30PM - Knights of Columbus 4th Degree - Library
7:30PM - Mom’s Bible Study - Hospitality
Wednesday, November 19
10:00AM - JAM - Nursery
1:00-3:00PM - LRSS - Emmaus
3:30PM - Women’s AA - Jerusalem
5:00PM - GIFT - Entire Facility
Thursday, November 20
1:30-3:00PM - New Day - Hospitality
7:00PM - Adult Choir - Church
8:00PM - AA - Jerusalem
Friday, November 21
10:00AM - Public Relations Meeting - Shalom
6:00PM - GIFT - Entire Facility
Saturday, November 22
9:00AM - Mission Trip Bread Baking - Kitchen, Hall
After Mass - Mission Trip Bread Sale - Atrium
Sunday, November 23
After All Masses - Mission Trip Bread Sale - Atrium
9:00AM - Engaged Couple Blessing at Mass
10:00AM - Reception - Jerusalem
11:00AM - Children’s Mass
12:00-12:30PM - Youth Choir - Church
1:00PM - GIFT, Session II - Entire Facility
Calendar Notes:
The Collection for the Catholic Campaign for Human
Development (on Nov. 22-23) needs your help. CCHD was
founded to end the cycle of poverty in the United States by
funding organizations that help people help themselves. With
the tradition of improving education, housing situations, and
economic development, CCHD continues to make a positive
impact in communities nationwide. Your contribution will
defend human dignity and help those living on the margins of
our society. Please give to the CCHD Collection.
Southbury/Woodbury Ecumenical Thanksgiving Service,
Tuesday, November 25 at 7:00PM
Annual Thanksgiving Mass - Wed., November 26 at 7:00PM
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Liturgical
New Readers & Altar Servers
The new Reader and Altar Server schedule can be picked up in the
corner of the Atrium and is posted online. Also, the new 2015
Workbook for Readers is available in the Sacristy. Please sign out
your copy. Thank you.
A crystal Celtic Cross was
recently installed in memory
of Janet Mann, a long time
Sacred Heart parishioner and
dedicated member of the
Sacred Heart Church Music
Ministry.
The cross, which was blessed
during the Tom Kendzia
concert, remains in our
Church as a memorial to
Janet.
Social Outreach
Knights of Columbus & Columbiettes Membership Drive
The Knights of Columbus and the Columbiettes auxiliary chapter in
Southbury are conducting a membership drive this weekend, Nov. 1516. Join fellow parishioners in a group dedicated to service in our
church and community, and to support local charities. Members will
be present in the Atrium at all the Masses to answer your questions.
Southbury Interfaith Thanksgiving Meal Cmte.
We will host our annual dinner at Christ the Redeemer on Nov. 27 th
at Noon. For more information, call Adele at 203-267-5650.
St. Vincent de Paul Meal Ministry
We provide a meal for the shelter the first Monday of the month
(except when a holiday occurs then it’s served the second Monday.)
Team A is responsible for Sept/Jan/May, Team B: Oct/Feb/June,
Team C: Nov/March/July & Team D: Dec/April/Aug. If you are
interested, contact Jeanne Tillinghast at 203-264-5827.
Career Transitions—Nov. 18th, 7-8:30PM, Emmaus
If you are considering retirement or looking for a new job, please
join us in an atmosphere of encouragement and support to network,
share experiences and learn about the tools and skills available to help
in your transition. Individual meetings can be arranged after the
meeting on the 18th. Over the past months, our group has had
successful placements. For more information, please contact Peter
Fitzpatrick at 516-287-0441 or peterfitzpatrick711@yahoo.com.
Coffee And…. Committee
We are looking for volunteers to assist at Coffee And….you would be
responsible for assisting at the masses on the Sunday that the Coffee
And…would take place. If you are interested, please contact Lina
Savard at 203-264-0214.
Young Adults (18-30ish) Group
SH Young Adults Facebook: www.facebook.com/
SacredHeartSouthburyYoungAdults