First United Methodist Church | The Cathedral of the Rockies | A Place of Promise and Hope NLI 2015 Northwest Leadership Institute With Workshop Speakers Including: TONY CAMPOLO, Speaker, Author, Sociologist, Pastor, Social Activist, and Passionate Follower of Jesus! LEADERSHIP: Rev. Rebekah Simon Peter, Pastor Ric Shewell, Rev. Steve Ross, Rev. Dr. Duane Anders* DISCIPLESHIP: Rev. Vance Ross, Pastor Debbie Coutts, Rev. Marie Smith* WORSHIP & ARTS: Rev. Steve Ross, Joe Prin, Rev. Brian Brown* MISSION: Rev. Dr. Tom Dozeman, Brian Snively* *Full list of presenters listed on website Team discounts available. $25 for COTR members. Free for anyone under 30! REGISTER AT cathedraloftherockies.org/NLI Goal To create a growing community where people are becoming deeply committed Christians Mission Statement To make Disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world Strategic focus #1 #2 #3 #4 To reach a growing percentage of the Treasure Valley with the good news of Jesus Christ To move the congregation of Christ-followers toward community, spiritual maturity, and full participation within the life of the church To be the hands and feet of Jesus locally and globally by investing our lives, our knowledge and our resources with those in need To be leaders of leaders, and to raise the tide of leadership locally, regionally and globally March 2015 2 | FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH GOOD NEWS • MARCH 2015WWW.CATHEDRALOFTHEROCKIES.ORG Pastor’s Notes B e the Church: Worship, Grow, Serve, Lead. We exist to make disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world. This is our journey. We have entered the Christian season of Lent, the journey toward the cross. Brian McLaren reminds us that “Joining the Adventure of Jesus is a starting line, not a finish line.” To be a disciple of Jesus is to be one open to learning and growing. Lent began on Ash Wednesday and leads us through the cross to Easter (April 5th). How will you join Jesus in this journey? How will you worship, grow, serve and lead? Worship: We have six worship services each weekend at our two locations, Amity and Downtown. Each week we come together as the body of Christ. Each week when we gather, we participate in a culturally defiant act of mutual submission. I have your attention now! When we gather, we say to the world: There is another way. There is no ‘them’, there is only ‘us’. Worship during Lent challenges us to continue the journey. Make worship a priority. Even when you travel, find a place of worship. When our voices unite, we become Us. When we give together, we change the world. When we pray, God meets us where we are and empowers us to change the world. We have extra opportunities during Lent for worship. We will have a pray and healing service downtown on March 8th at 6:30. We will have the opportunity to pray the Stations of the Cross on Good Friday downtown or attend Good Friday services at either campus on April 3rd. The Good Friday service is one of the most powerful worship services each year as we prepare for Easter Celebration. We will have a sunrise service and Easter Saturday worship downtown as well as Easter Sunday worship services at both campuses. Action Step: Make God a priority, and seek to be in worship each weekend that you are in town. Grow: Disciples are open to growth and change. How will you take charge of your spiritual growth? Join or start a small group, a short term study or a Sunday school class (Jenny Willison will be your staff contact). Growth needs a plan in order for the greatest growth to occur. We grow so much by learning with and from each other as we seek to grow. When we study the Bible together, I hear new things from your perspective and experiences. The Bible was meant to be studied in community because we are to live in community. Information on classes is available on the website and at each campus. This month we will have the opportunity to grow through the Northwest Leadership Institute on March 12-13. Tony Campolo will be one of our keynotes. Come and learn how to be the church with others from across the country. Action Step: Set a short term plan from now to Easter. Serve: The primary way that God works is through God’s people. We transform the world through our serving. How have you made the service of others a priority? John Wesley called us to practice the “means of grace” - specific ways that we connect with God. One of the normal “means of grace” for Wesley was serving those who are poor. Help with Friendship Feast each Sunday at 5pm, and make a lunch bag for those who are hungry (we give out about 100 lunch bags a week downtown), serve in the Amity People’s Garden, serve in our growing children and youth ministry programs. Find a need and meet it. Consider taking the next short term mission trip to Tijuana. Save the date of June 20th - our next Habitat House Framing Project. We will need 400 servants that day. Action Step: Make others a priority by choosing to be a servant at least once this month in a community project. Lead: Each of us has leadership skills in some area. One of the reason growth slows down in churches or even stops is because the leadership is tired or busy. How is God calling you to lead? There are opportunities to serve on the church’s Leadership Council. Is God calling you? If we each lead in small ways, together we make a big difference. Set these dates in your calendar: June 22-26 is Cathedral College and August 14-15 is Leadership Summit. Both of these events will give, inspire, equip, and challenge you on your journey as a leader. Action Step: I will grow as a leader by stepping out in my faith by ______________. I invite you to consider adding to your Lenten journey a time of prayer and fasting. Fasting is often a neglected “means of grace.” Fasting is the spiritual FUMC Senior Pastor Reverend Dr. Duane Anders practice of abstaining from something for spiritual purposes. We will be learning multiple forms of fasting during Lent. Prayer can be conversation, sharing, listening, reading the scriptures. We will be using the book “We Make the Road by Walking: a Quest for Spiritual Formation, Reorientation and Activation,” by McLaren. We will use section III during the season of Lent (books are available at the church). Prayer often centers us and changes us so that we can change the world. I invite you to pray this prayer during your Lenten journey. God, We thank you that we are alive in your story of creation. We thank you that we are a church, a circle of learners and seekers. We thank you that we are disciples, alive in the adventure of Jesus. We thank you that we are an uprising in a new way of living, transformed by the Spirit of God. Let us share joy and peace. Let us learn to love you God and serve our neighbors. Amen. BOISE FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH OFFICE: 343-7511 • FAX: 343-0000 ISSUE 26 (USPS 196-040) GOOD NEWS AND GOOD E-NEWS ARE PUBLISHED MONTHLY BY THE BOISE FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH, 717 N. 11TH STREET, BOISE, ID 83702. IT IS COMPLIMENTARY FOR MEMBERS AND FRIENDS OF BOISE FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH. PERIODICAL POSTAGE PAID AT BOISE, IDAHO. EDITOR/DESIGNER MEREDITH MESSINGER. POSTMASTER - SEND ADDRESS CHANGES TO: GOOD NEWS, 717 N.11TH ST, BOISE, ID 83702-5394 3 | FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH GOOD NEWS • MARCH 2015 F A M I L Y L I F E acting in love I am the father of three. Two little girls, and a little boy. Looking across the room, I can see their pictures on the shelf that hangs in the office that I share with my wife. Their images produce in my mind a swirl of thoughts, questions, emotions, worries, and fears. You know the old saying…being a parent is the toughest job in the world. Ten years ago, we thought that getting a dog would be a great way to “warmup” to being a parent. That’s funny now. Most nights, I go to bed wondering…… “Am I getting this right?” Unlike the words and sentences in these paragraphs, you can’t write and re-write the story of a child’s life until you get it just right. You kinda only get one shot at this thing. That being said, today I’m not going to use this space to discuss all the challenges and joys of parenting, as well as all the triumphs and defeats. Maybe another month we can give that a whirl. Today, I want to share just one small victory. Recently, my youngest daughter was telling me about her day, and how a sad thing happened to a classmate. She described how another little girl had gotten “ditched” by somebody else at recess, which evidently means “not playing with someone after you say A T T H E WWW.CATHEDRALOFTHEROCKIES.ORG C A T H E D R A L by ERIK QUISSELL - DIRECTOR OF YOUTH MINISTRY you will.” She added that the girl that had been “ditched” had done that same thing to others, including my daughter. So I asked my daughter if it was okay to be mean to that girl because she had been mean to others. My heart leapt when she said, “No, Dad. It is never right to be mean to another person.” Proud parenting moment…. Each of us is presented with difficult opportunities every day, maybe every moment, and our lives are certainly more complicated than my daughter’s, who is mostly concerned about who to play with at recess. But in our difficult moments, we often have a choice to choose to act in love, or to choose the opposite. Choosing love in these moments is rarely easy. What are the things that have helped my daughter to understand, at least at a basic level, how to treat others? How can I help the youth at our church understand that to be in a relationship with Jesus Christ is to embark on a journey unlike any they are used to…a new way of looking at the world….a new reality? Let me offer a couple thoughts. The pictures of my kids sit on a shelf that my dad made for me when I was a boy, and looking at it reminds me of my father and mother, and how their words, spoken into my life, are being echoed to my children today (at least I hope so). If I may Springing forth If you have been to the basement recently, you may have noticed the addition of “trees”. At the moment, they are bare branches simply attached with fishing line and 3m hooks. WHY? Ah, so glad you asked! The bare branches represent the season of Lent – a time of quiet self-reflection and introspection drawing us ever closer to God. As we draw near, something changes; trees grow buds, caterpillars appear, cocoons emerge, and finally we find ourselves transformed from the inside out, springing forth with love and grace, redemption on our wings – we are butterflies! As interactive learning is an important part of education, we plan to keep the fun coming. Check out all our opportunities! use another cliché…raising my kids, and the youth of this church, takes a village. It is multi-generational and requires grandpas and grandmas, moms and dads, teens and kids, all learning with and from each other. It takes a community of believers that consistently challenges us to be different and better. It also takes engagement in that community of believers, and getting up on a Sunday, or driving across town on a Wednesday night. It requires taking action, and sharing in sorrow with others, or sitting across a table from a stranger and making eye contact. Here are some MORE ideas….for our youth, and maybe you too….. Salt & Light Youth Ministry ongoing programming Sunday Youth: 10am • Sundays • “The Mine” (B6) Youth Group: 6:30pm • Wednesdays • “The Mine” Upcoming events March 7 • 11am Help finish painting “The Mine” All March Long “March in Your Socks” Drive June 20- 27 • San Francisco Youth Mission Trip - Register with Tracy ASAP! by DEBBIE COUTTS - PASTOR OF FAMILY LIFE Lent for the family: If you missed the ORANGE service, be sure to stop by the Hospitality Tent in the Family Ministries area – we have a Lenten Family book for you! eggsploration!: April 1, 2015: A family fun night for all! Enjoy dinner in Fellowship Hall from 5:30-6:30 (Roots) and then head for the kids area in the basement where you will be self-guided to the kitchen for a Seder taste meal, the theatre room for popcorn and a movie, and to several other locations as you create your family’s own Resurrection Eggs (eggs that are filled with the Passion story of Holy Week). The teens will also offer several rounds of the traditional egg hunt and the picture booth will be up! It will be a great night of fun and learning for all! vbs 2015: June 29 – July 2, EVEREST: Conquering challenges with God’s mighty power! Family Camp: August 14-16 at Silver Creek Plunge: This year the Coutts and Quissell families are taking our Family Ministries department on the road . . . or rather, off road! We are going camping and would love to have your family join us! We have room for 80 people so check your calendars and sign-up now! Register by emailing Pastor Debbie DCoutts@boiseFUMC.org 4 | FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH GOOD NEWS • MARCH 2015WWW.CATHEDRALOFTHEROCKIES.ORG northwest leadership institute: be the church march 12-13 • cathedral of the rockies (downtown) Keynote speakers: Tony Campolo, Rebekah Simon Peter, Craig Miller, Duane Anders, and Bridgette Young Ross workshops include: Leadership, Mission, Discipleship, and Worship Arts W hy attend NLI? Because life is too short and the mission is too critical to just play church. For the last 5 years we have held the Northwest Leadership Institute. This is about our fourth goal as a church: lead. When the leader grows, the organization grows. Our goal is not to just keep growing as a local church but to help and resource other local churches to expand their Kingdom impact. This year we will have Clergy and Laity from over 10 states with us. Sign up online to attend for the church fee of just $25.00. Price includes your lunches. Wow. WHY ATTEND NLI? BECAUSE LIFE IS TOO SHORT and the mission is too critical to just place church. Come and grow with us. A M I T Y new members - downtown campus - James & Pamela Sanderson, Ricci & Andrea Holmes, Rob & Niki Johnson, Zach & Annie Stuckey, Sarah Ultis, and Russell & Cecily Willerton Baptisms - downtown campus February 22nd Tessa Joelle Morandi Daughter of Patrick & Tara Morandi Vivien Lee Thompson Daughter of Daniel & Julie Thompson deaths - downtown campus Please pray in sympathy with the family of: Roby Hall C A M P U S N E W S If you’re not growing, you’re dying byKATHY ABEND - AMITY CAMPUS PASTOR I f you d r i v e out to Amity after dark, you may see a light shining from our greenhouse in the back yard. The growing season has begun with our first round of flower seedlings beginning to sprout in the greenhouse. It seems we just put the garden to bed for the winter and now it is time to begin the next growing season. Growth is a never-ending process and once that seed is planted, if it is not growing, it is dying. The seedling has requirements for growth like warmth, soil, moisture, and light. We have many new seedlings planted at Amity and we are now in the process of nurturing the growth of these new relationships, new Christians, and new programs. We will grow as a church only if we grow as individuals and growth must become a part of our Christian life. Paul tells the Ephesians the church needs us to grow up fast. Ephesians 4:14-16 No prolonged infancies among us, please. We’ll not tolerate babes in the woods, small children who are an easy mark for impostors. God wants us to grow up, to know the whole truth and tell it in love—like Christ in everything. We take our lead from Christ, who is the source of everything we do. He keeps us in step with each other. His very breath and blood flow through us, nourishing us so that we will grow up healthy in God, robust in love. - The Message I ask you, are you growing or are you dying? We have a new granddaughter who learns a new skill or a new word every day and outgrows her clothes way too quickly. I also know many older adults who continually grow, reading challenging books, engaging in Bible studies and other classes that constantly nurture their minds, bodies and souls. Lent is a great time for personal growth. This is a time we set apart to allow the seeds within us to germinate and sprout into new life. At Amity we have many opportunities for growth through our Lenten Study Chocolate on Wednesday evenings, confirmation class on Sunday nights, IMPACT for kids after school on Thursdays, and Bible studies on Sunday and Tuesday nights. The growing season has begun at Amity. Come grow with us! 5 | FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH GOOD NEWS • MARCH 2015 M U S I C & W O R S H I P A R T S A T T H E Winter warmed up WWW.CATHEDRALOFTHEROCKIES.ORG C A T H E D R A L T he Epworth Chorale would like to thank everyone who helped to make this year’s “Warm Up Your Winter” fundraiser a success. Your ticket purchases and participation in both the silent and dessert auctions have helped to make the spring mission tour more affordable for the students. While Epworth is on tour this spring, they will be providing music for the opening service of the Idaho-Oregon Annual Conference in Salem, OR. Those who shared their various talents in the talent showcase helped make the evening enjoyable for all in attendance. Choir members also wish to thank all the parents and staff members who worked so hard on the event. Without their help, none of it would have been possible. T he Cathedral Concert Series ‘Chamber Spectacular’ will be held on Friday, March 13 at 7:30 PM. Artists will include Craig Purdy, violin; Brian Hodges, cello; Carola Winkle, clarinet; Jennie Ficks, horn, and Peggy Purdy, piano, in various chamber ensemble combinations. The performers will present works of Brahms, Dunhill and Piazolla. The concert is free of charge but with a suggested donation of $10 for adults. Opening the evening will be the Allegro from Johannes Brahms Trio in A Minor for Clarinet, Cello, and Piano. A quintet for violin, clarinet, horn, cello, and piano will perform a work in three movements by Thomas Dunhill. This composer represents the Romantic era as does the more well-known Brahms. Concluding the concert will be a violin, cello, piano trio presenting a work by Piazolla. The Argentine born Piazolla incorporated classical music and jazz to form a ‘Nuevo Tango’, thus revolutionizing the tango during the middle to late 1900’s and pleasing audiences world-wide. Craig Purdy conducts the Boise State University Orchestra where he teaches violin and string pedagogy. Brian Hodges is also on the Boise State University Music Department faculty where he teaches cello and string pedagogy. Peggy Purdy is a collaborative pianist as well as the owner and teacher of her own private studio. Jennie Ficks is the BSU Music Department Administrative Assistant. Carola Winkle supervises music student teachers at Boise State, teaches in her private clarinet studio, and co-directs the Cathedral Concert Series. The Cathedral Concert Series will have two more events following the March concert. On April 10, the third annual Rising Stars Spectacular will feature outstanding college and university performers. On May 8, the series will conclude for the year with Mirari Brass Quintet. This nationally recognized ensemble is on tour and Boise Cathedral Concert Series will be their first performance. Two of the members are new to the faculty at Boise State University: Alex Noppe on trumpet and Sara Paradis on trombone. CD’s of the Mirari Brass Quintet will be available at the concert. This concert promises to be a highlight of the series. 6 | FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH GOOD NEWS • MARCH 2015 M U S I C & W O R S H I P A R T S A T WWW.CATHEDRALOFTHEROCKIES.ORG T H E Stations of the cross C A T H E D R A L by JENNY WILLISON - DIRECTOR OF ADULT DISCIPLESHIP The origin of the tradition of the Stations of the Cross is not entirely clear, though it seems to be associated with Christian Pilgrimages to Jerusalem in the early centuries. However, since the vast majority of Christians weren’t able to go to Jerusalem to pray in the actual location where Jesus was crucified, The Stations of the Cross enabled them to engage in a “mini” pilgrimage, so everyone would be able to journey through the final events of Jesus’ life. In February of this year, a ministry team of artists was formed to read, study, pray over and reflect upon the meaning of these scriptures. Their art will be the expression of this experience. We pray that these stations will provide a way for you to enter into a deeper understanding and experience of Jesus’ final day. The journey that Jesus makes to the cross is not easy. And it is in this mode of remembering that events become more than dates and places. This journey is also about the power of love, the commitment of God to humanity, the faithfulness and grace of a God that knows no limits and will yield to no boundary; a love that will risk even death itself for the sake of new life. These stations become markers of our journey as we walk in the darkness and then come into the light of God’s presence. The Journey of the Cross winds through Holy Week, from the singing crowds on Sunday to the darkness of Good Friday. Easter Sunday will come, but not without the journey through Good Friday and the cross. May we celebrate Easter with new joy and freedom! The Stations of the Cross will be in the Sanctuary and open to the public from 8am-8pm March 30th-April 3rd. the diaries of adam & eve March 13 & 14 at 7pm March 15 at 2pm fellowship hall • Downtown Campus directed by Rick Strader performed by olivia mcfadden elliot and riley fairgrieve tickets are $5, available at the door prior to each performance. proceeds to benefit new lighting and drapes for the Fellowship Stage. www.cathedraloftherockies.org 7 | FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH GOOD NEWS • MARCH 2015 O WWW.CATHEDRALOFTHEROCKIES.ORG Peru mission team 2015 n April 13, The Cathedral of the Rockies will send a mission team of eleven to Peru and Bolivia. They will serve two weeks with the local missionaries at Misión Fronteras (Borders Mission) which surrounds Lake Titicaca of Peru and Bolivia. This is a mission site that we, The Cathedral of the Rockies, initiated through our covenant with the national Methodist churches of Peru and Bolivia in 2009. Misión Fronteras continues to thrive and grow as an Advance Site under the General Board of Global Ministries and United Methodist Volunteers in Mission. You are a vital part of our mission team….no passport needed! You can help provide the following to send in April and support the mission programs in Bolivia and Peru: • Monetary donations, labeled: “Bolivia/Peru Mission” (OR designate their greenhouse project) cathedral mission team member matching eyeglasses with local needs • Donations of toothbrushes for their School Dental Program (OR designate a monetary donation) • Donations of prescription eyeglasses and sturdy reading glasses (powers 1.25 through 2.25) • Donations of bilingual Spanish/English children’s books • Prayers for our mission team and our brothers and sisters of Bolivia and Peru All donated items can be left at the hospitality desk. Please donate before March 29th, 2015. ¡Muchísimas Gracias! Mission volunteers also support dental clinic efforts financials December 2014 Y ear to date revenues for the downtown campus are at $1,966,256. This is $291,131 over the targeted budget amount. Year to date expenditures are at $1,815,339, which is $140,570 over the targeted amount. Amount due at the end of December for the Building Loan is $1,038,729. Amity Campus revenues for the operating fund are at $190,785 year to date. This is $26,000 below the targeted budget amount. Expenditures year to date are at $222,000 which is $5,000 under budget. The Opening Doors Campaign has received $1,334,049 towards the goal of $1,600,000 to date. Full financial statements are available at www.cathedraloftherockies.org/giving 8 | FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH GOOD NEWS • MARCH 2015 WWW.CATHEDRALOFTHEROCKIES.ORG A D U L T D I S C I P L E S H I P A T T H E C A T H E D R A L Adult discipleship leader highlights! by JENNY WILLISON - DIRECTOR OF ADULT DISCIPLESHIP This winter, we have nearly 30 leaders involved in Adult Discipleship! These servant leaders are teaching classes, leading small groups and creating opportunities for all of us to grow in our faith. This has made it possible for 31% of our congregation this past month, to participate in spiritual growth opportunities! Steve Tornga has been leading the Breakfast Club since its creation over six years ago. Each Friday, his group meets in downtown Boise at Moon’s Kitchen Café at 6:45am. The Breakfast Club has enjoyed a mix of topics over the years, but particularly studies that provide controversial subjects, challenging them to think and grow more deeply in their spiritual journeys. Steve recently shared that one of the greatest successes of the groups is that they have all felt “comfortable over time, and free to share in the discussions, testing ourselves within a safe environment to move and grow.” Small Group leader in early morning, Packaging Engineering Consultant by day, fly fisherman on the weekends, Steve is also busy father to Stacie and Jessica, and husband to Brenda. The Torngas have been part of this faith community since 1983 and Steve has been a servant in many areas including Ad. Council Chair and part of the grass roots effort to develop the Blue Jeans service. THE WALTONS arrived in Boise less than three years ago, and went right to work sharing their gifts, experience and time in their new faith community! Coming from a tradition of Sunday school opportunities, they sought out others who had that same desire and created the Wesley Class. Joanna shared about the Wesley Class birthday that was recently celebrated, “It was just 2 years ago, that the Wesley Sunday School Class began at Cathedral of the Rockies! We have been blessed during these 2 years in making new friends, meeting up with former friends, making plans together for Sunday mornings and having some social times together. Our Mission Statement has been our guide, and continues to keep us focused on our lives as Christians. ‘The Wesley Class is a Sunday school class for retirement age adults. It is a class with Christian based lessons and an opportunity for fellowship during a 55 minute session. Our goal is to provide a welcoming place to experience God’s presence and to deepen our understanding of faith through a variety of teachers, topics, and activities.’” Tom and Joanna also began a small group in their home last year during the January series, “What On Earth Are We Here For,” and that group continues, now called the Adelphians, every Thursday morning at church. Tom, a retired engineer, helps equip and maintain the hearing assistance devices for both sanctuaries – a ministry that now serves many in our congregation. And in their spare time they enjoy delivering kits to schools for Mirror Image, baking treats for church fundraising efforts and Friendship Feasts, and praying regularly for the pastors and leadership of our church. Their invitation to be part of the Wesley class is warm and genuine, “We meet in the Olivet Room from 10-10:55, allowing everyone to attend the worship service at either 9 AM or 11AM. Do come and join us!! We’ll love to have you!” For nearly 6 years, SUZANNE AND SUE have been co-leading the Women’s Wednesday Night Small Group. What started as a follow-up study to a movie at a women’s event on the life of Esther in 2009, grew to become a small group of women truly doing life together. “We’ve had wonderful women who might come and go, but when they come back it’s like they were never gone!” Suzanne shared. As she reflected on the past years in small group, she said, “We’ve seen awesome answers to prayers. We have a prayer chain and have prayed for each other through losses of loved ones, challenges with kids, and we also take care of each other when one of us has had surgery.” The small group experience has also helped them grow in their faith. Sue shared, “My faith has grown so much, and hearing from others has helped me grow.” Suzanne added, “Hearing the way someone else views scripture in a way I hadn’t thought has been very important for me.” The group engages regularly in ministry and mission within the church and outside the church, including helping with Roots dinners, providing yarn for the Prayer Shawl Ministry, and praying over and blessing each prayer shawl. They’ve enjoyed social time together and have even taken fieldtrips to see speakers such as Beth Moore. Suzanne is a Credit Manager for Agri-business at Simplot and has been coming to the Cathedral since 1999. Her free time is filled with grandkids and their many activities! Sue is a Library Consultant with The ID Commission for Libraries. Naturally, in her spare time she likes to read! But she can also be found walking outside and enjoying the great outdoors. 9 | FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH GOOD NEWS • MARCH 2015 WWW.CATHEDRALOFTHEROCKIES.ORG Hope with the necessary components of faith, willpower, skills & goals by BETSY JOHNSON W hat is the meaning of hope? Does it help us through our times of gloom? Some believe hope is a quality that infuses us with trusting and believing in the face of difficulty. It is an inner process that allows us to look at the world with faith and wonder. For others, hope is related to expectations or wants. In this way, a person is in a state of mind where hope is a thought or wish to be taken from misery or loss. Hope is a process involving the active pursuit of goals, a resolve of finding an approach to reach a desired outcome or objective through the willpower to see these to attainment. Hope requires creativity and challenge to discover approaches for survival by using connection, action, and commitment. Hope prompts faith. It encourages us to act and think with a spiritual component. Psychologists have researched the formation and growth of hope in children and infants. Frequently it has been noted that an important ingredient of hope is “goal selection.” This begins to develop after birth. Infants’ mastery includes learning how to select necessary goals through the protection, comfort, and feeding given by the parent. They learn specific behaviors produce desired results. For example, crying expedites support and comfort. We grow and begin to find strategies and skills that help us get what we want. T Asking assertively versus screaming and demanding are skills that precede hope. Through actions we learn through trial and error to overcome obstacles with a certain amount of frustration to reach our goals. Perseverance and work lead to seeing ourselves as capable of influencing change in the world. Children who live in fear or who have experienced certain amounts of loss and stress learn to abandon or shut down efforts toward a desired outcome. Loss and trauma make many, young and old, question our sense of value, worth, and confidence and we start believing our goals that were helpful become obscure. The next step is willpower. Willpower supplies commitment and mental energy that are important to stepping toward our goal and hope. Willpower requires nourishment, concentration, self-care, and exercise. Another requirement of willpower is practice and patience. Willpower also asks us to notice negative thinking and behaviors and encourages us to exchange these with positive beliefs and words. When reaching for hope we find that we are being pushed to recognize goals, to determine approaches and ideas that will help reach goals, and to nurture our spirit and our energy to see them to completion. Hope starts us on a path toward action and accepting that, in turn, elevates our mind to wonder and brings us to a place Legacy Committee of faith. With hope we act with respect, responsibility, and dignity. We become vibrant and imaginative, inspired toward mastery over our outcome. We grow both internally and externally to find our place in this world. An inward search is inevitable along this path. Some learn and study with religious leaders, others practice prayer and journal to practice God’s ways. “Maimonides asserts, in our struggles to know ourselves and our world better, we begin to see and honor God’s infinite wisdom and wondrous works.” The Torah refers to this as “cleaving” “one cannot know the ways of the world without knowing and loving God’s ways as well.” “Cleaving” gives us the ability to be grounded in the world. It empowers us to give of ourselves whole-heartedly because our insecurities vanish away and the fear is gone. We see God in ourselves and others while remaining original and unique. Spirituality makes the path of hope, faith, willpower, skills, and goals possible. For more information about Hope, Faith, Willpower, Individual and Couple Counseling for a wide variety of struggles, EMDR for big and little traumas, DBT/ Cognitive Behaviors skills, and more please contact Betsy Johnson, LCPC, EMDRIA Certified Counselor at 407-0688 or todaybewell@gmail.com by MELINDA SANDER he longer, warmer days are coming and soon we will be thinking of spring. Cleaning comes to mind for many of us as we prepare to change seasons. Spring brings us Easter, the celebration of Jesus life on earth and the resurrection. Soon we will all be proclaiming, He is risen! We also begin to think about tax season and how taxing it can be for the people and ministries trying to stretch their assets to meet funding needs. Remember, the mission statement for your Legacy Committee is to establish and promote the legacy fund to support the programs and ministries of FUMC Boise. We encourage members to support your legacy fund through present or future gifts. It can be very easy to become a vital part of this ministry. Please ask yourself when you prepare your tax return; can you also consider making a commitment? The members of the committee can help with information or an application. You can be a recognized or an anonymous member. Whichever you choose, a name plate gets added to our plaque, with your name or the word anonymous in your honor. We hope you will consider sharing a portion of your financial blessings for the future ministries of the church. 10 | FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH GOOD NEWS • MARCH 2015WWW.CATHEDRALOFTHEROCKIES.ORG Joe’s View H ave you ever thought about how prepared you are? We hear in church to “Prepare our hearts and minds…” Valid, but I am going a bit of a different direction here today. We do not like to think about it, but bad things can and do happen and it seems logical to prepare for situations the best we can or are so motivated to do. Recently I have been thinking about it more and more (I have to stop watching late night TV). My conclusion is that there are multiple layers of preparedness. In the simplest form, Mom told me to wear clean underwear in case I am in a car accident. Mom taught me to be prepared. So did the Boy Scouts. Others store food and water to be prepared for a financial or regional emergencies. Extreme preparedness can be for when the zombies attack. My thoughts have been around the inconveniences that would result by not being prepared for something that would disrupt my life for a couple days. What could I do about this? For example: What if my house gets flooded or burnt? What if I got stuck in Iowa for two days when flights got canceled? What if my car broke down in Rexburg? All could be overcome but the first few days would be… difficult. It relates to stress. I am all about reducing stress and being prepared helps with that. God gave us the brains by JOE PRIN - BUILDING SUPERINTENDANT to not blindly fumble through life assuming we will be taken care of. We are told to be alert, aware, prayerful and thinking ahead. Prepare. So because of that, I now pack around with me things that if I am inconvenienced, at least I am prepared. I have a small travel bag with my prescriptions and basic hygiene items. I have copies of my driver’s license, passport, a doctors list, and extra keys. I have a password protected digital record of credit cards, photos, and a complete computer back up. I also have instructions on who to contact if I am unable to speak. That stuff alone, the items above, is probably more than most would ever consider lugging around with them. However, it achieves my goal in that it takes away stress if a bad thing happens. Some people may do a lot more and construct an actual “Bug Out Bag” for total self-sufficiency. There are websites to instruct you on this and what to include. Looking at the list, it must be a very big bag. Now on to a more “churchy” thing to do. We all have friends we can count on. If not, make some. Talking about being prepared is a great dinner conversation. Invite them over one evening and talk about how if anything happened to either of you, that your homes would be available to each other to get you through a few days. If you can, entrust your friends with needed information and access to your home. My next door neighbor and I have an agreement. They have our house keys, we have theirs. Likewise for a set of car keys and garage door codes. I know how and where to shut off his water, gas, and power and he knows how to do mine. We each have a list of each other’s family and veterinarian contacts and instructions. We watch out for each other. Throughout history, the church has been a gathering point in case of emergency. In times of crisis, church bells would ring to let everyone in town know to come in and find out what was happening. Families would tell each other that if we ever get separated, meet at the church. I would extend that offer to you and your family. So is this over doing it? Is this needlessly worrying about something that in today’s day and age we should not have to do? I do not think so. The news these days takes us to places and people in crisis. We pray for them and feel their pain. We reach out and help when and where we can. Ask any of these people and they will say that they never expected it to happen to them. They were not prepared. fix-it Fridays are back! C an you help with some repair and maintenance projects at the downtown church? Fix-It-Friday is back, March 27th 9am-3pm. All materials and tools are provided, we just need your help to get some much needed spring detailing done. Projects include inside and outside painting, decorating, sorting, carpentry and landscaping. Skill levels from 0 to 10 are welcome, there is something for everyone, all ages. Lunch will be provided at noon. Childcare is available. Please join us and invite a friend! It is a great time of fellowship and service. Confirm your participation to Joe Prin at jprin@boisefumc.org or call 573-1082. 11 | FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH GOOD NEWS • MARCH 2015 WWW.CATHEDRALOFTHEROCKIES.ORG E AWorshipServices S T E R United Methodist Women DOWNTOWN STATIONS OF THE CROSS March 30-April 3 • 8am-8pm • Sanctuary LENTEN SPEAKER SERIES Every Wednesday following Roots Dinner FAMILY EGGSPLORATION April 1 • 6:30-8pm following Roots Dinner GOOD FRIDAY WORSHIP SERVICE April 3 • 7pm • Sanctuary EASTER WEEKEND WORSHIP SERVICES April 4 • 7pm • Emmaus Center April 5 • 7am • Sunrise Service at Camel’s Back Park April 5 • 9 & 11am • Traditional Services in the Sanctuary April 5 • 10 & 11am • Contemporary Services in the Emmaus Center AMITY MAUNDY THURSDAY Footwashing & Communion April 2 • 7pm • Heaton Chapel GOOD FRIDAY WORSHIP SERVICE April 3 • 7pm • Heaton Chapel WALK WITH JESUS April 4 • 10am-12pm • Amity Campus EASTER WEEKEND WORSHIP SERVICES April 4 • 7am • East of Building April 4 • 9:30am • Contemporary April 4 • 11am • Traditional THURSDAY BOOK CLUB “Hidden Girl” by Shyima Hall is the Thursday Book Club selection for March 19 and April 2. This is the true story of an Egyptian girl sold into domestic slavery at age 8. At age 10 the family moved to California. There a neighbor reported the family to authorities and the girl, who is now an American Citizen, was removed from the home. The book club meets the 1st and 3rd Thursday from 1-3 in the church library, downtown campus. Ruth Garrison 362-5316. BUDGET COACHING WINTER SPECIAL MEETINGS FOR UMW The Executive Committee Meeting will be held on March 4 at 10am in the Fellowship Hall at the Downtown Campus, followed by the General Meeting and a salad potluck. Hostess: Martha Circle • Grace: Linda Biggs • Devotions: Mary Getchell Program: Call to Prayer & Self Denial, Jen Beals Kenya Hospital, Peggy Thiesen LYDIA CIRCLE meets Monday, March 9th at 7pm in the Bishop’s Lounge. Dessert will be served. MARTHA CIRCLE meets Wednesday, March 11th at noon at the home of Bonnie Stitzel. Bring a brown bag lunch; soup will be served. MARY-RUTH CIRCLE meets Wednesday, March 11th at 10am in the Valley View Retirement Center to visit with members living there. Postcards with details will be sent to members. Contact Elinor Chehey at 343-8018. PRISCILLA CIRCLE meets Wednesday, March 11th at the home of Joey Stillinger. Bring a sack lunch; salad and dessert will be served. UPCOMING EVENTS Every Member Enrichment Event (EMEE) • March 21st • Hillview UMC This year’s theme will be Water, God’s Gift to Cherish. What does the Bible have to say about water? It is full of references to water from the parting of the Red Sea, to baptism, to Jesus talking about living water. EMEE attendees will spend time reflecting on the story of the woman at the well as well as looking at our water resources and how we can care for them. Registration will be at 9:00 a.m. The program will be from 9:30 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. The registration and luncheon fee will be paid by UMW. The deadline for registration is March 14. Please notify your circle chair if you would like to attend. Social Action Project • March & April The Social Action Project for March and April will be to collect old eyeglasses, new low power non-prescription reading glasses and new toothbrushes for adults and children. These will go to Peru and Bolivia with our mission team. We will also collect diapers, wipes and other baby goods for the Baby Needs closet at our church. GET ON THE ROAD TO FINANCIAL FREEDOM! Budget Coaches at the Cathedral: • Are trained in the Crown Money Map Financial Principals for budgeting • Provide FREE and confidential consultations • Are available on your schedule to meet one-on-one CONTACT DEBBIE GREBER AT (208) 343-7511 OR DGREBER@BOISEFUMC.ORG TO SET UP AN • Believe all situations are manageable APPOINTMENT WITH A BUDGET COACH TODAY! • Have resources available to help you AT THE CATHEDRAL Visit us on the web - www.cathedraloftherockies.org The Good News is a monthly publication. Submit all materials for the Good News to Meredith Messinger at mmessinger@boisefumc.org The Cathedral of the Rockies First United Methodist Church 717 N. 11th Street Boise, Idaho 83702 Periodical Postage PAID Boise, ID DOWNTOWN CAMPUS SUNDAY WORSHIP SERVICES AMITY CAMPUS SUNDAY WORSHIP SERVICES 717 N. 11TH STREET • BOISE, IDAHO 83702 4464 S. MAPLE GROVE ROAD • BOISE, IDAHO 83709 9:00am Traditional | 10:00am Blue Jeans 11:00am Traditional | 11:30am Contemporary Sunday School & Childcare offered during all services 9:30am Contemporary | 11:00am Traditional Sunday School offered at 9:30am
© Copyright 2024